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| 3 | The problem with dating advice today is that people are seen as trophies rather than investmentsIt all depends on what you desire and value in life. Sure starting a family is really important to you maybe certain things about your partner don't matter as long as they're a suitable father/mother for your kids. Problem is a lot of men and women don't want family, they want a romantic connection. If I don't find my partner attractive there isn't anything to gain from investing time into them. You shouldn't expect your partner to change and get better. It's not your job to fix them. You should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for people to lower their standards through therapy?This isn't an issue a therapist can solve. It's a complex problem of supply and demand. Men and women are attracted to each other for a variety or reasons and that attraction is rarely something you can just change on a fly. You can't gas light yourself into liking someone you don't find attractive. If you do you'll end up very bitter and miserable and likely cause a lot of harm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?Nothing to do with feminism or women's opinions really. The way I see it matching up every man and woman in society is an increasingly complex math problem without a solution and when people are trying to help the only thing they can think of is telling people to lower their standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:19 PM |
| 1 | “I’ll take Anyone at this Point”I've thought about this quite often but tbh not really. From my own experience the longer I go being single the more comfortable I get being alone. Don't get me wrong I feel a ton of angst and desire to be with a woman but that's the thing. It's desire to be with someone I find attractive, not a desire to not be alone. I've always put work into making new friends and maintaining my social life so I don't feel lonely. I've always got someone to talk to. Most times when I go on dates and a girl wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:00 PM |
| 3 | “I’ll take Anyone at this Point”I'm stubborn as hell and would rather be single indefinitely than date someone I will resent and never feel desire for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itIn a way this is like saying those who aren't alcoholics aren't just because they haven't drank as many bottles of liquor as alcoholics. Just because hookup culture is enjoyable doesn't mean it's healthy. Like with drugs and habits there will always people who are less self indulgent. Ultimately the guys who have the ability to hookup with any girl but don't are the most well rounded and desirable partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:21 PM |
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