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N=60 plus hypergamy means the next guy must be: funnier, stronger, sexier, better in bed, richer, more emotionally available, more dominant, than any of the 60 men she had previously. Not even a "50 Shades of Gray" billionaire will satisfy her anymore.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 03:59 PM
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You're asking me to pinpoint which molecule of a reaction will start the process. I can't. However, I see beginnings of change in multiple areas of life, from a public that was complacent as little as a year ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/24 12:04 AM
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A culture shift is coming. Be ready for it and support it when it comes. Until then, make yourself the best you can be. You can't control society as a whole, and you can't control other people. The only thing you control is you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/24 01:02 PM
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"Lemon-tier women" made me laugh. Thanks!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/24 05:05 AM
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"has children, and they live at home" "undecided on children" Honey, you're too late to be "undecided."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/24 03:41 PM
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Women feel better after talking about their problems. Finding a solution isn't really required for the emotional uplift. But if there's no solution in sight, men feel worse after talking about their problems. This is pretty well documented, and I've seen it happen in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:00 PM
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Emotional support is needed for men, but is tricky because of how we're wired. Most men improve their emotional state by: Solving problems Taking time off away from family and work duties Doing physical work with clear instructions and end states
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:09 PM
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Better phrasing: "work on yourself to become a better man, which makes you husband material, which improves your chance of landing a wife-quality woman." Consider two of the many ways a man's life can play out: a. A blobby, unmotivated, porn-obsessed lump b. A fit man with a career and path forward in life Who would women rather marry? Who would men rather be?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:05 AM
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Too bad this was removed, it sounds like a good post.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 01:54 PM
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This comment should be preserved for posterity. Historians in the 2500s should have this available.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/23 04:28 PM
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"Yogaphobe" is my favorite word of the day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/22 02:54 PM
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a 6'4" broke dude was superior to a 5'8" engineer or doctor the general preference among women for tall men over short men is so well established and self-evident that I marvel that anyone questions it There's a reason romance novel heroes are ALWAYS six feet tall, if not 6'4" or 6'6'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 05:07 PM
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"the last guy lost me and regretted it" She's also trying for preselection. "I was such a catch that the last guy I left regretted me leaving!" What other people hear: "I leave relationships whenever, even if you treat me well and want me to stay around. [evil cackle]"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 02:15 PM
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Companies literally create positions to hire STEM women. I've seen it happen first-hand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 05:50 AM
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someone on a previous post mentioned that the wall/women losing their prime starts at 16 Yeah, 16 is waaay too soon for the wall. But as you say: 29/31 by Garfunkel and Oates
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:55 AM
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This is absolutely true. But note that "ugly" Leo DiCaprio can still start relationships with young women. Whereas "ugly" older women complain about not getting men to commit. It's almost like men and women look for different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:51 AM
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Older women can't compete with 20-year-old women, and the older women know it. Admitting that hurts. So they shame and insult men instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:45 AM
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When talking about sexual relations between men and women, "men" means "men who want to have sex with women." Other categories of men are perfectly valid and fine but aren't relevant to this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 05:12 PM
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You just made a good argument for "no sex before marriage."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 07:02 PM
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Isn't freedom of speech wonderful?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 03:43 PM
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In a fundamental way, she missed the point of dating. Dating is prelude to marriage. She's not interested in the meal. She just wants to keep eating the free appetizers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 02:06 AM
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Feminism shifted rapidly from "let women vote and hold jobs if they want" to "civilization-wide shit test." Looking back at it, maybe it always was a test? I'm honestly not sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 01:54 AM
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There's more bits coming. I sincerely wish was the last bit.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 01:20 AM
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This is what peak entitlement looks like. She's been through so many men it's literally impossible for her to be happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 09:53 PM
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It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 04:18 PM
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Words are for betas. Chads look at the photo, ignore the text, match, bang, and move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 04:32 PM
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"An increase in the influence of women in public life has often been associated with national decline. The later Romans complained that, although Rome ruled the world, women ruled Rome. In the tenth century, a similar tendency was observable in the Arab Empire . . . Soon after this period, government and public order collapsed, and foreign invaders overran the country. The resulting increase in confusion and violence made it unsafe for women to move unescorted in the streets, with the result tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 04:27 PM
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That list only gets longer, bub,
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 04:05 PM
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To fix this, women must collectively decide to marry instead of sleeping around during their young/fertile/blessed years. Men will follow that lead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 06:15 PM
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You just explained why HR departments overvalue degrees.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 07:08 PM
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https://www.diygenius.com/how-to-get-a-liberal-arts-education-without-going-to-university/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 05:36 PM
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Those guys are solid, capable, often dominant/protective, and they make good money. WTF is wrong with women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 05:33 PM
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Intelligence should be demonstrated, not proclaimed. I've known a few Mensa-level people, and a few who are probably geniuses. They never once had to say "I'm smart!" They rarely used big words. It was still obvious whenever you talked to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 02:30 PM
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There's better versions of this joke out there, but this is the one I could find. A woman goes to the husband store. The store owner tells her each floor has better quality men, but once she leaves a floor she can not return. On the first floor are nice, cute men. "I can do better" she thinks to herself. She goes to the second floor. There she finds nice, cute men with high paying jobs"I can do better" she thinks to herself. On the third floor, she finds nice, cute men with high paying jobs and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 03:15 PM
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Classic example of the sidebar: Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?" I swear, this stuff should be taught in school so young women hear it at least once before it's too lat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 01:40 PM
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AFBB: alpha fucks beta bucks, a common female mating strategy AFWTF: alpha fucks what the fuck, what we see here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 09:32 AM
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Tattoos Vegetarian ("plant-based") Incoherent mix of sexualities, but "men aren't good enough" comes through loud and clear Pregnant for the third time This is less AFBB, more AFWTF.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 11:11 PM
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Good catch. When women cry WAATGM, they really mean, "Why are top 20% men no longer hitting on me?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 03:59 PM
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There's a lot to pity there, but don't forget: These women choose to live like partying teenagers for 20-30 years They're single by choice, beta men are basically always available
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 03:57 PM
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The words are there to filter out betas. Chads ignore the text, match, bang and move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 03:26 PM
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I consider myself alpha. And I want a man who knows how to treat me like one. Huh. So you look forward to your husband saying: "I don't care where we eat tonight. You decide." "Thanks for paying our bills every month, babe." "I'm happy to stay at home and pursue my hobbies while you spend long, stressful hours building your career."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 02:45 PM
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Stop bringing facts into this. ;- ) Besides, we're translating from womanese.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 10:50 PM
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She's a single mom, there's a man trying to wife her up RIGHT NOW, and she's still looking for strangers to taker her (and her infant) on exciting travel dates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 01:44 PM
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It's a "you must make at least this much" filter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 01:42 PM
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If I understand you correctly, that means . . . she voluntarily made her photo look like that, thinking this would help land a family man?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 06:27 PM
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To do a literal profile review: you're still not focused on what you bring to the relationship, or why a man would be interested in you. "Warm hearted and kind with a morbid sense of humor" isn't a bad start. Do you want to watch horror movies together and laugh at them? Do you feel like you missed out on being a mom, and want to help raise a single father's kids? You want a man with "interesting views". Okay, so Trump supporters are your thing? (Not with that haircut . . .) But I can't shake th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 02:25 PM
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Trust and freedom go hand in hand. So she'll give her heart openly to a man and not be suspicious of who he sees or what he does when she's not around. Wait, that's not what she's saying? Eventually I want . . . But that's far down the road. Honey, you're 42. There is no "far down the road" for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 02:11 PM
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25 years later: "I had a cottage. She had a revealing photo of herself. It was a match made in heaven!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/21 09:45 PM
