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Can you elaborate why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:51 PM
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So is it also wrong for women do have general physical preferences for a boyfriend or husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:49 AM
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Can you tell me why my chances are very very low? This really sucks to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:23 AM
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Major flaw is a bit dramatic don’t you think? But I am short and have social handicaps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:15 AM
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Why does he not have the right to have personal dating preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:58 AM
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25 and I haven’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:46 AM
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Because I’m insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:40 AM
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This is false
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:39 AM
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Yes we are talking about age 30 or late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:32 AM
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Of course he should be more polite and graceful when talking about others to his date but I don’t think the line of thinking is problematic. women say this every single day on Reddit and it is perfectly acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:26 AM
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Why do you think it is a sign of being closeted?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:24 AM
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What standards would be a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:22 AM
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While that is an arrogant way to say it, what if it is not mutual but it is because he is just not attracted to her whether that’s because of her appearance or lifestyle or character? Is a man allowed to reject a woman if he isn’t attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:20 AM
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Ok yeah you shouldn’t phrase it that way, but rewording it will still express the same sentiment- some people were interested but we weren’t right for each other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:16 AM
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How is there not? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:15 AM
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I mean I’m not going to date a very out of shape poor uneducated woman when I have a workout routine, am not unattractive beyond my height, and am educated with professional potential and financially secure So yes there are woman I’m not willing to settle down with are you suggesting men should just date any woman who gives them attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:10 PM
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Where did you get the idea I am doing that? Average woman = vastly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:11 PM
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That’s not true. A man can be charming enough to obtain a second date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:25 AM
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Ok thanks for the clarification. I would say if a man has had issues attracting any woman at all well into his 30s then it’s very likely an appearance issue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:31 PM
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Can you explain what was off putting about their personality/ behavior? Like did they behave in a self centered or cringe-worthy fashion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:06 PM
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It doesn’t have to be his face. He can be good looking but off putting due to poor social skills so not attract any one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:49 PM
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Then why can’t I find one woman who wants me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:45 PM
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Ok then I didn’t mean to attribute that sorry. But part of the reason men invest more time is because they logistically have to. If they don’t they will die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:20 PM
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I don’t watch porn and never consumed it I prefer romance stories… but if the porn is ethically produced there’s nothing wrong with watching it. 1/3 of porn consumers are women If a man is friend zoned by a woman he finds attractive he is entitled to feel hurt and feel frustrated by that. How is that something appalling? It’s normal to want intimacy with a romantic partner. Women also want sex. It kind of sounds like you just think male heterosexuality is dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:08 PM
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Plenty of men don’t watch porn or spam profiles and harass Sounds like you just detest men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:01 PM
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Doesn’t really logically follow through That also sounds like a crass generalization but guess it’s ok to do to men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:55 PM
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Does being very masculine really matter? Does being nerdy really matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:51 PM
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Yes, while I’m continually working on myself I like to think I don’t fit the portrait of the slovenly basement dwelling man child in mom’s basement
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:43 PM
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And what is the underlying issue? They are ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:38 PM
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Disagree. I’ve been told by other men I should model due to my face. All I get is rejection from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:34 PM
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Because of no preselection?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:30 PM
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I understand. I think it would just have to be a shift in mindset on my part and of course if I got into a relationship with a woman I will prioritize her and express my love for her Concern two isn’t applicable to me. I wouldn’t ever look elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:22 PM
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What if what has held them back is just they are awkward conversing with women? So didn’t generate any interest from women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:46 PM
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Why 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:19 PM
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Nope, I have asked women and had some success, just never made it past 2nd date. It is a social skills issue likely or I’m actually ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:03 PM
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You mean they just don’t exude any sex appeal no matter the actions they take? Do you think someone at 25 can change course?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:01 PM
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What if the reason is nobody wanted us for reasons we can’t quite discern other than we are a bit awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:05 AM
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Someone else said 20s as you are supposed to date in your teens
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:45 AM
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You really think there are dwindling socially acceptable places to ask out women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:34 AM
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This is just false. I have been told I should model because of my jawline and cheekbones and have never had a girlfriend in my life and very very few women have expressed romantic interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:05 AM
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They didn’t give me much advice. I didn’t talk about my problems with girls with them, and I still don’t talk about my issues with girls with them. I was just embarrassed to let them know I sucked with girls so I didn’t want to talk about it. My father never really asked me about girls or dating. I think he presumed correctly girls wouldn’t be into me. My stepfather did ask are you dating anyone but I just dismissed it whenever he brought it up because I was too embarrassed to talk about it, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:57 AM
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What if they have a very strong drive but haven’t been able to find a partner that meets their standards to be intimate with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:48 AM
