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Who said I don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:49 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:41 PM
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Sex exists outside of porn, bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:04 PM
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I most love this when this comes up: men are physically aggressive but women are psychologically abusive... like, did you ever imagine a guy just fist-hamming his way through live without discovering intimidation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 10:16 PM
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Yeah, that's what I meant. She was doing great for herself.... was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 08:35 PM
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Sorry, this is OT, I love your username! Is it because of the Band?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:47 PM
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Just chiming in to say, yes legally that was the case, as in the op. My mother for example, was a sahm with five kids, and she doesn't know her financial Situation still, today. I am the youngest and all the way an adult now, so... yeah, that is a thing too. Everytime I try to talk to her about it, it is just: I never lacked necessities, and I don't want any luxury anyways.. doesn't matter... does not matter that she has no Idea what their monthly income and cost are. Well. I guess many women in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:41 PM
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Ah yes, and the kids are on her Half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:19 PM
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This made me think of Grimes, even though she should be well off on her own... still, seems you can be caught up in this dynamic whatever your circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:51 PM
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I do not believe in soulmates. But I do believe in learn-mates. As in: there are people, who take the experiences of life and make something very different of it all than you, but there are those, who experience life in a similar way and with those you can connect on a lot of levels quite easily. This spark of first sight out of some fairytale isn't Essential to that. Getting to know the thought and emotional process of someone else and be able to understand them deeply is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:51 PM
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You are wrong. Catcalling is, like any form of SA, about power not attractiveness. You are perpetuating the idea that attention from dubious men is a hot commodity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:49 PM
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Some authors. I know them intimately enough to admire and not well enough to know their flaws, I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:43 AM
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I love the picture. She is smiling histerically about the giant pile of shit on her plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:11 PM
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I do empathize with your experience and am sure you chose what was best under the circumstances. I do not believe that having only one parent is inheremtly damaging to a child however. And no, I do not believe that it is selfish to raise a child. You are entitled to your opinion and as I said I do trust your own judgment. For me, my child had nothing to do with the circumstances in which it was conceived and I have never known a greater love and I think that is valuable too. Yes, women are a lot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:54 PM
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Also, disclaimer: english is not my strongest language and I know I might lack Nuance in conveying my point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:16 PM
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An abortion is not inherently damaging and I never said it was, what I did say that it is damaging if you really wanted that child and you abort it because of who the father is. Also, in my mind, anyone who really questions (not just mulls over all the 'rational' reason against it in their mind) if they should carry a child to term, just should get an abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:05 PM
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I do love my child. Even rape-survivers love the children they got from it. I wouldn't demand it of a woman and maybe rationally you are right. But as soon as you first know that you are pregnant you know if you want that child or not. And if you do want it, aborting it because of some scrote would do more longterm damage than having to raise it on your own. Kids are not something you can ever rationalize. If you don't want any (now or ever) you can find a Myriade of reasons for that. But if you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:42 PM
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I am tiny, yet the one boyfriend who always truly respected and apreciated me as a human was half a Meter longer than me.. I get your point. Just offering my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 10:56 PM
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Blessed be the Fruit Looops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:19 PM
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At 25 I made the guy I lived with when I was 18-20 (he was 29-31) pay me Reparation money. He did. It was that bad. He knew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:58 PM
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I was in this Position many years ago. This post made me cry for her. And me. And all of us beautiful Spirits drowned too soon in a patriarchal Simulation, created just to diminish our power. I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:54 PM
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Really, this sounds like a redpiller promoting old men to impressionable girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:40 PM
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Are you a guy? Your post history sounds like a Setup to be allowed in here. 1 year ago some rape victim stuff and fetishizing old scrotes .. nothing else until 1 month ago you started Posting to FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:38 PM
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This reads like something a redpill dude would write.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:20 PM
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I was a fifth child. No one ever cared enough to question my strange calmness. My introverted otherworldlyness. I was told by teachers that I write such great stories and also that my attitude was unbearable. I was a 'bad' Kid although I was always so reasonable. I self diagnosed shortly after burning thirty. My son was already 10 years old. I hear your rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:05 PM
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This somehow touched me, I was always thin but maybe not 'beautiful' or more not conventionally attractive. I had a lot of experiences where boyfriends of my friends would tell me things about their relationships with them and views of them. It made me very weiry of how they really viewed their girlfriends and what vile creatures they really were. I had my share of sicko narcissists but they always at least made me feel like I was their one and only. One thing i learned to demand earley on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:50 PM
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By now I think that most FDS Ladys found this community by way of 'bad' Reputation! Lmaorofl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:41 PM
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You are right to be sad about that. It shows that you had way more love to give, than this world would accept savely. It shows you care. And it also makes very clear that you are intelligent enough to receive that Info. It IS sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:18 PM
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Oh god, so much this. I was defeated and impregnated by a persistent guy when I was very young. Everyone who ever saw us together would have told me how devoted he was. He did not care one bit for my wellbeing or our child's. Persistence means he can not accept your 'no'. Believe him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:08 PM
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Everyone who has lived through abuse will feel this. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:57 PM
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Thank you. You speak with my throut, my tongue, my lungs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:48 PM
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Thank you so much. You gave me a lot to think about and reflect on. I truly love that you did not just take the seemingly easy route to complain about him and project but demanded that change from yourself also. I am happy that he rose to the occasion and wish you all you strive for. It is a rare thing to hear about a relationship successfully changing for the better and I am truly thankfull for your insight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:16 PM
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Oh my god. I'm so sorry you have to suffer that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:22 PM
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That is really interesting! Would you please expand and explain a bit, which new standards you implemented and how your relationship changed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:38 AM
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You have a great way with words. Very well written, ringing with truth. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:10 PM
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