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22

Because fuck marriage honestly and fuck everyone that should've taken a serious moment for a man to man conversation on the truth about marriage with the young men in their lives, but didnt. Fuck em all. Tell your sons the truth about this shit.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 11:45 PM
1

This is the great thing about our dvds and movies.... no matter how old they get, they still play like the 1st time. I have pretty much lost interest with today's style, taste whatever in movies so I just watch my old favorites.. also theres so much more global shit to go back and watch i never probably ever need to leave the 90s
/r/MensRights28/07/26 11:56 AM
1

This is only going to result in the loneliness of millions of women and men both. So sad that just yesterday it seemed like we were worried about over population. Now...... it appears that theres such a big wedge driven in between men and women the birth rate of the world is plummeting... but oh well right boys!!! Haha let them have the bear, the money, the career we dont care lol. We're stacking bread and having laughs with the boys!!! 🤣🤣
/r/MensRights15/07/26 12:35 PM
1

I thank you and women like you OP. You are all a breathe of fresh air compared to what we're used to.
/r/MensRights13/07/26 01:41 PM
1

More glue
/r/MensRights13/07/26 11:53 AM
14

She will victim blame
/r/MensRights06/07/26 08:19 PM
2

Lol do you feel like men DONT have to prove themselves more at work?
/r/MensRights06/07/26 01:32 PM
13

Its sad but that's the answer. Go where the hard work is, the dirt, the mud and blood and sweat. You find these things and you'll find no women. Its great. 👍
/r/MensRights01/07/26 01:29 PM
4

Good luck young man. I grew up with highly misandrist women as well.. i literally had to leave the house every day and stay gone for every minute I could. I only came home to sleep and shower. But you can escape most people so you'll be alright.
/r/MensRights24/06/26 01:19 PM
9

Its sad that the truth in this comment attracts so many up votes.
/r/MensRights23/06/26 04:15 PM
17

Thats the spirit that id like to see more of around this sub personally. Praise for the boys you know. Ive never had the issue that you've described though. I am glad you have seen the truth of the good strength, knowledge and wisdom that men possess. When you turn a hair bit of focus away from the smallest fraction of the "bad men" and just look at all the success its undeniable who is who around here...
/r/MensRights20/06/26 09:23 PM
50

Its covert simpery. You wont convince me otherwise.
/r/MensRights10/06/26 01:44 PM
3

This isnt an issue. All of us fighting amongst ourselves over trivial things like race or gender while fat cats only sit back and get fatter had caused me to check out. Yall are so blind its not funny anymore
/r/MensRights08/06/26 01:02 PM
47

Harden your hearts gentlemen....... DO NOT CONFIDE IN ANYONE that bleeds every month because your weaknesses and feelings are their tools and weapons against you. Find a guy to relay your problems and ideas to or hell just write it all down but do not tell people.
/r/MensRights28/05/26 02:08 PM
2

For sure. Its a curious thing i agree
/r/MensRights27/05/26 05:19 PM
6

Ive seen pics of m grandpa and I love the man. But him age 30 and me age 30 and im gonna fuck him and his brothers all the way up so again not weaker.
/r/MensRights27/05/26 03:29 PM
3

Less disciplined maybe but not weaker
/r/MensRights27/05/26 03:27 PM
42

He'll adapt as we've had to adapt. He'll be ok
/r/MensRights18/05/26 10:42 PM
5

I dont know why any man would ever choose to do this shit twice... im still in my first marriage as rocky as its been, for better? Not really but im still hanging in there. You can bet the farm that I am the ONLY reason we are still together but I say this, I will probably be seeking my exit shortly after my youngest turns 18... then ill get to start saving to retire again.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 11:35 AM
-7

Calm down its just a descriptor for the investigation we have going.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 06:40 PM
-6

Not really... im of a mind that such treatment comes with being a man. Ill also keep my physical attributes as is ie. Strength, bone density, testosterone and any amount of aggression i can muster against any would be attacker v.s. being coddled and pampered and told im a sweet little innocent baby thats always right.... no thanks id rather die a man to whatever violence happens to me if thats what it comes to.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 03:28 PM
3

I can talk in a feminine voice and pretend to be something else long enough to change clothes lol
/r/MensRights06/05/26 11:44 PM
11

Yep. Gonna have to find a serious hobby and adopt a new outlook that focuses less on bigger societal issues and more on personal internal calmness. Thats what you want is peace and comfort. As men, we have to find such things within ourselves because everyone else WANTS your energy.. stop giving so much away and save some for yourself and you'll feel better.
/r/MensRights06/05/26 09:25 PM
1

Luckily I also chose that path.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 12:44 AM
1

