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It’s the best thing to push for if you can.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/22 06:51 AM
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I just got married with my whole heart in it. I thought we were in love, happy together, looking forward to kids and a life together. I’m 33; she’s younger— just up and left the house with the baby like it was nothing and now expects to be able to come in and out of my life as suits her whims. I thought I had something that I simply never had. Marriage meant a lot to me but clearly she came into it knowing she was ready to give up at the drop of a hat. Her family has said they weren’t sure if sh…
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 04:51 AM
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I want to say don’t take your partner for granted, but that was something I mentioned in my wedding vows and it may have bit me. Yeah, basically just don’t do it. Marriage doesn’t seem to mean much to people these days. It certainly didn’t mean ANYTHING to my wife and her entire family.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 12:48 AM
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Be honest with yourself what you are willing to sacrifice and what you need. It will get easier even a week from today. Chin up.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/21 06:10 AM
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UPDATE and new theory— it sounds crazy but we can’t underestimate these people. Hear me out (if anyone is still following): 60 hours or so since she left— no communication. Absolute zero. I have left one voicemail politely requesting time with my daughter (still going to be seen as selfish in her eyes because it addresses my needs— my sole need actually) also expressing willingness to work it out, therapy, significant lifestyle changes. No response. Whatever that was 4 hours ago. Her instagram a…
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/21 07:28 AM
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Thank you so much for your insight.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/21 01:29 AM
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This is very good advice. I have a lot of gratitude for your perspective
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 09:42 PM
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Oh buddy I’m sorry to hear that. I spent a solid hour on the suicide hotline yesterday (with a volunteer) and even though I haven’t seen my daughter yet, I know that when I do she will be thrilled.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 09:41 PM
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Got it. I’m storing valuables with family in town but I don’t think I should move my clothes and the bed and stuff without my future lawyer’s approval or direction from my actual wife about what she wants.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 09:38 PM
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What I’m stuck on is how it went so fast— I want to hold out hope that she may come home but if we wind up divorcing then the right thing for me to do right now is file first. With zero communication from her I can’t know what the right move is. I would love to ask for parenting time but communication is at zero right now, and voicemail is out of the question with all this adversarial recording talk.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 08:58 PM
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Is it stupid that I want to hear it from her directly? Do I get to demand that? Am I in a position where I have any say if my wife doesn’t reach out?
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 07:34 PM
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Thank you for the well wishes. I will ask about abandonment in my free consult. The bridge I don’t want to cross is accepting that my wife is now my enemy. My STBX I should get used to saying... I still don’t want to. It’s only been 20 hours or so. No word from her.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 07:32 PM
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