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HedgeRunner/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:38 PM
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First it's Reddit so a lot of people are afraid to just say some plane truth. Find a woman who doesn't care about Instagram that should be like basic basic table stakes. Same standards apply to men obviously. Second having kids is very meaningful but US media make it sound like it's jumping into a volcano. So that's a huge reason to seek marriage. Third, society overall US or any other first world country do not shame delusional expectations. As long as that doesn't change its gonna be hard for …
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 08:08 PM
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Yep and it was a labeled joke out of all things. Just shows how cranky people are lmao.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 02:35 PM
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Imagine so judgmental that literally a comment with a note that says its sarcasm and you still put your moral judge hammer on it. You must be fun at parties.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 03:06 AM
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Lmao looks like I triggered a bunch of people. Funny. Reddit never disappoints man. What is funny is that if I said far right, I probably would have got a bunch of upvotes.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 03:05 AM
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I mean don’t date far left? 🤣🤣🤣 It’s a joke guys don’t be triggered :)
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 01:33 AM
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I think you can afford to be a little pushy. Like come on man, a decent girl is hard to find. You like this girl right, what is the big deal of having a adult conversatino and just explaining you messed up. Even if she says no, whatever. Also when I say a little pushy I just meant asking her if she wants to meet, not putting pressure. Good luck man.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 02:17 AM
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Just call her and explain. Doesn’t have to be complicated man.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 02:27 PM
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Well idk it doesn't seem unsavable. If you are serious about this gal, you should take her out and tell her straight up that you're gonna cut your ex-wife from your life, no more contact. No kids right so you'll be fine here. Like so many others have said, you being lazy is costing you but like don't give up on the new girl yet and please change up your situation lol. Luck mate.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 10:34 PM
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Dude, your ex-wife better be 12/10 when she was 20 or something.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 10:14 PM
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"modern feminist" these days means men are wrong 100% of the time and men should do 70%+ of the work. Any women who is on a 50/50 relationship won't ever mention that word. Dude, enjoy life man. Not dating is perfectly fine. Tons of fun shit to do with friends (both male and female)
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/25 06:42 PM
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It’s hilarious so many men thinks 30 year old men won’t sleep with 50 year olds or 60. Have you guys ever got on a dating app? 95 percent guys there never get any matches and they’re dying to get laid. Good men have self control and there definitely isn’t 95/100 good men out there 😂
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 01:33 PM
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If the ratios are 500 men v 1 women, men by definition can't be lazy. Go ask men out, stop waiting for men to approach you. These apps have made women lazy .
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 02:26 AM
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This message should be broadcasted to every man on the planet, especially if they're in NYC. Yep, the numbers are not in the men's favor and why is it so wrong to call it out? It's just simple data.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 02:23 AM
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No you're not. Basically for online dating, the ratio is 97 simps, 1 chad, 1 you, and 1 woman. Out of every 100 woman, 2 are not delusional. Men should be copy-pasta this shit everywhere but it's banned on most Reddits and most forums. At the end of the day, it's just some simple math. :)
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 07:35 PM
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Living in NYC perhaps you were blinded by how shit women treat men. Welcome to the club of seeing the truth. I don't really have any advice except that you gotta focus on 1) finding peace 2) get your shit together, and 3), do not trust women in NYC easily.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/25 04:49 AM
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LOL they are now gonna hate on you. It's just hilarious that we are actually pretty nice to women here despite this being a men's sub. Want to check out common everyday men hate, check out r/womenintech . All-year-round men hating guaranteed.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/25 12:01 AM
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Wow people really hating on this guy. What a weird sub. He is just stating a fact, not asking everyone to sleep with every divorce women you can find. Also it does not matter divorced or not, it is always significantly easier for women to find a dude to sleep with (literally can find thousands in a day) vs. the other way around.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 05:52 PM
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Talk to a lawyer but you're probably fine considering it's your Dad's money and it was given to you plus you both intent to manage finances independently. It really depends on how the law works in your state or your country and Reddit's probably not the best for that. Re dating and marriage, it sounds like you have some inane insecurities about marriage / dating. You start by saying you trust your wife and she's everything you dream of but you are crazy insecure about how she's gonna take your f…
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 03:26 PM
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I'm just a casual observer of this sub and the amount of posts I see like this is a lot..... To be clear, I'm talking about the wife moving on in 2 weeks despite having kids. I thought in America the women are suppose to be the caring and kind ones. I am NOT talkig about the age, dude that is fucked up.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 11:17 PM
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Nice try but most men, especially divorced men, have far less physical attraction standards and are pretty practical.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:59 PM
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Again this message is going to get 120x more hate on the regular divorce sub. Why are men, especially men so afraid to say this simple statement of fact. Women are way more delusional than men on dating apps because they can afford to be. This needs to be a copypasta to every man who's looking again. Note, because there's gonna be some idiots and turds, just because women are terrible on dating apps doesn't mean women are all terrible or all women on dating apps are terrible.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:51 PM
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I know everyone will say that I don’t want her back, that it’s not a good thing if she did come back around. We have been through so much together in our life. I would never have actually seen us getting to this point. She literally is my only friend and my best friend, she became my everything. I thought it was okay because we had such a great little family life together. Now I am just dreadfully alone and depressed. Dude you need to get your head straight. If your wife easily just got up and s…
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 02:12 AM
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Your other post is already removed by mods that should tell you how radical reddit women are and unfortuantely women in the dating pool these days are not that far off. There is no solution especially in big cities. You may have better luck in a smaller city or town but obviously moving to a smaller town for dating is a stupid idea. I would say just stop dating a while, spend 95% of the time on yourself and 5% understanding how to spot toxic women and you're good.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 02:02 AM
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The entire point behind the blinding hating Trump is that we should be more open to different dimensions of a candidate and not die on 1 issue. Your actual post illustrates this point as well. You're missing the forest for the trees. Was a fun discussion though. You don't think Trump is being politically prosecuted in New York? Why am I not surprised.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 06:34 PM
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You barely even read my response. You read the first few sentences and that's it lmao. I literally said I dont disagree. Yawn. Typical.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 03:43 PM
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You didn't address any of my points and just took notes from a website that's extremely left wing. The writer Robert Farley can be seen on twitter hating on how RFK J and retweeting about RFK J doing drugs. Yea totally believe-able dude. That aside your initial point is that Trump tries to overthrow the democracy and my point is that he went out of his way to stall - and yes perhaps not giving any fucks about the electoral voting process in this case. I'm not a fan of that and most moderates are…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 05:50 AM
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It's hilarious to me that everyone just blindly believes the media and argue that Trump is trying to "overthrow" the election. Even the extremely radical wikipedia article couldn't really explain how this was different from Kennedy in 1960, especially legally. Trump wanted to make sure his electors still supported him if a recount occurs. Depending on State law, some of this might be technically illegal but Trump never challenged the State court on this issue. On the flip side, Fani Willis (who …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/24 04:59 PM
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Reading the comments it’s pretty sad. Everyone’s like she’s better than Trump but can’t articulate why. Also stop looking at Reps as 1 person and look at what it represents. Dems can’t define women or men why would they ever be pro men if anyone can just be a man. 😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/24 08:11 AM
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Yep women constantly lie about it, it's a common dating joke that no women will tell you their body count yet every dude is like "Hell yea bruh sign me up". I rather be alone my entire life rather than taking a risk with someone who suddenly is in settle down mode. I know it's against the rules here but this is why I come here and tell people about it because so many men here still won't say it. Crazy mate.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 03:32 AM
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Indeeeeeed. Our culture have moved so far that men are so freaking nice to women and believe that women requires 0 accountability its insane. Personally, I don't even date girls who has had a "wild" stage. That person is just not my type and seems unserious for long-term bonding. She might even be a great person in all other areas. It's time for men to start having some standards and if women can pick on shit like dick size (lol OP) and height, then men absolutely have the right to pick on # of …
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 02:37 AM
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Agreed, and the problem is that most people in America especially in cities refuse to think. Both men and women encourage women to sleep around before marriage. Well sure, but there's a cost to that. Men get shit on 24/7 by the media and all it takes is a simple Google search to find out. WSJ just ran a hit-piece on Elon Musk dating history as if it's surprising that one of the world's richest men doesn't have women all over him. (Surprisingly it's not that many). Is there a single article of a …
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 12:30 AM
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Welcome to um redpill lmao? People hate that word but it is literally what you describe. Also, next time when a religious chick says 20-200, don’t run, bolt.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 10:18 PM
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With all respect dude, I think you’re just brainwashed. A few things to consider, in no particular order: - a 3/10 women can get 100 likes in a day in NYC. Women have significant advantage in dating. But almost no women forums talk about this at all. Every person goes “ugh dating apps so bad” - Go to TikTok and type “dating woes”. Observe how many women are complaining vs men. - At work there often groups like Women in X, but absolutely never social groups that are Men in X. -There are endless “…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/24 01:56 AM
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Yep unfortunately so few women gives any fucks about loyalty, it’s all about optionality for them.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 10:30 PM
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And we don't know which women are sneaky and emotionally damaged AF to call the police and pull a fake #metoo on us. Like, two can play this what-if game.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/24 01:02 AM
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Another good point I left out for sure - that most target of male violence is male and thus that statistic is a lot less applicable to women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/24 01:00 AM
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As if we all wouldn't sleep with loads of women if we had the opportunity. Yea as if men and women have exactly the same level of access when it comes to casual sex. Boy I wonder why men ever even get married in this day and age if they can just download Tinder and bang everybody. At the end of the day if a woman has lots of experience and chooses you, that has to be a vote of confidence, doesn't it? Absolutely mate. Women are very simple creatures. Their criteria for casual sex is 100% the same…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 03:34 AM
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I'm too lazy to type out a new answer so here's a copy pasta from one of my prev answers - men and women utilize and commit violence in different ways. Men tends to be way more physically aggressive while women play the emotional and back-stabbing games. Trying to judge 99% men by 1% men on only physical aggression is just statistically ignorant. It is absolutely ridiculous that the average female in the US thinks going on a date will get her killed or that she'll be "in danger". That's pure hog…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 02:03 AM
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Based. If every dude started to think like you and understanding very basic human behavior perhaps we’d have a lot less divorces. The number of partners your wife had starts to matter if it’s some ridiculous number like 30. And if you believe people can magically change to “family mode” you better believe that switch is two ways and people can instantly change to “Imma sleep with every dude I can cuz it’s fun “ mode.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 12:57 AM
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The fuck is wrong with people in the comments. If OP doesn't blow up this bomb now, both are gonna keep cheating and a much bigger bomb is due to blow up later. OP, you should stage an intervention and tell them you're watching them so they're actually scared to cheat and try to be good. It's that simple.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 02:00 PM
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When people talk about how men are the target for violent crimes statistically more than women, how can we solve this issue without calling out gender when the perpetrators of these crimes are mostly men? Why are men killing other men? And why are people so against calling it what it is (male violence)? When statistically, it’s AMABs (assigned male at birth) committing the most crimes. Dear lord, I've stopped reading after this. But here's some basic common sense for you - men and women utilize …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 12:37 AM