Try listening to NDEs on YouTube. (Near death experiences) may assist you with any spiritual quest you might or might not find yourself in. They are not special to any religion race or creed and people of all ages, genders and statuses report strikingly similar stories. Plus its really interesting. I think you are doing really well but you haven't yet seemed to accept the loneliness that comes with western manhood. Find SOMEONE or SOMETHING to talk to is the solution to much of what you are expe…
/r/MensRights05/05/26 12:40 AM
1

Lol... they also sent a similar message to a woman's sub. Take a guess on how it was received. Go check it out.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 04:57 PM
38

Yeah they showed you what they REALLY think about you. Now just be grateful none of you are financially responsible for any of them. Many men dont meet the real woman they marry until shes trying to leave him and drag him in front of a man hating judge.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 11:40 AM
4

The exception doesnt make the rule and if you and your friends dont fit in this category then wonderful we are happy to have you here but a 2026 poll by Merlin Strategy for the New Statesman found that only 35% of women under 25 hold a positive view of men, with young women under 30 being three times as likely to hold a negative view compared to those over 30.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 11:33 AM
1

Tell me how I was racist
/r/MensRights29/04/26 07:00 PM
18

No problem 👍 I should clarify better
/r/MensRights29/04/26 12:47 PM
63

That is NOT what I mean. Feminist men and women are the ones fighting against an imaginary enemy that is the "oppressive patriarchy" Average men are not shouting around misogyny and spreading hate. The average woman aged 18 to 25 absolutely hates the average man and is doing everything in her power to spread misandry. Letting everyone know that she and her girlies dont need no man and men are evil... Meanwhile average Joe and myself just go to work and continue to build, maintain and protect thi…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 12:40 PM
100

Simple. Because we aren't actively trying to subvert control. They are.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 11:19 AM
2

This is manhood. Yeah it kinda sucks but comes with the digs.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 12:37 AM
21

Just carry on like normal bud. Today you're the subject of conversation and tomorrow it will be someone else. These girls get bored easily especially if they see that gaslighting you doesn't work so let it roll off your back
/r/MensRights28/04/26 03:37 PM
3

I just distance myself from self hating men and man hating women... its a pretty simple strategy but its undefeated
/r/MensRights28/04/26 12:58 PM
0

Not in my lived experience. Ive had the best luck by learning to let go of my trauma vs. Trying to explain it to anyone. Not a man or woman problem to me because nobody could relate to MY trauma truly anyhow. Learning to deal with your trauma alone is so much more powerful than carrying it around and especially telling anyone at all about it. And theres also "Dont tell others about your problems as a man, because 90% of people do not care, and the other 10% are glad you have them."
/r/MensRights23/04/26 12:24 AM
1

Yeah i dont work with them.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 06:37 PM
0

Yeah gents those are the people you need to actively avoid and fully ignore their existence. Dont engage with them, dont argue or fight with them because their minds are made up about us and thats fine. Take solace in the fact that some day, something is going to happen in their lives where they'll need to call someone for help. They'll fall down a stair or trip on a dildo but..... They will call someone for help and ill bet you 100 to 1 on $1000 that the person that shows up to help will be a M…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 11:46 AM
10

Most people go outside to get their reality check. Some people never go outside and have made it their life goal to be combative behind their screens and keyboards. Just focus on treating people with respect, men and women both, and you'll be treated respectfully as well. You are going to run into a few bad apples of both genders you'll see but you just cant take them to heart. Some people are just assholes, lol men and women both!!
/r/MensRights27/03/26 08:34 PM
6

Lol bro what?
/r/MensRights20/03/26 03:27 PM
10

They're really wanting us to completely and utterly ignore their existence aren't they? Lol too easy I say.
/r/MensRights19/03/26 06:16 PM
1

I dont care. You say im living in fear but you know absolutely nothing about it.
/r/MensRights18/03/26 01:59 PM
2

I know what its like not having parents and it sucks. So im going to raise my children. If you think that makes me "less" for doing so then thats your opinion and your opinion of me is none of my concern.
/r/MensRights18/03/26 12:54 PM
1

I might when my youngest turns 18
/r/MensRights18/03/26 12:38 PM
32

Listen to him hes right bud. Most importantly, dont go down the rabbit hole of looking for misandry or man haters they are abundant i assure you. Just live your life and be thankful for what you have. When you run into quarelsome women dont take it personal. They are like that with everyone.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 09:08 PM
2

Ive signed a contract that forces me to provide for someone other than myself. If I neglect that responsibility I will face criminal charges and can potentially be put in prison. If she decides one day that im not good enough or if she decides to just leave or finds someone better than me, I will STILL be responsible for paying her monthly God knows how much money that will cost. If she leaves me im literally paying her to leave. Dude what part of this sounds like a good idea to you?? I made thi…
/r/MensRights17/03/26 07:56 PM
7