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Jesus was the original skittles man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 03:05 PM
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She's so brave she can't ask men to go on dates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 02:36 PM
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Looking for someone romantic, respectful, kind, loves spoiling Sexual if I get treated/pleased right Irish twins To hear her tell it, she already got knocked up by beta billy, so often she had kids less than a year apart. Why didn't she marry this kind, gentle, respectful man? Because she's not sexual for stable betabucks. She's sexual for bad boys who give her tingles. And now that she has two kids, she needs your money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 09:10 AM
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WJ, thanks for the answer! "You" here is the generic "you", not WJ. If you have severe psychological trauma or need medication, sure, take care of that. Outliers aside: waiting until you declare yourself completely healed, content, and now a relationship can come find you? To me, that doesn't sound like a good way to go. I don't think I'd ever meet that standard. I don't think my friend will either. But hey, you do you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 07:38 PM
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Off-topic rant: where did this "I need to be happy alone before I can be happy with someone" bullshit come from? One of my friends is deep into it too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 04:00 PM
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But don't forget . . . she's not going through with it now. She's going to do it in four years. That's four more years of life wearing her down, dating herself, and focusing on her cats. Then, and only then, will she be ready to be a mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:50 PM
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I wish I could upvote this more than once!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 03:08 PM
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"The hot guy I'm casually seeing isn't wifing me up. He must be avoidant or something." It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 03:07 PM
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That's why it's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 03:05 PM
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I get to know someone by their vibes. In the very first line, she says she's still looking for tingles ("vibes").
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:38 AM
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Let your tingles dictate your future, hmm? And their future. If DNA didn't matter, we'd all be identical.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 07:46 PM
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If any proof was needed that young women lead a charmed life, this is it. Even THIS woman can get banged by so many reasonably attractive men that she's sincerely trying to filter for Brad Pitt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 09:53 AM
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You know, that still kind of upsets me. Back when porn was distributed on dead trees, porn for men was hidden behind opaque plastic covers in hard-to-find racks in hard-to-find stores. Porn for women? That's in the grocery store, right next to religious books and magazines.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 03:25 PM
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Yeah! How dare you notice facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:26 PM
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They get validation and attention by claiming victim status. Plus it makes white knights appear - like magic!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 12:42 AM
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"You came in that thing? You're braver than I thought." Darn it, upvote button, this deserves more votes! Keep clicking!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/21 02:55 PM
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She's falling into the gap between her sexual market value and her marriage market value. Even at 35 she can probably hook up with guys her type for sex. But for a relationship? She has to offer something men want: youth, fertility, pleasant demeanor. Going by the profile she's batting zero for three.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/21 11:34 PM
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Yeah, man up. It's what a real alpha would do. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 11:32 AM
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The photo is for alphas, the text is for betas. Alphas will ignore the text, match, bang, and move on. Betas will meekly submit to her demands, which will repulse her and keep their relationship cooties safely distant. She's created a perfect filter to keep herself in a bad situation. Women, if you want to live an unhappy life, this is the way to do it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 10:59 AM
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The advice given is, uh, interesting: This doesn’t mean you should accept or settle [or] lower your standards Men will always try to get in your knickers for as long as you live. Start meeting men at places that are of interest to you [like] shopping [or] a fashion showcase
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 11:43 PM
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When a man first lays eyes on you, he is ATTRACTED to your physical beauty. If he approaches you, he is acting out from that initial interest, your physical beauty. "See, the problem is, you're too beautiful. All men who see you think about sex and nothing else. That's why you can't land a man." 🙄
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 11:37 PM
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"Women deserve the right to vote" never included "we agree to be drafted for combat roles" or "we agree to pay for all the social programs we enact."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 04:02 PM
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I'm 54, hard range 48-60 Translation: why aren't men my age interested? Older men do NOT go for older women. They don't have to. Negative bonus points for "no Trumpers".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 03:29 PM
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Hard range 48-60, "hopefully mature men". Translation: "The men who don't chat with me must be immature." It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 03:27 PM
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"Sleeping with alphas is fun. It also destroyed my ability to pair-bond."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 06:18 PM
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No, "normal people" are not looking for a 38-year-old woman to start a long term relationship with. That's a very not-normal place to be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 04:13 PM
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Men age like wine. Women age like milk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 04:08 PM
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"[These girls] can't find a boyfriend." MEN ARE EVERYWHERE. But to actually have boyfriends, these women would have to accept the men they can attract. Instead they complain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 04:53 AM
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This sounds like the epiphany phase. She's pissed off that alphas won't commit. She wants a man to: Waste time out of his life (pursuing his own goals, building things) to entertain her Buy her expensive dinners Wait forever for sex But that's beta male behavior. Alphas (and red pill men) ignore all the text, match, flirt, bang, and move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 03:39 AM
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She's a master at reframing to make herself feel better. Let me tell you why men want women in their 20s Women in their 30s demand a whole pile of qualifications "Yes but we just want someone we consider our equal." Firm, no wrinkles, tight "Yes but that's superficial and shallow." Low N count "Yes but that's ridiculous." Relationship baggage "Yes but I just have a long wish list and won't compromise on my desires."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 10:35 AM
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Feminists tell women they don't need no man. Feminists don't tell women that being a single parent is life-suckingly, soul-breakingly hard. That's one of the reasons for this sub: to highlight the outcomes of bad choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 08:36 PM
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I am brilliantly educated It's a weird thing to brag about. "I had the BEST professors in college. They were amazing, incredible, brilliant!" . . . honey, that doesn't say anything about YOU.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 01:47 PM
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While some women balk at any hint of traditional male gender behavior, more lament the loss of chivalry. I’m one of them. Knights were chivalrous to noble (virtuous) ladies. Knights weren't chivalrous for whores.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 05:24 PM
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"I'm a strong independent woman! . . . protect me from puddles."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 05:00 PM
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you must like BBW You have to be respectful Rules are for betas. Expensive gifts are for betas. If chad shows up, she's DTF.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/21 11:04 AM
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I'm leading A on with promises of marriage and sex. But I keep A celibate while banging B every time I see him. You're being a bad person, and you know it. Hamster, help! I lean towards [doing something I know I shouldn't] because . . . When a woman says this, the next part is always going to be interesting. I lean towards keeping it a secret, because . . . .what he doesn't know won't hurt him. Top marks for ingenuity! You're just thinking of A's feelings! You're protecting him from a fact that …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 02:16 PM
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Is she wearing the wallpaper?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 04:19 PM
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Friends don't let friends fall into the friend zone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:03 PM
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Don't do it, men!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:02 PM
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Grab a drink is fine. Pound liquor is not. Single mom to a 10 year old. Her response to having a kid is "NOBODY is going to stop me from partying hard!" Just wow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 01:59 PM
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I used to be optimistic about the return of Conservatism but the degeneracy is only upping on its amplitude more and more and men are either dared (be the man! Intimidated by us modern women huh?) or shamed (lazy incel) to get used to take it as the new normal. An increase in the influence of women in public life has often been associated with national decline. The later Romans complained that, although Rome ruled the world, women ruled Rome. In the tenth century, a similar tendency was observab…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 02:55 PM
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I like to sit on a dining room chair in the middle of a dark lawn, fondling a gun in my purse. As much as I want to comment, it's tough to follow that up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 02:11 PM
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Law degree income is low She expected to marry a high-$ lawyer. She didn't. Or, she did and failed to divorce rape him. Somebody rescue her! . . . but with no expectations of femininity, sex, or useful skills in any capacity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 11:30 PM
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The choice of main profile picture really makes this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 03:58 PM
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No. No no no no no no no . . .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 03:54 PM
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Porn stars have sex with physical 10/10 men injected with medicine to keep them hard for hours. There's no way a normal man will come close. It's like going from pro leagues to backyard football. But they're good at faking enjoyment, so there's that I guess . . .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 06:10 PM