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Unfortunately we're now at a point where people straight up hate if you are not in their tribe. Reddit is ultra woke. We're accepted and encourage hating on 50% of Americans is a great thing, instead of actually finding common ground to stand together. My comment was upvoted and downvoted all over the place, that should tell you a lot. Most people can easily understand the logic I'm saying but just cannot agree with it cuz they're so afraid. Hence they downvote. Fun times. As an independent and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/24 03:15 PM
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So? Why is the right so damn bad? Why can’t we have both left and right opinions? Why can’t humans be just slightly more complicated than picking a damn side and base your whole identity on such a simple binary choice?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/24 02:48 AM
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I don't necessarily disagree on the social skills. However I would say on the ONS side there is much more emotional manipulation and high-school games because the type of girl you're attracting is very different from those that want long-term relationships and those who have and value intelligence. On the social skills part, perhaps you're right but on intelligence and broad knowledge, I think my theory fits better. Another big point is time. I don't see pursing ONS girls as worthy. I feel disgu…
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/24 02:48 AM
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Yep, we have orthogonal goals, so it makes sense. I use to be very against PUA / player / hooking up but since women now have all the advantage and are hooking up probably 20-100x more than men (see OF), go get them tiger. LMAO.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 04:13 PM
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Lol no. To be fair, you’re partially right that one needs game but game is for hookups and number game. I have no interest in trying to “seduce” girls that I have 0 interest in forming a relationship with. Lots of other fun things in life besides women. 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 03:42 PM
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It is weird that this sub doesn’t talk about this more often. That’s what I’m here for 🤣. Women constantly get 100 likes a day and no I’m not exaggerating. It’s a fucked up market for men where as you rightfully said you’ll have to downgrade your requirements a few million times to date. No thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 04:21 AM
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You don't. This is pure simping.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/24 12:47 PM
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Lol actually radical left feminists have been attacking men for ages. It's just recently that men are starting to wake up and say "hey, only a small minority of us are bad, stop attacking us as a group".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/24 03:44 AM
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Dude, you can't have it both ways. You're basically asking: how can I sin without God knowing (and I'm not even a Christian). Just pick one and get over it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 12:31 AM
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I'm willing to bet good money that most men in that sub are OF subscribers. What a bunch of pathetic losers and sneaky-fuckers. (look this up term, it's real mating science)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/24 10:01 PM
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Because - hate to break it to you - the left has become overly radical especially on radical feminism and thus employs fake empathy and compassion only when it benefits them. Both leftist men and women will not speak up for men, because it doesn't score them social points. It's never about principle. The few influencers that do speak up for men lean right. That's just a fact. Some of them have crazy and extreme takes but also quite a good amount of reasonable takes. I get where you are coming fr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/24 11:42 PM
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The only thing I think is influencer, but as others said, mental health therapy or counsellor also works. The problem with being an influencer is that you'll pretty much get shat on and get 0 respect because the US culture doesn't give fucks about men's struggles, only women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/24 07:34 PM
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Any woman who’s willing to destroy a marriage by cheating with the husband is selfish AF. Maybe start using your other head, for once in your life?
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 03:14 AM
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That there isn't an equivalent for women. We do not use toxic femininity. Hence it's a double-standard term. (And everything you said)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/24 02:20 PM
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Bingo. It is the lack of empathy and sensitivity when addressing all men. Any girl can just say shit like "why are men like this?" without consequences in public. Most men will double check themselves before saying that kind of shit in public or on Insta. That's the problem - the blatant difference in treatment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/24 04:44 PM
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It's very hard to tell. You have to go on more dates. Here are some guesses, in no particular order: He was nervous Your physical attraction is higher than what he has experienced before, putting him in shock He read some article or watched a YouTube video learnt that women "loves" this simple trick He's overall inexperienced. One of the biggest issues in modern dating is spotting way too many red flags that are nowhere near red flags. Red flags should be mainly related to character. In modern d…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 03:25 PM
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But when it comes to sexual attraction I fall for the wrong guys. There's one guy I absolutely feel obsessed with sexually, he's very dominant but builds it up long before the bedroom We are both into BDSM and he really embodies confidence, dominance, power. But turns out he's a narcissist. This is pretty much what how most modern women thinks. They value shallow external qualities as sexy vs. character. Husband-material dudes respect women and hence very few are out there looking to "dominate",…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 03:26 PM
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Unfortunately most places on Reddit is radical and far left with positions so predictable from mainstream media that it's sad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/24 12:39 PM
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No sane left leaning person should side with Carroll. She’s batshit insane and a massive men hater.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/24 04:50 AM
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The guys you’re going for are not that considerate. Define entrepreneur. What kind of businesses do they own?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 11:42 PM
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Tell them the truth. Also critical to note that if we define a simp as someone who is willingly offering overwhelming amount of resources to a mate out of their league. Then there are a ton of women simps too.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 01:03 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 11:18 PM
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Cheer up. Look the fact that you realized this means you can find a man like him again. There are TONs of great conservative-leaning or moderate leaning man who is just hiding in plain sight because its impossible to date in cities full of liberal hatred.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 01:26 PM
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I’m surprised this is heavily up voted. Keeping it a secret is a terrible idea to ensure an explosion of emotions and consequences when he finds out.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 01:10 PM
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Good quality men are quitting online dating because of the insane inequality of matches. Pretty simple.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 06:41 PM
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Top tier men understands that true intelligence has very little correlation with education or career. My take is simply that you either haven’t met exceptional dudes or that there are other hidden issues but you keep relating it back to your career.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 12:51 PM
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Dudes got issues. Not sure if any more communication will help.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 02:04 PM
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I think you may be reading into it too much. A simple example would be that a lot of men complain that their gfs or wifes can't make simple decisions fast enough like what we want for dinner. Thus your skills there will be immensely valued. Rather than asking us, you should probably ask your husband what are the gaps in your communication style. There's too much complexity and nuance for us to diagnose that. Yes in general men prefers ladies who are soft spoken and feminine but that doesn't mean…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 11:05 PM
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As I’ve never been approached in person by a guy I’d actually like to date, I never get approached in person To be very blunt, you might not be as attractive as others have told you. Most of my friends who I consider 6-7/10s have been approached, a lot. On the bright side, there are tons of decent men who do not want to date super attractive women. Personality is way more important and becomes more important as we age. Also attractive women tend to have a massive body count.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 10:56 PM
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Don't see anything wrong with that. What are you worried about with regards to that in dating?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 10:50 PM
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Think we'll need more context to give advice. How does your type A personality interface with your speech pattern?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 07:52 PM
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There's pretty much not much you can do but live with it and keep an eye out if he shows cheating behavior without going into "crazy" panic mode (going through his phone and etc) We all get jealous but if you can't trust your partner at all around attractive people then the relationship aint gonna last too long.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 03:41 AM
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Ghosting is a fact of life lol. I mean think about it, if every man had that mindset, they'd never leave the house.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 09:25 PM
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If you’re caught on the date you should be honest even if that may alter the guys perception, lying is always worse. For now get over the trauma and just move on. I don’t see why you can’t ask the new dude to catch up. What’s the worst thing that can happen ?
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 08:35 PM
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I’ll just add to that the left favors feminism and radical feminism and loves to shit on men. And people wonder why men lean more right these days lmao.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 03:23 PM
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Damn man I hope you find the strength you need man. That is fucked up shit. Yep and another thing that people don’t like to mention even here is race. Race matters a lot in dating especially for men. Just ask an African or Asian friend lmao.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 10:27 PM
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Just to add to your point. The whole idea that radical feminist believe that males are somehow more violent so much to the point that it is "dangerous" for a woman to be walking about downtown is delusionally unfounded. Here's why: Crime statistics cannot be generalized to everyday aggression. That's the extreme 1% and the extreme 1% is going to have a complete different tail distribution. Male and female show aggression in different ways. Female aggression is subversive, social, and hidden whil…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/24 02:52 PM
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In the long-term, nobody. In the short-term, gender roles reinforce delusion based on a unintelligent false dichotomy categorization. Just for context so people don't go cray on me: men and women have differences and similarities in physique, psychology, and social behavior. Hence gender roles (or norms) are just a spectrum. It absolutely allows for deviations in a changing society. The reason why it's endlessly mentioned is simply because the kneeling divide between men and women and each side'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/24 10:11 PM
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/tips hat
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 08:33 PM
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most of their friends are guys What people mean here is that she's a flirt. These are not just friends, but they are potential situationships. The woman sees the friendships as that as well and absolutely enjoys the attention. A lot of attractive women at least in my experience, tends to have this issue. Regular guy friends without romantic attachment? Couldn't care less.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 03:03 PM
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Radical feminism: men are pigs. Also radical feminism: men are so uneducated and unintelligent, but they're totally not oppressed. (Note: I'm making a joke here, I'm not saying OP is saying this)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 11:34 PM
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Another day another radical feminist reading a bullshit study and become more radicalized and delusional in the process. Yea lonely men just play Cod / Fortnite, a hella healthier than reading insane studies IMO. /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 09:51 PM
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I don't even have to look at the report to know it's bullshit. It's borderline impossible to measure "bias" since it can have infinite dimensions and depends almost entirely on how one defines bias and how one phrases the question. Let's look at a dumb example: "Can some women be bricklayers, Y/N?" A lot of people will read the question too quickly and put N because 1) it's impractical and 2) it's not seen IRL. However the author could attribute that to "women bias". It is exactly this kind of b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/23 08:48 PM
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Lmao, what a fucking toxic article, I stopped reading after 2 points, so let me just take a quick second to rebut these idiotic delusions. For 1) men have a shorter morning routine, that is by choice. Aint nobody telling women to spend 3 hours on makeup; and 2) male are a "figure of authority", says who and compared to what? Pretty sure a total of 0 women who reads EverydayFeminism thinks so. Now to your question, it is the same bullshit as white privilege. Sure some men might have some advantag…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/23 03:47 PM
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I never understood why people use it. Everyone in dating would be a pick me without extra definitions. But of course only people who doesn’t share your own preferences are pick mes lmao. I think it’s hilarious that women invented such a nice term to out their own vs. just spewing direct hate on men. It really shows how women showcase extreme social aggression.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/23 03:02 PM
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No. I find conservatives generally more nicer especially women. They’re extremely well mannered despite not having Ivy League education.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/23 01:30 AM
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Lol, I mean when the average women can instantly get endless dudes to do the deed on any dating app, color me surprised that women are more sexually picky than men. Shit's too funny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/23 10:11 PM