Elaborate? What else can I say? Unless you've no idea??
/r/MensRights17/03/26 03:40 AM
7

Thank you and it will work out one way or another but my son will make better decisions than I did.. rather he's gonna at least be taught and have a better understanding of what to expect.. one thing I've got going for me as a man is that im REALLY GOOD at suffering and living in discomfort. 👍
/r/MensRights16/03/26 08:32 PM
28

You're fortunate and its I who envy you.... my situation being what it is i put my focus on my children. My son especially. He needs to know what is going to be expected of him but also what to expect from whoever. My mission is not happiness but to teach him what marriage really means for a man.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 08:05 PM
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Im a married man too and I can say that I agree with you... I wish I had a father that would have explained in depth the implications that go with marriage especially for a man... im sentenced to at least another 13 years of this and I have to constantly be in peak physical, mental and emotional shape or face the very real probability of being divorced. Losing my kids and house along with everything ive worked for my whole life while simultaneously remaining financially responsible as I am marri…
/r/MensRights16/03/26 07:44 PM
12

Lol.. idiots are in no short supply anywhere. I do push ups at home so jokes on them 🤣 😂
/r/MensRights15/03/26 05:35 PM
3

Dont marry
/r/MensRights20/02/26 12:13 AM
5

Thats sick... goes without saying but stay away far away from those women. Dont try to argue or reason with them. Their minds are made up. Speak to women that deserve common kindness and respect by portraying it and the rest will naturally die out because they're ab0rting all of their children.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 09:56 PM
1

Most men, obviously not all, dont need a therapist but instead 1 maybe 2 extremely close guy friends. Ive made it work with only one best friend for 30 years. Buddies, girlfriends and wives come and go but my best friend is there til the end, he knows my head and heart and I know his. When either of us need anything or just to vent or whatever it may be, the other one is right there. No judgment. But also the good thing is we're honest with each other, if he fucked up I tell him as compasionatel…
/r/MensRights28/01/26 09:48 PM
2

Cool. Then Fuck you too lol
/r/MensRights24/01/26 02:24 AM
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Im a journeyman electrician in central Oklahoma. We had an ice storm like 4-5 years ago and everyone water froze bc the frost line here was 18".. it froze 3' down.. Anyways we lost power but I had livestock, and a wood stove in my shop and plenty of firewood so I stayed, did work on the place (cutting broken limbs and trees up and tending my animals) my wife left and took our kids to her parents bc they had power and everything still..... I suggested they stay and wait it out with me as I could …
/r/MensRights22/01/26 04:17 PM
1

Im on par with recording i always have my device ready to roll (discreetly of course) also i have moved my income into my own account. Shes inquired as to why but im slow playing reasons until i am ready for that discussion (she wont like it when i tell her but i dont care im here for my kids now, not her.) thank you for the input but yes my mind is already made up as all I have is my lived experience.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 03:52 PM
4

Yeah.... I hear you but I have to fight my war differently because im still married to the woman that caused me to search and find this sub. I will not raise my kids from afar, as a weekend dad. Its almost come to that but im holding on. Not saying theres anything wrong with it when men choose to separate, but my children need ME... not me on the weekend and some step-dad through the week simping for my ex.. im standing my ground on many things and trying to make her see that I love her and the …
/r/MensRights17/01/26 01:18 AM
9

Id get that for walking out of my house drunk.....
/r/MensRights17/01/26 12:09 AM
2

Well said brother.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 12:23 PM
7

And thats understandable, you cant control other people only yourself. It would be absolutely insane for us to expect you, a woman, to "correct" or confront the women that perpetrate the misandry or you are part of the problem right? Yeah that's pretty bonkers to expect that of a person. Anyways. Glad your here.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 11:58 AM
7

We partied at my best friend's girlfriends house when we were 20. He had to leave and go take someone home, leaving me and his gf home alone drunk. We've been brothers since age 5 so he knows not to worry. Well im on the couch in the living room watching a movie just seconds away from passing out. She asks if I wanna go to her bedroom and mess around, I said nah im good thanks. She pawed at me for like 10 more minutes even groping my junk at some point. And I raise my voice and tell her to knock…
/r/MensRights09/01/26 12:52 AM
1

Stop giving them the spotlight, honestly get off of social media
/r/MensRights31/12/25 05:10 PM
3

I cant even read but I agree with every syllable being said here.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 02:50 PM
2

Maybe research some NDE (Near death experience) videos. It can help put this life into perspective.. I for one actually believe this isnt the only life we get. I believe im an old soul and ive lived many times. Ive lived several lives. We choose each life carefully before coming to earth. We choose what kind of life we're going to have. Many lives are harder to live than others. For instance, in this life I chose to be born to a family that struggles with addiction. Im a 4th generation alcoholic…
/r/MensRights08/12/25 02:39 AM
1