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Yes all four of my parents were present. I had decent family support. Very lonely in high school, didn’t attend prom and not many extracurriculars like a loser I attended grad school and college and those were less lonely. I was engaged in internships and hung out with other guys… and went on dates but no relationship. Never really formed a social circle honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:44 AM
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No nor in grad school. I did hook up for the first time in January of this year with a much older woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:01 AM
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Haha I did attend college
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:57 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:46 AM
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It’s accurate no? Men who can’t attract attractive women are losers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:51 AM
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It’s mean to say that men who can’t attract women are losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:21 PM
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Oh ok I see, you’ve never dated basement dwelling losers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:29 PM
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It’s much more prevalent. Well I am not a man who is solely seeking sex and I would hope there are others like me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:42 PM
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Why are you disgusted by fetishes? What if it’s not something weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:33 PM
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What about a man who paid for custom erotica in the past particular to his kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:32 PM
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How would any woman find out this guy did that? Specially if he only did it once
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:31 PM
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Maybe get off dating apps, just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:30 PM
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Why not? It’s part of his sexual past. He needs to be honest and she deserves to know, so she can determine honestly whether to leave a man who frankly did something completely disgusting and abhorrent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:30 PM
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No you haven’t listened to the right men yet. A lot of us want companionship. We don’t care as much about sex. We want a bond and intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:28 PM
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What if there exist men who seek companionship and a deeper connection? This just sounds like a stereotype and it’s pathetic to read
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:23 PM
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Why not? I have been too shy to ask out women other than on apps, and even then on apps I didn’t get far beyond second dates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:59 PM
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What about hairstyles?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:12 AM
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Can you tell me some ways an average person could improve their attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:48 AM
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Lilith id like to know more about the guy with the disability. Did he have damaged vocal cords and wasn’t able to talk audibly? Though I have a masters and was working at a well established company, I have a similar disability. I have a quiet voice because of damaged vocal cords and I can’t talk audibly in a lot of settings
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:26 PM
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You need to compensate for your height. It’s just what to have to do as a short guy. Become wealthy, become fit, become talented. Don’t whine, put in the work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:29 PM
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Do you think it’s possible for every man to be physically attractive to many women? Do you think if men, collectively- got manicured haircuts, engaged in skin care routines, wore scents, adopted a stylish fashion sense, built muscularity through regular workouts, and took care of their teeth and grooming, that every man could be physically desirable to many women? Or do you believe there are some men who just aren’t going to be physically attractive and hot to anyone no matter how much effort th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:45 AM
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Then why don’t men ask women out? Why is it considered taboo to ask a woman out?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:06 AM
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I am applying for jobs everyday. I have never been in a relationship ever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:44 AM
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I am moving cities and have no job
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:39 AM
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Most women Do NOT hope more men approached them. It is not advisable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:38 AM
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What is a “below average” woman to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:34 AM
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what are you saying? Men are not approaching and it’s a good thing. They aren’t attempting to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:34 AM
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Most average men shouldn’t approach women. It’s not welcomed and rightfully so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:33 AM
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I have NO friends!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:32 AM
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This is not a good idea, in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:26 AM
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Exactly. Men need to stop!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:25 AM
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Where did you approach? Women generally don’t wish to be bothered by men making advances
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:09 AM
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What are some places besides the ones you listed where traditionally social interaction is expected?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:57 AM
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Yes my stepfather and mother actually met on match when I was a baby, but otherwise no they met at work and other places
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:56 AM
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I’ve met all the women I’ve dated off of dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:49 AM
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Ok perhaps my post was too narrow. I would say most times when you don’t have anything in common, approaching isn’t a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:47 AM
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Yes but even being polite and trying to strike up conversation, I still think most women would rather you leave them be and go about your day. You visit spiritual centers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:43 AM
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It’s realistic though. Where did you meet these women you talked to out of the blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:35 AM
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It definitely was more practiced years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:33 AM
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You’re being facetious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:12 AM
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Ok so Dallas is just more active overall. I read in the Sac subreddit that Sacramento was rated one of the worst Us cities to date. Wouldn’t surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:51 PM
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180 degrees warmer or 180 degrees colder and lacking in options?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:40 PM
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It’s Sacramento California
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:14 AM
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It’s Sacramento California
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:14 AM
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Please share them with me. I don’t live in Dallas. I’m from Sacramento
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:14 AM
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Do you think there has been an active push to limit the scope of acceptable places to meet people?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:16 AM
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Be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:55 AM
