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DiscussionHeavy-Appeal4441/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:05 AM
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You're the one coping because you don't want to face the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:22 PM
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Not at all And might as well change your flair since you didn't even bother asking why. So much for muh curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:17 PM
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wdym sewage comments? Cleaning dirty sewage is just one of the many critical infrastructure jobs women will be handling in an egalitarian society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:58 PM
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nuh uh you're still the one getting bred and you'll be cleaning sewage whilst pregnant because you're a strong independent woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:52 PM
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I mean women are still the one getting bred. But yes men will be submissive. Women will work all day cleaning sewage and will get to come home to a nice home cooked meal, clean house and a handsome husband who doesn't nag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:46 PM
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>Genetics. Men are usually taller than women. Most women like men taller than them. By how much is a personal preference. That's my point, you can't change your height. Which is blackpilling. And women don't just want men taller than them, which most men are. They want men taller than other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:33 PM
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Yes but when you say "female privilege" most people, both men and women, will laugh you out of the room. The concept of women being privileged is so far fetched for them they cannot even fathom it exists, and it's more prevalent than male privilege. That's how bad the brainwashing for the last 50 years have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:29 PM
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I am sexually attracted to them, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:26 PM
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50 lbs isn't enough to make a difference if you're not tall enough. For men height is pretty much all that matters unless you're morbidly obese or underweight which is extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:26 PM
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Women have spent the last decade trying to gaslight men about this. But now that the evidence against it is insurmountable, they've shifted to another strategy: "being nice won't get you laid".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:24 PM
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Yeah there are. Women love the 20 inch femur length personality. As well as the 8 inches of clavicular confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:23 PM
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Far more women care about and are influenced by fiction than men are. Which is beyond pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:21 PM
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They are jaded irl and need to take out their frustrations somewhere, so they come here to punch down on those beneath them in the social hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:21 PM
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Good stuff. How long did it take? A year?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:19 PM
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Good for you. Unfortunately a man's attractiveness doesn't increase from weight loss unless it was something dramatic like 150-200 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:16 PM
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Yes, trolling for years. Quite pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:15 PM
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Because internally we all know that woman sleeping around = bad potential partner man sleeping around = desired by a lot of women therefore extremely desirable lock and key etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:14 PM
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This. We need to stop pretending that women are some moral arbiters of dating. They are not, they are just as if not more superficial than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:11 PM
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The truth is, men are judged for mostly immutable qualities, the first of which being height.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:09 PM
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Women live an incredibly privileged life, no matter the country, compared to their male counterparts. Add in historically as well. They were privileged throughout history too. They were never oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:07 PM
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Buddy, glass houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:06 PM
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He is correct, every man is looking for sex. So is every woman. But Helping someone carry things isn't about that. It's about helping someone, nothing to do with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:06 PM
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Even the most blackpilled women go on dates This is the difference between a larper and a truecel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:05 PM
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We need to change that. We also need to make women taller and stronger than men. Women do all the work whilst we can all be SAHDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:04 PM
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Yup, they do it right here in the schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:03 PM
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Signed a nurse. LMFAOOOOOOO everything, and I mean literally everything makes sense now. I know the mods are going to ban me for this comment but the jokes just write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:33 AM
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LMAO even if that were true, it's still natural selection. Which according to you is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:28 AM
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LMAO natural selection isn't based on anything but the rule of the jungle. Women are not oppressed by any metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:22 AM
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LMAO women aren't oppressed, at all. Women are. Just like orphans are fostered for survival, women are offered DV shelters. And guess who from? MEN! Uhh what happened to muh natural selection? Scared of being naturally selected? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:16 AM
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LMAO I knew you would say something along those lines. Natural selection for thee but not for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:13 AM
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Can we apply this concept to women as well? Forego the tax benefits single mothers receive, close down domestic abuse shelters etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:08 AM
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He's a known troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:29 AM
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You didn't, I did. Women don't create or destroy societies, they're just along for the ride. Men have to fight each other for a stake in steering society according to their vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:24 AM
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Everything is done by men. The good, the bad, the ugly. Women don't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:07 AM
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Empty platitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:27 AM
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Regardless of if you want to pass on them or not, you still benefit from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:26 AM
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Yes. Now you understand that even though the patriarchy is very much real, it serves to benefit only women and the top 1% of men. The remaining men are stuck with only additional responsibilities and hyperagency.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:18 AM
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The irony of saying that they don't see others as humans as them and then doing the exact same thing they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:17 AM
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You expect women to deal with this mess as well? No, just like we don't expect women to deal with any mess. The burden is always on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:16 AM
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Repeatedly posting the same topic and internalizing none of the replies is indeed spam So true sister. u/LillthOfBabylon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:09 AM
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Having weak boundaries for example can attract people who’ll take advantage of that. Even here you blame men. Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:08 AM
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I mean look at her username
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:00 AM
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You posted a youtube video, not any statistics. Besides, what is evident to the eyes doesn't need any statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:41 PM
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when it makes men look just as picky as they complain about women being. Precisely 0 people are falling for your gaslighting. This sub is full of bad faith debaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:37 PM
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Still didn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:37 PM
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Relationships take two to tango. Reverting to what u/ForeignOrder5950 said: Agreed. Do you think that applies to all groups of people, including abused women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:36 PM
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Concession accepted, you have no answer to this simple question. Really says everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:35 PM
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I said that about women and you know it too. Don't try to act disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:35 PM
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Against the rules of the sub. Still didn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:34 PM
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Still didn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:33 PM
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What's crazy is you trying to dodge accountability of something you said yourself. >Shit attracts shit End of debate. Either concede you were wrong to blame men for their shitty relationships or accept that women are responsible for their predicaments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:33 PM
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Factually incorrect. Every statistic, infographic, real life experience will prove you wrong. This was a pathetic attempt at trying to turn the table around on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:31 PM
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The government should subsidize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:30 PM
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>You don't blindly worship women? >Y-you must be gay!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:30 PM
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Just World Fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:28 PM
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30 comments insulting OP and yet not a single one has actually given an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:28 PM
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If women of this sub are anything to go by, their company is the last thing I'd want in this universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:27 PM
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This. I don't get how one can put with all this humiliation and jestering. Fuck no. My dignity is more important than everything else and I'm willing to die on this hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:27 PM
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To be fair, they used to be valuable life partners worth sharing your life with centuries ago. But then they went ahead and blew up the family unit. So now there's nothing left worth liking, other than the biological hardwiring to have sex of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:26 PM
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30 comments and all of them are backhandedly insulting OP but not a single one has actually answered the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:24 PM
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Still didn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:23 PM
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Nope. Shit attracts shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:22 PM
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There's obviously some missing information and it's NOT personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:21 PM
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I'm not going to entertain your gaslighting. I simply pointed out the flaw in her logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:19 PM
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They might care about personality, but they will always prioritize attractiveness first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:18 PM
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something something stopped clock
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:17 PM
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Cause and effect. They don't have shitty relationships BECAUSE they have those views, they have those views BECAUSE they've been in shitty relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:17 PM
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If victims aren't shit people, then why did they attract shit (abusers)? According to your logic: Shit attracts shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:16 PM
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Irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:22 AM
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Every woman at some point in her life was 20. Not every man at some point of his life is 6 ft tall. And even then there are plenty of men who actively prefer older women or MILFs, there is not a singular woman on this planet who actively prefers a shorter man. Women want to be victims so bad it's genuinely insane. Arguing on this sub is like banging your head against the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:20 AM
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At least you're consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:24 AM
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Haha as usual women bring up disability. It's like y'all follow a script. Being short is not a disability, it is a dishonest comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:23 AM
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Isn't it fantastic that men are statistically 3 inches taller then women and thats what fits for couples? Wrong. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12644153/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9454610/ There are plenty of under 5.4 women statistically speaking. Yet guys try for the 5.6 and up instagram models. What's up with that? What do you get by lying like this? Precisely 0 people are falling for your gaslighting. The mods need to ban these obvious trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:22 AM
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Didn't stop you lot from harping about "male privilege" for the last 10 years, which only benefits the top 1% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:15 AM
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I wasn’t aware that wasn’t just widely known. How could it? Feminists have spent the last half century complaining about male privilege and the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:10 AM