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Earlier in life she had the choice: be a sex worker, or start a family. She chose sex worker. Early on, that gives money, independence, lots of validation and male attention. And good for her, she should get the perks of the choice she made. But there's downsides too, most of which get paid later (now). She doesn't want those downsides. Even worse, women who chose "family" paid early and are getting the perks now. She wants those perks too! Why can't she have both?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 03:48 PM
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Translation from womanese: [Men] don't love women who are successful, which I find interesting. Why are they doing it wrong? Stop doing it wrong! She partnered with a dating app to add "take your pets on dates" feature Go on a second date? Why would you wait that long to reject someone? out for dinner . . . I will be left to pay the bill. It's quite extraordinary. My party years were great, with endless attention and free meals! But they didn't last forever. Why didn't they last forever?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 03:22 PM
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It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 03:03 PM
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extremely watchable No.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 02:54 PM
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Good catch! Her photos totally read as "post-wall former party chick who failed to land a man."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 02:54 PM
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Is she bragging about having a Mitsubishi Lancer?! They look nice enough I suppose, but that's a weird flex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 04:07 PM
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I'm lost Because I'm a strong woman, I need an even stronger man In other words, it's not her fault for being stubborn and entitled. It's men's fault for not being strong enough to master her, while also being hobbled by society and the courts. It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 02:34 AM
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Please don't contact me if you don't miss leg day She wants a man with skinny legs! I suppose it's a valid preference.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 09:37 AM
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Put the first several lines together: Wine / Comedy / Foodie / Movies I have five kids Let's be spontaneous and do something Translation: "I want a tall strong rockbanddrummer CEO to be intrigued by my mysterious one-word texts, arrange day care for my five anchors so we can be spontaneous, take me to an expensive restauarant, sit through a romantic comedy, and get me started on anchor number six. That'd be great, let's do that."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 02:21 PM
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Want to meet at the gym for a workout? No, that sounds fun. Okay, shared hike? No, that sounds fun. Okay, want to go with me to [social event] as my plus one? No, I'm too independent for my own good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 01:50 PM
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A lot of [single women in their early to mid 30s] seem to have their act together these days. And yet they can't get the thing they most desperately want: commitment. It's almost like they made bad life choices. "Have their act together" indeed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 04:12 PM
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She gets high-contact kisses from men who aren't her boyfriend, amd puts that right up front. What an odd thing to advertise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 02:54 AM
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One way to read this . . . A Big Jealous Protective Mate-Guarder (BJPMG) would put her in her place if she played at sleeping around. She knows this, tee hee! But she gets a bunch of fun emotions: Safety and security - "BJPMG takes care of me" Validation - "I'm desired by BJPMG and these other men" A fun rush of indignation - "how dare he tell me what to do?" A gripe to her girlfriends - "can you believe what he said to me?" - which will get a bunch of supportive comments while also making them …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 03:44 PM
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throwfiwbfirkls is correct the profile doesn't literally say what NetherIndy posts. I concede that point. That said, let's do the full breakdown. Look at her profile. Take out the lines that are just griping. 12 words out of 24 are about how tall a potential match must be. That's HALF OF HER PROFILE. This woman will completely ignore a six-figure CEO for the height crime of being 66.5 inches tall instead of 67. It's not even slightly unreasonable to believe her height preference continues past t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 03:22 PM
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TIL! Thank you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 02:43 PM
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Translating from womanese is part of this sub. You can learn a lot from subtext.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 02:00 PM
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Unfortunately yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 01:29 PM
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The comma in the second sentence is hilarious. We love to: go to the zoo eat skyline shop It sounds like an aggressive line from an action movie. "Eat skyline, punk!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 01:27 PM
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A single mother of (2? 3?) dated a friend of mine. He was instantly into it: devoted father, bought stuff for the kids, kids liked him, the sex was evidently good. She told him he was too nice and dumped him before a year was up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 01:25 PM
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Going to bars/clubs/house parties several times a week in your late 20s? This is not a woman who's ready to settle down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 02:08 AM
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I will consider myself a lucky woman if I find a man that loves me the way I am. She thinks she's being humble here. But she's STILL not willing to change herself even slightly to be worthy of a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 02:02 AM
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I suspect it would go something like: "Everybody lies a little bit. And I can pass for 37 on a good day, and I don't feel 46 years old, and anyway it's the fault of the stupid app for filtering people out by age! Guys who swipe must like what they see so I'm just giving more guys a chance to match me." The first line is the telling part. You're on to something big here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 09:21 PM
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“boys are easier to raise than girls” lie which led them to not raise their boys at all. boys are easier to raise than girls I don't think I've ever heard this. I have seen society denigrate everything pro-male while obsessing about the slightest inconvenience to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:00 PM
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A young/fertile woman can easily demand that men wait a few dates. It's true, she'll lose lots of potential matches. Those men weren't looking for a relationship anyway. And once she has a relationship, who cares what a few random men post on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:57 PM
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She positioned herself to be the career-going income-earning head of household. All she needs is a nurturing Mr. Mom type to stay at home and raise the kids while she uses her advanced degrees to earn big bucks. That's a perfectly valid approach if both spouses are up for it. But instead she's looking for a man with more education and more income than her. Why? Is it suddenly time for her to become a stay-at-home mom? What does she offer? Entitlement, a bad attitude, likely student loan debt, an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 04:24 PM
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liberal is something I REALLY REALLY need to have in a partner there are always exceptions That's a REALLY REALLY bad sign right there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 04:05 PM
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Write things and upload them to github as proof that you can do the work. Contribute to open-source projects at whatever level you can. It may not get you past HR filters in a big company, but it is a way to get noticed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 04:04 PM
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Instead of shaming women for making bad life choices, society rewards them with cash and prizes for being and/or becoming single moms. Women respond to incentives, the same as everyone else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 04:00 PM
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I'd better update my profile picture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 03:59 PM
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Women, when you're 18-25, it feels like the party will never stop. But it does stop. Be ready. Gather ye rosebuds while ye may, Old Time is still a-flying; And this same flower that smiles today Tomorrow will be dying. . . . Then be not coy, but use your time, And while ye may, go marry; For having lost but once your prime, You may forever tarry. by Robert Herrick
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:41 PM
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Congratulations, OP. "Where are all the men? Where are all the men my age?"+ "Men, not boys." = a literal WAATGM! Honey, men your age aren't "boys." They may not have or be everything you want, but those are men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:15 PM
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So that's what The Scarlet Letter was about! Adopted women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:03 PM
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I'm confident, opinionated, hardcore, badass job, badass friends, busy Once again, a woman tries to make herself into a man, and then wonders why men won't wife her up/start a LTR with her. Bonus: A man is nothing but an idea - Sydney Brownstone, Western Washington's Journalist of the Year Hahaha! . . . oh, she's serious. So the letter writer is having drinks and sex with ideas?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 11:24 AM
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Tried online dating so many times and it just never seems to work out Okay, but you're still responsible for your choices. Try something else. For example: meet up with a group of people with common interests/hobbies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 11:21 AM
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To expand on that . . . discounting success also lets people stay where they are. Someone gets fit and/or buff? They must have done steroids. I won't do steroids, so I won't ever look like that. There's no point in me trying. Someone gets rich? They must have inherited it or done horrible things. I didn't have rich parents, and I'm a good person, so I won't ever be rich. There's no point in me trying.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 03:12 PM
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Good article to link, but once again it's "OMG THERE'S A MALE-ONLY SPACE WHERE THEY SAY MEAN THINGS! REEEEE!" "Sexism in classrooms is nothing new" Yes. Mostly against boys. The article goes on in great detail about a "radicalised" anti-feminist teenager, who's confronted by his sister and mother. Where is his father? Well . . . why would that matter? Why would anyone even think to mention it? /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 02:21 PM
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Without welfare: society quickly recognizes her as a basket case. Her parents are desperate to marry her off. If a financially stable beta male steps in, the parents are eternally grateful and make sure she is too. With welfare: she knows her worth and won't settle. Bonus: She's a photographer because she posts to snapchat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 03:04 PM
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"I want a husband!" Great, what do you bring to the relationship? "I can relax and lay back." So you offer starfish sex and you don't have to be in charge all the time. That puts you ahead of quite a few applicants. "See my photo? I'm a Big Beautiful Woman." Next!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 08:21 PM
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That got a solid chuckle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 02:39 AM
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Would that make it statutory rape of a 58-year-old?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 04:19 PM
