HeatDeathIsCool Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Girl on a chat app blurts out “Cash App Me $” when I want a legit reason and ask if she really does need help I can’t seem to get anywhere 🤔 P.S. I never heard from her again. Another big problem: Assuming it's even a woman on the other end of the chat. It's a scammer. It could be the dude down the block or some kid in another country. People overanalyze shit trying to justify their worldview.	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/03/21 08:58 AM
0	Cloyd Rivers knows You realize you're the joke in this situation, right? Read some of the other comments. It's fake. Who is getting dumber by the second now?	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/02/20 05:23 AM
2	Cloyd Rivers knows So you could link to a bunch of feminist organizations that are explicitly anti-father's day then? Third wave feminism is pretty ubiquitous these days, so we should be seeing a lot of articles on the topic, rather than a few trolling social media posts.	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/02/20 05:19 AM
2	Covergirl Announces It's First Male Spokesmodel I think makeup is a beautiful and fun form of art, but society is sexist in expecting women to always wear it to be attractive. In your top comment you literally said that it's good men will be able to fix their flaws with makeup. That's not reinforcing the notion that makeup is art, that's reinforcing the notion that your appearance has to conform to a certain standard, and there's something wrong with you if you don't 'fix' it.	/r/MensRights	13/10/16 12:39 AM
1	Terry Crews: Modern Day Masculinity Can be as Damaging as the Taliban A lot of what he said lines up with mainstream feminism. We should not stop listening to people who identify with labels we might not agree with, because there are some extremists or assholes present. I completely agree. Such generalization and demonizing is exactly why I have issues with feminism. Oh god, the irony.	/r/MensRights	03/12/14 07:54 AM
1	#EndFathersDay was started as a troll by /pol/. Let's not get up in a tizzy about it, okay? But perhaps you might be able to find some statistics. How many people used that tag? That wouldn't do anything to answer any of your questions. If you want this much data and thorough investigation, why don't you just make a blank twitter account and search yourself? There's no reason to be so skeptical of his answers when the capacity to check for yourself is a few clicks away.	/r/MensRights	13/06/14 11:13 PM
1	I helped a friend do a social experiment in university. His prof. wouldn't let us use that data, because it was "controversial" but I thought you guys would find it interesting. I'd like you to back up your claim that evolution is the driving force behind the state of black communities worldwide.	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/14 10:43 PM
1	I helped a friend do a social experiment in university. His prof. wouldn't let us use that data, because it was "controversial" but I thought you guys would find it interesting. Because I'm making a very basic assertion. How is it basic? You compare a few areas with black people and then claim it's evolution at work. Basic means simple, and your assertion is complex and specious. To put it another way, it's actually the onus of people arguing equality to prove such a bizaare claim. If people make that claim, they need to prove it. Since you made a claim, you need to prove it. You don't get to say something and then be right because you feel like any other possibility is…	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/14 01:47 PM
2	I helped a friend do a social experiment in university. His prof. wouldn't let us use that data, because it was "controversial" but I thought you guys would find it interesting. you're not an expert so your conjecture based opinion is worth as much as the people arguing for equality, whether you're willing to admit it or not. FTFY And just because I'm smarter than you, doesn't mean I'm your master. No reason to feel inferior because of your level of intelligence, just go out into the world and give it your best, hopefully non-racist, shot!	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/14 01:38 PM
1	I helped a friend do a social experiment in university. His prof. wouldn't let us use that data, because it was "controversial" but I thought you guys would find it interesting. I don't make any claims on knowing biology, Then how can you make such wide claims about a subject as complicated as evolution, something the most intelligent academics still don't fully understand? just traveling the world and seeing the same shit over and over again, This is known as confirmation bias. Congrats on travelling around the world, I'm sure you had time to learn the history and culture of the numerous places you visited. reading history and seeing the same shit there over and over a…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/14 06:29 PM