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Good observation, I too have seen the diversifying effect online and IRL. Here is why I think this is impossible to solve until a massive amount of women experience trauma or life-changing events (mid-life crisis etc): (I'm gonna use the 10-number scale to rank women cuz that's easy to understand. This is gonna offend a few but look, people rank people. By no means am I saying every person and their entire humanity can only be attributed to a number.) Women internalize and attribute market-drive…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/23 04:43 PM
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That's why I said if that's any indication. Chill out lmao.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/23 01:13 AM
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It's hard to comment on your theory mate since there are a lot of details and I feel lazy today lmao. However, I'll share a much simpler perspective as food for thought: The "patriarchy" is frankly one of the most dumbest, unintelligent view of human history in existence for the following reasons: The governance framework of most civilization focuses on controlling and the distribution of power, because of 1 simple reason - civilizations prefer peace over war. Even totalitarian civilizations. Th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/23 10:45 PM
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It’s very obvious to see this in major cities in the US and frankly I’m surprised a lot of the comments don’t agree. It is absolutely the case that in most large cities of western countries the majority supports feminism. Whether that support is radical or not doesn’t matter because most people can’t even tell the difference so men hate gets a pass. Whether pro feminists are good or bad depends on the level of moral standards applied. I would say that the inability to recognize hateful generaliz…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/23 12:46 PM
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Any YouTubers to recommend? I'm actually curious, cuz I've never seen one. I want to understand their talking points.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/23 11:19 PM
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Oh absolutely. We went back and forth quite a bit. Its actually good because now I know she's insane and delusional. I don't think I'm going to talk to her anymore lmao.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/23 05:54 AM
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If you don’t agree then state your point. What you’re doing here is exactly what radical feminist do, just hate lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/23 02:10 AM
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Where do we fit here then? Pretty sure none of the above.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/23 12:20 AM
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First of all let’s not kid ourselves it’s lefty women that hate on men the most. Conservative women don’t go shouting around on Twitter or Reddit. Now to answer your question, I think at the root of it is just hate and resentment that modern liberal women’s dating strategy for the most part fails them miserably. This failure is exacerbated by radical feminism and patriarchy bullshit, making a lot of women believe they’re the victim. I have met countless women who despite getting 200 likes a week…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/23 12:17 AM
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First, thanks for writing such a lengthy post mate. Appreciate it. I’ve read it twice and I agree with most of your posts. I will push back a bit that looks and personality both matter a lot more than ones job. This is simply because most modern women are just too shallow and don’t look for character. Job matters in long term relationships but most relationships today are situationships. Re incels, I think the effect you’re seeing is just like Reddit. The most vocal speaks out. But regardless, I…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/23 09:14 PM
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Great point. Yep there are a lot of these bullshit categories that women use to discredit men: creep, nerd, boring, low confidence, don’t have a car, etc etc etc . It’s fucked up. Men are at least well straight forward: she’s wasn’t good looking. I really dislike how western society put women on pedestals but ignores all the lying and deceit happening underneath. Men and women show aggression in different ways. We only account for external ones, not internal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/23 03:47 PM
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I don’t know any incels and I guess even if I have met one no one is gonna declare out loud they are one. So take all this with a grain of salt. I think most of them just hate the game. There is research showing a large number of incels are minorities who are not white. What does that tell us ? /s I also don’t think either job nor confidence matters that much. I think looks and faking confidence on date matters way more. It’s not that hard to fake confidence, it’s actually extremely easy with pr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/23 04:39 AM
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Only if you feel like you're absolutely not in any danger. Look I don't care how hot the woman is if she's coming at me with a machete and throwing ninja stars, I'm deploying my boomerang.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/23 03:47 AM
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Maybe I wasn't absolutely clear but yea I don't mean she reacts to pundits, I mean she finds a lot of Twitter and TikTok and reacts to that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 10:32 PM
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For the record, I like her a lot. But she does very reactionary content albeit super funny and kinda cute. Personally, I'm not that interested in reacting to trolls and idiots on Twitter and would like to learn more about the meta and get her views on them. To be fair, the meta is complex and most people (cough Pearl cough) just repeat the same shit over and over and it's boring AF. Having new takes on meta constantly is well....extremely hard. That said though, I hope she does more meta / analy…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 07:02 PM
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You hit the jackpot. What is funny is, the more independent/moderate I become, and having more depth and nuance takes, the harder it is for me to find dates that I'm interested in. Because as soon as we get into a deep discussion, all the cliche takes comes out. "I hate Trump" "My body my choice" "Colonization is bad". And I'm like "Thoughts on Hunter Biden laptop and the influence peddling scheme where he got paid 80k a month?" "How much accountability should we attribute to having sex?" "Didn'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 06:57 PM
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Yep I got this a lot in dating too. If I put moderate (independent is not an option), a lot of girls I match with will ask if I'm a conservative. Very odd.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 04:44 PM
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Pearl Davis!!! KIDDING lmao. I don't think so. It's too much risk of a career. I mean how many moderate YouTubers do we have? Pretty much none. If you are moderate, you are then immediately labeled as "controversial" like Trigger-nometry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 03:05 PM
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Thank you, will check both of them out!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 02:08 AM
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I’m an independent so I don’t always vote left. I’m kinda finding the left insufferable these days. Someone please recommend me a pundit that’s not Klein and Destiny cuz dear lord lmao. (Klein was fine until you hear his Sam Harris podcast) I like this space a lot and feel like we honestly shouldn’t care about politic labels. Men and women shouldn’t be divided by political ideology that’s freaking absurd. My take is that the subs name originally was trying to scare away hardcore women hating red…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/23 11:38 PM
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Pretty much lol, there's some serious dating delusion going on in the US right now, this sub is one of the few places that one is even allowed to point it out. It's also funny that I've not met 1 guy that actually lives in the basement with parents. But I constantly hear that shit online being referenced.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/23 10:18 PM
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Look, the issue is that we've normalized the assumption that the average or below average men is awkward and unacceptable socially when the fact is that women are just as awkward. The idea that somehow the average women has a "normal" life while there are a large portion of men that's "living in their mom's basement" is not just absurd but just straight up wrong. Perhaps the average woman is a tad bit more social than man but I don't believe the difference accounts to any generalizable behavior.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/23 07:54 PM
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Men are not checking out. They can’t - how the fuck are they gonna survive? However there are less and less avg jobs for men that doesn’t require a college degree. Hard labor is automated by technology. 60 percent of college grads are women. Vast amount of service jobs prefer women. (Despite femininity dying lmao) And the sad fact that men are a lot less motivated without a family and wife. All of these are pretty much obvious trends that cannot be disputed yet society continues to hate on men. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/23 03:39 PM
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Hard to find on Reddit that’s for sure. I created /r/TraditionalDating
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/23 07:59 PM
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/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/23 04:15 PM
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I think the most prominent reason is in liberal cities (which most of us live), it's considered shameful and unworldly for men to criticize women in any form but women having delusional standards and shaming men is celebrated. Subtle men hate is everywhere and in our current culture, we actively promote it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/23 01:39 PM
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They have utility in outlining and signaling the difference in preference between man and woman. I call bullshit the "enforcement" of gender roles in modern society. Even in conservative circles, very few men strictly want their wife to stay home and cook, most have a strong preference for 2 incomes vs. just 1 via the husband. On the political side, no man can enforce or force a woman into anything. Thus the radical feminism men-hate based on "enforcement" is unfounded. What's more funny is, mod…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/23 02:04 PM
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You'll have to define feminism because most people here's view of modern feminism is hatred and power over men vs. its original goal - equal rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/23 02:48 PM
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I mean look, exposing myself a bit here, I don't label myself into wings but I would say my dating values are more left while I also deeply respect having principles in life that you adhere to => right. What I'm illustrating that it is a narrow and blinkered view to perfectly align one of your many identities to another, specifically aligning men to right and female to left, which conceptually we all know is absurd because we know it's not true and doesn't represent reality in our world. In summ…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/23 02:42 PM
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On how men are mistreated and men's issues are not prioritized over women? I think most single people are very aware it's just that women don't want to talk about it cuz it disadvantages them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/23 09:46 PM
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Look mate if holding people accountable for their own actions and not to hate on half the human race is purely a conservative value then the entire world should be conservative. I think you’re seeing what’s deeply wrong with the modern left. You can be left leaning and at the same time point out all the issues in the general discourse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/23 01:00 PM
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Wokeisn is everywhere I mean look at people labeling their own pronouns. What does that mean? It assumes that it's hurtful and even offensive for a stranger to misgender someone. That's pretty dumb.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/23 05:08 PM
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Cuz I don't participate in cancel culture? I listen to a lot of different takes, although I mainly listen to her for fun when I'm bored. /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/23 04:49 PM
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I think you have to state who and specific examples right. For example, I like Pearl, I think she carries herself with an aura of femininity, speaks with passion without rage, and likes to swear. (This may be a negative for overly trad people lmao) However, here's what I don't like: Pushes for extreme points without extensive research (women should not vote, husbands shouldn't ask their wife for permission for anything) Associates herself with redpill extremists too much. Andrew Tate / FnF. The …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/23 01:43 PM
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In some ways sure but the point is that you can control that. If you base your social status purely on having a partner, then that's an issue. But social status is based on a variety of factors and is highly context dependent. So why not improve the rest while trying to get a partner?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/23 12:54 PM
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I think there’s some truth to that but at the same time I see a lot of independent women without partners and they’re fine lmao. That extends to men as well. As long as we ourselves are not insecure about it, what’s the issue?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/23 12:19 AM
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I think what you're talking is just a general take that people who are more private feel like they have to put themselves on display. I don't think it's dating specific. If you don't want to have an Instagram account, then don't. If you don't want to put your life on Instagram, no one is forcing you to do so. Take control of your life, then find someone who shares those values.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/23 03:38 PM
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TwoXChromosomes is the new FemaleDatingStrategy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/23 12:52 PM
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They are not in the west, first-world developed countries. First, let's just acknowledge that in the US, its illegal to "exclude". Next, we can argue that well well well the "old boiz" can have biases. Well..look at the highest paying industries: finance, tech, law. All those industries are extremely left leaning. They try extra hard to bring in women. So essentially the biases actually benefit women, not the other way. There are exceptions on both sides. A specific company may be overly into hi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/23 02:00 PM
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Too lazy to read the study but a quick thought is that greed manifests in different ways. Women probably weigh social status a lot more than money vs. men and vice versa. At the end of the day it's just boils down to narcissism - for both sexes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/23 09:44 AM
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I watched it and honestly didn't get much from it. She's talking about issues that are fairly wide spread. To me the critical question to most left leaning women is "Why should I settle when I can easily find higher status and higher earning men that's way out of my league on dating apps? Like, I get 100 likes a day". There isn't any good rational answer to this. In my experience, the best you can do is point out some of the delusion and that dating a guy who's 3x out of your league doesn't lead…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/23 05:11 PM