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Everything that's under your control. Meanwhile the very first thing that men get judged for - height. It's so rich about women complaining that they can't have standards - literally 1000x more standards than men. It's pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:09 AM
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Yes? Plenty of men are attracted to body hair, small breasts, glasses etc even more when you consider different personality types like loud-mouth, brash etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:25 PM
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women are. So you admit women are born with privilege. About time we had a discussion about female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:23 PM
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Young men are 3x more likely to be addicted to video games as women. (~33% to ~11%) 3x more likely than the overall population to be addicted to gambling. (~5% to less than ~2%) 4x more likely than women to be addicted to porn. (~12% to ~3%) So no, this trope has not "run its course" when close to half of young men have an untreated addiction and refuse to admit that it's a problem. More confusing cause and effect. And more unhinged rambling. Just say you are out of touch with the current dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:01 PM
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who suck at socialization and are addicted to gaming and/or gambling. Not only are you confusing cause and effect, this "blame the videogames" trope has run its course. It is more than apparent as a millennial that dating today if I were Gen Z would absolutely be easy mode...but these guys who are struggling the most are so in their head about everything they literally can't even ask a woman out or have a basic conversation, and they have so much insecurity and neuroticism and unrealistic expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:28 PM
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Weird revenge fantasies you've got. I'm a healthy young man. I had covid, was sick for a day and got back to it the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:44 AM
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Just more fairness in general. Stuff like DEI, unfair sentencing, gender-exclusive scholarships etc. And more representation in blue collar jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:42 AM
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Good, we got enough bums as it is. Those men can fend for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:37 AM
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Weird and completely false circlejerking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:28 AM
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No one is threatening anything. You're a strong independent woman who can fend for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:23 AM
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Yes, I meant sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:22 AM
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Spare me your false outrage. Women make the choice to have children, no one is forcing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:22 AM
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Just curious, have you studied this in a university or just online? And it's never going to be legalized because women would lose their collective bargaining power in this gynocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:18 AM
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It really isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:51 AM
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Not in the moral sense yes but it's still something someone else has to pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:46 AM
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Red pill dating advice usually depends on gaining a ton of leverage over the woman you’re with either with money or options etc. Bluepillers hate when men aren't at the complete mercy of women and can actually leave an abusive relationship at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:45 AM
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You can live a full and complete life without sex. Education is necessary for a functioning society. You can live a full and complete life without education.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:41 AM
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It also benefits single mothers who are not old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:40 AM
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Weirdly aggressive and hateful for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:39 AM
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You are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:39 AM
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So you don't have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:36 AM
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Isn't that just prostitution? Unless I'm missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:34 AM
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>There is a huge difference between cosmic, magical, soul intertwining euphoric sex that takes you to another level. And being used like a living sex toy. You are describing the penthouse of a skyscraper to people who aren't allowed access to the lobby. Also what is a companion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:29 AM
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Women want attractive men. When they can't get an attractive man, they settle for an unattractive man whom they usually resent. It is the exact opposite of what you said. Men are increasingly unwilling to put up with women who treat them badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:27 AM
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contentless rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:26 AM
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I didn't say he's bad at sex, I said it wouldn't matter if he was bad at sex, which he obviously won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:25 AM
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Your gaslighting is working on precisely 0 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:22 AM
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How will lonely unattractive men convince women that being in a relationship with them is better than what Chad offers? True, men need to unionize and renegotiate the social contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:21 AM
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Interestingly, most cultures also develop ways of handling unfuckable men. It's called religion or war. Sometimes they gelded them too. I will firmly support both if weak men keep talking about their dry dicks. I am glad you're being completely honest about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:20 AM
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You want women to need men for survival. I don't. In fact I'd be more than happy if they were actual independent girlbosses like they claim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:12 AM
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Unable to abstract an argument is a sign of low IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:12 AM
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No I just want fairness. Men shouldn't have to pay for women's mistakes and shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:08 AM
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Women do much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:07 AM
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So no woman who's personally been SA'd should complain about SA. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:07 AM
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It goes much beyond that. Women are cruel to especially ugly men. No amount of denial is going to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:05 AM
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I seriously don't know why you think I'm short. What a weird obsession. Even if I was, it's psychopathic to insult someone for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:04 AM
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safety nets are not rights you are not entitled to any of this if you're so independent why do you need safety nets? reported for ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:02 AM
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That's fine, the purpose of this post wasn't to discuss solutions, just to decide whether or not it's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:02 AM
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Giving scorpios a bad name btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:01 AM
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No but it goes much beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:00 AM
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>And I'm willing to bet his idea of promiscuous is 100+ people. >these weirdos consider a woman who has had sex with 2-3 different men to be promiscuous. make up your mind you can't even insult me properly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:59 AM
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No I'm not assuming anything. And no you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:58 AM
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>You make it sound like all men are homeless and all women have houses. It is obviously much more nuanced that than. Also, I'm not even talking about "programs". I'm talking about policies that keep housing prices in check, such as rent control, regulations on corporate ownership, punishment for landlord neglect, etc. Whether your gender as a whole pays more in taxes or not is entirely unrelated to whether a citizen has access to affordable housing. Individuals acquire housing, not gender groups…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:57 AM
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My mouth is genuinely agape right now. Putting all that aside, how are you going to claim sex is not important when your entire life revolves around it? It's left right and center.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:55 AM
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I really wish women would come to their senses and stop applying for those roles and stop having children. They already are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:53 AM
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IDK if you're a bot or what, you keep repeating rp revenge fantasy in pretty much every post. What's the revenge? Who's getting revenge against whom? I said that dude with a roster doesn't care about you specifically because he has a roster, where's the revenge in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:52 AM
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I'm neither of those but glad to see the empathetic gender, champions of body positivity, back at it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:49 AM
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What's with the double dashes? -- AI generated post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:48 AM
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Call me Nostradamus baby
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:46 AM
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>Nationwide, about 1 in 3 young men (30% to 35%) report having no sex in a given year, a trend that has steadily climbed over the last decade. Given how likely men are to lie about their sexual activity (in a positive direction) I don't find 50 unreasonable. But for the sake of argument, I'm fine with 40. People are already willingly becoming teachers. No they're not. Constant whining about salaries. I never said housing or education were primary needs. You’re hallucinating. You are arguing for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:43 AM
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np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1tj3p95/comment/omz0suf/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1tj3p95/comment/omz4n11/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:40 AM
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Sexlessness does not have a mathematically direct mortality rate, as it is a behavioral state rather than a medical cause of death. However, research highlights strong statistical correlations between infrequent sex and elevated rates of all-cause mortality, though this is primarily driven by underlying lifestyle and health factors. A prominent study analyzing data from the Journal of Psychosexual Health found that women aged 20 to 59 who had sex less than once a week had a 70% higher risk of dy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:38 AM
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I am sorry but if you have a high body count how can you claim that sex is not important?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:36 AM
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And neither does any other woman. So what should they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:35 AM
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Full disclaimer: NO ONE IS OWED SEX
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:33 AM
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You are absolutely right. There might be a few sex crazed maniacs, but most men would like a loving partner and a family. If they can't get that, they settle for at least sex. And if they can't get that, well.....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:33 AM
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Before you get your panties in a bunch, "promiscuous woman" was her flair last year. I'm not assuming anything. She is very open about the number of sexual partners she's had before her marriage. Perfect illustration of a woman defending another without any knowledge of whether she's right or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:31 AM
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We do need a more equal society. Why don’t women work in hard labour jobs?? Could it be the endless sexism and harassment they endure for stepping foot in a male space? This is the difference between men and women. We get the job done. We're not complaining about the AC not working. When women can have equal opportunities to men without that, we can talk about the rest. Equal? They are given special treatment. The most recent case I watched go down was a female mechanic less than a year ago. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:30 AM
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Women are a “net negative” because they’re the ones staying home caring for children and aging parents. If men would do that stuff, they would be the negative. But of course, men don’t want to do that so they don’t. So women have to, cuz someone has to. Using your own argument Women do hospitality jobs because they choose to. No one is holding a gun to your head saying you have to have children. Getting rid of food stamps and affordable housing hurts woman, sure. But it also hurts children. Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:28 AM
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Thank you for admitting women are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:23 AM
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If housing was truly necessary, people who voluntarily go without it would die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:23 AM
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>Recent data suggests that nearly 7 in 10 adults report feelings of isolation, loneliness, and lack of fulfillment. That’s a bigger problem than, again, a minority of men not getting enough sex for their tastes. Way to minimize their struggles. 50% of men haven't had sex in the last year. That is not just "not enough sex" that is no sex at all. >Saying “kids should have access to education” is not “I am entitled to other people’s labor.” Those are two completely different sentences and I am not …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:21 AM
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I agree with what you said. My point is that a lot of men who don't have sex don't have that social connection either. It's feast or famine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:20 AM
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>highly promiscuous woman >erm akshually sex is not dat important troll
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:19 AM
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>Help me even if I won't help you No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:18 AM
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They might or might not, the roster keeps rotating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:17 AM