-1	I helped a friend do a social experiment in university. His prof. wouldn't let us use that data, because it was "controversial" but I thought you guys would find it interesting. I don't think you understand biology as well as you think you do. Have you ever heard of the null hypothesis?	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/14 01:33 PM
0	I helped a friend do a social experiment in university. His prof. wouldn't let us use that data, because it was "controversial" but I thought you guys would find it interesting. So your idea of someone's head exploding is them telling you that sociologists have done studies to find the cause of this discrepancy? People being mad at numbers made 4 yrs of poli sci worth it. I'm not sure it was the numbers that upset them bro, I think it was the super alpha way they were presented.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/14 12:33 AM
20	I helped a friend do a social experiment in university. His prof. wouldn't let us use that data, because it was "controversial" but I thought you guys would find it interesting. Feynman's interpretation of the story is that the soft "sciences" are pretty much all bullshit. Feynman has rose tinted glasses regarding the hard sciences then, as limited funding and the need to innovate means that most hypotheses don't get repeated, unless they outline a new technique needed for further research. There's a lot of discussion these days about what this means for modern science.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/14 12:26 AM
4	I helped a friend do a social experiment in university. His prof. wouldn't let us use that data, because it was "controversial" but I thought you guys would find it interesting. I didn't say anything about interpreting the numbers. Then what would a sociology professor disagree with? Everybody who has studied sociology has seen those statistics, it's not something that gets ignored in academia.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/14 12:23 AM
1	Great gender-neutral anti-rape campaign [X-post from /r/feminisms] I never claimed it was the official thought pattern for America, and I'd appreciate it if you didn't put words in my mouth. Loud radical feminists do not have a large platform like a major news network from which they speak, and they are not as numerous as the victim blaming twitter users, though I don't really understand what radical feminists have to do with this anyways. Rape culture does not mean that everybody condones rape, merely that certain attitudes about rape and sexual assault are pr…	/r/MensRights	11/08/13 06:36 AM
5	Great gender-neutral anti-rape campaign [X-post from /r/feminisms] The rape-apology and victim blaming was not limited to Steubenville though. CNN had a correspondent talking about how sad it was that the future's of these boy will be tarnished and people from around the world took to twitter to denounce the victim as a slut and a whore, despite video proof that she was gang raped. I'm of the opinion that rape culture appears to more obviously manifest itself in the way society treats instances of rape, rather than being blatant in how it influences perpetrator…	/r/MensRights	11/08/13 06:22 AM
1	Anthropologist Katherine Frank spent 6 years as a stripper researching her book G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire I'm not outraged, I'm sitting here on reddit on my day off, but go ahead and think that, I'm an internet justice warrior and you've really rustled my jimmies. I don't think you're oppressing women, I think you're just making baseless assumptions about people and situations into which you have little insight.	/r/MensRights	07/08/13 04:31 PM
1	Anthropologist Katherine Frank spent 6 years as a stripper researching her book G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire Perhaps she should do the math on how all their money is being spent. So if a guy spends a hundred bucks on a night out (not my thing but whatever) she sees that as a waste and him being selfish These are unfounded assumptions that have nothing to do with the fact that boats are marketed towards men and clothes are marketed towards women. Just because we agree on one issue does not mean we are in agreement over your entire post, reality is complex like that. Was that straightforward enough, or d…	/r/MensRights	07/08/13 04:24 PM
1	Anthropologist Katherine Frank spent 6 years as a stripper researching her book G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire A perception might be true, but it doesn't always logically follow. So no, you are not expressing the same ideas. Words have meanings like that.	/r/MensRights	07/08/13 04:06 PM
1	Anthropologist Katherine Frank spent 6 years as a stripper researching her book G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire So now your saying you were stating factual information? Because a post ago you said you were merely commenting on the perception of their spending habits. It's difficult to have a discussion with you if you keep changing your position. Yes, men are more likely to buy boats and women spend more on clothes, that doesn't give you enough information to imply that one is outspending the other.	/r/MensRights	07/08/13 03:49 PM