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I think you're making it sound like girls are these Einstein-level intellectual creatures whose social perceptions top Seth Meyers. I don't think so and given how much everyone in the US put women in general on a pedestal for no reason, I don't think this view helps. The average women (overall in all dimensions) cannot be drastically better than the average men. Statistically they're doing slightly better in education and finances but that's it. So really it comes down to 2 questions: Can you pr…
/r/seduction07/08/23 02:43 PM
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I missed your thread but power to you dude. Look, I haven't met 1 guy who doesn't want equality, which is what feminism supposedly says it purports but in reality we all know it's bullshit. To be a man in modern society means you have to be comfortable not having a gf at all times. I do this by having a lot of platonic female friends. (Funny how Reddit believes a dude cannot have single female friends) Lastly, don't let it get to your head lol. It doesn't look like most modern women on the left …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 11:59 PM
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On Reddit, I think it's absolutely the case. /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 08:19 PM
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rant about how evil assholes men are is pretty small. Have you tried askwomenover30? Take a look at the top posts. I dare you. To summarize your point and in particular related to single women in the dating scene (this is where I have the most experience), modern radical feminism is about exerting downward pressure on the value of the average men through delusional high standards, pushing victimizing via oppressor narratives like the Patriarchy, and normalizing the denigration and stereotyping o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 05:42 PM
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Feminism critique is not the same as feminism hate. Anyway, I think to make your point, you gotta get dow into a few layers of nuance and explain the difference.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 03:13 AM
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Bruh how many accounts do you have lmao.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/23 10:17 PM
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Why am I not surprised LOL. I've seen so many of this shit at work and my friends both male and female that it's totally a thing that people just choose to ignore.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/23 09:03 PM
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His logic was that, before we get women into congress and CEO spots, why not equalize bricklaying and prison-populations? For the record, I like JP a lot. (Doesn't mean I think he's some god. He's wrong a lot. He admits he is wrong. Also the more you interview the more people clip you. More disclaimer so trolls don't come after me blah blah blah) Now, to address the issue, have you listened to the entire interview? That's not what his take is. He is using an example to say you cannot measure equ…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/23 07:59 PM
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Here's something anecdotal, so again this isn't proved by any study and I'm too lazy to look for one. Sexual harassment can only go one way, because: 1) Most males don't report sexual harassment because it's taboo and publicly demonstrates that you're weak. 2) Many males enjoy and actually crave female attention. They love it. Why would they report it if they love it? 3) Dating convention is still heavily that males have to ask females out. Hence this will inevitably happen at work events and ca…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/23 04:09 PM
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I edited my first comment. Thanks for providing deets. I agree I judged too early without looking at all the data. Now awaiting what the mod team would say in response
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 05:48 PM
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Edit: see first comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 01:29 PM
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I think if that's the case, you gotta show the deets right. Or else everyoen's just gonna get confused. In that other comment he said mods removed him and mods don't seem to deny it. Anyway, I have 0 context, so I'll see what's posted before judging.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 04:35 AM
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Let me know if you start your own subReddit and I'll give it a follow. I've been trying to create less toxic dating space on Reddit that leans on more modern traditional values (meaning modern takes on traditional roles) and it's pretty tricky, albeit I don't really put much effort into these things. I do think dating and the associated men-hate on Reddit is absolutely out of control. For example, if women don't get shit for sleeping as many people as possible then men should not get shit for ha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 08:30 PM
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She' in her late 60s...68 I think, and I'm 45 but look around 30-32 and I'm hot as hell....or so every girl I've ever been with including just women I know have told me...including men too on some no homo vibes....but anyways. I feel I could hit that but don't wanna push either. I think I got it figured out but I'm not chasing either. Sus.
/r/seduction19/07/23 06:25 PM
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I don't participate with this sub but gotta say, Reddit mods abusing power is like the sun coming out the next day, it's that popular. If you were removed from the mod team, that's an exercise of absolute power. I find it funny that so many Reddit mods are just running little totalitarian hells while telling the entire sub they do hard work. (Again not this sub but overall) Edit: Now Im' not sure. /u/TheTinMenBlog has provided some deets here. I still standby that TinMen's discord exchange was o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 06:22 PM
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No. My happiness has 0 correlation with body count. Ok fine, 0.01. /s
/r/seduction13/07/23 07:26 PM
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Yep. Men almost always do because its taboo as the traditional convention of men approaching still haven't changed. Some men will say a woman can't be both assertive and feminine, I think they're only partially right as most of my past girlfriends are both.
/r/seduction14/06/23 01:55 PM
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So OP is getting shat on because: It's social media, don't blame the people on it. Tech is evil! EVIL I tell you! OP started way too late to look for wife material (lmfao) OP can't shit on hookup culture if he engages within it itself. Because OP is using a dating app to find a wife. Standards too high. Man, this sub is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:37 PM
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If this dude lives in Silicon Valley, there's a 90 percent chance he's Asian (Chinese or Indian). I've seen this a lot although most people making 60k can't survive in the valley. Those who do does this a lot and it's obvious AF in malls and restaurants at the incompatibility. When I see it I laugh but then I'm a little sad because the guy is getting fucked over but then I tell myself he knew that and can't stop from letting sex control him and I get less sad. Lawl
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 02:23 PM
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Pretty much dude. I basically said what you're saying without saying it LOL. (You can check my other posts on this sub) But essentially, it's just economics 101. The modern girl with average looks is a commodity and almost every girl uses that as advantage. The hotter the girl is the higher leverage of value they can demand. So a 7/10 looking girl will demand 3x value and that value includes both sexual and relationship value. I think single mothers are the best way to demonstrate the sudden dro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 07:09 AM
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I find it amazing that in every single women subreddit the women constantly complains that men don't want anything serious and never ever disclose how many men they got matched with. My theory: if a girl is getting 50 matches a week and still gets pumped and dumped, it's because they love it not because they want someone serious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 02:24 AM
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Mate, I just can't imagine girls posting booty pictures on Insta and then going to church. Not religious but can someone explain? How does these people live knowing that half the people at church are starting at their butt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 09:39 PM
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Anime? Wtf. Again I hate to say this but to me that's need baiting. She's obviously not into anime statistically but yet nerds are statistically more stable. The crazy thing is, when I was using apps I have not seen 1 single mom who does not put "Not into hookups" and "my kid is everything." We get it, you weren't ready for a kid and had one anyway. That part I can really empathize but what is with all the demanding tone that the person they date must have wealth, stability, and all this other s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 09:37 PM
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Well explained. The crazy thing for me is that see statistically that's how you should judge the average women but I can't do that IRL, it's just too depressing talking to strangers with that assumption yet when I go on a date, the signs are too obvious to ignore. If folks have a way to navigate around this let me know lmao. Thankfully I do have a few good women friends who agree with me but at least among my friend group, I don't see people making those women friends as often as before because …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 05:50 PM
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The average 20-35 western women unfortunately doesn't think that way. Because they consciously and unconsciously know they have insane amount of social capital. Hell now kids are raised in the era of TikTok, you do the math. Society has embraced feminism but never lost the notion that men should provide and given all of that, this means that the dating in the west always have a 20x-100x more men than women problem because all women date up not just 1.2x their own value but 2-5x. That itself then…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 11:47 PM
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I saw it but I was simply too stunned to comment. Here is a person that had 2 kids with her husband and at 28 now comes out and says she's settled? Here is a person whose husband allowed her to sleep with other people and she's still not satisfied? Here is a person who is interested in divorcing her husband for the sole reason that he doesn't satisfy her kinks, apparently saying he doesn't want to please her? (Does not make sense, why would he be jealous if he doesn't care about sex or is not in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 11:33 PM
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Gents. The lesson the simple: date your equal, don't get baited by sex or anything else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 10:38 PM
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What the fuck did I just read. Seriously. I have no words.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 10:33 PM
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Holy......cow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 05:51 AM
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Publix - I LOVE THEM. Not from the south but went there on a long driving trip for fun working remotely. It's the ONLY grocery store I know that bags your items and sometimes 2 people on top of your casher comes and helps you bag. I will say I'm more often so embarrassed at the kindness and level of service!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 11:43 PM
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Wow you can't be serious. That's probably the worse one I've heard among friends! But I have some friends who work in a Wall St ish kinda setting and bars below certain buildings are known to frequent investment banker types, so have seen my share of those as much as I dislike talking to the average ego-boosted IB guy LOL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 07:11 PM
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I posted a list of red flags here somewhere but "crystal" and "spiritual" are my immediate redflags. I freaking love Lord of the Rings but if my girlfriend tells me the Elven gods have told her to do X, I mean I can't argue with that lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 05:14 PM
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Can confirm. In fact folks, if you are around 25-35, I suggest having a defensive mindset on all dates except ones arranged by friends you trust. I hate saying this because it's sad as fuck but that's the reality. Any decent looking gal 6/10 (if 5/10 is avg) can have more than 30-50 partners easily. And gents, another dating litmus test for you guys: if your date constantly ask about your job and you talk about the job itself not the status and who you work with and she keeps asking about status…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 05:10 PM
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Damn savage. Name fucking checks out LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 10:36 PM
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Hey at least she looks average. We don't get that a lot here LOL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 08:21 PM
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I find it pretty interesting that modern women knows prostitution is frowned upon with indignity yet having 100s of sex partners isn't. When that number gets to a certain degree, it's a sign of cheapness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 08:18 PM
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A women wants a man with a good future. A man wants a woman with a good past. Yes, it's that simple. SIGNIFICANTLY underrated comment. Here's a Together-To-The-Top rocket. :P
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 05:42 PM
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Exactly, what is the probability that a guy on Tinder refused sex from a former pornstar? Probably close to negative infinity LOL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 05:33 PM
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The funny and fucking sad fact is that I can get on an app or just literally point out on the streets thousands and millions of men who are equivalent: owns a home, owns a vehicle, has their shit together, average shape and not fat with 1 MASSIVE difference: they have no kids. Yet these men struggle everyday to find a regular girlfriend to just live a regular life. And I will bet good fucking money that if any of them posted on Reddit, it will get 20 upvotes and the typical comment: you must be …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 04:39 PM
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Literally what I just said. Also dated a few MDs a s MD students. Gosh the ego of these women. Some of them don't even make that much because they picked an easy area to resident and yet it's all about the doctor title. "I'm a doctor. I'm so sexy. I'm so pretty on a boat cuz my doctor friends have boats." Good lord.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 12:15 AM
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Fuckton of those. Seems like everywhere I go it's the same shit. Girls in their 30s who can't be bothered to write a sentence or two about themselves and everyone is into "tacos, pizzas, adventures, and traveling" none of which I consider a real hobby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 06:46 PM
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I'm making a profile so I can be friend this Chad LOL. Jokes aside, I'm in Chicago for vacation and hopped on the app's, dear fucking God everybody is a dog mom. That term drives me up the wall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 06:41 PM
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Enjoy Christmas buddy. My friend just got into flying and sends me a ton of pictures. Super fun. I can't imagine what it costs to rent a plane but the experience is unmatched!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 02:51 AM