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There are no singles events being advertised that I see, and I live in a city of 500,000+. Weird because I have seen YouTube videos of women in like Dallas or Austin Texas or Atlanta claiming that no men attend singles events. Wish I could go to one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:27 AM
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And also what is a singles event? If I could find a singles event even if I had to pay for attendance, I would gladly go? Where do I find them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:30 AM
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What is the best OLD app in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:30 AM
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That’s awesome! I’m happy for you that you met a guy you seem to quite compatible with on an interest based level
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:17 AM
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Ooh do you mind sharing more about the bookstore meet cute stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:04 AM
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What if he doesn’t have a big circle? Would that be a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:49 PM
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Where exactly are you going on Facebook to meet men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:03 PM
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Someone who is both caring and career driven
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:25 PM
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Literally no struggling man you’ve talked to has engaged in any self improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:43 PM
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Why do you think no struggling man has done this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:05 PM
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I’m aware of that. My question wasn’t limited to education
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:54 AM
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And what exactly are the standards women are setting for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:18 AM
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What do you believe is necessary? I’m listening
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:54 AM
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Could you please clarify what you mean by it being a relatively recent phenomenon? And giving it 20 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:42 AM
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This is tragically beautifully written. Genuinely bringing me to tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:33 AM
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I don’t think men should be dating until they get their life together
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:01 PM
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Most men are average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:37 PM
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Poor men who date successfully are the exception. Most poor men aren’t fucking anyone except their hands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:07 PM
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You have anecdotes or data to back that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:05 PM
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Most broke men aren’t on women’s radar. Women want men who are financially well-off, they don’t put out for broke losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:57 PM
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Broke men don’t get pussy. Come on this is standard knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:52 PM
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Your attitude is so goddamn unattractive, Jesus. You aren’t entitled to fat women’s attention. They can go for men who actually find them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:09 PM
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What do you mean exist solely to make someone look better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:59 AM
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What if no women are attracted to you? Are all women just out of your league?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:45 AM
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What if he can’t even pull them? He can’t pull anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:44 AM
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What are your criteria for putting effort into your appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:29 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:02 PM
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Yes I’ve tried to. I rarely get matches and the first or second dates I have gotten haven’t led beyond that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:52 PM
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Fair enough. I have tight shirts but I tend not to wear baggy pants because I like clothes that hug my body. I alternate between tighter blue gray and black jeans. I recently have been cutting my hair shorter I’ll look into 2024 styles
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:58 PM
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How so? Ok then what can I change?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:43 PM
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It’s in response to obvious_smoke6633 comment about men who just put in effort to their appearance will get women talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:09 PM
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No I’m saying the average man is not ugly. He is ok looking. I am average and I am ok looking Most men aren’t below average. Do you have proof other than your subjective opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:04 PM
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Am I a 2? I posted my picture in another thread and have never had a partner. I genuinely want to know. I’ve never really had anyone interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:55 PM
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This is false. Most men are average. I posted a picture of myself below and I am an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:45 PM
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Am I below average?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:19 PM
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I’m average and it doesn’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:04 PM
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I can tell you I am at least average looking and I try to dress well- tight fit sweaters, nice shoes, styled hair and wear cologne and it doesn’t make a difference. I will add a picture just as long as nobody doxes me <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:54 PM
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Do you have data to make your claim credible? All the men in my graduate program would disagree with you. I have a grad degree, have disposable savings, and secured a good entry level job, and other than being short I’ve been told I’m good looking, and I’ve pretty much given up because it’s just too much effort for too few successes. In 2021 I was able to secure multiple dates in a week from an app and I’m not sure what happened now. Like I seriously don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:45 PM
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What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:48 AM
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That is one lie. Successful men clearly care about a woman’s career
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:59 AM
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I’m debating that feminist women are objectively better to date for men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:31 AM
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They are not synonymous but they are highly correlated. More education usually means you are more career driven
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:23 AM
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This is just … I don’t have words. Being highly career driven does not make a woman masculine. Men who prefer educated and career focused women are less likely to want children so they don’t need her to fulfill the maternal role.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:17 AM
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Why are women who are highly career driven a turn off to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:12 AM
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Do you think I’m dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:05 AM
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That’s a ridiculous thing to ask on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:03 AM
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Are you joking with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:01 AM
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Why do you believe it’s hard to find?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:58 AM
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Yes it does. That is my experience too on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:55 AM