My friend, when you have more, you just have more to lose. Theres a hole in every person that, if they cannot fill it with either love or purpose or joy, then no amount of money will satisfy them. Its not male or female. It is human. So dont feel alone in life because theres billions of us and we dont know what we're doing either. I suggest you make a friend, find a hobby, or some source of joy or purpose and stick to it. Explore your humanity and the earth. Its all we really have.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 05:26 PM
46

Very insightful of you to see past the smoke and mirrors. I hope you find happiness and spread your positivity.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 12:54 AM
4

The longer we (men) give them attention/acknowledgement/comments/ or really ANY ENGAGEMENT WHATSOEVER, the longer we facilitate the platform for them to complain and claim "oppression". As long as theres men that respond either positively or negatively towards their complaining, they will continue to do it... So let us stop pandering to their whining. Let us completely ignore them constantly crying wolf at all of us toxic masculine hard working providing protecting men. Take away their platform.…
/r/MensRights01/12/25 12:23 AM
25

Go gas light someone else thanks.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 04:36 PM
51

This person is cut off from reality and is completely delusional. Fatherless behavior at its best.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 02:55 PM
1

I guess im offering another option than trying to change society as some men are truly just done with anything to do with it. They dont care to change it, they would rather live in peace in solitude. Trying to change it still requires significant time and energy thats better spent on living in peace
/r/MensRights19/11/25 02:36 PM
1

So are you saying im wrong?
/r/MensRights19/11/25 02:21 PM
5

This isnt the only society. And if its no society you want, nothing stops you from living as solitary as you want. Sure you probably need to hit up a fuel stop or grocery store sometimes but otherwise just hit the woods bro and never come out
/r/MensRights19/11/25 12:13 AM
17

Yeah depends on if they are attracted to the man.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 01:41 PM
3

I lost my job and my wife left after 1 month of being unemployed... she took my kids and stayed gone. I got a new job and she came back with my kids after I had the new job for 45 days. 6 months total... so yes that's their MO.
/r/MensRights14/11/25 09:57 PM
6

Guys stop fearing what some stranger might or might not do. Just carry on with your walk wherever the fuck you want. Obviously keep your gaze at eye level like a normal person, dont follow too closely and avoid conversation.. if they feel the need to say something crazy like "stop following me, staring at me or start calling you creepy.. simply DO NOT acknowledge their existence and keep walking with your head up. Thats about enough of this cowardly behavior pandering to snowflakes.
/r/MensRights23/10/25 01:19 AM
3

Men are not loved unconditionally. We grow out of such a thing almost right out of adolescence. Your ability to aquire "love" or more importantly, respect, directly correlates with what you can physically provide. And even then, with today's rampant sense of entitlement among the fairer sex, it may not even come close to being an equal exchange.
/r/MensRights23/10/25 12:19 AM
43

Next time she says your mansplaining, tell her "well then please She-laborate how that makes you feel, im very interested."
/r/MensRights14/10/25 06:18 PM
9

I grew up in the woods and on the farm working cows and livestock with grand dad, my dad and his brothers and their sons. We were aggressive boys and we yell and holler at each other. I played sports with teen boys, football and baseball and we lifted weights in off season. I joined the army and went to Afghanistan (with 99.9% men) not a single woman in my unit. And we cussed and yelled each other and were the best of friends. It was men that kept me safe from other men in the world that would d…
/r/MensRights14/10/25 06:12 PM
3

🤣 they really do.. my wife lets the kids walk all over her and run her down and she gives them everything they want all day long. But when she finally snaps she comes crawling to me with bags under her eyes and zero patience left begging me for a break. I take over the supervision and put them in their place and they dont run me into the ground because I dont allow it and they know "dad means business so we better behave or he'll discipline us" and I maintain my patience and composure all day lo…
/r/MensRights10/10/25 08:50 PM
1

A man wouldn't take another free breathe for years.. but SHE probably is already rehabilitated and learned her lesson and reawy reawy sowwy..
/r/MensRights09/10/25 09:04 PM
1

They literally want supremacy not equality... they've convinced half of you that its equality they are after but look at the laws.. not alot of equality going on there... Men. Protect your time. Protect your attention. And protect your wallets. These people want every valuable fiber you will give them. Be an asshole and just say "NO".. be an "Incel" by just saying "NO THANK YOU". See how fast the name calling starts as soon as your little darling doesn't get her way. Watch how fast her sad tears…
/r/MensRights28/09/25 01:42 AM
0