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I believe in the Netherlands disabled people can request the government to provide a sex partner AND their health insurance covers it. There is no shame and no coercion. But overall we need a more equal society. Women have far too many safety nets and DEI programs at the expense of men. There is also a dire lack of representation in hard laborious jobs like construction and the army. A more equal society will inevitably lead to a fairer society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:17 AM
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Yet I'm not wrong. Really says everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:13 AM
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I'd hope the man with 15 person roster would know where the clit is. Even if he didn't it wouldn't matter, he'll still get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:12 AM
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If someone is struggling to get laid, do they get to ask for a government provided sex partner That is one of the solutions. I believe in the Netherlands disabled people can request the government to provide a sex partner AND their health insurance covers it. There is no shame and no coercion. But overall we need a more equal society. Women have far too many safety nets and DEI programs at the expense of men. There is also a dire lack of representation in hard laborious jobs like construction an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:11 AM
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Guess no men are good then by your own example. Good men help because they're good men by definition, not as a quid pro quo No, if someone doesn't get reciprocity, they are well within their right to stop helping. This kind of guilt tripping doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:08 AM
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than the minority of men not getting laid. It may be a minority but not a small one. And it's not just about getting laid, it's about loneliness. So you think we should stop educating and housing everyone because some men can’t get laid? As one of the people who provides the services, I don’t think it’s entitled to suggest that we should educate kids. No one's stopping you from providing your services, just don't feel entitled to other people's labor. There’s all kinds of data about how poorly e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:06 AM
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Sexuality is not a choice. Having to repeat this is tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:02 AM
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Buddy what's the point of your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:02 AM
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So in the hypothetical that no one's autonomy is affected, you would consider this a real problem worth addressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:01 AM
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Which country? Sounds pretty good all things considered. if sex was for mental health you'd think the government only needed to provide the first option No? Men need both sex and emotional support, often sex turns into a form of emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:00 AM
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I know the full forms and what they do. How are women to be thanked for osha and the fda?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:59 AM
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However, sex and your example of housing are very different. In order for men to have sex with women, women need to consent to sex with that man. And, as you said, since no one is owed sex, there is no moral obligation for women to have sex with men. On the other hand, you could argue that a tax-paying citizen is owed a certain level of housing accessibility by their government, which controls the distribution of wealth, land, and services which are funded by citizens' tax dollars and labor. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:58 AM
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so hit on the "undesirable" women i hear about. like women much older than yourself with questionable hygiene, and are also "landwhales" Everything under your own control. Undesirable women don't want their male counterparts anyways. Besides this is a discussion about the importance of sex for mental health. I've already given a rebuttal to the "just pay for it" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:54 AM
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if it's so necessary, why are monks and nuns doing ok? Personal choice. There are people who give up everything to live simple lives in the mountains, does that mean housing is unnecessary too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:52 AM
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And that's fine for you, personally. We're discussing on a high level here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:50 AM
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you can thank women for the fact that OSHA, the FDA and child labor laws exist I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:50 AM
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Sure it varies from person to person. Everything varies from person to person, so should we stop discussing everything? Stop recording statistics because every person is different?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:49 AM
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Women's pleasure would be front and center It literally is. But if you continue to sleep with the same man who has 15 women on his roster, he has 0 incentives to care about you or your pleasure. Because men just wanna get their rocks off like a dog wants to chase a car. Get a hobby jfc. Man the levels of dehumanization are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:48 AM
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>How important sex is varies from person to person and from relationship to relationship That's not a useful discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:45 AM
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That’s why casual sex is more desired and prized by men, and the opposite for women No it isn't, we are in this position today because women prioritized sleeping around in their 20s instead of getting married. Women’s main complaints about men are that they push for sex and don’t want to relationships This is not normal though. Men are simply adapting to their environment, which is women sleeping around. If women decided that they would get married early like they used to, men would stop sleepin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:44 AM
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Leftists in the 1900s and leftists today. Most men regardless of politics will still care for your well being. Same cannot be said the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:41 AM
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That is not how statistics work. >Average male height is 5'10" Does being taller or shorter make you less man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:40 AM
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Both genders prioritize relationships, the only difference is ability to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:35 AM
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I never said your housing situation was relevant to getting a job, but actually now that you mention it, it is. You can’t vote without an address to be registered by True, so that requirement should be removed for homeless people. and you cannot safely store legal documents like a birth certificate or social security card if you’re unhoused. Legal documents that, in many cases, you need to be able to provide for employment reasons. Carry it on your person and provide it when necessary. Not an is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:35 AM
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did i ever say i expected men to care about women's issues I don't know what you personally have done, but women quite loudly and frequently expect men to care about their issues. so you're essentially asking for something for nothing in return here. This is so ignorant I don't even know what to say. Men fought for your suffrage. Men are fighting right now for your right to have an abortion. Men maintain law and order in society. If war breaks out (like it did in Ukraine), men will protect you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:31 AM
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Google says it's part of both the first layer (physiological needs) and the third layer (love and belonging). So it would seem pretty entrenched in human life, making it quite important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:28 AM
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And how often do you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:27 AM
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I have a theory that their hypergamous nature forces them to be cruel to extremely undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:25 AM
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Because casual sex material can be husband material but not vice versa. Either way most men want relationships, just like most women do. The only difference is women can get casual sex as well whereas men cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:24 AM
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>Should women as a collective advocate for undesirable men to be happy Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:22 AM
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It is more important than relationships to men, and less important than relationships to women What are you basing this statement on?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:19 AM
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Your housing situation is irrelevant to getting a sustainable job. You don't need an education to work at Amazon warehouses or at McDonald's. Like you said, a six figure career is not a necessity. We know this because people survive without it all the time. Yes, we know they survive, but are they thriving? Because like I said, for survival, you don't need anything more than food, water and air.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:17 AM
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Literally where did I ever say this? You must be hallucinating. You're literally arguing for it right now. The fact that you can’t differentiate between feeling sexually/romantically unfulfilled and feeling lonely and isolated You have reading comprehension issues. I admitted they are different things but for a lot of guys it's the same. They get neither. emotional intelligence gap more than anything. ad hominem + emotional intelligence is not a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:14 AM
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thats just wrong in real world terms. you can survive temporarily without shelter, but not reliably or safely Just like how you can live life without sex but it'll be absolutely miserable. If we're talking about the bare minimum don't start arguing about the quality now. shelter is what prevents exposure, illness, and environmental death. Nope, most people don't live in places where it snows. Some 10% of the population experiences regular snowfall. Even then you can survive the night with a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:36 PM
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Man women will argue tooth and nail for undesirable men to die lonely and miserable. Yes, for a significant portion of men it's the same thing. There are very few, extremely few, who are either 1. Not having sex (which is usually by choice) and not lonely or 2. Having sex but still feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:31 PM
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>y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:22 PM
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Talking to people is not a replacement for physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:27 PM
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because women want men to uphold their end of the social contract without doing so themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:30 PM
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Huh, wonder how many women are fighting in Ukraine. Gender norms and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:18 PM
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>shelter is still a survival necessity in a way sex isn’t. No it really isn't. You WILL survive without shelter. And it is perfectly ethical to refuse shelter to anyone. Especially in a crisis condition, I don't want strangers in my home. >people don’t die from lack of sex. Yes they do, chronic loneliness is a death sentence. Neither housing nor education are biological needs, then what's with all the hue and cry for affordable housing and free education?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:17 PM
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Shelter is not a biological need either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:25 PM
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Sex is a NEED. Doesn't make you entitled to anyone's body but that doesn't change the fact that it's a need. Just like housing is a need. Doesn't make you entitled to get a house though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:06 PM
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Yup, we can reduce every discussion in the world about anything to just "pull yourself up by the bootstraps bro". >got fired? pull yourself up by the bootstraps bro >lost your home? pull yourself up by the bootstraps bro >got cancer? pull yourself up by the bootstraps bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:03 PM
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Especially the ones on this sub. And many of them claim to be very "happily married" give me a break lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:01 PM
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If you want to take it as an insult, I just said an indisputable fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:00 PM
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We're talking about averages here. Most 50 yo men don't have yachts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:53 PM
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This is cope. Even a 50 yo woman can find someone to bang overnight. The same can't be said for the 50 yo man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:34 PM
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>you are bullying people or exhausting them until they go "you are right" Sounds like most top 1% commenters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:04 PM
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Make it other people's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:02 PM
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For men, it's largely feast or famine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:00 PM
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>I could see this being the case for 18-25 year olds Which is not normal, we need to fix this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:59 PM
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There are some users, I won't name any but we all know them, who are here just to troll. They always have the top 1% commenter flair. They will keep replying and replying, even in the face of overwhelming evidence that they're wrong, till you get tired and simply leave. Getting the last word in is more important than oxygen for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:17 AM
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might wanna look into this thread np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1tez3cf/q4w_why_do_doctors_and_medical_staff_take_womens/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:17 AM
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They can keep begging but I'm not going to waste time arguing about <1% of population when some 30% of men are incels today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:46 PM
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uninhabited, sparsely inhabited, uninhabited 99.99999% of the population doesn't live in those places, besides you're not going to find solid homes in those places anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:40 PM
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>I havn't been single for more than a couple seasons since I was 18. How do you meet women? What's your approach to initiating a relationship with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:36 PM