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If you could expand on your experience, I’d love that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:45 AM
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How do other men not understand this? Women choosing their careers and education is because they want to advance for themselves, it has nothing to do with dating standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:33 AM
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Seriously, I know my struggle with finding a woman is a me problem so I’m actively working on it. It’s almost always a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:29 AM
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Is that really true though? Do most feminist women actually swear off male companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:19 AM
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Why do you think you can’t attract anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:18 AM
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Sounds like a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:17 AM
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I mean ordinary feminist women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:13 AM
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I often read about feminist women who say they are seeking a man who can express his emotions well and be empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:12 AM
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There are still plenty of feminist or “modern” women who care less about those expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:10 AM
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Even if you go alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:15 AM
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Why resign yourself only to corporate law?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:18 AM
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If you don’t mind me asking, what’s your high income field
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:19 AM
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What do you do for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:42 AM
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I live in one of the most expensive metro areas of the country, so that skews salary
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:00 PM
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Bay Area of California
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:30 PM
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Do you earn a lot of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:52 PM
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Like they don’t have a job and aren’t trying to secure one and have no educational plans
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:34 PM
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Most Gen z are making great money and can afford their own place and trips
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:28 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:37 PM
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Does not living paycheck to paycheck put me above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:47 PM
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Reddit subs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:40 PM
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So the average income is broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:34 PM
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Same! Woman with her own income combined with mine would be UMC household
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:29 PM
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You are not living in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:50 PM
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A lot of women my age (Gen z) do not want a family or to have children Many women aren’t trad, they want to be DINK like me Anyway you don’t get to dictate what standards I should have. Period. If I want a woman who is career focused like I am, it’s perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:44 PM
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Are you in your 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:41 PM
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Another commenter here says wanting a woman who works makes you “effeminate” and you shouldn’t have any standards for a woman you date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:39 PM
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So it’s not ok for men to have any standards for the women they date- they should just take them at their worst ? Real men don’t have standards for women right? Even if he’s stable, has a good career, and is talented he should be happy to date a broke drug addict who will freeload off him? Is that what you’re saying? If he’s not happy to date that woman, he’s not a real man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:37 PM
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Most people my age easily have 100k+ saved, so I don’t know what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:33 PM
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I mean the qualities I listed in my post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:32 PM
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It’s effeminate to not want a freeloader and want a partner with an actual career?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:29 PM
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Depends if you meet those women’s standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:28 PM
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If she is in her mid 20s I’d expect her to have a career, her own place, and be able to afford trips like most people my age
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:25 PM
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Yes some do. If you can’t afford to support her and buy her many lavish gifts, to those women you aren’t a real man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:23 PM
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You are a university student who presumably has student loan debt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:21 PM
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I’m a man, this question is for other men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:16 PM
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I’m not broke
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:14 PM
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Do you actually think who you described counts as broke? Broke is having zero money and no plan to lift yourself out of this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:02 AM
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Numerous observations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:00 AM
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Most women are highly ambitious and have well paying jobs in their field
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:59 AM
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Then you are in no place to want a woman without debt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:26 AM
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70k isn’t elite it’s damn near average, even pretty below average in a number of Us cities
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:26 AM
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Why does it matter if she’s broke if you wish to get married versus just being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:24 AM
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Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:18 AM
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I am 25 too. I am not married yet. Do you think I am behind for my age? Though I have a car and I will have a full time job soon that’s WFH twice a week Also what do you mean by “at least”? Like what is the reasonable expectation you have for a mid 20s women’s employment situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:17 AM
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You HAVE to be joking. This is just false. Most young women nowadays earn well over 70k.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:16 AM
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No single parents can be broke but aren’t automatically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:04 AM
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No, most women aren’t broke nor drowning in debt. Lol. Most are making a great income and have professional careers, and are highly ambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:01 AM
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Dude it’s more or less common in many big cities in America for men to have savings their own place and education. Go to Seattle, Austin, Denver, Philadelphia, Raleigh… most young adults have this. It’s pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:46 PM
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No it’s not strange. Some of us want a partner who matches us in ambition and social status
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:39 AM
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No I can’t agree. I live in the California San Francisco area and there is an abundance of high earning ambitious men in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:09 AM