1	Anthropologist Katherine Frank spent 6 years as a stripper researching her book G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire After doing a search for stripclubs for women in DC where she was based, I came across many clubs that cater to gay men. These are not the same thing as clubs that cater to women, even if women are allowed inside. Outside of large cities there are very few strip clubs featuring male dancers for either men or women. I was making a general point about how men and women are perceived to spend money. You did not comment on how men and women are perceived to spend money, you commented on how you thin…	/r/MensRights	07/08/13 03:19 PM
1	Anthropologist Katherine Frank spent 6 years as a stripper researching her book G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire You can generalize about this specific subreddit though by his upvote-to-downvote ratio. I hear people complaining that feminism needs to do more self-policing if they don't want to be characterized by their radical members, and it makes me think about what sort of potential a MRM could have if it rejected all the sexist bullshit.	/r/MensRights	07/08/13 07:48 AM
0	Anthropologist Katherine Frank spent 6 years as a stripper researching her book G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire Because men never buy expensive cars or motorcycles? Women are not so impoverished that they couldn't afford a night out at a strip club, there are probably numerous sociological reasons why it would be difficult to get women to attend a female-oriented strip club. You're making completely baseless assumptions about the spending habits of two people you don't even know.	/r/MensRights	07/08/13 07:43 AM
10	Tips on Human Sexuality from a Psycho-biologist Most of what I have said isn't even up for debate I agree completely. No offense, but most of these tips can be found in stuff like yahoo articles. I would expect something a little more in depth and cutting edge from someone who identifies as a scientist in this field.	/r/seduction	10/11/12 11:04 PM
15	Tips on Human Sexuality from a Psycho-biologist I'd like to see some sources. Some of this stuff is obvious and has been posted a million times before, but your pheromone bit just seems like pseudoscience. I've never seen a study where pheromones have been shown to influence human behavior.	/r/seduction	10/11/12 10:52 PM
3	For newbies, here's how strip clubs can help you It can really go either way, which makes the stereotype itself BS. That doesn't mean you should assume that strippers are all empowered women who had wonderful childhoods, as it's really a mix of all sorts of women. Source: Worked security at a club, met a few girls who worked at other clubs in the area.	/r/seduction	04/11/12 02:58 AM
4	"You've been hitting on every girl here" - Overdoing it? Another point to consider, could this be because you were only talking to women that night? At a party full of people you don't know, you should be chatting with everybody.	/r/seduction	08/10/12 08:18 PM
4	I have not posted in almost a year but I overheard this gem and thought I would share. As a passionate biologist, I would love a source for that. You really make men seem kind of dim with that post.	/r/seduction	26/08/12 02:39 AM
2	How a girl wants to be picked up at a club "Hey Rich, let's go grab a drink at the bar." they proceed to the bar where they buy their own drinks Is that so fucking hard?	/r/seduction	06/07/12 10:42 PM
2	How a girl wants to be picked up at a club Asking if she wants a drink (i.e. leaving the dance floor and sitting down somewhere) is different from offering to buy her a drink. If I say "Hey, let's go grab a drink," it is nowhere implied that I will be paying. ...and nice conversation is boring. No, nice conversation is fun and enjoyable. Boring conversation is dull and lame. Nobody ever said that nice conversation can't be sexual and flirty. Also, women like a man that knows how to fucking use adjectives.	/r/seduction	06/07/12 05:00 PM
0	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? Ummm, no. I didn't know exactly what you were referencing because you used the term "conservative religous bigots" which doesn't reference those specific incidents at all. When you compare someone to a broad term like that, your comparing them to everything that broad term encompasses.	/r/seduction	04/07/12 08:08 AM
3	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? This sort of moralizing is something I'd expect from conservative religious bigots like Newt Gingrich or Rick Santorum False equivalency fallacy. Ah, yes. Thinking it's wrong to sleep with someone who is in a relationship is definitely the same as denying same-sex couples their due rights. Please have some integrity and don't use so much hyperbole in your arguments.	/r/seduction	04/07/12 05:26 AM
10	Why working out and getting good at pick up are EXTREMELY similar and you should be doing both Somebody who is out of shape and has begun working out will definitely notice an increase in endurance and lung capacity after two weeks.	/r/seduction	20/06/12 09:39 AM
1	Am I responsible for my friend? I wouldn't show him the seduction community. He seems petty enough that he might bring it up infront of girls to make the OP seem sleazy.	/r/seduction	17/06/12 09:13 PM