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Damn that's actually a pretty amazing experience. I would have thought you'd get all the weird folks asking crazy questions but I guess that stigma isn't true at all which I'm glad. Funny enough, I'm having breakfast right now at a place pretty close to UIC, walking probably 15 minutes and by bus/train 5 minutes. Crazy world eh?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 06:16 PM
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I'm now equally concerned as I am LMAOing and hope this person has the resources to seek some help. I mean it's one thing locking your keys out of your car which can happen to everyone but another to constantly visit the porn shop and not even knowing wtf you want. But damn, may God be with that guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 06:11 PM
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Gonna say .be careful with Indian women in America. I've met a few friends of friends in top schools across the US, most are solely concerned about the status and title. They all want to work for Google, even those not in remotely tech related fields LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 05:24 PM
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I'm a little younger but faced similar issues. The problem is twofold: one, intelligent woman by conventional degree and career isn't enough for us. And most of these women (and men for that matter only have intelligence in their niche field but lack critical thinking in anything else). Two, they are too materialistic and thinks too highly of their money, career, and status. Bonus number 3...most conventionally successful women I met are too fucking selfish. They don't do any charity work, don't…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 05:16 PM
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Dude you dodged a bullet. Any women after 25 that still chases Chad is pretty much off my books. It's just too risky and hell how would I know when that Chad itch comes back to bite her ass later. Not worth the drama mate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 05:08 PM
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This is a VERY critical comment folks. Test for this on dates. A lot of girls will use stuff like mental health, learning about myself, or other random shit to cover this up. But it's all a facade because there's no excuse for bad decision making. As if, ok, you had mental health problems and instead of seeing a therapist you jumped on CC for 5 years. Really? Sure maybe that helped you but I can't touch the likes of you LOL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 04:50 PM
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Oh my god, that is an insane story, goddamn! Kudos to you sir for dealing with that with professionalism. I think sometimes I really need to start some part-time shifts at the local Starbucks to get some more life experience. My worst experience in corporate America is nothing in comparison: had this bitch boss who knew I was long-due for a promotion but didn't want to give it to me so she put "disorganized: did not bring notebook to take down notes during meetings" to that point I did fuck all …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 10:37 PM
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Nope, equality is never talked about in FDS only demands. LOL, pretty fuken funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 10:29 PM
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When you have time, would love to hear some stories. Not sure if they'd be related to this sub but I pretty much have never visited a porn shop of any kind, so it'd be a interesting new perspective for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 10:01 PM
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Then it may be part of the job to Google, you know, customers appreciate knowledgeable staff. But remember, with more power, comes more responsibility! (lmao)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 09:46 PM
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I can't understand how after having 5 kids, the words "I want something real" can be said without shame.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 08:38 PM
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Hey man, we're taking one for the "patriarchy". LMAO
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 08:20 PM
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Absolutely love the number crunching and had some great laughs yet I will comment on the theory part. You're not wrong. What these women doesn't realize is that men rank women, too, and the guys with the most to offer don't commit to women who don't bring a lot to the table. The reason women can do this is because the artificially culture induced skewed dating market. If even 20% of overall men stop throwing themselves at women way below their league then reality can settle in pretty fast for wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 07:17 PM
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A quick hint folks: don't be Googling Gianna Michaels at work!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 07:06 PM
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landwhale LMFAO. I shouldn't be laughing at that but here I am rofling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 07:04 PM
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Every time I go to FDS just to get a taste of how toxic people can be and goddamn this is probably one of the worst posts that I've seen. The funny thing is most FDS folks know they are so much below the 50-match-a-day laughable girl dating market that the only thing they can do is bitch and complain and create their dream boyfriend avatars on Reddit. (Lmao) They are convinced that they can seduce a guy with 100k salary and a six pack like you seduce a cat with a laser pointer. Fucking hilarious…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 04:07 PM
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Cheers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 01:03 AM
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Without writing an entire essay, there are 2 things you'd want to test: pretty privilege and career privilege. Like all narcissistic behaviors, it's pretty easy to see just by observing daily interactions but I'll give some concrete quick-hit tests. Note, personally I tend to test for good character generally and ask a lot of philosophical questions depending on conversion, most of the time these privileges seep out like water through sieves. Pretty privilege: Her Instagram post frequency. How o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 07:05 PM
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Meh nothing we haven't seen before here. First, there are hordes like in the thousands of men that she ignored and ghosted that she knows would be absolutely husband material. But NO, she wants to turn a Chad into an exclusive husband when Chad only wants to bang other women. Too funny and too sad. Second she realizes her hypergamy but doesn't realize how unrealistic and antithetical those requirements are to her goals. She still thinks that shooting 4x beyond equality make sense just because sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 03:05 AM
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This is the classic modern women mindset. Let's list out the premises: I date multiple men at the same time for a few months each I tell them on the first date that I'm not into hook-up yet I use the quintessential hook-up app Tinder to meet some of these men They stuck around for a few months of dating without sex before leaving Conclusion: It must be sex they are after and since they didn't get it, they're not interested. Of course, being the "strong, intelligent kind, and adventurous" woman t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/21 10:30 PM
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I'm unconventional and actually care a lot about a girl's cross-functional intelligence, career, and income. Here's my 2 cents on woman mentioning those: You are absolutely right when you say women wants the same qualities but the problem is hypergamy. A women who went to a State school Master degree thinks she's a great fit for the MIT Engineering PhD. A women having an inflated title like "Director of Sales" or a ridiculously time-sucking job like a lawyer at average law firm now believes she'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 06:45 PM
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I've gone for "attractive assholes" in the past. :laughing emoji She says this in a tone that is nonchalant and casual, as if this is all a joke to her, ending the the sentence with "lol". This is a classic sign of a Chad-chaser. In the OP she projects a serious tone of self-inspection when in reality she can't get enough CC and can never see herself with a dude that has a stable career - aka "boring" non-Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 06:27 PM
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Lifestyle blogger = 0 real skills; incapable of getting any job without using her looks. Dating CEOs and TV directors = got pumped and dumped by CEOs and TV directors. Honest, I never understood how someone can just live off their looks but I constantly see this shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 10:57 PM
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Abso-fucking-lutely. Honestly man, I have met so many of these top MBA students and 4/100 I've actually kept in touch. Most are just full of shit and as you say, in every school there's 2/50 professors that are extremely good at their craft but that doesn't change the cult-like network/reputation-based nature of these schools. These schools also do not give fucks about actually accepting humble people with knowledge - they absolutely love to accept people who is the best at smearing their resume…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 04:37 AM
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The author is a master of psychological manipulation. The article is written from a voice that puts women both as the victim and at the same time the one with power, which ipso facto is contradictory. Look at the closing statements after 19 BS reasons: Do you really want to meet a good man? Or is it peer pressure? Why can’t you be happy alone? Are you sure you’re looking for romantic love? Followed by: Like us on Facebook to receive useful articles in your feed. Hack Spirit just launched a YouTu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/21 04:16 PM
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Lmao yep in another response I detailed a similar story in tech. Basically there's tons of built in entitlement of just getting into one of these schools and I do empathize that it's extensive competitive. But it's also just a stupid game of BS and that's the part where most MBAs die to not admit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/21 07:41 PM
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Bruh I think you over estimate top 10 US MBAs. They are designed to be a cult. The classes aren't hard at all and nobody is paying 200k to fail out of these classes. There's no "doing the work" only network your way to a good job. And that's the top 10 MBAs, the rest are even more despicable lol. The easiest way to test any MBA is depth or if they can connect different general principles together in a deep way. I work in tech so most of my examples are tech which happens to be one of the hottest…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/21 07:06 AM
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TRuth with a fucking capital T right here. Woman and as a matter of fact most guys too, very FEW even has the intellectual capacity to understand anything beside their current line of work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/21 04:36 AM
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BRUH don't get me started on those that say "can keep a conversation" and they can barely fucking type words. Drives you instantly up the wall. Every time a woman says she's got a MBA I'll hit her up with some fun business questions and man the responses are absolutely hilarious. LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/21 04:33 AM
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Before this sub I don't really think about pre wall or post wall but wow this women's looks ..now I've got a post wall baseline.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/21 04:31 AM
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LMFAO I needed this laugh on a Monday morning mate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 04:27 PM
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I'm... fascinatingly disgusted. It's amazing how these kinds of women go through great length to cover up the obvious fact that they are a gold digger and hypergamy seeker. It would be more effective to just say "3 steak dinners for 1 sex" lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 02:59 PM
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LMAO Taylor pre-wall, that's too funny. Good laughs mate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 11:35 PM
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Not sure why you are getting downvoted - folks, the moral of the story is 2 things: Don't manipulate people just because you can. So MANY people do this on a daily basis. Have some damn dignity and humanity. Don't BE manipulated. The modern dating analogy to the base ball card is the hot girl profile. Learn not to simp for sex, it'll improve your health and happiness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 11:34 PM
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Thanks for sharing the story. The thing is, women intuitively know they can demand things on a profile because they have a significant supply advantage on apps. Yet at the same time, if she does that shit, it's a great signal for us to GTFO. In a way it's also a good thing - another colorful snake but mentally colored? LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 06:18 PM
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Her: Mom Curvy (being nice here) Tons of make-up Tons of piercings and tattoos 5'1 Not interested in hookup Looking for: Dad material / single-guy Healthy lifestyle, muscular but not more muscular than her thighs (wtf?) Guy who's into fat girls without make-up. (oops) Dude who loves piercing and tattoos 5'8+ Long-term Relationship oriented: caring, sweet ,and fun. Me: Gal...you've been spoiled by the apps and the simping men on there. You need to reality check....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 06:16 PM
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Echoing Kevin Samuels brotha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 07:28 PM
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Folks, if you're reading this, the lesson here is: never settle for someone inferior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 07:28 PM
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I think there are woman who genuinely want to be your friend. It's pretty rare though and getting rare by the minute. I have a few but definitely hard to find. As you said, as soon as you even detect a hint of a woman using her charms and femininity to get favors of any kind .block and move on
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 05:31 PM
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Oh my . fucking...god.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 07:41 AM
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Wow fuck mate. Yea, the thing is, women intuitively know they have insane advantage in online dating but tries anything in their wake to stop that information from spreading. A lot of entitlement comes from that unfortunately, average or even Chad-level guys have to do a ton of "special treatment" just to get women to look at them lmao. Honestly, funny yet fucking cringe and sad. As you said mate, it is just not worth it. I rather live alone and travel with my mates and their gfs/wives rather th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 12:11 AM
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Another rule for the apps. Any time in ANY way if a women describes herself as "hot mess"...run fast and run far.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 11:02 PM
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By people who hate I'm guessing mostly it's women in all these other toxic subs. I actually am fairly down to entertain having a legit debate on why they think the posts are not entitled and frankly fucked up. Never happens and this is why everytime you go to one of those subs you just get instant banned for speaking even an ounce of reason. I'm even more curious to meet these women IRL but I'm not surprised I haven't met any LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 10:59 PM
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"Love adventures". Honestly man, the number of times I've seen this on girls profiles. It's on hot girls' profiles, nerdy girls' profiles, and everything in between and it absolutely have 0 fucking meaning. What it does mean is that they are most likely looking for "tingles" and have no idea what kind of guy they want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 03:53 AM