As a man with a 4 yr old son and 9 yr old daughter, I know im going to have to teach my son completely different than how im teaching my daughter. I Have to teach my son to harness his anger, his sorrow and lust in order to transmutate those emotions directly into productivity and positivity because nobody else will. Nobody on earth cares for a man as he will himself. I am teaching my daughter how to be a good young woman and how to treat a man as well as what she can expect in return. This, I f…
/r/MensRights28/08/25 12:29 PM
13

These people are the products of fatherless homes. We have to show our sons how to treat PEOPLE and our daughters how to treat PEOPLE despite our feelings. Its the mothers showing the children how to act based on their feelings rather than logic. These grown children likely have their minds made up about each other, so the way to change is teaching the kids.. .
/r/MensRights27/08/25 11:09 AM
1

Id sue the fuck outta that company
/r/MensRights26/08/25 01:53 AM
8

You are absolutely right. All I ask from people both men and women is to be real. You dont gotta lie to kick it with me. Dont treat me as a fool and I wont treat you as a fool. If I know more than you about any given subject thats fine, ill tell you all I know. And if you know more about any given subject than me, explain it to me as simply as you can without being condescending. Kindness goes so far with people and people just forget that these days.. especially online. But watch this comment g…
/r/MensRights24/08/25 12:25 AM
1

People are going to call him a monster for this
/r/MensRights17/08/25 12:53 AM
1

Ignore them, let them cry from rooftops about patriarchy. Avoid them in public and disregard their snide remarks and attitudes. If enough of us ignore them and starve them of the attention they oh so crave, we can live peaceful lives. Dont drink with women and dont form relationships with them and cover your behind at all times and they cant accuse you of anything.
/r/MensRights16/08/25 05:09 PM
2

Ill treat you with the same level of decency you show me and ill gladly go first ie ,"hello good morning", hold the door for you. Allow you to walk in front, apologize for brushing shoulders accidentally... but when my decency is met with snide remarks or something worse, you blew your first impression and are now a walking corpse to me. Man or woman equal rights and lefts these hands rated E for everyone lol
/r/MensRights14/08/25 12:13 PM
10

Well... that was a fine use of the dash character 😉 hope you have a good day!
/r/MensRights12/08/25 09:12 PM
4

I will admit i dont include my sister or my daughter in my general sentiment and I certainly dont mean "all women", but its happened more times than not in my personal experience which is why I maintain my current perception. Whether its my geographical location or my generation or horrible luck. Also its entirely possible that its my taste in women and I take full responsibility for what happens to me. What ive decided to do is opt out of personal relationships with women because of my history …
/r/MensRights08/08/25 01:47 AM
3

Yeah being stoic is better for men. If you need to "express yourself" or cry or whatever, do it to a man. Your brother or friend or father, if your lucky enough to have one but never a woman. She will eventually use it to trigger you and attempt to get a reaction from you for one reason or another. Because they can not use force, they use manipulation to try to control the men in their lives, while simultaneously convincing them they are as strong as a man and can do anything a man can.... so no…
/r/MensRights07/08/25 10:34 PM
12

When my wife took my kids and left and stayed gone 5 months after I lost my job i became pretty radical... I fixed my situation,picked myself back up and am doing well now again. She decided to come back funny that innit... ill be raising my kids until my youngest turns 18 then we are over and im out of there.
/r/MensRights06/08/25 10:53 AM
16

"Men should be imprisoned from birth because they are born evil and should have to earn their freedom and place in society through good behavior." ~ Cervix person on a podcast
/r/MensRights31/07/25 02:40 PM
1

I suggest developing a fitness routine or hobby. Read the book (or listen to Ebook) called Think and grow rich. It speaks about what a man can do when he overcomes lust and uses it for creativity or something more productive. Sexual transmutation I believe is what its called. When you use the sexual energy for anything else you'll be extremely surprised with what you can accomplish. Also there are apps you can download that can introduce you to community trying to conquer a porn addiction and yo…
/r/MensRights28/07/25 10:23 PM
1

I know it isnt just lust, it is a major factor though
/r/MensRights27/07/25 02:27 PM
4

Your right. Those Men that cuddle their strippers and prostitutes may not have a lust issue, but another internal male longing of wanting to feel that someone actually cares and will be compassionate towards them. They grow tired of being rock solid all day every day and never get to be the proverbial "little spoon" in their relationships at home. Their wives will not respect them if they show this kind of vulnerability, and they know it, so they outsource it wherever they can. The only way ive …
/r/MensRights24/07/25 11:21 PM
21

If men can control their lust, women cant manipulate them.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 04:15 PM
2

I advise all the young men i work with and teach its better for their health to be happy staying single and avoid casual relationships. Its good to see alot of them prospering and making a good living on their own and not worrying about someone stealing from them with the help of the honorable judges of our wonderful system. Guys are doing great
/r/MensRights10/07/25 12:22 AM
2

