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Hello, I know this comment is old I am interested in this topic. Tried to make a new post but it was deleted. Do you think relationships like this can be satisfying for the man? do you think the woman can develop real attraction to the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 08:22 PM
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cope
/r/BlackPillScience09/03/20 04:04 PM
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I did not mean to imply you were doing something evil, you are not in fault for this situation. I was referring to the women who very openly lead male friends on to lap up attention or keep them as a back up plan, you are not doing that. I assumed too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:40 AM
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Most normie men are so starved of female attention, a mildly attractive woman taking time to talk to us about a subject we like is a rare ray of hope.... now I get why you don't tell every friend of friend "it's never happening" but you should try to understand the life of an average or below average male... that would be a big deal for us. There's no way to address this specific situation. That's just the product of plummeting male SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:23 AM
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Same sex groups exist. No, i'm not saying they should do anything but if they actually care about leading men on (which most don't, they like the attention) then they have two options.. Be direct and say to them it's never going to happen. Don't have male "friends"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:02 AM
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There's such a thing as female friends, I'm sure she enjoys the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:57 AM
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Men are never taught how women work.. so bluepill men i.e 80% of men. Just assume being super nice and slowly perusing the woman as a friend will work. Media also supports this nonsense narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:56 AM
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Why do you have all these male friends? be honest do you just like the attention? If a guy is friends with a girl 9/10 he wants more. Think about it logically. If I am a straight male who wants sex, I am friends with a female I am attracted to, I like female enough to be friends with them.. obviously they will want sex/relationship!! I guess it could work if they have zero attraction to you but most men have close to no standards. Imagine if you were friends with Chad, you didn't have tons of ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:37 AM
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cry more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 07:11 PM
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Nah I don't think those men are all miserable.. it's like eating a sweet you don't know will kill you, ignorance is a bliss at least for a time. Most these men think they have won the lottery and are clueless to the fact the woman most likely is not attracted to him. Will be a years down the line most likely before they realise they're in a mediocre/bad relationship where the woman sees them as a tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 07:10 PM
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A walk outside tells me literally nothing about the relationship or if the woman is attracted to them. You say you're "very attractive" and you have internalised it, but you could probably be a 5 who uses make up. Most average women think they are something they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:41 PM
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um sexual attraction goes DOWN over time, not up. If you don't wanna fuck your partner now you're not gonna want to over his personality ethier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:39 PM
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I think even marriage between two 10/10s is more likely to fail.. I think most "successful" marriage the guy is like a 5, then woman a 7, she is not attracted to him but chose a beta bux she could easily get to commit. He never cheats because he basically can't, the marriage is dry but he thinks he has won the lottery so never leaves. The woman never leaves because she committed to much and it's too late to get a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:31 PM
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I don't doubt many women want betas, easier to manipulate, far less likely to cheat but the question is are they sexually attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:25 PM
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Because OKcupid.. women only found 20% of men physically attractive. If anything that's gotten worse, it's a decade later women must be even more spoilt. The percentage who would eye up a 5'9 soy face chubby dude and be like "hmm yes, I wanna fuck" must be fucking tiny dude. It's obvious most of them are just settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:20 PM
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It's not hard, average height 5'9, average face, average body, type in "soyboys" and tell me are you attracted to these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:17 PM
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Women are hard wired to be gold diggers by growing up in a capitalist society. Everyone knows it. Even normies. "Just wait till you have money in your 30's bro, then the women will acknowledge your existence" It doesn't seem to matter if they want kids or not, it's illogical. They also want social status that comes with the man having a well paying job. Look at how women throw themselves at pilots, muscians more than finacial advisors.. the status of the job is important. and no, poor men are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:56 PM
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You don't have to be super broke, women don't want men who are OK but not at at the medium or high levels ethier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:53 PM
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Every woman online and all her freinds are special snowflakes who prefer short men but i'm sorry in real life this just doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:41 AM
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10%? hahahaha, go on r/short and ask how many times they met a woman who said "I prefer short men"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:32 AM
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People will still deny it till their death bed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:31 AM
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Wrong. Chubby women don't have to settle. A obese woman has more SMV than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:29 AM
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Have a job that earns 500k*
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:28 AM
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Being fat doesn't count... what if you're slim and not chad, what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:26 AM
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Charm doesn't matter btw, it's all looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:25 AM
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Statistically irrelevant. Women who prefer tall men is dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:24 AM
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No. Please stop coping, it's almost all looks. An average guy at most can get to a bit above average through perfect haircut and gym. Softmaxxing out a 5.5. But an average guy will never in a million years become chad. Chad is born. Don''t even talk about money and status. It's not the same as actually being desired by a woman. At that point you may as well just pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:23 AM
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Women don't give a shit about low value men complaining about dating, they are literally gods when it comes to social value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:13 AM
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It's impossible to "go your own way" because there's nothing to life outside women. MGTOW is just a coping movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:12 AM
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Is beta buxxing a happy life in the long run though? highly doubt it is unless the guy is also good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:10 AM
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Bluepill doesn't work at all, high value men get relationships whenever, low value ones are given worthless advice and stay single until they have the money to beta bux. Redpill is also worthless because it doesn't change your looks. Only the blackpill is correct, looks, status, money. Very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:09 AM
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If "being yourself" doesn't get ltrs then no, it's ethier change that or stay single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:06 AM
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If such a thing exists it's a statistical irrelevance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:03 AM
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At some point, you start to notice a pattern... at what point do you stop blaming the guys and start looking at relationships in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:45 AM
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Attraction is very varied in men, not really in women... women tend to like the exact same type of features, square jaw, over 6'0, muscles, slim, hunter eyes ect and in terms of personality it's similar too, loud, dominant, out going.. personality varies a bit more... as we know most younger women will look for the former and when older go for the quieter males with a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:32 AM
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Good post. Alot of these liberals don't practise what they preach, I'm a short introverted man and i've been treated like dirt by women because I don't fit the standards. If you truly care about men being free to fit into whatever role they want, don't keep going for the exact same square jaw 6'0 white dudes with dark triad personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:18 AM
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