11	My theory on the BEST way to stimulate almost guaranteed emotional investment from a girl....Agree or Disagree? Not a PUA, just like the sub, but I think this is an easy question to answer. Show how your vulnerability has made you into a better person. If you reveal that you're psychologically damaged for life, you're screwed. If you reveal a problem in your past that you've overcome through determination and refusal to give up, you're golden. I believe it's referred to as "framing" your answer.	/r/seduction	12/06/12 06:09 AM
2	Jesus Christ, I am so nervous right now Reddit. Teach me how to make out. Cool, I thought you were referring to the hollywood version of drowning. I learned those signs as a lifeguard, but I thought they were just the common reactions, not an automated response.	/r/seduction	19/05/12 03:33 PM
3	Jesus Christ, I am so nervous right now Reddit. Teach me how to make out. Ummm, what's the automatic drowning response?	/r/seduction	19/05/12 03:06 PM
14	I keep getting attached.. Maybe you're just not the kind of guy that can have casual sex without having it mean something. Try having sex with a hot chick that you really hate and can't stand. Either you won't want to date her after, or you do indeed have a problem.	/r/seduction	05/02/12 09:26 AM
2	TwoX hates us so bad, lol. I will never understand the hatred for the HB scale. I have seen numerous women rate a man's attractiveness on a 1-10 scale, so why do the words "hot body" in front of the rating suddenly turn so demeaning? I can understand someone getting misinformed about LMR and negging, but seriously?	/r/seduction	27/01/12 12:12 AM
1	There's a post in r/twoXchromosomes about rape and LMR. I want to see seddit's (respectful) response. I agree with your argument and upvoted you, but I still downvoted thomasdavis for acting like a douche.	/r/seduction	19/01/12 09:16 AM
1	There's a post in r/twoXchromosomes about rape and LMR. I want to see seddit's (respectful) response. Intuition is the ability to acquire knowledge without inference or the use of reason. I don't think that word means what you think it means.	/r/seduction	19/01/12 09:15 AM
9	I don't think I can do this. I completely agree, so if a man meets a woman he finds attractive, he should makes the first move. If a woman meets a man she finds attractive, she should make the first move, etc. I don't think there was anything wrong with my statement in the context of a heterosexual male discussing how he doesn't like being forward with women.	/r/seduction	17/01/12 08:42 PM
5	I don't think I can do this. If you don't mind, what makes him seem like a good catch to you? All I've seen him do is complain about how his friends are all more forward with women, and how this subs advice to be forward with them as well offends him. I think the seduction community (like any community/club/political party) has things that are wrong and should be improved, but the OP seems more concerned about feeling sorry for himself than finding a way to grab the attention of women who interest him.	/r/seduction	17/01/12 08:39 PM
7	I don't think I can do this. "Does this make me look fat?" ALPHA RESPONSE: "Take your clothes off and let me see first." Ah, you're looking for a woman without a sense of humor! This suddenly makes so much more sense!	/r/seduction	17/01/12 08:35 PM
2	I don't think I can do this. I can't usually get them in however since there are other alphas out there who are far louder than I will allow myself to be. I mean that more literally than you might think. You either need new friends, or a new place to hangout on Friday nights. If you're losing girls to those kinds of guys, than they're not the kinds of girls you should be pursuing anyways. If they are the kind of girls that you're after and they're attracted to men you dislike, than your issue isn't how you want to treat wom…	/r/seduction	17/01/12 08:33 PM
7	I don't think I can do this. In my ideal world I would like it to be socially acceptable to go straight up to a girl and say "You've caught my eye, care to talk a bit and see if we have anything in common" That's kind of funny, because doing something like that would be encouraged by this community. Be bold, be daring, you can let women know what you want without being a asshole about it. This community focuses a lot on confidence, which is what your approach would take. However, we don't take too kindly to arrogance here, …	/r/seduction	17/01/12 08:29 PM
8	I don't think I can do this. Women are individuals with different preferences, just like men. And the general preferences within a population are the basis of sociology. It's great that you ask men out, I think more women should be doing that, but the fact is that most women aren't willing to make the first move. If a guy meets a woman he finds attractive, his best bet is to make the first move, whether this works on 100% of women is irrelevant.	/r/seduction	17/01/12 08:24 PM