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Green hair - I pretty much automatically swipe left. Too risky for me. Maybe just that exact artsy vibe I like but I prefer low-key artsy than full-blown artsy, if you know what I mean lmao. "No hookups" => RED fucking lingerie pic followed by another "showing boobs" outfit => No THANK YOU
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/21 03:29 PM
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Thank God because such friend just made the extreme selfish move of destroying her friends long-term happiness for her own short-term gain. Personally I can't have friends like that. Good thing nothing happened. Cheers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 02:55 AM
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SIGNIICANTLY underrated comment here. Folks, do NOT center your life on women or attracting women because soon enough, not only your life will be in wreck, your values and confidence will too but there is NO gym for that shit. A great woman will enhance your life but there's a million other ways you can also enhance your own life, do it for those reasons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 12:46 AM
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her friends I hope she knows about this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 12:40 AM
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WTF did I just read. She's willing to throw her entire marriage + the lives of her two very young kids into spiral because she wants to fuck a Jamaican man. Just imagine the kids having grown up in this difunctional family and then around 13 or 14 or so, they find this post. They would be fucking LIVID to learn that their mom has ruined their entire life because she wants "hot tingles" sex despite committing herself to marriage and her husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 12:40 AM
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Simple answer: because simps love it. They want to see the "lips" - idk why lmao - but that has to be it. Girls don't give a F and guys like us dont' give a F.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 05:32 PM
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She's hot Sure with full make-up but I usually stay away from full make-up type gals for exactly this reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 05:31 PM
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It's amazing how rampant hypergamy co-fucking-exists with the chase-me rhetoric. Women already have the upper hand in choice yet society constantly urges men to give them more choice. Watching this video, my fucking god the entitlement here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 05:28 PM
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That was a joke mate, but point taken.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 07:39 AM
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There are exceptions but very rare. As rare a virtuous, loyal, family oriented women age 18-22 who want to committ to one partner for life. Been out hunting on the apps and literally never encountered this type of Pokemon ever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 04:42 AM
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The audacity for this person to ask on Quora...wow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/21 04:03 PM
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Would you have the link to Dalrock's work mate?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 07:31 PM
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Awww thanks for asking. Yea like most folks in this sub (I think), we just kinda..don't care. I mean occasionally we may get a little rage here and there but it subsides quickly and it's all just a laugh. It's about living life at your fullest and see what happens. I think an on-going issue, at least for me is, my expectations are raising quickly and they are not lowering to meet the market. The problem with this is that the more of an outlier you are, the more of an outlier you seek. The good t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 01:06 AM
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There's a big difference mate. Negative consequences of ice cream are right in front of you - nice load of fat that you gotta go to the gym later to burn off. Negative consequences of getting CC is not obvious to women and from what I'm seeing, less and less obvious that pretty much completely negated by the entire womensphere at this point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:56 AM
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Because most people (not just women) don't think long-term. They think men won't care and they think most guys do this because guys do act more horny than girls in general. If people treated relationships more seriously (and they should), we wouldn't have this problem in the first place. But most people literally cannot think and have the long-term intelligence of a .....tree LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:52 AM
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Mother f. Really? WOW
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:47 AM
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Well men would as well had they the market advantage. If men can open an dating app and hundreds of women are lining up for sex, do you think they'd stop? Men would probably be worse than women if that happens lol. Good people are rare on both sides.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:44 AM
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The more sad part is that they won't stop. The advantage is too huge, free sex on any guy you pick on any dating app. I mean, why would they give that up for a real relationship that they can't even define.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:42 AM
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Third Gold I'm giving out on this post today. Great write-up, very similar to mine but with a lot more detail and nuance. I slightly disagree on "exploring sexuality" part because you can do that with a partner or a few partners over the years and that's often easier as well. There's absolutely no need to sleep around for that. Everything else is on point. To sum up, women have no fucking clue how much privilege, power they really have. They intuitively feel it on the apps and greedily drink tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:36 AM
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/u/mustangfrank the story man! Gold for amazing story as usual.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:27 AM
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and.....GOLD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:20 AM
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This post and comments describe modern women too perfectly I'm afraid: "You go girl, go fuck Chads, non-Chads, whoever! We know from experience that there's hordes of guys lining up on the apps, there's no storage of supply in sight! When you meet the right guy, all you have to do is stop sleeping around. It's as simple as turning off water. " What they don't realize are two critical things: The more you ride CC, the less values you have. You can't honestly tell yourself you're the "good girl ne…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:18 AM
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Today I learned: https://houseofwise.co/products/house-of-wise-gummy-sex
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 11:41 PM
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It is quite sad to see how many women on apps are so delusional because it is men who spends way more time to get a match, not women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 04:21 PM
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Sir, ma'am, whatever, I'm a software engineer. I assure you I have a better grasp of statistics than you. I read it. Actually pretty funny but thankfully not as ridiculous as the girl on this post. A few observations: - She's extremely defensive. Goes on to even say "I don't give a fuck about all men suffering". That's half of humanity. Shows a lack of selflessness. Even as a guy who knows far too well that modern women has the upper hand, I still respect women in general and wouldn't as far to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 11:04 AM
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We need more this type of profiles because this is actually, in my experience (25-35) much more common than single mothers (which are probably more common 35-45). Following everyone else, here's my generic rules & translations for this kind of stuff: More than 2 bikini pics = swipe left Talks about her physical assets = swipe left More than 50% pictures showing body = swipe left States political views = swipe left Mentions "feminism" = swipe left More than 2x stating career "driven" or "success"…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 05:17 PM
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Jesus fucking christ. Looking for friends + not FWB + serious relationship = Taking a break from serial CC, collecting beta buck numbers, and back on the CC she goes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/21 04:51 PM
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My point that I personally haven’t seen much before is that is a woman in her 30s was prepared to humble herself and offer far more to the relationship - more passion , more desire, treat the man like he is the best thing since sliced bread - then there are times where this could be better than an aloof woman in her 20s who knows she has a queue of 100s of men in her DMs and tinder matches and can readily increase that It's simply because regardless of age, women still has the market advantage. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 05:53 PM
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I just don't get it. Like if you're into CC, why the fuck would you have kids and if it's the wrong guy, why have 3 kids? Like I'm struggling just to justify 1 kid and most likely won't have any kids. Crazy world out there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 07:24 AM
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Great write-up! I was going to edit my original post but instead I'll just link to this. I'll add that the above is very typical of traditional companies and their tech division, such as banks, retail companies, hospitals, or pharmacies, but /u/KoloGupta correct me if I'm wrong. I'll give a different perspective here mostly from my friends and my own experience in FAANG-like tech companies. Usually, women in these companies are my age 25-35 and very few much older because these companies themsel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 01:17 AM
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Will do, although I don't consider myself RedPill, it's probably better giving money to these folks than Reddit, if not just for the reason of Reddit not giving a fuck about its communities and power-modding behaviors.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 09:51 PM
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Wow the fuck did I just read. Folks, you can feel this. Desire can't be faked, not time and time again. PLEASE take notice and when you do notice, run fast, run FAR.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 06:38 AM
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"another corporate type". Dear God, I also work in tech and this is a massive massive red flag. Edit: At work right now but will elaborate and give some examples tonight!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 05:37 PM
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Hang in there buddy. For me, I just stopped caring cuz I don't predicate my happiness based on having a family or do I strongly want kids. I've got a lot of happily married friends or LTR couples and all of them agree with me that it's just gonna be hard for me to find the right girl - they all tried to help and failed lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 05:32 PM
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It's from one of my fav journalists. :) I think as much as we hate the status quo, we can also learn a little here and there and sometimes too much hate consumes a lot of energy. Learnt that from experience lmao. Cheers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 06:32 AM
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ambivert I guess she means both an introvert and an extrovert but I think unfortunately people like this puts less thought into their dating profile compared to how fast I'm typing this response right now. Saying you are in the middle (or aka neutral) is basically saying you're average or to be more blunt, saying nothing. It is better to be more descriptive and side with one side or at least explain both sides if you're neutral. In journalism, we call this The View from No Where. But again, if t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 04:24 AM
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Re hobbies, very accurate. Most of these women I talk to do not have any real hobbies besides gym, traveling, PARTYYYYY, and showing off on social media by taking 40 minutes to take 1 single fucking photo. Very unfortunate and yet most says "career-driven" when they never talk about their passion for their line of work lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 04:40 AM
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First and foremost, I think she needs a math lesson followed by a grammar lesson.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 04:37 AM
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The thing is..the women who can be responsible and can easily date are a very thin portion of the Reddit women population. Think about it, in this day and age, a 5/10 women can easily date on an app in a matter of seconds. Would they even have time to bitch about their dating woes and hating men or men subs? No, because they understand the game favors them and actively leverages that advantage. There's simply no reason to bitch when the market significantly favors you. Thus most women in these t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 01:53 AM
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And....GOLD! Thank you and the mod team for fighting!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 01:46 AM
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It's interesting how many times I've read similar profiles (not this fucked up, friends + black only shit) that says "a new chapter", "a new beginning", "reinvent myself", "journey to discover myself" and none of it means anything. They are at best covering up their past sexual history, insecurities, fucked-up shit they did and at worst completely lying about their past, their mental problems, and ignoring deep rooted problems instead of facing them without fear. Another dating tip: when matched…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:39 PM
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Absolutely mate. Social media exacerbates the culture decline by accelerating it with widespread distribution. On top of that, as you said, a lot of men are lonely and hate their lives but they don't make their voices heard, which again flips over the rhetoric. Most young women still believe they are disadvantaged while practical experience have taught them just how much power they have over men. I'm really not a fan of this imbalance and any women who misconstrue this dynamic by spreading it vi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:06 PM
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As some others have said mate, if you are fortunate to be the 5 percent of men in looks and that's what you desire, then all the power to you. The problem is that it's not an equal market thus most men, especially those who are not top 5 percent and don't have the wisdom to understand the teachings of this sub - they are simply non competitive and takes a hit on their mental health because they can't date or get sex. From a society perspective that's really bad for men, regardless if a guy wants…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 04:35 PM
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Honestly this post makes me a little deflated. CC jokes and theories aside, FOMO is so strong in society that people (both men and women) believes that living a "full" life requires doing CC over and over until ....what exactly? Western culture has idealized sleeping around so much that people will literally throw away a great relationship for a chance at it. Just fucking wow, mates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 07:26 AM