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Most of humanity congregated in livable habitats for a reason. The only exception I can think of is snow, which can be quelled with a really good coat. No house needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:34 PM
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Correct. The act itself is driven by biology, that does not speak to the external circumstances preceding it. Such as a lack of support. If you want to say that women are neurotic because of experience, I would agree. They might have a higher biological tendency to be neurotic, but the real life experiences make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:33 PM
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>This post was about women, not about men. You are the ones who started talking about men. I said, talking about women's struggles does not mean we are attacking men's. The very title of this post is: women don't have life "easier" than men and the post is various misc cherry picked stats trying to paint a false picture that women have it worse by minimizing the struggles of men >If you think women do not take male suicide to heart you are wrong. We do not want it, we will do all we can to stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:30 PM
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Most guys really aren't, you are thinking of a very small, delusional minority of men. Most of these guys are barely functioning adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:27 PM
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I'm saying "neurotic" is not a bad thing when it comes to biology. There is no good or bad in biology. Women are more neurotic because their biology is such. But since we live in a society, it's a bad thing if women don't get it under control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:15 PM
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She doesn't look ugly, doesn't matter what gaslighting you do, she describes herself as attractive and has dated much more attractive men. If much more attractive men commited to her then her looksmatch is them She's in their league. Because attractive men don't go for uglier women to date since that would ruin their status. Your entire argument is basically the just world fallacy. "Because it is, therefore it should be." Might as well stop all debate in the world then. All the poverty, war, fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:12 PM
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Mentally illness is a label humans have come up with. The way we act, it's all biology at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:07 PM
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First things first, the vast majority of couples meet online these days. Secondly, dating dynamics have wildly shifted in just the last 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:51 PM
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Okay no offence aunc, but things are way different now from your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:49 PM
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That's not what I said, read the thread. She said the guys she asked out hadn't dated anyone in over a decade and looked ugly. Why shouldn't they? Are you saying ugly and sexless men don't deserve happiness? Just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:48 PM
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men just don’t get diagnosed because they don’t care to or feel it’s un-masculine to seek help We don't seek help because we get constantly gaslit and our problems downplayed, just like you're doing right now but even with that I don’t automatically think they have such high suicide rates because they’re lives are so much harder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:44 PM
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>I won't be replying futher >Continues to reply 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:38 PM
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You can survive inclement weather with the proper clothes. A shelter is not necessary. You couldn't care less because you know you're wrong. You make fun of incels but would go insane if you couldn't have sex for as long as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:37 PM
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>As for women being more neurotic or emotional? Our emotions are what force us to take care of our children. Taking care of infants can be brutal when you have just given birth. You are up 24/7, feeding every 2 hours, with 1 hour of sleep if you do not have other children. The schedule is brutal. It is our emotions that keep us going. Most women are not mothers and the numbers keep going down every day. Saying life is hard for all is a weak attempt at avoiding real, dirty discussion that's neede…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:36 PM
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>But anyone could similarly argue that being more “neurotic” is evidence that your life is harder. No you can't, you're confusing cause and effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:34 PM
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800 women a day die globally from giving birth. >Regional Inequities: Approximately 90% to 95% of these deaths occur in low- and lower-middle-income countries, with Sub-Saharan Africa and Southern Asia accounting for the vast majority of the global burden. Stolen valor. Not to mention: >Worldwide, approximately 360,000 to 370,000 women give birth every day So the actual percentage is less than 0.2%. Most of these births are consensual, women choose to have children. Per 100k births, not total wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:31 PM
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get your t up and your bread up, good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:19 PM
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Both things can be true at the same time. Women are more neurotic/emotional. Men attempt more seriously. The numbers are 17 deaths per 100,000. So assuming all 17 (which is 0.017% btw) were neurotic, that is still less than 80 or 90% (don't know the actual number but it's pretty big) of women who are neurotic. It is a gender war when women try to constantly downplay and gaslight what men face, just like OP is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:18 PM
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You are on an anonymous debate forum apologizing and groveling to some bipolar woman. Beyond pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:15 PM
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man this is pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:12 PM
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You don't die without a house or an education either, which is at the 2nd level of the pyramid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:12 PM
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It's biological but social media has sent into into an uncontrollable spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:11 PM
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I don't care about your personal anecdote. Men have it objectively worse. I'm sick and tired of this constant victim complex you have. This woman should be banned because she posts garbage and all her replies are contentless garbage. And she will keep replying despite being proven wrong, just like most top 1% commenters, till you get tired and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:04 PM
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Thank fucking god.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:02 PM
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>men account for 76.5% of all suicides >women most affected I'm gonna report your comment, see if the mods are genuinely serious about maintaining quality in this sub or if it's just a circus now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:51 PM
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Not 99.9% but yeah, you get the point. Most men are not physically attractive enough to be a bull.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:48 PM
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More time wasting bullshit. All this can be cleared up with a single google search, but your objective is not to debate in good faith. In Australia, suicide is a leading cause of death, with over 3,300 deaths annually. The national age-standardised suicide rate is 11.8 deaths per 100,000 people. Demographically, suicide disproportionately affects males, regional Australians, and Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. Males account for over three-quarters (76.5%) of all suicide deaths in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:46 PM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:43 PM
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Okay.....what's the point of this rare anecdote? How many ugly and sexless men in their 30s are being asked out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:41 PM
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So tell me. What do you go through? Why? So you can minimize, gaslight and insult us at every turn? So you can keep replying despite being proven wrong just so you can get the last word in and consider it a victory?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:38 PM
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Yes, when the group is going to overwhelmingly agree with you. Already look at the replies, they're all affirming your baseless conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:36 PM
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I'm not going to post any statistics, because that horse has been beaten to death several times over. It's incredible just how OP is trying to gaslight us. I'll give one example to prove my point. 72% of those in suicide counselling with NSPCC are girls Here are the actual statistics: In the UK, suicide disproportionately affects men, individuals aged 45 to 64, and those in the most economically deprived areas. Men are roughly three times more likely to die by suicide than women, and suicide is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:34 PM
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The average woman is so invisible to them that they don't even notice they exist Pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:31 PM
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A tiny, extremely tiny number of women actually get rped. I would take that any day over the higher risk of scide, draft, hyperagency in society, higher risk of homelessness etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:30 PM
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What decades of feminist brainwashing does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:28 PM
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Disagree. Women go through more mental and physical suffering than men statistically speaking. This is so incredibly stupid, you should be banned. I'm not even kidding. What a fucking waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:28 PM
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These arguments don't go any place. She will keep gaslighting and replying till you get tired of it and leave. Just watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:27 PM
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I would easily choose the average woman over the average man in every part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:26 PM
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Why is this a question for women? Seems like OP just wants a circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:25 PM
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If you're talking about men complaining that women go after "bad guys" it's only a reaction to women moralizing and lecturing men about their sexual selection. If women were honest about their attraction to bad guys, none of this would exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:22 PM
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Because it doesn't work the same way around. Guys typically only approach women they consider below their SMV. No guy, unless he's an actual model tier 9 or 10, is shooting his shot at women at an equal or higher smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:20 PM
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How do you "approach" them? Can you give a specific example? Regardless, I think the main problem is that you're shooting way beyond your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:15 PM
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They are unsuccessful because they're shooting way beyond their league. Additionally, women don't have game. So the way they approach it is usually awkward if not downright creepy. he isn’t genuinely interested and then puts in zero effort afterward. Because you're his fifth option. Genuine interest was only ever there with the men who approached me first. Plenty of successful marriages where the woman initiated. Personally, I’ve also only approached men whom I considered to be in my “league” an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:14 PM
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You do not need a house, you do not need an education. The only things you "need" to survive are food, water and air.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:43 PM
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In the same breath, you do not need a house. For extremely cold climates, you can simply bundle up on clothes. Besides, I'm not going to take "obsessivethot" seriously when she says that sex is not a need. Not falling for your disingenuous bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:39 PM
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It would've been a fallacy fallacy had you provided any proof other than an appeal to nature. You did not, therefore it's an appeal to nature fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:36 PM
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One study, with a clear bias in the sample. I'm not talking about any content in particular. I'm talking about the fact that you can find several videos of women being delusional about being 10s, but you cannot find a single one of men doing the same. Sociology is not a real science. I'm not going to change my worldview, something which can be plainly seen in real life, because some liberal ivory tower professors wrote a biased paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:34 PM
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You are not some mystical creature. It is painfully obvious what you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:30 PM
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Adding context is not circlejerking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:29 PM
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Irrelevant. In a relationship, they're almost completely synonymous. There are almost no cases where you're physically intimate without ever actually having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:09 AM
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Appeal to nature fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:25 AM
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You don't die if you don't have a house either. Meanwhile, research has shown the detrimental effects of a lack of intimacy, so yes - you'll die if you don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:19 AM
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Self reported survey, so the numbers are closer to 40%. Either way, a man with a body count of 33 is impressive regardless of how you try to downplay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:03 AM
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Again, I've never seen an unattractive dude claim he was a 10. But you can find plenty of clips of women unironically doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:43 AM
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holy mother of copes you think men, the stereotypically horny gender, 50% of whom haven't had sex in a year, aren't facing difficulties finding a partner? stop bullshitting here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:40 AM
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Participants 400 adults (mostly university students) 312 women, 88 men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:38 AM
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I could've sworn you had a blue pill flair. Besides, the scenario you described is extremely rare in real life. In fact it's the exact opposite. Most guys won't pick up on obvious hints because they think the girl is just being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:36 AM