3	Signs She Wants To Be Kissed And Signs She Doesn't What I typically do is kiss, pull back and smile while looking into her eyes (she will smile as well), and then physically escalate. So if we're going for a walk somewhere and I kiss her, I might grab her hand and continue walking. If I'm already holding her hand, I might put my arm around her waist. I'm not a PUA but I've found in my few serious relationships that women seem to enjoy this, and my theory is that the physical closeness after the kiss assures them that it meant something for you a…	/r/seduction	11/01/12 02:49 PM
1	13 year old girl explains why slut shaming is wrong. This is pretty insightful. I'm not sure where you're from or how old you are, but I'm a college student and where I go to school sex and alcohol are very popular. Still, you get a lot of women calling each other sluts, and a lot of betas doing the same. It might be an individual who starts the shaming against a particular person, but it's almost universally accepted in many circles that there are women who act slutty and they are somehow inferior for wanting sex.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 02:36 PM
5	13 year old girl explains why slut shaming is wrong. This is pretty insightful. Referring to terminology outside of your reading level as "buzz words" has become a buzz word.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 02:19 PM
5	13 year old girl explains why slut shaming is wrong. This is pretty insightful. It's women who hate sluts, not men. Bullshit. A case can easily be made that this post doesn't belong in this sub, but do you seriously believe men don't slut shame?	/r/seduction	11/01/12 02:18 PM
1	13 year old girl explains why slut shaming is wrong. This is pretty insightful. dangerous to your social proof and reputation. I would imagine in some social circles slut shaming actually builds proof among both men and women. Not saying it's okay by any means, just commenting on your statement.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 02:14 PM
37	Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex? It's not that sex is outweighing the other two, but rather that all factors are necessary to have a healthy, long-term relationship. A lot of people have absolute requirements that must be met for a fulfilling lifelong partnership. For many men, sexual compatibility is important. It is also important for a lot of women, and I think it'd be important for even more if women were encouraged to explore their sexuality rather than slut shamed so much.	/r/seduction	31/12/11 08:43 AM
4	Interesting thread going on over at TxoXChromosomes about negging. If you want to have an informed discussion and maintain your objectivity, then yes. If you just want to blow off some steam, then no.	/r/seduction	29/12/11 07:03 AM
1	Um. I think I just got negged? (I'm a stripper.) Does this technique ever actually work on anyone? The poster made a point that I disagreed with, and I responded to let her know how I felt. If people think my comment is stupid, they are free to downvote me. If my post informing the OP that many undergrads find grad students to be highly attractive was so horribly offensive to your pick-up sensibilities, you are free to ban me from this sub. Typical whiteknighting involves defending one user from another. I was responding directly to the users own notions and beliefs. It is also typically done…	/r/seduction	16/12/11 01:11 AM
5	Um. I think I just got negged? (I'm a stripper.) Does this technique ever actually work on anyone? I'm not whiteknighting anyone. I don't think there's anything wrong with helping someone feel good about him/herself when you're never going to meet them in person. White Knighting would be more like if I told her she was too good to be a stripper, and she should dump her boyfriend if he's willing to let her work in such a dirty industry. I don't think there's anything wrong with letting her know that there are some men who love it when a woman is smarter than he is. I get that when you have to …	/r/seduction	15/12/11 10:36 PM
-1	Um. I think I just got negged? (I'm a stripper.) Does this technique ever actually work on anyone? Outside the club, I'm a sweatpants-clad graduate student, and nobody takes a second look at me... so I don't put much stock into my attractiveness. The only reason I don't give a second look to the female grad students is because as an undergrad, I feel completely unworthy of your mind and personal ambition. We secretly worship you and your intelligence. Unless you're an Education or similar grad student, then we don't really give a fuck.	/r/seduction	15/12/11 09:10 PM
5	Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection. The thing about negs (and this is coming from a lurker who has never studied seduction) is that every book and user has their own definition. Some people say it breaks confidence, others say it's just friendly teasing that makes you immediately seem familiar to someone you just met. What it is and does depends on how you employ it. Although I do think for beginners who might not have a lot of female friends, it's better to just avoid negs in the beginning until you get a more solid grasp on comm…	/r/seduction	15/12/11 10:49 AM