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What does a HVW bring to a LTR? What I hear: access during her beautiful/fertile years, childbearing, a pleasant demeanor, submission/support.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:03 PM
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For some women, "high value male" is "man who does whatever advantages a woman moment-to-moment." She wants a free meal, so a high value male buys dinner for his dates. She wants to sleep with someone else, so a high value male isn't clingy and welcomes competition. She's tired of taking care of her kids that day, so a high value male is happy to babysit her kids from another man. etc.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:21 AM
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Female privilege: Hundreds of men buy you stuff *while * you reject them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 01:52 PM
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Women like this either fail to understand or outright ignore the reasons why men would suggest dates like coffee or a walk. Close. She wants free stuff/meals That's why she gripes, "How dare you just buy me coffee? I already have that."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 01:51 PM
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A wall-age single mother is worth the same effort as an 18-year-old childless virgin, because she says so. Riiiiight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 03:50 PM
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It can be shocking! It adds responsibility to the authority women have been given. Modern American society isn't used to that.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre20/05/21 03:37 PM
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This is what living life from 18-28 as a single woman does to you. When you're rewarded with sex and attention simply for having a pulse, why would you even think to offer something? You just post a picture and say "Hi, I exist." Men line up to pound on your, uh, door.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/21 02:07 PM
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"I can change him."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 02:37 PM
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There should be a dating guide for women. Item #1: why should a man commit to you? What do you offer him?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 02:28 PM
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I had a cake. I ate most of it. Why aren't men lining up to buy the crumbs?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 02:52 PM
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This should be a textbook warning case for young women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 02:02 PM
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he's like my twin brother BAM The relationship is dead. I've known him for 9+ years Stop leading him on. You've used him for favors long enough. The top comment is actually good advice: "throw him back for someone who is into him."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 11:52 AM
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“Welcome to McFling’s. May I take your order?" Edit: Linking to a work by Solomon II - see the sticky!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 11:38 AM
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I cheated on someone with fling I'm single now Had sex with fling again Fling liked the bikini pictures I posted . . . "mixed signals" She's only looking for Friends With Benefits. But she's thrown because Mr. Not Relationship Material isn't chasing her hard enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 11:31 AM
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Consequences are a tool of the patriarchy. Thank goodness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 03:11 PM
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This is not a debate. This line always cracks me up. "Nobody dare disagree with me!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 03:04 PM
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This is the post that made me lose it. :-D Well done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 02:03 PM
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But they are her world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 02:02 PM
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"Guys want sex" Holds living proof that she had sex Pot, meet kettle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 01:25 AM
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I second this. My nephew and his girlfriend were 18-19 when they had their kid. There's a lot to be said for the energy and optimism of youth. They sail through sleepless nights and baby care like it's (almost) nothing. The kid's a lot happier for it too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 11:34 PM
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I disagree that men in their 30s, as a group, carry a lot of baggage. Single men in their 30s are usually better situated than they were in their 20s: more emotionally stable, more financially successful, more able handle authority. A few may spiral down but the general trend here is upwards. Also, men don't shame other men for wanting a good wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 11:23 PM
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I'm having a hard time describing my issue with it, but it seems like saying [everyone] is "equal" as a root societal value . . . [no culture, just] pointless commercial loyalties You're on to something big here. Jack Donovan calls this "The Empire of Nothing." Read Becoming a Barbarian if you want to follow that thread.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 06:38 PM
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It's funny how often a "High Value Man" or "alpha" is everything convenient to women but nothing that's not. "Sure, I'm loyal, faithful [monogamous], and pay for dates. But I don't expect you to be loyal, faithful, or monogamous." This is just gross. "Sure, it's fine if you see other men. I understand I have to compete for your commitment, in fact I LOVE competition from other men." Even more gross.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 04:01 PM
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Someone else commented in WAATGM recently: you compete with every man she ever dated. You have to be funnier than the funniest, richer than the richest, stronger than the strongest . . . or she's disappointed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 02:54 PM
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F**kboys need not apply. Why would anyone else apply?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 02:12 PM
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Remember Snow White! The wicked witch used to be young and beautiful. But she wasted her youth. Her beauty faded. Now she shrieks her jealousy and tries to poison the young.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 02:00 PM
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Has shaming language ever convinced a man to date a post-wall woman?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 01:55 PM
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You must be 5'11" to hold a conversation. I'm pretty sure they're not that high . . .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 06:19 AM
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I am coming out of an emotionally hard toxic relationship I fucked BadBoyRockBandDrummer. Repeatedly. But it turns out he actually was a bad boy! Nobody could have foreseen this. prove to me that there's better than what I have been shown I'm an unemployed single mother and ready for a nice guy! I'd have laughed at you when you approached me before. But now that I'm a triple liability (high school, single mom, unemployed) I'm ready for a nice, stable bailout.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 11:36 PM
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This may be the most to-the-point WAATGM ever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 02:19 PM
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Arch is a Linux distribution. It's moderately hard to set up, with extremely cutting-edge software releases. People who use it often mention as a point of pride: "I run Arch." It's very similar to vegans bringing up "I'm vegan" at every opportunity. In context, it's a pretty good joke. :- )
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 03:46 PM
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I'm close to 40 . . . there's been this huge rush . . . I have limited amount of time before I can't get pregnant any more. Men act like they have all the time in the world Because they DO, honey. And you don't. Men can father children right up to their expiration date. Your biological clock went off, you hit the snooze button, and you slept right through the second ring. attractive men lead me on because they've got all the options 'the wall' is bull shit Facts, meet hamster if I meet a guy now…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 11:33 PM
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When a 65-year-old friend of mine said they were "adulting", I got a little ill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 05:10 PM
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I thought she was a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 04:35 AM
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I'm guessing the "healthy beautiful relationship" was her first alpha. She was totally into him forever. He was into her maybe a dozen times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 02:01 AM
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Logic is a tool of the patriarchy. Consequences are a tool of the patriarchy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 01:58 AM
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Real men don't spend time or energy on their own lives! They'd much rather be gas station attendants for women. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 12:44 AM
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She lists her past sex mistakes: Not churchgoing No job Tatted up "Controlling" In other words: she slept with lots of loser bad boys who didn't stick around. And now she can't even smile for her profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 05:37 AM
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I need someone . . . funny, intelligent and has a kind heart . . . loyal The man right next to you looks like all those things. He might be a Gay Best Friend, might be a beta orbiter. Either way, a man who will do duckface selfies with you is obviously pretty committed. So tell us what you're really looking for. You don't need to search for what you already have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 02:36 PM
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I made a terrible decision! I'm so proud!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 02:25 PM
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The real question has never been: Where are all the good men? The real question is: where are all the good women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:38 AM
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You've got the rational/realist view. It takes training and effort to look at it the other way. I'm starting to have faith that reality will win soon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 05:14 PM
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Even at 40 she still hasn't given this a moment's thought from the man's perspective. an open book This sounds like code for "unpleasant to be around." ambitious Men don't want competition at home. physical attraction is equally as important as mental attraction Honey, you're FORTY YEARS old. 6-6-6 men will only notice you as an asexual co-worker. Even betabucks will pass you by for a fresh-off-the-wall 31-year-old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 10:36 PM
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Can out smoke anybody on this app Smoking weed is not an achievement. It's like saying, "I can breathe more than anybody on this app."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 02:31 PM
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When globalism takes over, you need something to identify with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 02:28 PM
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Patriarchy would have helped here. Strong social pressure -> not tattooed and pregnant Dad and brothers vetting suitors -> good husband Good husband -> not a burden on society Stable marriage -> legitimate children All of these would be dramatic upgrades for both her and her kid. P.S. He's a cute kid, stop dressing him like a thug.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 02:24 PM
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So many contradictions: 24 <-> old and bored wife material <-> fat and covered in tattoos want a genuine man <-> said yes to lots of generic hookups
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 02:22 PM
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At 30. She's right on schedule.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 01:30 AM