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cool story but don't see how that's relevant to what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:33 AM
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variance is huge That means most guys have significantly less than 6 partners, making a number of 33 all the more impressive. This is what happens when midwits like you try to half-ass statistics. Here's the median anyways: The median lifetime number of opposite-sex sexual partners for men aged 25-49 in the United States is approximately 6.3, based on data from 2015 to 2019. Read that? Lifetime partners. So even if logos was 90 and on his deathbed, 33 is still an impressive number. You're replyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:27 AM
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Men prefer younger women, but are absolutely fine with women of most ages. It's not the same way women have preferences, for example where a minimum height is a strict cut off. Women are 10x more cruel to unattractive men. You cannot even begin to imagine what their lives are like. Fear mongering. Most divorces are initiated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:23 AM
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It was revealed to me in a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:21 AM
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This. We do not want the "I will wait at the finish line and pick the winners" mentality. It's gross. We want to grow with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:20 AM
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I would be fine dating an ugly woman if she hasn't been around the block and genuinely loves me and brings genuine effort to the relationship. What's depressing is when the woman stops putting in any effort, regardless of looks, which seems to happen in most relationships eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:20 AM
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projection: the post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:18 AM
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Given the current market, most men would love a woman who genuinely loves him back. That's how low the bar is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:18 AM
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Women project all their flaws onto men. They describe men as shallow, but men have extremely varied tastes. Basically every category exists in p*rn. Teen-milf, petite-giantess, big boobs-flat chest, big ass-small ass, dominant-submissive, blonde-redhead-brunette. Women on the other hand have the same tall, muscular, rich, handsome, big d fantasies. The wall is a correct concept. Women will not get the same treatment as they age. BUT They will still have infinitely more options than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:18 AM
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lol, who is more likely to have delusions of grandeur, men or women? when's the last time you saw a clearly unattractive man claim that he's a 10? but you'll find women doing it in spades.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:10 AM
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in the age where 50% of men haven't had sex in the last year and the average n count 10 years ago for a man was 6, it absolutely is spare me your bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:09 AM
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>and that goes for both men and women. No it's mostly women who display such delusions. Men are perfectly aware of where they stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:04 AM
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Then what does experience mean here? Clearly they mean the same thing i.e they're redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:37 AM
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And what does that have to do with sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:36 AM
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explains the overabundance of incels today and proves the 80/20 principle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:33 AM
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2000 was almost 25 years ago. None of what you said is true these days. Edit: 2000 not 2020 obviously though we all know 2020 was also 25 years ago.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:33 AM
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Nope it's 100% fax. Some betas might be beta-er than others but they're still betas. Some incels might be truecels and others might be fakecels. Some cucks might've been a bull at some point. But overall, these 3/4 archetypes largely summarize dating as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:30 AM
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There's dignity in your relationship because things just happened to fall into place. Assuming you didn't click with her, how much would have to jest in order to get and then keep a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:29 AM
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wait what does natty mean in this context? big fan of your posts btw, always very pragmatic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:27 AM
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...though they still do a lot less of the actual work. We don't live in 1950 anymore. Fathers do just as much if not more work than mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:26 AM
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*men you date I'm tired of this narrative that men are absent parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:25 AM
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your n count is 33?!?!?! holy gigachad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:24 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if these posts are 1. Troll posts 2. Ragebait 3. OP is genuinely that stupid 4. OP is genuinely that shielded/lives in a bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:23 AM
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But to act like (most) men can’t easily be in a relationship if they want to is ridiculous. A man can sign up for a dating app, put the bare minimum effort in developing a profile and match with at least 5 people after a period of time. Completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:18 AM
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This is a largely meaningless post. OP's logic can be applied to literally anything. Why demand for anything if the barest of minimums exists? Why complain about housing prices, grocery costs, education costs, wages stagnation etc when you can always get the bare minimum? We're well past the caveman days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:17 AM
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lucky, if you cannot replicate your success if you can, then you're a bull
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:15 AM
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beta is an umbrella term that covers both incel and cuck, both incels and cucks have to pay money in some way to get a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:15 AM
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Read a flair once that summarizes what you said. A man is either a bull, cuck or incel. There is no dignity in dating today as an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:08 AM
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And it's still a shaming tactic. If a man said "one of the good ones" you would be up in arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:06 AM
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lmfao your shaming tactics are plain as day >Some women prefer what their partners want, instead of what they want. Those are the good ones
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:59 AM
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>contentless rhetoric >contentless rhetoric >contentless rhetoric >contentless rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:56 AM
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Women HAVE to moralize their mating choices because not appearing shallow is literally part of their evolutionary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:52 AM
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Who tf is shaming men? Is the bar for shaming that low now? You are, right now, along with all the women who use shaming language like "real man" or "it's a man's job to..." etc. And here is the thing: I don’t think anyone’s priority is to themselves and themselves alone. I think a person should put themselves first, but also value their loved ones and community. If one finds self possession in providing for their loved ones, that doesn’t make them ant self possessed. Nope, men need to prioritiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:45 AM
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you’re now making a value judgment on those who genuinely enjoy the company of women, or those who actually enjoy something like approaching or even do so from a place of self possession. And they're free to ignore OP's advice if they choose so. A doctor can tell you that smoking is bad for your health, but he can't force you to quit smoking. A man can be self possessed, date, approach women and even be a provider. He can even be self possessed and do none of these things - but I question the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:38 AM
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Let me pull up my peer reviewed article about women self-improving real quick. Of course I don't have it, it's all empirical evidence. Stuff that you see in real life and on social media. The way women compliment their fat friend. Now it's not black and white. Some women will take action. But it's not anywhere near as common or extreme as what men do. There's a reason why the "cardiobunny" and "pilates princess" archetype exists. For men, self improving includes lifting heavy weights several tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:35 AM
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but also tho post is less “men should have self respect and more “men get self respect by walking away from women”… which…. There is a difference Both are correct and equally valid. Men should prioritize themselves, period. Semantics are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:31 AM
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The reason the body positivity movement existed is that 90% of people who lost weight through exercise and diet changes couldn't maintain it over the long term. (I'm defining long term as at least five years - a lot of studies look at only the first year.) Now, I'm sure you want to figure that all of these people were women, and that it was something wrong with them, but the numbers are pretty ridiculous. And these were people who were very motivated. Absolutely true, most people who lose weight…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:28 AM
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I really want to agree with you, cause this is some very solid advice. Yes, self respect is absolutely important, yes, learning to walk away or say no is absolutely necessary, yes, decanter romance and build your own life Everything you said after this is irrelevant. If a woman had posted about taking action to preserve her self respect, you wouldn't begrudge her in any way. You're just trying to make men feel bad for prioritizing themselves instead of women they don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:22 AM
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"doing better" is such a non-point, men are "doing better" than ever before. 10 years ago misogyny was its lowest point in human history, but misandry kept rising. It seems like the more misogyny reduces the more misandry increases. Almost like they crave subjugation and won't be happy without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:20 AM
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I'm not reading allat chatgpt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:18 AM
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Because women have been working at losing weight a lot longer and more rigorously than men have. Ozempic doesn't count. In fact it exposed the hypocrisy of the body-positivity crowd (primarily women) who jumped on losing weight as soon as it was lazily possible. It is also harder in general for women to lose weight It is much harder for men to get sex, and I'm sure you don't have any sympathy for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:12 AM
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Sex/physical intimacy is a need just like housing is a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:09 AM
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Why did you write wisdom and experience separately? What "wisdom" are you referring to here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:03 AM
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It feels like you just want to reply to me without actually reading any of my posts. I replied to this It's fun sometimes to fuck younger girls, but youth is not worth the lack of wisdom and experience you could get instead with an older woman He says wisdom and experience. Wisdom in this case is not referring to "learning" about sex from the woman he's having sex with. It's about wisdom in general. Which has nothing to do with sex - the original topic of discussion. I never said anything about …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:02 AM
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Just because you call everything bullshit doesn't make it so. You need to provide actual rebuttals. What perpetually moving target are you talking about? If you improve yourself you will have higher targets next, correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:57 AM
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Contentless rhetoric + ad hominem. It is well known that women lean into positive affirmations and men lean into self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:55 AM
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Your comment is dumb. >Women not only age better than men No they don't, they age the same. >hey almost universally have more options than men. Which I agreed with. It's literally the last line of my comment, which you would've read if you weren't foaming at the mouth and blinded by anger. >In fact, the only women that don’t age better are the trad ones Okay? I don't know what that has to do with the topic at hand. Seems like you're just spraying and praying for something to stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:54 AM
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No there are not, I'm sorry. Women peak (beauty wise) in their early 20s. They do not become hotter as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:06 AM
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I disagree. It's 1% vs 10%. Women do not have incentives to self improve. And if you were genuine about calling out ad homs you'd call her out first. You're not, that's why you're calling me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:05 AM
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Yes, 1% and 10% are both minorities. And I'm not the one with the ad hom, I simply retorted in a language she'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:00 AM
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Losing weight is positive affirmations of the self. Yet many if not most women won't do it. They expect everyone else to keep praising them. There more hot 30+ year old women then men. Yes, women will always have more absolute SMV than their male peers. That is not what's being discussed though. We are talking about glow ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:59 PM
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You literally just repeated what the other guy said. Yes, most of either gender is not going to get better as they age. It's like 10% for men vs 1% for women. Additionally, reposting my other comment: Yes it's a myth. What is true though, is that men generally have more potential to age better (relatively of course) than women. By doing the things you've mentioned (career, fitness etc) they can increase their SMV by a higher % than women can. Doesn't mean that they'll have higher SMV than their …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:53 PM
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That's the point he was getting at. Women generally don't "self improve" like men do, they're all about positive affirmations. The obese 25 year old is not working towards losing weight, all her friends are praising her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:51 PM
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Smothering yourself with microplastics is not skin care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:43 PM