3	Denying Girls Friendships The way I see it though with a friendship a girl gets companionship and everything she wants while the man gets screwed over. This is dead wrong. Most women are not getting "everything they want" out of a friendship with you. Believe it or not, there are women out there who enjoy physical intimacy. It's normal to feel used in a friendship where you're attracted to the other person, but you need to objectively accept that she sees you as a genuine friend. The friendzone is something you want to a…	/r/seduction	08/12/11 04:57 AM
4	Ice Breakers for when you meet a girl after a night out Yeah, you can go with your plan, but you're headed for the friendzone if you're not charming enough to talk to sober women. FTFY	/r/seduction	06/12/11 11:52 PM
3	Curious: is this true for all seddit-ers? Not a PUA, but if I'm at a bar/club/party and a girl doesn't respond positively the first two times I try to talk to her, I won't go out of my way to speak to her again. I'm going to assume that if she doesn't even want to have a conversation right off the bat then my time is more valuable somewhere else. I use this rule for everybody, from girls I'm attracted to, to guys and girls I might want to be friends with. There are a lot of interesting people to meet and I don't get out too often, so I'…	/r/seduction	27/10/11 03:18 PM
5	Straight to the point. Tough love on why your game isn't as good as you want it to be. who gives a fuck about my comment surely you have something more important to worry about? why bother with menial shit like that Also, capitalization and punctuation are your friends.	/r/seduction	11/10/11 12:02 PM
23	Straight to the point. Tough love on why your game isn't as good as you want it to be. The more worthless you think of the female species and the less you fantasize about your dream girl, the more likely you will find and successfully game her. I understand where the author is coming from here, but I think it's word choice like this that causes seduction to get such a bad rep. Instead of telling us to view women as worthless, how about we emphasize that they're no better or worse than men?	/r/seduction	11/10/11 05:48 AM
3	So, I had a crush on this a girl. You've got the confidence, which is great, but don't be too overeager to assume a girl will never take negative action if you push too hard. I've never heard of someone successfully posting something on Facebook just to have it get "lost" at a later point in time. OKCupid does this sometimes, but not Facebook. I'm not saying you should have assumed the worst, but the winning move would have been to back off, since under option B you were clearly moving too fast on her, and even if it fell under …	/r/seduction	07/10/11 06:04 PM
1	Get To Know A Girl: Connection-Building Tactics Acting overly interested in uninteresting topics This is how I realize I've run out of things to talk about. It's an awful habit to get into when you've run out of things to say.	/r/seduction	19/09/11 07:17 AM
2	Are smarter girls harder to game? Girls who are smarter than you, or girls who are smarter than the ones you typically find in bars and clubs? If they're smarter than you, that might be an obstacle, but if you're on equal intellectual footing there shouldn't be a difference.	/r/seduction	15/09/11 06:27 AM
2	thoughts on female wingmen (with a male PUA) Do your guy friends ever approach women themselves? If they're too afraid to approach women on their own, the concept of you handing them something on a silver platter, only for them to fuck it up in front of you and their friends is probably too nerve wracking for them to go along with. Teach them to be alpha, or find some other friends.	/r/seduction	29/08/11 09:07 PM
3	[FR] - Asked the same girl out and got rejected again. But this time, it was more clear. Not a PUA, just interested in the community. Two things stand out really clearly to me from this post- You haven't gotten over approach anxiety but you're trying to pick someone up at work. Even if you hate picking up strangers, do it for practice so you can learn to both keep calm and brush off rejection. These are important when it comes to asking someone out in the workplace. You didn't invite her friend/colleague. Did you expect her to just leave her friend to go chat with you?	/r/seduction	26/08/11 05:39 PM
1	Pulling from a pool of foreign exchange students? Do you speak Japanese? New exchange students would probably be thrilled to have an American showing them around. I have a friend who just got back from a year long trip to Japan, and he's bringing four cute Japanese freshman to my party tonight. He's usually not good with women, but these four have been following him around and hanging off of every word he says. If you want to infiltrate the whole group, just be friendly with men and women alike. Then asking out women won't be so weird and the o…	/r/seduction	26/08/11 01:29 PM
1	Tried my hand at opening last night. Failed. What did you do before you ran into them again? The correct answer would be opening to some new girls, but you don't mention that in your post.	/r/seduction	13/08/11 10:48 PM