These people use these words so loosely they've long lost their bite.
/r/MensRights09/07/25 10:50 AM
18

Hey recognizing it for what it is gives you power
/r/MensRights29/06/25 08:55 PM
1

Im speaking about the average individual. Exceptions dont disprove the fact. Im sorry to hear about your chronic disease I hope you find happiness
/r/MensRights27/06/25 11:46 PM
1

You can get a hug if you join a group and get to know people. These guys need to get off their computers and get out in the world and meet people, as men, nobody's gonna give us anything... I never got a hug for nothing, if I got a hug its because it made someone else feel better or I just did something for them and they appreciate it enough to hug me.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 09:11 PM
2

Theres so many solutions to not finding anyone willing to have sex with you.... 1. Work on yourself, (self esteem, confidence, exercise, eat healthy, get good sleep, read books.) 2. Travel abroad, go to different cities, states and another country if need be. 3. Join a group and meet people. Etc.... this isnt a man/woman issue this is just a people thing. They could be whoever they want and find someone but its easier to just blame something or someone else and accept it than it is to put in wor…
/r/MensRights27/06/25 09:05 PM
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I have a heavy heart for you brother. I had a dose of my new reality last June. I lost my job and after providing for her for 12 years, she decides im more of a hindrance than im worth. She packs up herself and our 2 kids, 3 & 8, and moves 2 hrs away. I saw my kids maybe 4 times in 5 months last year. I get a new job and im doing well....She even had a new relationship, (or more probably) but it didn't work out the way she thought and figured out eventually that nobody is going to care about her…
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:32 PM
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Yes if an individual hasn't been laid in however long of a time, its entirely his own fault and problem honestly. If a guy can control his lust, there's nothing he cant do.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 05:13 PM
4

Yeah i try to stay away from that negativity. I dont welcome it into my mind
/r/MensRights24/06/25 11:45 PM
18

My sociology class was about the closest I got to gender studies. And because my professor was a bitter woman she made it her mission to make all the men do a paper about women's rights while the rest of the class (women) actually got to discuss societal issues/problems/possible solutions to things like infrastructure, energy, food crisis'... you know actual societal shit. We got to join once we finished our papers too. However the professor didn't want any input from the male students about sol…
/r/MensRights24/06/25 11:06 PM
1

This is why it is important for men to be mindful of these things about women. Its crucial for a man to be in control of his emotions and lust at all times. Separating from his need for physical contact is one of the best things he can do for himself. If there is no desire, there is no reason for judgment to falter when interacting with any woman at anytime. He can then see through the skin deep motives of hers and make the best decision for himself, his sanity, and his wallet... and before anyo…
/r/MensRights24/06/25 10:29 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if single status rates skyrocket there with all the men going MGTOW, if its not already happening
/r/MensRights23/06/25 11:34 AM
1

Go find your bear and live happily ever after
/r/MensRights23/06/25 11:28 AM
1

Find someone to gaslight did you?
/r/MensRights22/06/25 02:10 PM
7

Kinda wish they would actually. Leave me alone lol go nag the bear
/r/MensRights19/06/25 12:30 AM
1

If i could, I would go back and not be married.. if only id been taught by a parent 1. How to be ok, being by myself. And 2. That Men dont HAVE to marry and raise children to be happy and successful. But alas, mother died at 5 and father incarcerated at 12, so I was raised by Hollywood blockbusters and friends parents in a small Midwestern town. I graduated with 23 people. I was sold the idea that ALL good happy, successful men marry and have children... BOY OH BOY have I got a story for my youn…
/r/MensRights18/06/25 08:21 PM
1

Its easier and healthier to not concern yourself with what others think of you, certainly people you dont even know. To walk around thinking to yourself that every woman you see hates you is as bad as thinking that every cop wants to pull you over.. I admit its a difficult habit to break but the more you learn to focus on your driving and obeying traffic laws, the less you notice or even care what others do or say, and the happier you become. -"Its good to glance in your rear view like your past…
/r/MensRights18/06/25 01:03 AM
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Well written brother. The decisions I wouldn't have made if I were me now, back then, would have saved me years of conflict, thousands of dollars, and gallons of tears.
/r/MensRights17/06/25 09:06 PM
11