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Yes it's a myth. What is true though, is that men generally have more potential to age better (relatively of course) than women. By doing the things you've mentioned (career, fitness etc) they can increase their SMV by a higher % than women can. Doesn't mean that they'll have higher SMV than their female peers, just that the increase is more. Like jumping from the first floor to the tenth floor vs jumping from the 8th floor to the 11th floor. Women will always have more absolute SMV than their m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:41 PM
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Yes, because I sure do want to get wisdom from a woman when I'm having sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:36 PM
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No it's a fact. The fact that you can't accept it says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:34 PM
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That's fine, women "think" a lot of things. Pretty much wrong all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:47 PM
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Even if that were true (it's not) there's nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:41 PM
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Saying I want sex does not mean I want to 🍇 someone. GTFOH with your disingenuous bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:16 PM
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Consent or no. Leave it to the pathetic redditor to project his 🍇 fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:41 PM
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The dynamic which exists is that the woman doesn't love you. That's the caveat. There is no enthusiasm, no love, just tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:35 PM
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Yes, and in real life this hypothetical is called betabuxxing. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:34 PM
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Cool, most men would rather be alone because the hypothetical you described doesn't exist in reality. There are way too many points you've missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:21 PM
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That's alright, you're not owed anything anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:18 PM
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This is the caveat. You cannot have a healthy and loving relationship with a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:17 PM
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freudian slip
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:17 PM
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You might be right. Just brutal to think about. Life as a man is hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:16 PM
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This lol. OP is trying to demonstrate that men are evil sleazebags that only care about sex. Newsflash: Sex is a vital component of a relationship. In fact, it is the only thing separating a relationship from a very good friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:14 PM
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lmfao what even is the point of this awful hypothetical? here's a hypothetical for women: will you marry a man (who you are physically attracted to) but he doesn't have sex with you even though he loves you and wants to build a life with you AND you still have to contribute 50% to the relationship, both in terms of finances and house chores
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:11 PM
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Lol why would any man want to be a betabuxxer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:07 PM
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Nope, you are not owed kindness. Check your entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:03 PM
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The difference is awareness and consent. And it's not most. More than 50% of U.S. adults have oral herpes, and about 12% of adults (1 in 8) have genital herpes. So pertaining to the question of oral sex, 12% is a significantly small number.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:49 PM
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In a long term relationship you are aware of your partner's STD status. What is it with redditors and their passive-aggressive, "erm yOu kNow ThaT....." ? Of course someone's relationship status doesn't cure their STD, what is the point of your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:13 PM
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Men need to realize that the only power women hold is the one we give them. The day we stop falling for their disgusting shaming tactics is the day we stop all this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:11 PM
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Hypocrisy is their entire modus operandi. As a group they maintain their power by engaging in this doublethink. If they stop their hypocrisy then they lose that power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:09 PM
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Orgasm gap isn't a real thing though. For every woman having unsatisfactory sex, there's an incel having no sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:13 PM
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This lol. You can always finish yourself later on. But the ease of getting sex in the first place, I'd take that in a heartbeat. Female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:01 PM
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This post is pure projection. Women get lazier the longer the relationship goes on. The deadbedroom sub confirms this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:00 PM
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Especially considering just how common herpes is nowadays. Oral should be reserved for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:59 PM
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Absolutely true. So men should stop being nice. Men should stop being kind and helpful. It's a complete race to the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:55 PM
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But I can't do that. I wasn't raised like that. My parents raised me to be a kind, understanding man. Treating someone badly just for my benefit isn't something I'm comfortable doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:51 PM
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This sub is a joke. I don't get what the mods are doing. Not a single top 1% commenter ever posts in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:50 PM
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The discourse even just a decade ago was that looks don't matter only personality does. But 5 years ago, the evidence became so insurmountable, most women have started to concede that looks do matter, of course they matter - we never said that they don't matter. This technique is similar to the one the party uses in the book 1984, constantly rewriting history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:49 PM
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Ever notice how "nice guys" are always accused of wanting sex only, not relationships? I will add that there is absolutely nothing wrong or immoral about wanting only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:45 PM
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lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:56 AM
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I'm yet to meet a top 1% commenter who isn't a complete troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:34 AM
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This sub might as well rename itself to r/funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:31 AM
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lol literally reported my comment because you got proven wrong, classic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:28 AM
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Why do socioeconomic leagues exist but not beauty leagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:27 AM
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I don't know what you're talking about then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:27 AM
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>but yeah, we are living on the backs of strong hard working men. Sure. Yes we are. This is not an opinion up for debate, it's a fact. I'm not one of these men and I am grateful for the work they do. >but also, you’re ignoring how heavily gendered industries tend to create a kind of social segregation and how social expectations create gender roles. Women have been freed from their gender roles for more than a hundred years now. Don't see them lining up to work on construction sites, oil rigs, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:26 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:17 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:13 AM
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There might not be hard defined boundaries for leagues but they 100% exist. Sorry to burst your bubble. I find it rather amusing that you think leagues are unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:12 AM
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Women are not fending for themselves. As a group, they are sustained by taxes men pay. Not to mention most of the hard, laborious, back-breaking jobs that actually sustain society, not pushing excel sheets, writing emails and attending HR meetings in an air conditioned offices, are done by men. Women get the privilege of voting whilst not having to register for the draft. TRP is a reaction to the insanely unjust and oppressive female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:11 AM
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>I don't remember you. 🤷‍♂️ Yes, you post thousands of contentless comments everyday. I don't expect you to remember anyone. >I don't consider wanting to be attracted to the person you're dating as "high standards". It is high when they're several times out of your league. >And I don't believe in the nonsense ranting about height or jawline. I don't believe in anything women complain about. It's all nonsense. >So, again, nobody can explain high standards. They just want to whine about not being …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:07 AM
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Just World Fallacy. Men are more "emotionally available" or connecting or whatever bullshit now more than ever before. Yet women's standards keep getting higher and their efforts keep plummeting. Pill ideologies are a reaction, not the cause. If dating was fair, redpill wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:02 AM
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65 million / 3.11 billion adult men = 2% of the population. On the other hand, 99% of women are evil, hypergamous and sadistic. Yoikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:00 AM
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Regardless, your point about men being "bitter that they have to put actual effort" is patently false.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:56 AM
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It has been thoroughly explained. In fact I have explained it to you a couple of days ago. This is just a comment to waste time, like most of your comments are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:53 AM
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I can literally say the same about you, the way you've generalized most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:53 AM
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Contentless rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:52 AM
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You are severely out of touch. Fatties won't fuck incels either. They don't lack options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:51 AM
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In the same breath women should stop complaining about earning 80 cents on the dollar, correct? After all, they should be glad with what they can get - according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:50 AM
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Not in the US without risking jail and losing your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:48 AM
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It's like asking a middle class office worker to have sympathy for a billionaire who inherited all his wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:47 AM
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Men are the only ones putting in effort though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:45 AM
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You know what he's talking about, it's literally in your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:44 AM
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At some point men have to realize that the juice is not worth the squeeze and the only winning move is to not play. But until then, women will continue to get away with being absolutely horrendous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:43 AM
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The only thing OP is correct about is that men are responsible for everything in this world. The good, the bad and the ugly. Women just go along with whoever's in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:42 AM
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No it's not. Until we get out hands dirty, we will never find the solution to the problems. Life is not a disney movie. Uncomfortable facts need to be discussed if we ever hope to move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:39 AM
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I am genuinely amazed by your gaslighting tactics. Unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:37 AM
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If women can have abortions, men can sign away their financial obligations. If women can't have abortions, men can't sign away their financial obligations. This is a decent compromise. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:34 AM
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Burden of proof is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:00 PM
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So no source. Literally made up a fantasy scenario to attack men. Got it. Concession accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:39 PM
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Again you keep calling me unhinged for pointing out that biology has no morality. Cool it with the personal insults. Women might not consciously think they're good people but when it comes to sexual selection their actions speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:38 PM
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nice guys are literally at the bottom of the social pole right now. Yes, and as corny as it sounds, they need to stop being nice. People take that shit for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:26 PM
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I didn't say any of that. It's not "unhinged" it's just biology. I'm not the one moralizing sexual selection. Women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:22 PM
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This sub is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:20 PM
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This. Sex is a power women hold over men and use it to get them to do things. The "carrot" in front of the horse if you will. A man with an empty sack can think clearly. Women will have to actually provide something of value like being a good, supportive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:17 PM
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Nope, not hypocritical at all. Hypocrisy would be shaming someone else for consuming porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:11 PM
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Yup, the scenario where the man is always wrong is of course the best solution. Blue pill at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:10 PM
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Why do you reduce the importance of sex for men? Clearly it's a very important thing for women too, otherwise we wouldn't have had all this hue and cry for sexual freedom and against slut shaming. It's like a millionaire wondering why a homeless person is so desperate for a house. wHy iS iT aLWaYs AbOuT THe HouSe?!!!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:08 PM
