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Oral sex; which is a sacrifice for the giver, should always be reciprocated. First things first: do you go down on her? If you do, then she should do the same.
/r/RPChristians29/10/20 08:51 PM
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Let a middle aged married lady with three daughters and lots of life experience help you out, here. Date your own age. The truth is: men like them younger generally, but women like them the same age. I was shocked to find my attractions to men changed over the years: when I was 20 something I never thought I’d like someone older, but then when I was 30 the 30 somethings looked good, at 40 the 40 somethings looked good....hope you get the idea, and good luck. This is how most women are geared.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 06:24 AM
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You sort of contradict yourself when you say a high value male is “someone with options who can afford to be selective” and then say that man may have to approach 1000 women for 100 to be interested. As a mature woman who’s been married awhile and is raising daughters, I know a few things. I’m pointing out that your “high value male” scenario isn’t what all high value women are actually looking for. I know for a fact that the more handsome, rich, built and cut a man becomes, the cockier he becom…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 07:20 PM
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Wow. So now I know we are supposed to be perfect; but what are you bringing to the table? Have you thought about what we want, what we look for in a man? Short answer: height is less important than love and respect, a man who is comfortable with himself, who likes it when we make his lunch but isn’t going to pout if we had to feed the baby during lunch making time. Sounds like you’re more interested in a mommy who looks like an 18 year old than a true partner.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 09:16 PM
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Yeah they often get fat and lose their hair. I don’t mind that this happened to my husband, but he’s not better looking at 49 than he was at 35. Not by a long shot. :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 10:42 PM
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Love the post. I used this advice when I quit drinking at age 47. I was going through quite a midlife crisis and still relying on looks for my self worth, still wanting my husband to respond to me through my looks, and he did still. But when I sobered up, it was that soft wisdom, peace, and comfort with self I was seeking. Nearing 50, I wanted to be a graceful zen older mother figure for all, not the drunk, careless grasping midlife woman. Still really like making sure I look good though, lol. I…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 04:06 AM
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I understand plenty: I’m of the feminine persuasion, married 24 years and not a submissive bone in my body. :) what many don’t understand is: we let men THINK we are submissive to make them happy, but if we were actually that way, everything would fall apart. ;).
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 06:28 AM
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“Feminine” does not equal “doormat.”
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 02:41 AM
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Hey I love this message! I was smirking at first but when you got to the part about focusing on the meaningful and rewarding parts of life instead of focusing on male approval I was so here for it :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/20 04:55 PM
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Also: for the women here looking for men: there are some incredibly wonderful men out there. Men who care deeply about women and love women, men who are kind, intelligent, intuitive, insightful, and have so much to offer you in terms of home, family, long term happiness, traditional roles, commitment and fun. My mom was married to my dad, who is a doctor, for 62 years. He did not have rock hard abs but she had a charmed life. Any man out there who puts too much focus on looks, size of your vagin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 04:23 PM
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I’m sorry, I don’t really care about the size of your penis at all, just pointing out that there are different sizes of men and women, and that the women who are cave-like due to whatever reason can tighten up to a sleeve completely at orgasm. If that’s not helpful to you in your personal life, that’s fine. Although I do wonder why a man is in a woman’s subreddit, especially since you are hammering home some sort of hopeless point that OP can’t do anything about it? It’s not true that nothing ca…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 04:09 PM
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Lol oh sweetie, I’ve been married 23 years. Of course there are size differences and if you have a smaller penis you will fit better with a smaller vagina. I’m pointing out here that if you can help your woman have an orgasm and she is in good shape in the lower body (does lots of weighted squats or other heavy lower body workouts) she will close so tight on the penis during orgasm you’ll have trouble extricating it from her. A woman’s body is a perfect engine. It knows how to please a man, as l…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 10:29 AM
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Because you don’t know how to make them cum
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 02:13 AM
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The vagina tightens with undulating rings of muscle contractions during orgasm. When men don’t get us there they don’t experience the feeling of a very tight vagina during orgasm. Although it takes patience and time for a woman to get there and sometimes it’s easy just to let them in early. I often don’t really give him the time to get me there. Just saying that if they work to make it happen for you, you’ll be tight at that time. Also, masturbate often. It helps tone and tighten the vagina over…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 02:11 AM
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The thing that bothers me about a 19 year old and a 27 year old is that some 19 year old men and women do have some depth and maturity, as well as some education and experience and despite their youth may have had quality parents and upbringing. But that 27 year old person is unlikely to see you as anything but a child and can easily believe you are only good for sex. This diminishes your worth. Date another nice young man with education and morals who is 19-24 and that man will see you more as …
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 10:14 PM
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Hi, I’m more of a red pill lurker (although I’ve been married for 23 years). I just wanted to support your decision to draw your boundaries. I think it’s important for all of us women to know where our boundaries are and stick by them no matter what stage in life we are in. It must have been very hard to do that, as it seems your feelings are strong. This man, your friend; wouldn’t it be possible for him to make a statement, declare his commitment and marry you, despite his stage in life? Millio…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/20 05:44 AM
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You know, it may not even be dying sooner...it’s that period of convalescence that tends to tie a younger woman to the home far before her time. My mom was 10 years younger than my dad, she was happy, but there were a good 20 years between 55 and 75 where she felt great but my dad was old and tired. I suppose also...it depends on what you find sexy. :). When I was in my 20’s, I liked 20 something men. I was in college and I met many thoughtful, intelligent men my age who were really good in bed.…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 04:15 PM
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Unfortunately: men 10 years older than you can often be the kind constantly expecting a youthful face. Be with someone the same age. I like being only two years older than my husband, we see ourselves aging together. Less unsettling. As a nurse, also It may be shallow but you’ve simply got less healthy years with an older man, they end up on walkers sooner.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 03:19 PM
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Taking a trip with someone of the opposite sex, unless it’s a family member, is a romantic act. Period. Why is he not planning trips with you? I’m genuinely asking.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 11:32 PM
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