1	Femme here. Is it too late to seduce a guy AFTER you've fooled around, or is the jig up? Is this why a lot of women hold back? Even when they want to? Some men just want to fuck under the pretense of romance and then run. The only easy way to weed them out is to withhold sex in the beginning of the relationship. It quickly lets you know who is really interested and who isn't. There are also the men who think "Wow, if she was willing to fuck on the first date, she must have low standards!" Between these two types of men, a lot of men consider withholding sex to be a statistically sou…	/r/seduction	12/08/11 07:14 AM
3	Femme here. Is it too late to seduce a guy AFTER you've fooled around, or is the jig up? I started reading this as though you were in a FWB relationship that you wanted to take to the next level, but this is so much easier. How are you so sure you have any seducing to do at all? He might already think he's seduced you. See him again, show him your awesome personality and let him know you want more than casual sex. He might be relieved that you want more. Do you know if he has casual sex often? Is it possible he knew you recently became single and was looking to make a move? You have…	/r/seduction	12/08/11 07:04 AM
3	URGENT! What are some good desserts and mixed drinks to bring on a date? Go to the bottle shop and tell them what you're having for dinner. They should be able to suggest a nice wine. Then ask for an easy cocktail and dessert pairing. If what they offer you is too pricey, ask for a cheaper alternative. They'll know more about this than seddit, as this has nothing to do with seduction.	/r/seduction	09/08/11 06:44 AM
14	Lingerie party first... Dude, the lights are on. Take off your sunglasses.	/r/seduction	31/07/11 09:47 AM
1	What to do without a car? Help me out, sedditors! Is there a cool nearby place that you can pretend to be meeting friends at? Then you can just walk over and get picked up there while showing social value. Note: IANAPUA, this is just what I would do in this situation.	/r/seduction	28/06/11 09:33 AM
1	Dating site created by two Rice University sophomores (me and my roommate); Time to get ripped to shreds by redditors? Thanks for the fast reply. One actual tip about how the site works. You might want to set the filter to default to the person's state or school. I was browsing people and didn't have any clue who I was looking at until I hit the "What Next" button. Just an idea.	/r/seduction	05/04/11 11:56 PM
1	Dating site created by two Rice University sophomores (me and my roommate); Time to get ripped to shreds by redditors? There is no WVU under schools :( It's the biggest college in West Virginia! I know that's not saying much but we're kinda important!	/r/seduction	05/04/11 11:50 PM
-1	Is this okay to do? IANAPUA, but at the very least you should tease her about it. Let her know you have it, maybe show her the disk, but then ask her what she'll give you in exchange. Make it playful and draw it out over several work days. This will give you time to get to know her and number close. Some of the more skilled people here might tell you to be more straightforward the next time you see her, but I like to take things slow in a workplace scenario.	/r/seduction	06/10/10 02:52 AM
4	"Nope" instead of a kiss I think this is the best reply so far. If she said next time then she's probably interested in you but doesn't want to kiss on the first date. How you proceed depends on why you went out with her in the first place. If you're looking to just close on someone then she probably isn't worth your time, but if you're interested in a relationship with this girl it sounds like you did great and should keep pursuing.	/r/seduction	28/09/10 02:52 PM
12	Girls drunk/on drugs, do you give a shit/make any changes? I personally don't go after girls who are fucked up. It's rape by a legal standpoint, it's rape by my own personal views, and there's a good chance that if a girl won't sleep with you while sober then when she wakes up with a hangover you're just going to be another mistake. You also need to consider that if she's willing to get fucked up and give it up so easily, then she's definitely an increased risk of STIs. but I simply cannot interact with people in that state. Keep in mind that the HB sca…	/r/seduction	14/09/10 11:14 AM
7	Seddit: You'll enjoy this: A woman's view of friendzoning (LJBF) a great guy. [crosspost from r/self] This is seddit, where for every intelligent person who understands that there are no hard rules to seduction or attraction there are ten people who think the general system of the PUA applies to everyone in every situation.	/r/seduction	03/09/10 12:57 AM
1	After a long chat with an old friend, I've realised the few things stopping me from being a natural. Please help Seddit, I'm so close. I can't even ask a girl for a number. I haven't studied to become a PUA or anything, I just read seddit because I find it all interesting. So in my non-expert opinion I think the best thing you can do is force yourself to ask for that number. If it helps, pretend that you don't stand a chance and expect her to say "No." You'll most likely be surprised at how often they'll say yes, and even if you get denied a couple of times it will greatly reduce the stress (and hence, improve performance) of s…	/r/seduction	02/08/10 02:28 PM