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Female to male murder statistics versus reverse. That is not a question of morality but of ability. If more women could then they would. The way womens human rights are constantly treated like they are up for debate Yes, they're up for debate because equal rights entail equal responsibilities and the last 100 years have shown that women will NOT take equal responsibilities. Clearly one of the forms of "hate" is just mean words in internet Way to diminish male suffering. Men have a 3x higher suic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:05 PM
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Regardless of what you think, the deal is sweetened compared to previous generations. And the fact that you call men's suffering "nothing" tells me that there's nothing further to be discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:59 PM
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Yes. Incels are not in prison and prisoners are not incels. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:57 PM
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It's cope. Women their own age won't date them because of limitless options so they're trying for older women. Same as dating shorter, fatter, uglier etc women. It's a race to the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:54 PM
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It's bullshit. She doesn't want to debate, she's trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:45 PM
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Reading comprehension is hard, the hypothetical is one where she enjoyed doing it with an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:43 PM
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How do you know the ex didn't break up with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:43 PM
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For one, women are economically independent now. False, the government supports women's insane privileges by transferring wealth and the benefits of hard labor from men to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:42 PM
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By doing more household chores, tolerating more bullshit and disrespect from their partners and much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:41 PM
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Y’all have been awful the whole time. Lol. No amount of privilege will ever be enough for women. Reminds me of a post from earlier this month. The more misogyny decreases, the more misandry increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:39 PM
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The answer is simple. They're not happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:37 PM
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Yes. Today you will learn that introvert-extrovert is just an alternative labelling for ugly-handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:35 PM
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This comment makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:35 PM
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If you didn't you wouldn't be on this debate sub giving misleading advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:31 PM
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<image> Something I found on Twitter lol. Very relevant and summarizes gender dynamics succinctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:28 PM
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Yes, and I will continue to advice other men to do the same and warn them of blatantly misleading advice which you are giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:26 PM
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Complete lies. Tall women are literally chosen for modeling. They do not face the kind of discrimination short men face. And it's always women fetishizing height. Men generally don't care about height. This post summarizes it perfectly: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DX5eafkJ1ax/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:22 PM
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Perfect gaslighting. Women don't just want a man taller than them, they want a man who's taller than most other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:11 PM
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Correct. Overweight women should stop stuffing their faces. It is entirely a choice they make consciously. Ugly men can't help being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:08 PM
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No thanks. I'm not going to sell my pride and dignity to do metaphorical tricks on a tightrope for a woman with double digit body counts. In other words The juice is not worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:07 PM
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Which means that OJ Simpson, Ted Bundy, Stalin, Hitler, Rae Carruth, John Wayne Gacey, Genghis Khan, Jeffrey Epstein, Weinstein, etc. were all good people. Yes. You're saying the quiet part out loud. Women, be it consciously or subconsciously, think these are good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:05 PM
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Are you replying just for the sake of replying? Because what you're writing is utterly moronic. The biological drive to reproduce is a fact. A quick google search will prove you wrong. The biological drive to reproduce is a real, deeply rooted evolutionary mechanism, primarily manifested through a strong, innate urge for sexual activity. While not everyone experiences a conscious "baby fever," humans are physiologically wired for procreation, supported by hormonal changes and neural circuits des…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:02 PM
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Yes it is. Do you really want me to explain the biological drive to reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:58 PM
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you can steepen or flatten any hierarchy If you try for more "equal" systems like communism, it simply turns into a power grab where the top 10% try to dethrone and replace the top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:58 PM
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Who said I'm single? Why can't anybody on this sub debate without making it personal? And how is it even relevant to the topic at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:56 PM
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It's complete and utter cope. Just world fallacy + revenge fantasy + hopefuel for them for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:55 PM
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I remember seeing a flair on this sub a while back. It went something like, "Every man is either a bull, a cuck or an incel." It makes so much sense in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:55 PM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:53 PM
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Irrelevant. If women wish to have equal rights, they had the perfect opportunity to demonstrate that they can take up equal responsibilities as well. But they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:53 PM
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you don’t need to use some poor exhausted woman as a blow up doll. This is why you can't have any reasonable conversation on this sub. So much strawmanning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:50 PM
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If you can't accept this then either become a 0.1% man How do you expect anyone to take you seriously after reading this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:48 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:46 PM
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Biology is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:45 PM
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>i actually wish i was gay I know you're joking but I unironically wish this was true. Women are incredibly cruel to unattractive straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:43 PM
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Are you trying to troll me? You asked me how it was women's fault and I clearly pointed it out. >Women vote >Women hold positions in the government >Women are free to run away whilst the men get drafted That is the definition of rights (voting) without responsibilities (draft).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:38 PM
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It's true since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:36 PM
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Irrelevant to the topic at hand. I didn't suggest voting for any party. All I said is that men should look out for their self-interests. If it involves voting Republican, so be it. If it involves voting Democrat, so be it. If it involves some other decision, so be it. But the core motivation should always be self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:31 PM
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Yes, women are allowed to vote in Ukraine and have full suffrage rights. Women in Ukraine have had the right to vote and stand for election since 1919, a right confirmed upon independence in 1991.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:29 PM
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What do you mean? Say it clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:28 PM
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This. It's unreal how much propaganda we've been fed to believe women were ever the "oppressed" gender. Real oppression is being kidnapped on the streets and sent to the frontlines to be turned into pink mist by drones you can't even see. Meanwhile the Ukrainian women are free to run away and party and hookup in countries like Poland. That's real privilege. Being able to vote and not having to face the consequences of your vote. If feminists truly cared about equality, they'd be screeching for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:26 PM
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Leadership representation - Women only want equal representation at the top but not at the bottom, the unseen and unheard men slaving away to keep society functional. Pay gap - Thoroughly debunked 10 years ago. The fact that you're bringing this up now makes me think you're trolling. Rape - The only metric women have it worse than men in. And even then most women in their entire lives will never experience it. Domestic violence - After seeing how many women continue to stay with their partners d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:24 PM
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Who's keeping it? The 1% of men on top and women who keep selecting, be it consciously or subconsciously, for a more patriarchal society, despite loudly opposing it on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:16 PM
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Yes I'm against it in theory but it's the most natural hierarchical system. 1% of men at the top who control basically everything, 99% of men slaving away for them and producing abundance in a system that benefits the top 1% of men and all the other women. You can't replace it with anything. Men will always be physically stronger than women so a matriarchy is simply not feasible. If you try for more "equal" systems like communism, it simply turns into a power grab where the top 10% try to dethro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:15 PM
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Nope women benefit a lot from patriarchy, much more than you'd admit. The first and foremost benefit is the literal blessing of being able to stay alive, case in point: Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:11 PM
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Yes, just like women are disrespectful to people they're not attracted to. Glad we could agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:05 AM
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Even in the most repressive societies women have an abundance of safety nets. They will always have someone looking out for them and they won't be forced to endure the hardships that the average man in that country has to, to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:05 AM
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Every woman votes for her self-interest. Partakes in protests and organizes for her self-interest. Why shouldn't men do the same? Enough with this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:03 AM
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You are correct, patriarchy is not the average man's friend. It exists solely to benefit women and the top 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:02 AM
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Patriarchy only benefits the top 1% of men and all other women via "benevolent sexism". For the remaining 99% of men it just means more responsibilities and hyperagency.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:00 AM
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Because women will never take equal responsibility for the society they want equal rights in. Case in point: Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:56 AM
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On what basis are you claiming that women suffer more than men? Because by every measurable metric, men are suffering more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:55 AM
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Nothing in that says you can't mock incels. Are you being dense on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:53 AM
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His body his choice. No means no. Silence is violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:52 AM
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I don't have to own anything, just like how women say they have a type and then do the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:50 AM
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There's no personal attack. I'm simply stating facts. You're the one who attacked me with >I actually see no point in telling you, simply because you're defensively hostile and it will fall on deaf ears. Tells me you're arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:03 PM
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Do you not realize that you can have casual sex AND wait to have sex? They aren't mutually exclusive. Some men were for just sex. Some men I liked and wanted more than sex. LMFAO I can't take you or this sub seriously man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:14 PM
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Other than the fact that online is simply real life with the masks off, it is pretty easy to notice this in real life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:12 PM
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You must really think we're either blind or dumb huh? Also it's ironic that you say waiting is the same as choosing better, considering your previous flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:05 PM
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>I actually see no point in telling you, simply because you're defensively hostile and it will fall on deaf ears. This is funny coming from you of all people, someone who keeps replying despite being proven wrong all the time. This is a debate sub, feel free to not post if you can't defend your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:02 PM
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That's alright, we have eyes and we can read between the lines. Everyday, women's actions are louder than their words. Nothing need be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:00 PM
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>Women who choose better are often accused of “beta buxxing” and the men they choose are viewed as betas or simps for being a “second choice”. Only the women who've been around the block. It's not unreasonable to say that a woman who has had multiple short term relationships, situationships and hookups in her 20s is betabuxxing when she chooses a conventionally unattractive guy for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:00 PM
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Not really but there's obvious context missing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:54 PM
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OP should add this to the original text. Basically stop thinking like a cavewoman and use the non-lizard part of your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:54 PM
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This. This is a very sensible middle ground. Women are free to have their choices but they don't get to blame others for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:53 PM