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Cuz he didn't see it. Men gotta be better at observing their own woman. If she doesn't have any desire and doesn't get excited to see you, you'll feel it. Some of this desire does fade after the hot and heavy period but a lot of it is also retained and comes out in non sexual ways. Unfortunately, a lot of men miss those and get into this situation. I do love that she starts to realize this is a concern all this time later LOL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 09:02 PM
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Wise words my friends and a great rule for dating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 08:58 PM
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Bruh, when I was on dating apps, I constantly see 3 bikini pics with the camera angle from the ground directly pointing at her ass and she has her back to the camera with 1000 cock stare. Below the line reads: "Loyalty and honesty"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 01:00 AM
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Well I think we are talking about very different things, I'm strictly talking about the fact that with online dating there is 10 guys to each women and every women can up their standards (aka date up).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 12:57 AM
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It's super easy tell too like girls just cannot resist themselves to post bikini pics and ass pics. For me, one or two is ok but even the dumbest men can't miss a girl using her body to get likes. It's like a Tesla in the middle of a bicycle parking lot lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 12:19 AM
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I think, as much as we like to make fun of it, on average's still easy for women to date up (albeit not that much), given that if they don't have a kid. For example, hate to use numbers but to illustrate a point: let's say this women is a 7.5/10 but can easily date 9/10s or 10/10s because of the dating market. After CC, she's a 5.5/10 but can still easily date 7/10 or even 8/10s again due to the market. A lot of guys out there just get lonely or by society pressure cave and accept his "fate" and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 12:06 AM
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+++++++++++1000 to Instagrammers. It's actually a great way to find women that share your values. A girl can only hide her Instagram for so long and when you see it's full of booty pics just begging for simps to worship her...it's an automatic: "Well, let's split the check. I don't think we are the same type of people", "Aw WHY?" "Because my self-worth isn't based on the broadcast of my personal life to thirsty creeps on the Internet" Has worked wonders for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 11:47 PM
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You know, I've deleted all my OLD profiles a while ago but I'm thinking of starting back one just so I can capture these profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 11:40 PM
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GOLD! You made my day with this fucking hilarious comment. LMFAO
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 11:39 PM
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Gonna go read it now. :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 09:14 PM
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LOL absolutely mate. I'm very glad that I found this sub because I suspected this for a long time but the average person doesn't want to admit how much power women has over men on dating apps these days. Fucked up and sad. To me equality relationships are the best because it's easy to measure relative value. Like if we both value intelligence we rank each other's and find someone close. Compared to say, completely different value relationships that trade say, beauty for money..well..that's the t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 06:59 PM
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Jesus, that's fucked up man. Really sorry that happened to you! Indeed, some of the entitlement is just fucking through the roof. These days, we've got too many simps and it's a flywheel effect that continues to build entitlement. If only men starts reading this sub and stop simping so much then it may be slightly better. Stay strong mate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 12:40 AM
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lmao, I feel the same about the debates. Most of the top answers are rooted in simple but often false generic assumptions. In reality, there's a lot more nuance to how people act and from what I'm reading, people will say men does X and women does Y without digging into what cultural forces or dating market dynamics of why they do so. For example, women can engage in hypergamy because the online dating market significantly favors them in ratios way beyond 10:1 and that alone explains about 80% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:14 PM
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Man it's honestly crazy to hear these stories now because now the dating market significantly favors women. The more the market favors women the easier it is for women to get entitled or subconsciously up their requirements. I'm on /r/PurplePillDebate and dear God every argument/question basically comes down to this one irrefutable fact but people just keep going back and forth lawl. It's a crazy world out there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:32 AM
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Geez for real? You should rest up and relax lol, I'm finding this Reddit a bit less interesting now. The same opinions gets shared over and over again, albeit that people here are way more chill towards each other compared to other subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:10 AM
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Jesus christ, sometimes I cannot believe how delusional people are mate. One of the smartest people I know, a Stanford grad, told me the story that he couldn't date at all in grad school because he was short and all the girls were from prominent families looking for someone taller, sexy, and intelligent. He's got the last 2 but miserably failed the first. I was so fucking surprised. Like I talk to a lot of Ivy grads and honestly most of them are far from smart so I don't say lightly when I thoug…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 12:27 AM
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Great stuff mate. I think I already subscribe to 1, 3, and 4. For 3, occasionally I'd give them the benefit of the doubt but usually if it's a bad one it just shows fast. I care a lot less about words than action and when someone wants to use you, well, they usually don't do shit or contribute to the relationship. For 2, ethically it's against my standards to go to church when I do not believe God exists lmao but agreed have been trying to do a lot of outdoor group activities with my mates and t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 12:21 AM
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Wow - thanks for sharing mate, literally bought more coins to give you 2 gold. That's a lot of effort. So I've been reading this sub a lot and learning more defensive strategies and fortunately, I haven't got fucked over yet but I'm extremely careful in who I date. Wondering if you have any tips mate in dating in your 30s but strictly avoiding all the types mentioned here and especially Heidis. I know this is a very vague question but still wanted to ask. I'm more of a equality dater = I look fo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 06:13 PM
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If everybody is a king or queen then I guess nobody is a true king/queen lmao. But folks, the point of the comment stands. I don't think men hold all the power (especially online dating) but we DO have the choice to choose who we date. Just because the online dating market and modern fucked up hook up culture gives you bad choices and forcing you to date down, doesn't mean you have to succumb to that level. Date someone worthy and someone you deserve.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 05:41 PM
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Just wanted to add that /r/datingoverthirty is extremely toxic for people who didn't know. You can check my post history for an argument on monogamy with a mod which I easily won and what does the mod do? They not only deleted my argument and banned me from the sub but they went and deleted every single thing I've posted in that sub. Avoid AT ALL cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:26 AM
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Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:18 AM
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Both assumptions are... respectfully... delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:11 AM
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Curious why you're into TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:09 AM
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You should look at how many men do actually end up paying for child support even if by ethically equality standards they may not have to. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:08 AM
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I see. That'd do it. Thank you for sharing your story and wisdom mate. I'm pretty careful but dear God these days you can never be too careful. It's better to be a single guy rather than risk it with the crazies. I'm learning a lot of defensive strategy with this sub and helping a few friends navigate this fucked up dating world together. Cheers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 03:03 AM
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Dude... How the heck did you fall for her in the first place mate. Anybody tells me they believe they are an Egyptian princess but don't have keys to the gold vaults down in the Pyramids I call bull. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 02:46 AM
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Can you link the stories mate? Very curious. Are they on your post history?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 02:41 AM
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Couldn't said it better than myself. Women lie a fuckton and men too but men don't lie much about hook up culture...and women does lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 02:36 AM
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Well this part we're in agreement right. You're saying that women selects men's intelligence by heuristics refined through time and experience rather than actually testing for it. That's exactly what I'm saying mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:28 AM
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Don't really agree with your take because again those are just society's conventional view, which I don't equate as actual intelligence, which was my point. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:34 AM
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Attraction doesn't have to be only physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:10 PM
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From my experience neither sex looks for intelligence. Most just looks for conventional markers of success - aka your bank account and your job and some may even look at your degree and school. What's funny is none of that, even Harvard doctors and MBAs are great measures of intelligence. True intelligence - in all sense of the word - is quite rare and sadly nobody in the dating world cares. It's all about status and privilege, as it always happen been in the millenniums of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:29 PM
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No because that's quite the outdated definition of traditionalism - the men provide $$$ and women care for the family. Modern traditionalism, if I can be bold enough to define it, is basically an equality focused relationship. I would actually go and argue that modern hypergamy is extremely inefficient because only a small segment of top men population gets matched while the bottom segment of men and top segment of women have no matches and most of them,,even the top end of women can't afford 1 …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:22 AM
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With the right woman, life's more fun and exciting then if it's the same dull shit you do all day. With the wrong woman, life feels more fun and bubbly especially to outsiders but you're actually dreading it every fucking second.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:37 AM
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Creepy is one of the worst words of the modern generation. It's a catchall that has absolutely no meaning. That said, are these relationships also imbalanced? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:11 AM
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LMFAO
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 12:28 AM
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Indeed but the point is that even if they practice the "painful" procedures, it's irrelevant to OP's point. Also, painful is also debatable but let's not go there. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:06 PM
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These practices are done to induce trauma and obedience to a repressive culture in those men. For muslims, it's actually considered a sign of belonging). It's also not part of the Quran and thus more tradition than religious. Thus, OP's point does not hold in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:48 PM
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Good lord. I'm so glad I'm off these fucking apps LOL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 08:01 PM
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And can you name those *many traditional cultures" today? How many men out of world population still practice those "painful genital procedures"!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:18 PM
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TRUTH lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:26 AM
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Because it IS weird. Sure if you are 20s in university it's easy, after one starts working it's not so easy. It's the same idea as it is much harder to make friends after you're in your 30s or 40s and I'm talking about good friends not drinking buddies. When one has other obligations, first of all there just isn't that much time for meeting women and people will jump to say "hobbies hobbies hobbies" but that also very rarely work as not all hobbies are inherently social or have enough social eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:22 AM
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Women don't need dating apps because they naturally get approached IRL. Men almost never get approached unless they're chad-level. Pretty fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:18 AM
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I know that she doesn't no what she thinks she noes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 12:55 AM
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Good fuckign god, if people (in this case women) looked for more values instead of "mysteries" or at the least define WTF mystery is, the world will be a much better place. Actually even better, if people told others when they don't have chemistry instead of lying their asses off, the world will be a even better place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 11:23 PM
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Cool small human in "tow"? (Sorry, had to, lmao)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 11:16 PM
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WTF did I just read. Also "small hands" = pro? The fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 11:14 PM
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Love your answer to my question - please stay that way LOL. Re: value, well it's done in a various of ways right. I don't have a concrete answer but after a few dates people (men and women) assess "value" and determine if it's a go or not. That's basically it and on apps, it's mostly done solely by the "looks" value. I did a quick search/read-up on Assortative mating theory and I'm going to say that probably the assumption is that both sexes have equal selection and we don't have that in the mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:57 PM
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Hypergamy or basically dating someone those values (in all different dimensions) are above one's own. I also have a question for you, more out of curiosity: /r/Diabla is extremely manipulative and they agree. For subs like /r/Vindicta - how far does one go in "weaponizing beauty"? On one hand it can be being as hot as you can be (which I'm totally fine with) but one can see that it can also be used in very manipulative ways. Where does or where should one draw the line? Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:20 PM