Ive been a father for 9 years now and we always go over the top on mothers day. Flowers, giving her the day to herself while I take the kids, getting her cards, gifts, favorite food. Just like its her birthday and Christmas, and Valentines day. Yesterday my oldest told me happy father's day while I was doing laundry. That was cool...
/r/MensRights16/06/25 05:28 PM
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Yeah maybe 25-30 fucking years ago they heard this but nobody's saying that stupid shit now and its established that's not a defense what so ever and there's no excuse. Keep hating and blaming all men. Someday when you need help or assistance of any kind it's gonna be a MAN that helps you. 🤣
/r/MensRights08/06/25 11:44 PM
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Regardless of the reasons of the investors rejections, this woman will go on to say its because she's a woman that they didn't invest in her and that if she'd been a man they would have invested.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 03:24 PM
7

Idk about all this alpha beta shit. I guess I dont pay enough attention to others to have anything to compare to. The only thing im trying to do is be better today than I was yesterday for as long as I can
/r/MensRights03/06/25 12:06 AM
5

Yeah whatever you do just keep putting all men in the same boat.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 09:47 PM
2

Focus on HUMAN rights and true equality. Point your finger towards Washington DC not these men.(Of course not all) but these men of reddit aren't the patriarchy. We're not the 1% elitists. The extent of my privilege is i get to go to work every day and pay bills and provide for a family.They're skilled tradesmen, blue collar hard working. We hold the responsibility of the defense and infrastructure of the society of the most spoiled, entitled and comfortable country in the world. And we dont hav…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 09:40 PM
4

Don't be cryptic go ahead and say it. Because some men in the past have said things like "why did she dress like that? She was asking for it", in defense of sexually assaulting them. Right? Isn't that what your referencing? Yes? OK you are correct, men have done and said those horrible things in the past and those particular men have been convicted and sentenced and are, for the most part, incarcerated rightly so. Now that we've established that that is not an excuse, shouldn't this woman be con…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 07:14 PM
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Lol let them try.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 01:39 PM
2

Lol rage bait. Your right we're not victims, we're men that take responsibility for our actions, and apparently, the actions of EVERYONE else. Somebody has to soak up all this discomfort and all the disdain. That's fine. We're not going to apologize for being born white or for being born men. We already have the responsibility of defense of the nation AND its fucking infrastructure. Its men i see every morning at the gas station in work trucks. Its men driving garbage trucks. Its men in police c…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:39 AM
5

They're all up in arms and praising that Australian woman that burned her friend over a remark he made to her, saying things like "normalize this". What if someone got behind a man defending himself who happened to knock a woman the fuck out? And said "yeah put them in their place!" ? Huh what would happen if someone said that? Just curious lol see yall in hell with the downvotes 👋
/r/MensRights29/05/25 10:59 AM
2

Yes I am fully aware and am preparing myself for such an event. Im focused on the long game now. If I can raise my children to at least 18 yrs old under my roof, I'll be content with whatever outcome that happens after that. Its only 14 years and my youngest will be 18... we've been married for 12. Im just gonna do my utmost to give her no excuse to leave with my kids again. That and prepare for any possibility.. that's about all I can do.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 10:46 PM
7

As a man, dont tell other people about your problems because 80% of people dont care and the other 20% are glad you have them. Only women, children and puppies are loved unconditionally...
/r/MensRights28/05/25 03:02 PM
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You can do it man. Your kid, although newborn, will grow and will want you around. Its sucks that it feels like there is no way out for guys sometimes. I hope you stick with it and weather the storm because it will pass. Your mind and body needs 100% of your attention through these times. It helps to set down all depressing substances, most importantly alcohol. Depressed men should drink ZERO alcohol. Give yourself the chance you deserve to get through this and make yourself happy. I hope you ca…
/r/MensRights28/05/25 09:56 AM
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Distance yourself from them. Physically and if not Physically then mentally. When they start in with their bigotry pretend you dont hear them and ignore it. Let them waste their breath. Let it fall on deaf ears. Gray rock them. If they corner you, walk away.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:52 PM
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Its not pussy whipped anymore. Alot of married men arent getting sex anymore, its evolved into fear of being taken to court and cleaned out financially via divorce. Coin the phrase "wallet whipped"
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:38 PM
4

This ALMOST happened to me last year. Lost my job. Wife left with my kids and I was separated from them for 5 months. I was inches away from divorce, losing the house and my kids. I truly was suicidal and jobless for several weeks. I actually continued to try to chase her.... then something clicked for the first time. I learned to be content with myself and what I had left, even if it wasn't much. I focused on myself and being happy alone and not depending on anyone else for my happiness. She sa…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:14 PM
5

Yeah let's see what happens when we collectively dont open the door for somebody. Just imagine the tik toks lol
/r/MensRights27/05/25 09:41 AM
4

Small example but extremely relevant. First a bit about myself. Im only about 5'10, i have a 34-36" waist but a 52" chest. So im what most call husky and barrel chested. "Chubby" on a bad day. I was on a date with a woman (like 2nd date), she was drinking, I was not and she was getting very aggressive and masculine in her voice and tone. As she would literally ask me what had been bothering me that day, I open up and explain some trivial problem I was having at the time and then she just proceed…
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:09 AM
4