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Abstaining from sex if you're not a virgin is pointless. Men ghost after 2-3 dates because she's likely getting it elsewhere, they don't want to be the chumps feeding her free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:52 PM
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>I did and you couldn't even refute that simple argument. Where? >Nowhere does it say "the vast majority of women are going after the same small percentage of top men." If you cannot read and extrapolate the meaning of plain English text, that is your fault. You are still wrong and very insufferably so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:49 PM
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I've posted a peer reviewed science article as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:48 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:48 PM
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>They aren't blaming all men. >#AllMen >I'd choose the bear >all men until it's no men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:47 PM
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It's not difficult to define a top man. In terms of physical qualities he's tall, muscular (but not overly muscular because that makes women insecure), has an above average penis, chiseled jawline, wide shoulders etc. In terms of finances he's very well off, ideally as rich as possible but women have to settle for their socioeconomic match. In terms of personality he's friendly, outgoing, popular, has a good sense of humor, sensitive yet vulnerable etc. This is what most women are thinking of wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:45 PM
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Yes it's not 80/20, it's 99/1. The "blog" was very clear about this. Still haven't explained how the methodology was flawed and conclusions were wrong. >You could shut me up right now in front of everyone. Here's a quote from the summary: Although the details of how success is achieved can vary from one setting to the next, culturally successful men have high reproductive potential and high reproductive success (Irons, 1979; Low, 2000). These are men who wield greater social influence than other…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:41 PM
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I'm not talking about me either, I'm talking about women blaming all men which is in direct contradiction to what you said. >Nobody is blaming the men who were not chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:37 PM
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It's fine to have friendships as long as you're not prioritizing them over your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:18 PM
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The real split is heavily men. Are you going to say it's not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:15 PM
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That doesn't mean you don't constantly deride them in every post. And I know you're going to keep replying so I'll save you the hassle, you may have the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:14 PM
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>If you’re presented with options you’re going to select the best ones. Why is this hard to grasp? Or seen as a great injustice? Irrelevant, the premise was that online dating was not fair for the majority of men and you've admitted it's not. You're simply shifting the goalposts now. >Friends showed me some of the men they match with, trust me they aren’t all chads. I have seen them match with overweight men and men I wouldn’t consider good looking. So to know for a fact that women only choose t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:12 PM
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Lol no one said men are perfect infallible creatures, it's only women who say that about themselves. We simply point out that by selecting for the same small percentage of men, you give them the leverage to do whatever they want, which includes abusing women and getting away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:08 PM
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Sure buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:06 PM
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Not unsolicited if it's in a fucking debate subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:06 PM
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We're just going in circles here. You admitted 150k women are selecting for 200k men, leaving 800k with nothing. Yes it is the same 200k men, it's not rotating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:05 PM
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>You don't know who I am. I've been lurking here long enough to see the folly in arguing with you. >Yes, everything you said is about y'all taking it personally when a woman says, "all men suck" or whatever. All women are stu pid. Don't take it personally sweaty ❤️ For any mod reading this, I'm only demonstrating the stupidity of her arguments. If you're gonna ban me you're gonna have to ban her as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:04 PM
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Because it's a debate forum open to the public? How does that make it unsolicited?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:00 PM
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Good for you for finding the guy you want, but a man who doesn't want his woman texting other women or having celebrity crushes is perfectly normal and not insecure at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:59 PM
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I did. If you scroll down you'll see that I posted a study which the other guy deemed as, "irrelevant." There's just no winning with you people. You'll keep arguing till the other guy gets frustrated and leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:58 PM
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How is it not factual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:56 PM
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So you admit that the original premise that was woman on online dating apps only interact with the same percentage of the top male profiles Is correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:56 PM
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#AllMen I'd choose the bear all men until it's no men These sound familiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:54 PM
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When I said all men I mean that the monopoly which you claim the government has is enforced only by men. Not that all men work in the government. I can. I will have to justify myself later in court in front of a jury of peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:53 PM
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The things you described are not insecurity though, they are perfectly valid and reasonable concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:50 PM
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>No, men don't have monopoly on physical force, that would be ridiculous. Yes we do. >They have advantage, and that is different from individual to individual. Irrelevant when most men are stronger than most women. >But it's not like a man can punch me and i can't. I won't have the same effect, but i can. Life is not a disney movie. >And actual monopoly on VIOLENCE is usually belongs to government. They usually have workers who are allowed to use it with rules, and they usually heavily punish th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:49 PM
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>Where does this say "a large majority of women are going after the same small percentage of top men?" I'm sure you read the whole paper in 10 minutes. >I'll save you the trouble. It doesn't. Because there is no evidence that's happening, hence why you're relying on blog posts and irrelevant papers that don't say anything like what you're claiming. This is complete bad faith arguing. You are calling a peer reviewed paper irrelevant because it disagrees with you. You are completely settled in wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:46 PM
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Bad faith is derailing the conversation by begging for proof that 1+1=2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:44 PM
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>Why do you assume you’re better than all the men in relationships? When did I say that? Why are you making this personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:19 PM
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Here's something that is true across all cultures: No man wants his woman texting other men when they're in a relationship. Celebrity crushes are basically = "I'll cheat on you given the right opportunity." And before you accuse men of insecurity: https://www.cbsnews.com/philadelphia/news/poll-more-than-half-of-women-have-a-plan-b/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:17 PM
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So no proof. Concession accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:14 PM
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Survivorship bias. You only see the handful of ugly men in relationships. You don't see the scores of ugly men rotting away in their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:13 PM
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So you're just going to ignore the remaining 800k men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:12 PM
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Fine, post evidence that online dating is fair and balanced for men. >b-but you made the original claim so you should provide evidence It shouldn't be hard to disprove something as outlandish as 2+2=5.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:12 PM
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I'm good. I know who you are and what the mods on this subreddit do. And I don't know why you'd assume I took anything here personally, not a single thing I said indicated that I took personal offence to anything being said here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:10 PM
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I should've said it properly: External circumstances in our control. Being born ugly is not under anyone's control, and even then they're constantly told to hit the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:08 PM
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Can you give specifics? Like what scenario are we talking about here? Commonly when I hear women say their ex was insecure/jealous/controlling it's something very reasonable like not dressing skimpily while going outside or not going to parties without him or not going on a "girls night out."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:05 PM
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It's not unsolicited. If you're posting it online, it's a public forum that is open for discussion. If you're ranting to someone in person, they are simply replying to you. There's no scenario in which a man randomly comes up to a woman and screeches, "YOU SHOULD HAVE PICKED BETTER!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:02 PM
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So I'd assume you'd have no problem with me pointing out some objective truths that paint women in a very unfavorable light?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:01 PM
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It's irrelevant who tells whom. The point is men are not coddled. If a situation that was under our control ends up having a negative outcome, we have to take responsibility for it. We don't blame external circumstances. We have to learn from our mistakes and move on, not making the same mistake again in the future. >Allergic doesn’t mean bad, but it’s not good for you. I’m not falling for your rage baiting. You literally just called 95% of men not good for women. Not only are you incredibly sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:59 PM
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By men, because we don't live in fairyland. Our actions have consequences and we know this. >you’re allergic to like 95% of the food there Do you not see just how incredibly sexist this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:51 PM
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How's the methodology flawed and conclusions wrong? Here's a scientific method proving the existence of hypergamy. If hypergamy exists in real life, it exists in the online space. Feel free to post scientific studies disproving this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:50 PM
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I'm not going to, because you're arguing in bad faith. Plenty of charts, graphs and links have been posted over the years. It's like asking evidence that 1+1=2. Sure, I can prove it but anyone asking this is only doing so to waste time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:48 PM
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LMFAO what world do you live in? Are you serious right now? Just the fact that the majority of users on online dating apps are men creates an implicit imbalance, and that doesn't even account for the rampant hypergamy going on right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:46 PM
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Above their league in looks, subpar in character. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:46 PM
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Pickier in what aspect?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:39 PM
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When men marry gold diggers or formerly promiscuous women and the marriage inevitably blows up in their faces, they too are told that they should have chosen better. In fact, women don't have any excuses in this regard because they have a buffet of choices whereas men typically have to settle down with what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:39 PM
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There is plenty of evidence for this. Seriously, are you going to argue that online dating is fair and balanced for most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:37 PM
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Women are free to choose whoever they want. They also have to live with the consequences of their choices. That is all this argument boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:36 PM
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I don't care what women choose, it's their choice and they're free to choose whoever they want. If our advice, which is to choose better men (better in character and virtue, not better in looks or money), falls on deaf ears - so be it. But they have to live with the consequences of the people they choose instead of blaming the men who were not chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:35 PM
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You're arguing semantics. Do men not have a monopoly on physical force? And it is true. Women control the dating market. The gini coefficient of tinder is 0.58. That means there's higher inequality than 95% of countries - this is just one example. They also control society by and large without taking any actual responsibility for it. The patriarchy 100% exists but it only benefits women with what you people like to term as "benevolent sexism." For 99% of men, the patriarchy only gives them respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:21 PM
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Women don't go for their true matches either, now it's suddenly a problem if men do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:10 PM
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Women hold all the power and leverage when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:09 PM
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Ignoring the obvious bluepill advice, many if not most couples meet online these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:09 PM
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You seem to have no problem beating down on incels on this subreddit though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:07 PM
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How does one come up with such hypotheticals?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:07 PM
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No? If the juice is not worth the squeeze, why would we continue squeezing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:14 PM
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Because most guys lack options?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:12 PM
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