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It is not about sex (or the lack thereof), marriages, or even settling down. The fact is that, due to dating market dynamics, women, especially young ones, have more options in dating, whether online or offline and thus naturally shift their preferences to much higher levels than their own simply because they can. (Because why not?) Therefore men of any caliber is forced to date someone significantly below their preferences or expectations or not date at all and thus becoming "sexless/single/or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:06 PM
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Thank you for the rapid response! You may want to update the "PPD Discord" tab invite link so more people can join!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:49 PM
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This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:15 PM
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I love how he just responds to every comment and say "well I didn't lie" and "but they didn't ask". Quite funny actually that the guy thinks omitting the pre-requisites of starting a relationship means they don't exist. By that logic, anybody can start doing terrible things as long as nobody asks them - lawl. Also OP, relationships are an assumed contract between 2 parties and usually in healthy relationships exclusivity is assumed much earlier and does not require formal definition ("Hi we excl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:14 PM
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Awwwww dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:21 PM
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I can understand in this market and thus why I just can't do the "build a woman up thing." At least you are honest with her and she's ok with it. Mutual honesty..is dead in this world lmao. Luck mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:37 PM
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Yea it's pretty good - I personally wouldn't be ok ethically talking to other women if I'm trying make her into gf material and especially if we're having sex. Hope it works out dude. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:23 PM
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Well in this case, I think if you are honest about her about the casual part, and there's agreement on both sides to define the current state of the relationship, I think it's fair. Basically, you can try to build her up to the women you like, if you wish and she knows you are doing it. Or she can decide that this is not for me and bail, equal opportunity on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:55 PM
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The issue with this scoring is that....in the modern dating world of online apps, immutable trait 1 and 2 are worth 1000 points whereas mutable traits 1 may be worth 500 but 2 and 3 are worth 200 and the others a lot less and often things like desire (aka "spark") is triggered by the combination of some immutable trait with an immutable trait but without that immutable trait, it just doesn't work. Thus, improving oneself doesn't work if the traits women seek are top 1%. Does that mean we shouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:52 PM
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Not is it not the right move? If you know she spent that much money on you and you're not into her, it is the right move. Men can be defensive and we should be but that doesn't mean we dumb down to play the manipulative games.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:40 PM
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Dude I'm not a religious man but what you've learned is that people lie their asses off. Going to church is nice but church doesn't really teach how manipulative people can be. Now you realizes that just because..someone says they are Christian doesn't necessarily mean shit. This is an attack on both your religion and your faith in women and hence I think why it fucked you up. Tread carefully mate and God bless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 04:02 PM
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LMAO pretty much!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:34 AM
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After reading all these pill-dets, don't be an manipulative asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:23 AM
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Enjoy life. Note I'm guessing since I'm neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:15 AM
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Agreed - posted another attempted explanation here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qt7ubs/comment/hkhwguo/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:11 AM
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Well, I don't think any of this can be fixed quickly but that starting inequality of optionality is huge and creates really bad power dynamics. It's also a culture thing and happens a lot less in non-western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:39 PM
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I think you're right and I'm wrong so now I'm not so sure Hmm. Could be that at 20-30 there's an increase in sex for women because they have free access but after 30 it's "gated" and people are not getting married so that the 30-50 age is significantly deprived. To your point, for 20-30 age group if say 80 percent of women is having sex with 40 percent men and assuming equal population that would be 60 of all population in that segment compared to say 20 years ago this was 60 60 then sex haven't…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:23 PM
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Well perhaps my theory is wrong afterall LOL. Another dude pointed out that women can get sex easily if they want to and I think he's absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:18 PM
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I'll say, just make two dating accounts of average looks and see how many matches each get. It's as simple as that but agreed with your other observations about America.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:16 PM
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Absolutely, we are in agreement. My comment is more to use your reply to point out some of the nuance inconsistencies and logical fallacies to the sub as a whole. I do hope that dating in Europe is better, because here it's a fucking mess, especially for the "upper middle class". (I'm using quotes because I don't like to self denounce deference)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:42 PM
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Because only the top 10-20% of both sexes have sex while the rest moan in agony on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:40 PM
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3 words: hook up culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:29 PM
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As hilarious as this comeback is, there is some truths to it. Note this is not about women in particular but both sexes. If MOST people want to date traditionally then why the fuck does hook up culture exist? This means that most people DO LOVE hook up culture (albeit bitching about it to friends, family and Reddit).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:25 PM
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I like this comment a lot. What I don't understand from a lot of these pill subs is that even when most of us are US citizens, the concept of equality just evades the conversation. Men brings money, women bring sex. Men brings stability, women brings the fun + spontaneous. I find it all very odd. In my social circle, the biggest complaint is finding intelligent, educated women who is fun/interesting besides being "career-driven and successful". To a point I think it is this way because modern da…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:20 PM
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Thank you for saying this shit. Why would good guys or guys who are above average up overcompensate effort and compromise significantly on standards just because the dating market radically favors women online? There's an alternative to "that's life" and the alternative is to quit the game. Doesn't necessarily mean Red Pill but the game is not worth it for most men, regardless of their "level" because at every level they have much more to lose than gain by dating significantly below. Cheers mate…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:07 PM
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There are Chats for both sexes and it's a negative-sum for all averages, again both sexes. That is literally the reason why we've got so many damn pills in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:02 PM
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assume every guy around me is a red pill/incel Do I dare to ask what's the equivalent of those assumptions for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:47 PM
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Wow you're probably the first person who I respect and who reads FDS - albeit I still think it's an extremely toxic sub that degrades humanity. Either way, it is unfortunate that you've had some terrible past experiences and yet still haven't given up. Good luck and perhaps make your own version of a much more healthier dating space than FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:40 PM
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After reading all this damn pill sub Reddits lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:31 PM
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Good looking, intelligent, or..gosh "high-valued" women just don't frequent Reddit. They don't have an account and they don't give a fuck because they don't need any "strategy" and just meet people naturally. The same goes for men but to a lesser degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:31 PM
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Because most men accepts the reality that women has the power in hook-up culture, while a good amount of women can't accept the outliers (in this case) that certain men could have power as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:26 PM
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It always become a topic on social media. I feel like men want to try to excruciate women by putting them on the spot with this question or use it to make them feel bad lol. Good men don't usually ask this but it's still a good question from a philosophical perspective: basically show your values. The key is knowing what the other person value and answer it in a way that you think they are looking for but NOT lying in the process. Most people (both sexes) tend to answer this with materialistic t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:36 PM
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Don't even need to read. I will say, society doesn't need entitled and selfish assholes as CEOs or key decision makers. Turns out, most people get to these positions by being extremely selfish and manipulative, giving no fucks to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:07 AM
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but if they love a man they can't do it, only if they don't love em anymore or don't respect him, or it's some swinger action they can do it. (at least that is true for most women), basically most women are what leftist call demisexual. Again I think that's your belief. Obviously there's very few statistics that can measure the probability a sex cheats over the other. What I will say, or rather repeat I said previously - people who have options and people who are not happy in a relationship tend…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:12 PM
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I don't read Red Pill or MGTOW but..gold for having empathy..which is basically impossible to find on Reddit..or anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:17 PM
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Just um a friendly reminder that both men and women cheat. And if the goal of cheating is some fun sex, then it's a lot easier for women. We gotta stop overly generalizing on this sub from personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:07 PM
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Porn and fantasies isn't real life. Let's just give one example, how many male friends have told you that they only date MILFs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:40 PM
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Jeff Bezos: Aries for real? That's what you're going with? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 03:31 PM
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Lmao why do I even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:28 PM
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And what values did they lose? Most men still want to provide for their family and most women still values stability. I don't think those values changed at all. The difference as you noted is that previously women had lower standards and now they've got relatively extremely standards. If you're making 0, you can settle with 40k income dude but now because of the dating market if you're making 40k you may want 200k. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:41 PM
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I see some discussion below that the core issue is men have lower standards because want sex or just care less. I don't buy it even if it's very true anecdotally. Men have lower standards because of the online dating market. There's 10x more men on apps than women and thus most MUST lower their standards. While it's true that men generally want more sex than women I think that difference is relatively small broadly. At a young age, both men and women loves to sleep around. The problem is that du…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:30 PM
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Interesting in my experience the younger someone is, regardless of women or men, the more into hookup culture they likely are. I also find it very hard to have any intellectual discussions because young people just don't read much. Your miles may vary I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:29 AM
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Well to me it's extremely shallow and I'll just leave it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:27 AM
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Agreed I think the difference is reduced if we're talking about very good looking young women but meh it's just hard to make these kind of sweeping predictions because...if we define success by money at 200k sure but again that's just too shallow for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:26 AM
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As a dude, just wanted to say, love the responses from the comment section!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:28 PM
1

Um, maybe not hinge your happiness on the frequency of intercourse?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:25 PM
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I constantly rate myself 1/10 yet I constantly outperform society's 9/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:06 PM
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I love this post. Each sex shames the other for preferences that unfortunately are pretty common: men prefers good looking and thus younger women, women prefers men with money and thus "successful". Both are quite shallow in their own right. I saw some comments below debating..and I don't even want to participate. There is no point. Personal experiences differ and the best thing one can do find what's best for yourself and what expectations you want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:03 PM
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FDS and wholesome? Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:29 PM
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Conservative describes her values or more accurately, the stereotypical classification of this values. Gold digging is materialism values. One can be both or neither. To find out so you ask her how rich and does she want to work at all after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:44 PM
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First I'm a guy and I just found this sub reddit. I'm hoping people can actually have a logical debate here. And before I go on, YES dating apps are terrible for the human race. Below, I talk about the relative difference, not absolute. This is critical. 1 more caveat..so we don't start a gender war here - when I say I disagree, it doesn't necessarily mean the points are wrong or they don't occur, it's just that their relative importance is minor. Now onto the points.... Men: 2 and 3 are not rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:27 AM
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