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Your ego and self esteem has taken a battering. Not surprising. You say you don't want to sleep around but I beg to differ. You want attention from women to what end? Just to smile and say "thanks"? Bollocks. You want to get your dick wet. Have some time away from the scene. Give yourself a break from all that shit (with all due respect to women, they're a fucking nightmare). Get happier in yourself and the rest will follow.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/23 08:29 AM
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If you don't want to get married, don't. Don't do it because someone else has said you should, because it won't be right and won't last. Marriage isn't for everyone and it's everything for some. Only you can decide which one you are.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 04:11 PM
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I hope he gets fucking rinsed. Bloke is a cunt
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 02:30 PM
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He's got the money to hide his shit safely, so he'll declare whatever his lawyers can't lie about.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 03:29 PM
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I mean, he can lie to me and give me $40 billion.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 06:41 AM
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The thing I've found hardest is handing my kids back like some sort of commodity. I told her once she'll never really know what it's like because she let's me have the kids, and I give them back. And it is very lonely being the only adult, you just want to talk grown up talk. It's different to interacting with kids. It was once described to me perfectly; you're like a balloon. When the kids are with you, you're full of love and boyant. When they go back, you're just deflated and shitty. It does …
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/23 07:18 AM
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I slipped my ex wife one, about 6 months after we'd broke. Mark my words, it's absolutely fucks with your head. There were no feelings from her side but it felt like I stood a chance of reconciliation. It was the weirdest sex I'd ever had - not a stranger but someone I loved deeply who didn't feel the same (well, at least it didn't seem like that). I spiraled in a big, big way and went into a dark place. Steer clear mate. For your own good.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 08:26 AM
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I kept getting accused of cheating. My biggest regret is not doing so.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 12:01 PM
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She was single when she slept with the other dude. Same way you're free to shag whoever you want, she is. It happens when divorce happens, at least yours waited till being divorced. Mine waited less than 2 weeks of me moving out the house. Sounds to me like you're entering the stages of grief. The relationship with your ex, also sounds toxic. You need to move forward and not look back. It ended for a reason and getting back together and remarrying is a ridiculous notion because it'll just end up…
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 06:46 AM
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Find yourself a lady friend and stay with her a few nights a week.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 08:07 AM
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I regret allowing the marriage to be so fucking toxic and not working through the issues we clearly had. I genuinely believe we loved each other very, very deeply but both did tit for tat stuff that just continued the vicious cycle of shit.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 06:30 AM
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Apparently the worst thing I did, was take my name off the property we were renting together (where I earned the money and paid for 6 months up front). I was also renting a different flat on my own and didn't really think I should have been responsible for two different properties. I even got messages from her mum asking if I was happy to know my kids could end up homeless - she didn't appreciate me saying "her child would be homeless, not mine because they could come and live with me for as lon…
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/23 12:33 PM
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Question if I may. Why didn't you get yourself tested first and only tell her if something came up? I admire your honesty, but sometimes it needs to be reigned in slightly.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 08:37 AM
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My ex banged someone 2 weeks after I'd moved out. Even had the audacity to ask me round to have the kids whilst she "had a break". Would I reconcile? My dick inside her? Absolutely. Anything emotional? Hell fucking no. That ship sailed. DO NOT reconcile. Ever. Be civil and polite, but don't get back in a relationship with her. She will fuck other guys, I'll guarantee it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 09:11 PM
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You fuck someone else, lie to your boyfriend about it and then act like a victim when he does the best thing and dumps you and you want service on how to win him back? This is a wind up, surely.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/23 05:51 AM
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Hurts far, far, far worse than the snip. But got a toddler. So clearly worked.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 07:12 AM
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I've got two teenagers with my ex and a toddler with my current. I'd also had a vasectomy reversal when I first got with my current.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 05:44 AM
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We'd split up and I'd arranged to take the kids abroad for their first trip on a plane. She refused to give me their passports on the morning of the trip and said I was "too emotionally unstable". Never once had I put my children at risk, never once had I put them in harm's way, and I was going to my family's house with parents. Then she got into a relationship with the guy I know (but she's never admitted) to having an affair with.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 06:56 AM