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In a way, she's doing men a favor. When someone starts by lying about their age, that puts it right up front in big bold type: I AM A LIAR.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 03:07 PM
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Huh. Men don't line up to marry post-wall women. Who knew?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 02:28 PM
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I love my sexuality. I love myself and I had sex on MY terms. Congratulations! But wait, why are you complaining then? [To those who say he played me:] Just understand your words can be hurtful. If you were right and they were wrong, it wouldn't really bother you. You'd get to feel smug. You say you feel hurt? Maybe they're not so wrong after all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 02:08 PM
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what is it about her personality, behaviors or other attributes that made him run for the hills? All of the above?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 01:54 PM
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If we match and it's crickets I will un-match She's hit the wall, getting ghosted left and right, and she's angry. So beware, all you meanies! She will totally un-match you. Take that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 05:56 AM
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Absolutely right. She's still getting dates! She doesn't like what's available in her, uh, price range.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 12:37 AM
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She didn't mean to admit that, but she did. Nice find.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 12:23 AM
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A 50-year-old still getting excited about a bottle of vodka is pretty sad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/21 12:00 AM
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That last paragraph is a solid pack of lies from beginning to end. I am mature and balanced I am not crazy or desperate I know what I want I will recognize what I want when I find it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 11:43 PM
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My kid is my prince. Now to find my king. Honey, you did those in exactly the wrong order.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 11:35 PM
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There's not much shame in it today. There SHOULD be, but there's not. Single moms are cheered on at almost every level of society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 03:29 PM
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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me every single time for >10 years? Shame on me, and I should know better than to gripe about it online.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 03:18 PM
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It's a signal that she's a Strong Independent Woman. And yes, WTF is the correct response to "I DON'T NEED YOU!" as an opening line for dating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 10:15 AM
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Something doesn't add up here. According to her, men are attracted to her personality until things get serious. This is . . . unlikely. Men don't go into a relationship expecting the other person to change. That's a woman thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 03:10 PM
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Equity: the man does everything demanded of men by marriage 1.0. The woman does and gives up nothing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 02:56 PM
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Sad part is I’m not sure if I’m being sarcastic or not. I've made several of those posts over the last year. 🤡🌏
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 03:47 PM
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He does work a lot . . . does household chores . . . goes extra hard at housework to impress me we have a maid Here I'm stuck with a lazy husband Clearly the husband is the lazy one in this relationship. Sadly, she's 29 and preparing to blow up her marriage. But the dating market is really different for women after age 30. She'll come back with a classic WAATGM soon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 01:42 PM
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https://www.theblaze.com/news/hipster-threatens-to-sue-over-photo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 01:30 PM
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Fantastic article. Feminism tells a woman that the only thing keeping her from being a CEO, or doctor, or lawyer, or multi-million dollar jetsetting humanitarian crusader / fashion icon (or whatever BS dream job women think exists) is the Patriarchy. But that's not true. If it was, then every man should be one of those. It's not like the garbageman never had dreams of becoming an astronaut. But the truth is, even for the vast majority of men, such careers are out of reach and were probably never…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 12:20 AM
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Women never understood men's lives. Feminists thought men lived like Don Draper at the start of Mad Men: effortlessly breezing into top-level corporate jobs, drinking alcohol all day, swimming in money, and treating women like objects. But most men live like Ralph Cramden: suffering with jobs they don't-quite-hate to pay for lives they don't-quite-like. Women had a much better deal once modern appliances made housekeeping a part-time job. They demanded equality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 09:27 PM
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According to what women say, a real man/high value man/alpha always does exactly what the woman wants him to. According to what women do, an alpha shows up on his schedule and buys her a bag of skittles once in a while. (The link is down, as is the internet archive version . . . hmm.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:25 PM
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femcels inspins: involuntary spinsters
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:20 PM
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Lies about her age Dies hair weird colors at 45 Leads with "I probably won't like you" Trying to monkey-branch from a long, stable relationship This is close to the perfect anti-personal ad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 07:12 PM
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Why, thank you! :- )
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 05:16 PM
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Man's rant: "I haven't had sex in 10 years." Woman's rant: "I'm dating two guys at the same time, but neither of them is perfect!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 05:12 PM
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Bored of players now Most of my best mates are guys Even this fat mouthy single mom has beta orbiters. She claims to be tired of players but she STILL plays the field rather than marry one of the good men right next to her. Don't live in the friendzone. There's no payoff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 04:04 PM
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She makes many claims: I'm somewhat academically inclined "I am smart" dressed up fancy. But honey, "inclined" is not a Big Smart Word. being academically inclined tends to come hand in hand with being a . . . smart person Pairs up with the previous quote - I see what you did there I enjoy deeper conversations - the type I can learn from Not impossible, but this isn't an Ayn Rand novel where people get turned on by discussing philosophy and individual rights I liked [past boyfriends] best who we…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 12:13 PM
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She claims to be smart but she makes the same mistake 15 times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 10:52 AM
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Consequences will come, but they still won't make the connection. It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 04:23 PM
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Notice: it's still men's responsibility to give her the life she wants. Is she planning her move to a rural area? Has she read up on how to train and raise those dogs? Or her kids? None of that shows up on her interest list. Her thoughts seem to be, "It would be great if all this just fell into my lap now that a baby fell out of it."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 04:15 PM
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Single motherhood is an unhappy life choice. The government can save you from poverty, but it can't give you a loving family.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 03:34 AM
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And it will be men's fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 02:36 PM
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There's a reason PoundMeToo was driven by post-wall actresses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 08:05 PM
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Her "don't need no man" attitude prevents her from cooperating with a man and that is what the men are "scared" of. You did put scared in quotes, but to clarify: they're not scared. They're just not interested.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 02:15 AM
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Plus, this is her first time dating "as an adult". She got used to endless attention when she was younger. Now she's offended that normal guys are passing her by. "This guy isn't hitting on me!" "Are you interested in him?" "No. I'm not turned on by him and not stimulated by him in any way." Which implies, "I'd totally reject him." But he isn't giving her the chance to reject him. That's why she's complaining.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 02:50 PM
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Lots of men with no access to women is bad for society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 02:53 AM
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So a spinster wearing a wedding ring . . . it's possible that at some unconscious level they're trying to let men know that at least one other man finds her desirable in the hope that a HVM will try to "win her away" from the other man. if so, she still thinks that men and women want the same thing. Women value preselection, as you note. But men don't. A woman who can be "won away" once can be "won away" again. Men know this at a deep visceral level.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 10:09 AM
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This! She made the choices, but . . . It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 08:58 AM
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Moderately off-topic: there is a BMI filter on Grommr, a site for gay chubbies and chasers. I haven't heard any screeching yet! But men tend to be practical about this stuff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:27 PM
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Mind you, she likely still has access to beta males. But they're invisible to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:17 PM
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women calling themselves high value To paraphrase Margaret Thatcher: Being a High Value Woman is like being powerful. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 01:56 PM
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Wouldn't someone who actually likes anime list something specific? "I like Studio Ghibli and Neon Genesis Evangelion"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 05:28 PM
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I watch my nephews (currently in the 18-25 age range) navigate the dating market. It's really, really bleak. I hate to say it, but I think this generation is lost. Society has failed you, and in more ways than just this. To quote Aldabruzzo: Absolutely nothing constrains [women] now - not marriage, not commitment, not community standards, not peer pressure, not family pressure, not traditional concepts of sexual morality, not concepts of fidelity or chastity, not faith, not even an internal sens…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 04:14 PM
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The tooth emoji matches her build from the waist down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 04:03 PM
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Because they still get matches. That's the horror of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 04:02 PM
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I feel really bad for this woman. This is not someone who has any hope left in life. But it's also why this sub exists. Young women, take note! Time is not your friend. Being 29+ won't slow your career down even slightly. But dating at 29+ is a rough game no matter why you have to do it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 03:58 PM
2