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Do you think there’s a minority of wealthy/ UMC Men who would be open to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:57 AM
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Do you think middle class professional men care as well? Or are less likely to care than UMC and wealthy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:40 AM
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That I think negatively of them? When did I ever say that? I never said anything judgmental to them outright
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:10 AM
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Nope. I have. Multiple. They generally think the men who place value in class and education are elitist and classist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:04 AM
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Why do you think those middle class men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:01 AM
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I mean I’ve talked to women who think it’s judgmental and shallow for a man to want a woman who has a certain education level or financial situation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:45 PM
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Do you think it’s ok for me as a man with a masters who works at a good company with no debt to care about or value a woman with ambition and who is career oriented?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:40 PM
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Is a full time job where he works overtime productive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:37 PM
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Do you think it’s wrong for a man to care about how much money a woman makes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:50 PM
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There’s plenty of poorer men you could choose from. Just admit you want a man better than you and care about how much money he has
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:47 PM
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No men don’t make more income than women, even on average. I don’t know where you’re getting that. You can’t be serious. Plenty of high powered career women in NYC make more than a warehouse worker in Indiana
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:45 PM
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What does he do for a living? So you’ve wanted a man who makes a superior income to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:41 PM
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Do you make money? Are you financially well off?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:31 PM
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Why is it so important to you to attract a man who earns 700k+? Don’t you think what you desire is kind of unrealistic given your own financial situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:34 PM
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Then you must not be in contact with the right men because so many men I know myself included have masters, savings, and a career plan
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:33 PM
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Just letting you know most financially prosperous men don’t want to date women who freeload off them. They date women of a similar ambition and social class. Not saying you’re doing this, but there are a number of women who want that lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:27 PM
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What is that level of income? Why would a financially prosperous guy want to pay for a woman’s extravagant lifestyle? What does she offer him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:22 PM
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Are you serious? Do you seriously think most guys don’t have a job or aren’t looking one? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:21 PM
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I don’t want children ever, perhaps that’s why I think differently
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:40 PM
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Why don’t ambitious guys need them? I am an ambitious guy. I am looking for new ways to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:38 PM
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Being perceived attractive is highly dependent on the woman you approach
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:34 PM
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Most women nowadays tell us explicitly they don’t want to be approached at non social locations or to just use the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:32 PM
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So you’d be perfectly ok with a man approaching you at a rooftop restaurant or lounge? The city I’m moving to is full of them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:31 PM
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Is there a problem with women being over 30? They can still be sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:30 PM
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Do you think it is warranted for a man who is clean, dresses well, educated with a good career to have higher standards for the woman he wants to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:25 AM
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What type of man are you referring to who feels entitled to a 10/10 model ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:20 AM
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So is it wrong for men to reject women for any Reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:16 AM
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Windmill do you think men should lower their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:13 AM
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I’m an almost 25 year old man who will be working at a large size firm making an above average salary. Is that a good enough financial situation for most women? I don’t really have any standards for women I date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:10 AM
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Well dating is incredibly competitive since everyone is very wealthy- everyone makes well over 200k Women expect wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:16 AM
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I live in the Bay Area, you don’t need to tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:10 AM
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I am quite short, yes, but I’ve been told I should model you’re good looking etc a number of times now Being short doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:19 PM
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So what are you concluding? That a man in LA or NYC needs to make > 500k to ever have hope of attracting a girlfriend? That women are that insanely hypergamous that unless a man makes top .8% he isn’t dating material? Also 250k is not the average total comp in marketing even in LA. I don’t know where you got that stat. That seems inaccurate- it’s more like 100-150k Tech and finance maybe but not marketing You can say it’s not uncommon, but saying 250k is average for professionals is just false s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:00 PM
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So my personality is just terrible? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:06 AM
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Yes I try to and I’ve been able to make women laugh… but I admit I’m a bit awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:48 AM
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Well I’ve actually tried and rejection from women of every attractiveness level is my dating experience. Tbh I’m not focusing on dating right now due to looking for a job. I don’t think a man should date when he is unemployed, so getting a consistent income is a priority for me right now before I try to attract women again. I don’t think I’m that cringe or boring, I’ve been able to hold conversations fairly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:26 AM
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You don’t think a guy can be good looking and have zero success/ be single well into his 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:21 AM
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No. I don’t think so. I’ve been on first dates. Women just aren’t interested in me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:20 AM
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I have been told I should model multiple times and I cannot get a partner to save my life. 25 soon and never been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:12 AM
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What if the guy is objectively good looking and can’t attract?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:09 AM
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I am objectively above average facially and I cannot get a partner to save my life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:55 AM
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That’s a high income period in America. You can’t be serious. It’s top 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:16 AM
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