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Someone was balls deep in her, so she had an endorphin rush.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 05:12 PM
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Dunno. We had a toxic relationship from day one, but always had great sex. So maybe it was the one thing we enjoyed about each other.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 06:08 PM
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No. Sex with my ex was exceptional. Some of the best I've had. I have great sex now, just not quite at the same level sadly.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 05:48 PM
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Sell and cut your losses. If there is money owed, she has to pay half. Same way as she'll get half of Amy profits.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 06:35 AM
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I've been divorced 6 years. I TRY and be civil with my ex for the sake of the kids, she's a cunt more often than not. Funnily enough, she ended to be with someone else, they didn't last but I'm engaged to someone else and have another baby. So maybe she's just jealous. Maybe she isn't. But she needs to be a bit more civil with me.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 06:32 AM
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Because you're caring for a child. I didn't say babysit.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 05:21 AM
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I remember when I'd just moved out of my marital home. Be split up for literally 2 weeks and my now ex wife asked me to have the kids because she wanted to have some drinks after work. No problem I thought, I was hoping that by being nice and helping her out etc, she'd want to try again. Little did I know before, but she went out to hook up with someone. Apparently the drinks had been cancelled so she wanted to have dinner "by herself". This is a woman who, even when she was struggling with the …
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/23 04:01 PM
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I miss my ex wife quite often. We've been divorced for about 5 years. She's a totally different person now and it's good to see. Then she does something and I'm back to wanting to punch her in the ovaries. You meeting her is all well and good. But tell yourself "what will I gain from doing so?". If you have a thin hope of getting back together - you split for a reason and that reason will just happen again. If you think "we had great sex and I could do it again" - that's a very, very dangerous l…
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 03:22 PM
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So you want a divorce because you're wife wanted to better herself and therefore your marriage? Mate, no offense, but you need to check yourself and go with it. If.you can't handle the fact she may possibly earn similar or more than you, then you shouldn't have said she could retrain. You're supposed to support your partner through thick and thin. You should be proud she wants to improve herself in various ways. This course may not bring her vast wealth, but it could improve her self worth and e…
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 09:26 AM
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My, now, ex wife became "friends" with one of my mates from work. Me and her didn't even work together. There were suspicions from me, that they were shagging before we split, and once we did, they ended up in a relationship. She couldn't understand why I was so fucked off with it because "who I see is non of your business". They stayed together about 2 years and I tried to not look smug when she said they'd split.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 08:02 AM
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My thing is seeing friends or family members who are in super long marriages and seem happy with each other still. My aunt and uncle have been married about 45 years. My dad's mate about 30 years. I want to feel that way.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 08:00 AM
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Sounds like my ex wife. Also called the police on me when I went round to say good bye to the kids she had banned me from taking on holiday "because of my mental health". I said "that's fine. I'll wait here and chat to them in person". Ironically, she punched me in the face a few times and threw crockery at me during rows. Yet I was the abusive one...
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 11:20 AM
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I read it. I think you made your own bed to be honest.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 10:40 AM
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You've got a girlfriend and a random bird says "you're hot" on the internet? Then the conversation turns into one of a sexual nature...she didn't send the nudes randomly dude. Come off it. Do you know how hard it is to get a woman to send photos, even when you're together. Think you need to be honest with us, and yourself, and say "we had sexy talk. I sent her a photo of my cock". You're an adult also, so unless she's underage, the police ain't gonna do shit.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 07:56 AM
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Cheers mate. Sorry if it triggered you in any way.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/21 09:45 AM
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Yeah, the mum advice is sound 🤣🤣 The thing is, I know I need to let go. But my head, for what ever reason, doesn't want to. It sucks a lot of the time. I think part of it is that the relationship was so unbelievably toxic, its a bit of an addiction. In normal every day life, I want to punch her in the throat (never would obviously) because she just takes the piss out of my good nature, and my love for the kids. I will say one thing though, to any blokes that have recently split or going through …
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/21 09:44 AM
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I have said she needs to wait a good long while. Which she's fine with.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/21 11:32 PM
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