Welcome to the welfare state.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 01:23 PM
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Why, thank you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 12:16 AM
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I continue to be astounded at what women expect to find. "I've already had the kids, I'm middle-aged . . . and you just happen to own a 4-bedroom 3-bath house and a minivan! We're perfect for each other!" Honey, that man flat-out does not exist. No single man - not one - buys a massive house, a family-friendly car, and then goes shopping for someone else's problems to fill it with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 03:23 PM
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Others have (correctly) commented on flaws in the studies. Also: as you get older, injuries become more likely and more serious. Having someone around full-time is a huge safety factor.
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 02:25 PM
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That more men are marrying non virgins is indeed a new phenomenon. As a group, men aren't happy about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 01:25 PM
1

It's better than some options, but that doesn't make it good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 09:33 PM
4

I regret I can only give you one upvote.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 05:06 AM
1

I'm guessing scammer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 04:53 AM
3

Chads will ignore everything she says and bang her anyway. If you pay any attention to her list of demands, you need not apply. This same woman will complain that there are no good men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 05:23 PM
1

This list needs translation. Bachelor's degree at least 1 year ago = I'm not about to help you along the way. You'd better be succesful NOW. No misogynists - must not understand women Impossible-to-meet list = No beta males. No men who are relationship material. If you care about her list of requirements, you're not the right guy. Chad will ignore what she says, come over, and bang. For another year or two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 02:14 PM
1

The ego defense is strong on this one. This list lets her claim: I'm only single because I have high standards. It's men's fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 01:52 PM
2

