Heavybluecrab Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
99	Got cheated on, feel like a simp.		Heavybluecrab	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/24 12:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Today I broke down Brother I’ve been where you are and also felt how it feels to suddenly be nothing to them. Hate to say it mate, she’s having an affair. It’s not hormones, it’s new dick and tingles/feelings. It’s enough to fuck your kids lives up (and their dads). It’s the most selfish shit ever, but you can’t do or say anything cos you’ll be judged on it. Leave bro, say nothing and only show emotions when alone or around trusted friends or family. Much love and hope you’re all good.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/25 12:01 PM
2	STBXW just hit me with a double whammy. Said she filed for divorce and she’s had a boyfriend for the past two months. Plans to introduce him to my daughter soon. Can’t do anything about it bro. Sluts always intro kids quick, I think they need to believe the man their fucking is a good guy and will also love their child to justify blowing up a family. You know who else cares apart from you, your family and maybe your close friends - no one. Her friends will encourage it, the courts don’t consider it. She’ll portray it to them as some sort of euphoria of family happiness. This guys a simp, playing family for some snatch. Any self respecting guy would hold …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/24 03:45 AM
12	I don’t know who needs to hear this other than me 100% brother. Same thing every fucken time.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/24 11:55 PM
1	Anyone have kids that went off the rails after divorce? Brother I agree 100%. When I get into a rage, I just tell myself, control what you can control. She wants to be a dirty home wrecker, I can’t change that. But fuck it’s hard sometimes when the kids are paying for it.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/24 11:29 AM
1	Anyone have kids that went off the rails after divorce? Yeah probably, I don’t care what happens between them, the damage is done on the kids front. Just so fucken selfish.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/24 04:57 AM
3	Anyone have kids that went off the rails after divorce? I’m 2.5yrs out from being cheated and kids mum is also living with AP who left his wife and kid. This selfishness enrages me, how ppl can live with themselves and watch the fallout amazes me.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/24 04:47 AM
2	If you think your ex-wife moved on quickly Ok well that’s a completely different story to the original post. And had these details been included, I’d be nothing but supportive. Sounds like you went through it, hope you’re doing better. I think you’ll find this forum includes a lot of men who wanted to keep their family together and have been pretty heavily fucked over by a combination of either by cheating, the family court, child support, alimony custody… the list goes on. The incel and language references, don’t care enough to argue.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/24 07:21 AM
14	If you think your ex-wife moved on quickly Bro seriously think about this post. Fucking someone isn’t like taking a drag of a cig or a pint. Unless she’s an enormous slut wholl bang a complete stranger, she’s managed to get to know someone well enough to fuck them, at the same time of leaving the love of her life and grieving. Complete bullshit	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/24 12:39 PM
27	If you think your ex-wife moved on quickly Victim Forced to fuck a new guy Standard	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/24 12:24 PM
7	Out of no where, atleast for me Either got dick already, or needs to rack it now cos dick is coming in hot and she needs to believe there’s separation. Most likely co worker.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/24 11:51 AM
8	Its never enough. 100% cheating and now re writing history to justify. This story was exactly me 3yrs ago and I stupidly didn’t think she could do that, but like so many here, was very wrong.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/24 04:48 PM
1	How many of you moved to a new city/state to start over completely fresh? Fuck I love my kids so much and have em 50/50, but sometimes I fantasise about not being sucked in to having kids with the dirty slut so I could be free to live where I please	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/24 10:48 AM
1	Waves of sadness Bro I spent three months like this. Never thought it would end, but slowly you cry and have bouts of grief less and less. Don’t be surprised if there’s someone else she seeing, being that sudden. Stay strong mate.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/24 08:46 AM
5	I told myself I would not keep trying to understand but pain is hitting deep today… I think the words said post the discovery of cheating fuck us up more than the discovery because they reveal how this person who you thought was your caring wife, doesn’t give a fuck about you and wants only one thing, to leave and get that new dick.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/24 05:53 AM
14	She says she is no longer attracted to me and we have never been sexually compatible, um, what? That’s cos she’s got a new dick mate. She’ll be the victim in this very soon. Best to stop communicating	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/24 01:53 PM
3	Ex Bringing Daughter Around Other Men Brother that comment hits home, I also remember when first happened and feelings hopelessness, rage, sadness and anxiety all mixed in one fucked up package. Takes a lot of time to accept there’s nothing that can be done and to focus on yourself. God I’m glad I’m past these feelings but I also feel so bad for OP and all the other blokes out there dragging themselves through this.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/24 08:41 AM
4	How do I move on? Mine was like OP, copped a ILYBNILWY, week later checked her FB, she was fucking a married bloke at work. They still together 2.5yrs later. He lives with her and is around kids all the time. I finally got 50/50. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever dealt with. I was with her for 17yrs. MIL told me I’m a son, brothers in law, told me I’m a brother. They all dropped me off the radar once she started lying. Now she’s on a vendetta with the school mums. They started ignoring me mid last yr. I knew it in…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/24 02:39 PM
3	How do I move on? Yeah sure is. My advice is based on how fucken stupid I was and my unawareness of the situation. Once i found out the truth, I made every mistake possible. I hope that commenting with advice on some blokes going through the same shit, its help them a little, I sure could’ve used it.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/24 02:06 PM
9	How do I move on? Ilybnilwy = I found a new dick that I love more than you. Disregard the 10,15,20yrs you stood by me, your about to become worst man on earth, I’m about to rewrite history to portray myself as a victim in this divorce. I went through the exact same thing, work affair, both married, got told ilybnilwy, when I had no idea what was going on. My advice would be, stay silent, don’t move out, divorce her whilst she’s in affair fog, try to eat, try to sleep… whatever you do, do NOT fall into the trap of…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/24 01:02 PM