I landed on one of these posts and don't remember what it was exactly and thought "wow, a male empathizing point of view that I agree with and its not being met with feminine hostility? Oh its a WHOLE SUB FULL of fellers?" Clicked join immediately lol
/r/MensRights23/05/25 12:33 AM
2

Depends on the individuals version of "helping"
/r/MensRights21/05/25 12:56 PM
4

I cant speak for all men like you seemingly can so I dont pretend to know.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 11:05 PM
3

Feminist groups
/r/MensRights18/05/25 10:35 PM
4

No they dont. You get banned for commenting
/r/MensRights18/05/25 10:34 PM
2

If only they'd apply that in their subs huh
/r/MensRights18/05/25 10:33 PM
4

Statistically speaking, kids raised by dads perform better than with the mother so gtfoh
/r/MensRights18/05/25 10:30 PM
4

Are there not any mods that keep these people out of this space? Or do we not get to kick people out of our spaces because its misogynistic? Lol
/r/MensRights18/05/25 08:13 PM
1

I maintain a very minimal presence in my community. I dont do any public social gatherings. I go into public and interact with people when searching for items and food to buy and sell and that's absolutely it. People invite me to parties or concerts or bars and I just tell them thank you for the invite but I'm unavailable that day. I dont watch, listen to, or read the news. I dont watch sports. I dont have Instagram, or tik tok. I have Facebook with zero friends but I keep it for access to marke…
/r/MensRights15/05/25 11:59 PM
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Sad to say that for the first time in my adult life I've learned that my worth is directly correlated to my performance. I had lost my job. And then my kids were separated from me for 5 months and I almost lost my house and half of my 401k.... all because life was a little difficult for the person I married at the time. Yeah they are fair weather people and you are absolutely replaceable. And they'll do it much easier and faster than you think.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 04:33 PM
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Whatever you do just remember you can go about it in two ways. You can either be lonely or you can do it in solitude. Its your state of mind my friend. A man happy with himself is never alone. P.S.- Avoid alcohol for awhile. Its a very strong depressant and you need none of that right now
/r/MensRights12/05/25 11:52 AM
2

Its ok sometimes we have to remind each other who we married. I didn't marry just any woman and she didn't marry just any man. This helps us in the long run. But it is hard sometimes so I find myself in subs like this if I feel like I'm going crazy or my feelings are valid and it helps
/r/MensRights08/05/25 09:45 PM
4

I understand. I'm married to one just like that
/r/MensRights08/05/25 09:26 PM
13

If anyone could answer this I'm sure they would have enough by now. Sadly it's why we find our opinions and thoughts safe only in places like this, a sub for men. Try asking this somewhere else because every man here faces the same question.... Just my opinion though perhaps not ALL men. Didn't mean to generalize
/r/MensRights08/05/25 09:11 PM
2

Sure l agree with that too. Flowers are nice. I'd like a bundle from time to time
/r/MensRights06/05/25 11:15 PM
9

Just be his peace. Give him what he likes. Is he a gamer? Get him a new game. Does he play golf? Get him a golf bat or glove (idk what golfers use), just something simple and cheap it doesn't have to be expensive. More than anything be kind, non combative, non argumentative. Your attitude and actions will mean more than any object you ever buy him.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 07:57 PM
5

They want consistent strength the likes of which the world has never known
/r/MensRights04/05/25 11:06 PM
99

I'm just waiting for one to pop into this post and say something like "hey we don't do that blah blah blah." Lol
/r/MensRights03/05/25 10:27 PM
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And they just can't, for the life of them, figure out why we don't "just open up" to them about what's bothering us.
/r/MensRights03/05/25 07:03 AM
1

The only man I'm in competition with is myself. I was born with certain traits and genetic dispositions and trying to compete for gold with someone with Olympian blood is not wise. All I can do is be better today than I was yesterday. As for others and how they act, that's out of my control. I can only control how I act and treat others. So you get respect from me when you give it man, woman, child, gay, straight none of that matters. I don't envy what others have because I simply don't care wha…
/r/MensRights01/05/25 01:51 PM
2

Lol that's like calling German people nazis still
/r/MensRights30/04/25 01:25 PM
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We're called toxic when we try to
/r/MensRights29/04/25 11:08 PM
5

I just Grey rock when my wife makes everything about gender... it's always men are so this women are so that men this women that. Sometimes I have to snap her out of it and remind her she married a man and I don't particularly appreciate you talking about my gender that way as if I'm not a "normal man" like bitcch there's nothing special about me i just happen to be the one you married
/r/MensRights29/04/25 09:27 PM
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