Hear, hear!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 02:32 AM
9

women whether they realize it or not have massive advantages over men unless they self sabotage to massive levels No need to qualify it. Women have massive advantages no matter what they do. The level of social support is completely different. The component of male lived experience that is wholly unaccessible to women [. . .] is the colossal and abyssal apathy of the universe towards you. Women cannot relate to this. - Thuletide
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 10:54 PM
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On "Worst Cooks in America", a common theme in later seasons is single mothers wanting to learn to cook so they can land a man. It's good that they finally think about bringing something useful to the relationship. But they're a bit late with that realization.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 05:55 PM
9

Good point! I didn't think of it that way, but that could be why everyone else is telling her it's 50/50. They want her to realize: she has to bring something to the relationship. She's not having any of it, of course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 05:44 PM
8

Because if a man steps in for a 90/10 relationship, her life will magically fix itself. Likely problems: bills, not enough free time, having to fucking work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 04:26 PM
8

It's true that she's getting bad advice, and she has an inkling of what she's looking for. She's still missing the most crucial piece: what does she bring to the relationship? "I want an emotional connection and intimacy." Anyone can easily have that with a serial hookup if you get him to chat a little before/after. If she wants more, she has to give more, and she has to give it to someone that matches her relationship market value. It sounds like she's getting interest from netflix-watchers. Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 04:21 PM
1

Some of it is probably ego defense. She knows she's not likely to find a man at this point. So she posts crazy high requirements. Now she's only single because she has high standards. And it's men's fault for not being good enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 02:31 PM
2

can anyone find a woman so ugly that she can’t get fucked from an endless supply of dudes the second she would like to? NO. There was actually an experiment to test this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 02:05 PM
2

Nicely put. Another way to look at it: AWALT is like "all guns are loaded". It's not technically true. But you assume it anyway for everyone's safety.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 02:01 PM
12

Exactly! She's fishing for STEM-major betabucks. "I like . . . uh . . . brainy nerd stuff!" The fact that there's no specifics gives the lie away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 02:25 PM
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An increase in the influence of women in public life has often been associated with national decline. The later Romans complained that, although Rome ruled the world, women ruled Rome. In the tenth century, a similar tendency was observable in the Arab Empire . . . Soon after this period, government and public order collapsed, and foreign invaders overran the country. The resulting increase in confusion and violence made it unsafe for women to move unescorted in the streets, with the result that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 03:35 PM
54

Do women actually believe a man with his life together wants to marry a fat single mom with several kids? I mean, really, deep down . . . do they think this is a thing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 06:09 PM
5

Jumping from relationship to relationship with her little gap - FTFY
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 12:23 AM
3

How far romantic love has fallen! Old-time relationships: "can I find a loyal, loving companion for life's journey?" Modern marriage: "I don't need no man, but there's chores to do . . . ugh."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 04:58 PM
3

I now work in tech ($$$) . . . I've always been a handy woman. . . . I'm also an amazing cook. SO MANY men can't provide, can't fix things up around the house, and don't know how to cook either! She's not looking for romantic love and companionship along life's journey. She wants free services.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 04:55 PM
2

Married people need outside same-sex friends for exactly this reason. Trying to turn a husband into a girlfriend - or a wife into a guyfriend - seldom goes well.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre07/03/21 11:50 PM
2

A collapse is coming. I am NOT looking forward to it. But I welcome it if it means a return to sanity at the social level.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre07/03/21 04:13 PM
2

Yes, but speaking out about the problem: Helps men understand what's going wrong Gives young women a chance to make better decisions I understand not feeding the outrage machine, but the message is still important.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/03/21 01:31 PM
2

"How is your dress size even important to finding a good man?" cue hysterical laughter
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/03/21 01:27 PM
9

This is the dating equivalent of interview responses like: "What's your biggest flaw?" "I work too hard." "What the worst thing about you?" "I'm 5'2"!" Ugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 01:23 PM
1

"Man wanted. Must be a hardcore alcoholic. Whiteclaw drinkers need not apply."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 01:17 PM
3

direct extraction of sperm of the testicles This sounds . . . painful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 01:13 PM
1

Other parts of this post translated: Man bun = no men who submit to professionalism Muscles a plus = no boring desk job Sense of humor = amused mastery
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 03:26 PM
3

"insincere ritual is my vibe": I'm really good at false public shows of conformity. "preferably open relationship": I want the benefits of marriage without paying any of the costs. She isn't very subtle here: her marriage will be a sham while she sleeps around. Maybe she hopes to catch a closeted gay man who needs conventional cover? Is that still a thing? I hope these red flags are big enough to keep anyone sincere from getting hitched.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 05:08 PM
3

She's a decade behind biology on, like, all of this: 18 year old in college, sexually active, looking for a relationship, wants kids someday = prime wife material 28 (?) year old in college, sexually active for a decade, looking for a relationship, wants kids someday = bad life decisions, no ability to pair-bond
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 04:57 PM
8

millionaire Uber driver You just launched a new genre of romance novels.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 03:34 PM
4

Exactly on their wedding day another friend of his late wife . . . posted a photo of his late wife on Facebook and practically eulogized her, and tagged him on that post. The crab bucket is real.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 03:31 PM
11

she only becomes aware of the games when her value drops and she starts to feel younger+hotter girls replace her There's a reason Hollywood actresses only bitch about the system after they hit the wall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 02:47 PM
8

And churches wonder why attendance has been dropping for decades.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 02:45 PM
6

literally her only criteria: Find someone taller than her. Compare to 666 (6 feet tall, 6 pack abs, 6 figure income). Two of the three are basically guaranteed. 6 figure income: event preselects for "young professional", so sufficient income now, 6 figure income likely 6 pack abs: a basic appearance filter is close enough 6 feet tall: this is literally the only thing she has to watch for For 666 female dating strategy, that's actually a pretty smart way to go.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 02:44 PM
2

Wait, you didn't break the rules. You just existed in another forum they don't like? Wow. Sounds totally reasonable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 07:14 AM
38

No, it's great! You can go there, sip a smoothie, chat with people, sit on some workout equipment, watch TV, soak in the hot tub, listen to music . . .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 07:11 AM
5

Nah, they'll just increase their demands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 07:55 PM
7

obsessed with her to the point it would be creepy This is my gripe with most romance novels: they don't give the man anything to do. The moment he meets her, he exists exclusively for her service and entertainment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 07:53 PM
2

If you're an exciting psycho bad boy who's DTF, so is she. That's what she means.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 03:32 PM
13

She wants an on-call babysitter who gives her money. In return, he gets the honor of being her no-sex boyfriend. What a deal!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 03:14 PM
16

She doesn't just work there, she's a director! Practically C-level!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/21 02:53 PM
4

Yup. She's fishing out of her marriage market value range.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/21 02:21 AM
3

exploring the terrifying, bottomless trough of c'thulean genitalia in a lifestyle of bacchanalian glee. Where do I sign up?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/21 02:20 AM
4

You held frame and pissed her off. So you got revenge sex. Well played, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 12:32 AM
7

The list of people she found hot enough to sleep with on short notice: tattoo + piercing bad boys massage therapists yoga swamis (or whatever they'd called) cigarette smokers idiots gym goers tinder poets
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 02:48 PM
9

