Hefty-Barber-8256 Archive

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3	Nun mode. Extra tip. Beware that dads hormones fluctuate too. Theres a lot of pressure to be a good dad and not mess up. A lot of guys get lower libido and so on for some time after a pregnancy.	/r/RedPillWives	02/01/22 02:06 AM
3	Nun mode. If you trust him, you could just show him this post. Tell him how much you miss him and what you'd want the two of you to work on. Don't put it in nagging terms, which can be difficult in a tough spot, or he will hear you telling him around. For the same reason, don't suggest couples therapy this early either unless he brings it up favorably himself. Once someone feels more questioned than valued, they stop engaging properly. You can do this. I already see you have the qualities it would take. I…	/r/RedPillWives	02/01/22 01:59 AM
5	Nun mode. It sounds to me like you sought a breeder and you got it. I'm not religious myself, but ask and you shall recieve. (and conceive apparently) What else did you see in this guy? If he won't go down on you, why is that? Is that a new thing or was he never into it? Porn consumption, like sex, can greatly warp a mans mind too. If he's addicted, what is he trying to compensate for in his own soul right now? He needs motivation(s) to break the habit. Telling him to go out with a selfiidentified slut mi…	/r/RedPillWives	02/01/22 01:28 AM
1	Why do we control (or feel the need to control)? Not to try to control your life, but a tip might be to get him more involved in the logic behind the selection of the gifts. To engage his rational and playful sides. A bit like a game, rather than a problem or the other way around depending on which way he leans. That way men feel there is more of a reason to care and a real stake in the outcome. I too, as a man, generally don't feel it otherwise. Especially if there are other problems/tasks around to take care of, it feels like a waste of time…	/r/RedPillWives	15/09/21 08:50 AM
0	Why do we control (or feel the need to control)? Control is good, when you want it that is.	/r/RedPillWives	07/09/21 07:02 PM
2	Why do we control (or feel the need to control)? Is he social and do they want the gifts? If not, you are creating a false personality and then attaching yourself to it. If he is and they are, you may be helping but would do better to find a way around the nagging part. No man likes to be nagged, if that is what he feels it is. (He may put up with it, if he for whatever reason finds it cute/useful or finds you good enough in other areas)	/r/RedPillWives	07/09/21 04:37 PM
3	Why do we control (or feel the need to control)? The validity of your ideas here, for one thing, depend a lot on what you mean by "control" in this context. It's good for women to have standards and polarity. No good man wants a woman who acts truly unthinkingly or weak willed. He, as she, wants a passionate - in some sense to him exotic - being.	/r/RedPillWives	07/09/21 04:32 PM
11	Smoking husband Hoping I'm not violating any rules by commenting (my apology for the intrusion ladies) but I'm a man and would likely take those little "hints" or "helpers" as nagging. And yes, any kind of treating me like a child is different from endearing or cute. It's a complete turnoff and worse. OP, I hope you're not having sex with this guy right now. Tell him it's not him that you're turned off by, it's the smoke lingering or even better the fact that he's smoking is a turn off. But pick one reason and …	/r/RedPillWives	18/08/21 02:52 PM
12	Wives, how did you meet your husband? "Now all I need is to get a successful brother..."	/r/RedPillWives	21/05/21 08:32 PM
2	CMV: Men are more into commitment than women, that's why they can't find men to commit Well spoken	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 12:55 AM
2	CMV: Men are more into commitment than women, that's why they can't find men to commit Both the same, which is why they don't see a problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 12:53 AM
3	CMV: Men are more into commitment than women, that's why they can't find men to commit Especially not love. - Ayn Rand	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 12:50 AM