If a significant number of men GTOW, women's power drops sharply. That why there's such much shaming around playing games, buying stuff you want for yourself, and enjoying your own life. Men who do that aren't serving women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 11:16 PM
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She's being honest. When Chad approaches, she's pansexual. If Chad thinks woman-on-woman is hot, he might choose her that night. Also makes it clear she'll jump him at the very first opportunity. When Billy Betabux approaches, she's demisexual. "I might sleep with you if you spend a lot of time and resources on a relationship with me." It will happen. Twice. When she's settled into a relationship, she's asexual. Until Chad approaches . . .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 11:07 PM
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100x this. Men are expected to do this as part of normal life. But if a woman does it, it's worthy of being on TV.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 10:39 PM
4

I'm so wound up I'll reply to my own post. Her aggregate list of demands is over-the-top even for this sub. "Fried ice" is just a start here. Her match must be: A go-getter who will motivate her! . . . who also likes to smoke weed and play games Gym-goer who wants a short fat chick, AND to make the short fat chick go to the gym. Sees a sarcastic single mom who will always put him second, and desperately wants to entertain her while fixing her life. Honey, you're not going to get this for free. Y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 03:19 PM
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Single mom, "I'm a mom first", who still: Smokes marijuana Thinks games are important nothing wrong with light gaming, but c'mon mom, doesn't your kid need your attention? shows off her tits to get attention ewww, mom! angry/short/big/sarcastic That poor kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 03:06 PM
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She wants to be a dependapotamus NOW. Not any time during age 18-28 when she was young, beautiful, fertile, a catch for a man . . . This a prime example of trying to sell expired goods.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 04:16 PM
1

"Obscure cuisine" - don't you dare take me someplace cheap, easy to find, or good Mansplain? - I know everything already. I certainly don't want to learn anything from YOU. LEFT AF, feminist - I hate men, and anything related to men being men. If you didn't have ducks I wouldn't need you for anything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 04:11 PM
4

Soft-bodied confirmed: she literally claims to have a heart-shaped ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/21 04:02 PM
9

I like to be outside and shit. ACoJ's take on this made me laugh. Back to the ad. Honey, "I like to be outside" means you can walk through a door. It isn't a hobby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 05:17 PM
3

Much like being smart or reliable, that's a "show, don't tell" quality. Off-topic but related: when a job candidate announces loudly that they are "humble", that's a red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 05:12 PM
21

Women love the whole "soul mate" thing because they don't have to exert themselves or take responsibility. If you'll "just know" when the right one comes along, you don't have to do anything. Encourage a steady stream of men to beat down your door. When the right one shows up, he'll make you magically tingle and you'll "just know". When the tingle fades, or if you get pump-and-dumped, it's his fault for pretending to be your soul mate. Go back to step 1 and keep waiting for the magic tingle sign…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 05:07 PM
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Back when she was age 18-22, this could have worked. She's 35. She has no leverage to make guys wait. For anything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 03:11 PM
1

It was a very slow train.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 03:50 PM
10

Most of what she complains about is just run-of-the-mill life for a man. Men are expected to: Go through life with little to no emotional support Do basic domestic tasks without complaining Take care of "the financial burden of being single", also known as "pay the bills" Manage sexual relief "somehow" Honey, this is stuff all men deal with the first time they move into their own apartment. It sounds like your bonus for being young and attractive expired recently. Welcome to real life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 06:12 PM
25

But fortunate for the human race. Our moms all think we're amazing. That's a Good Thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 05:49 PM
2

5 pets and onlyfans . . . you're not going to be her top priority ever. You're not even going to be #6.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 05:47 PM
5

Old folk's homes are evidently rampant sexatoriums. The CC never, ever goes away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 01:37 AM
3

"You made broke guys gangbang you?" That verb is hilarious in context. Yes, she forced them all to do it! Gangbang me now or else!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 01:32 AM
35

Getting rid of shop class is a terrible idea. When I went to high school (late 1980s to early 1990s) it was understood that some students were college-bound, and others were not. High school was supposed to serve both groups. One of the non-college-bound students has his own construction company, owns a really nice home, and is probably doing much better than me financially. College prep classes would have been worse than useless for him.
/r/MensRights15/01/21 03:48 PM
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| where's all the honest nice men gone She doesn't swipe right on them. Therefore they don't exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 03:25 PM
2

[Intersectionality] teaches students to think in a way antithetical to what a liberal arts education should do. When I was at Yale in the 1980s, I was given so many tools for understanding the world. By the time I graduated, I could think about things as a Utilitarian or a Kantian, as a Freudian or a behaviorist, as a computer scientist or a humanist. I was given many lenses to apply to any one situation. But nowadays . . . everything is about power. Every situation is to be analyzed in terms of…
/r/MensRights11/01/21 03:18 PM
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I think this is a big part of why a lot of lower value males are just opting out of the workforce or underachieving. There is nothing in their eyes to work towards. No prize to win for their efforts so why bother? And this over time will have a tremendously destructive effect on society. It's a loss for society and beta males both: society loses their productive efforts and creativity, the beta males lose out on a fulfilling life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 05:31 PM
2

"Form an orderly queue to wife me" = plans to go through a series of marriages, and states that up front
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 02:47 PM
5

This. Especially since you two are living together and sharing the same bed. When the man has money, courts are quite flexible about what constitutes a "marriage." If you want to keep what you've earned - and what you inherit - get out now and keep quiet about what you have.
/r/MensRights30/12/20 02:00 PM
5

What's the upside to broadcasting this? There will be a big fight in the future. No need to create an ongoing fight in the present.
/r/MensRights30/12/20 01:55 PM
9

Excellent analysis.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 03:02 PM
12

This is why teenage girls need fathers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 07:47 PM
3

Go get one, feed him, fuck him, take care of his house, and have his babies. You do that for a guy, he'll toss himself on society's gears for you. He'll work himself into an early grave for you. He'll take a bullet for you or throw himself in front of a car for you. Can confirm. I never fully understood my in-law's relationship. Why was dad-in-law willing to work such massive overtime all the time? Why did he sign over all his paychecks without even looking at them, and ask so little for himself…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 05:15 PM
7

She's being self-aware here. She recognizes that she's attracted to bad boys, and questioning it. It's a good first step.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/20 08:22 PM
1

Trying to find someone to make me delete this! I can only imagine how that discussion would go.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/20 08:17 PM
6

I thought she was a man at first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/20 01:40 AM
22

Didn't even recover from the C-section before posting on a dating app.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/20 12:39 PM
18

My nephews (ages 18-25) don't seem that interested in marriage. One has a kid out of wedlock, wants to "be in the kids life." He is not ready to be a provider. Neither he nor the woman have any interest in marriage. One nephew was casually dating a single mom, but broke it off when she wanted to keep the baby daddy in the picture. My guess? Intact families will be the exception in the future. I won't be here, but I feel bad for those kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/20 02:37 AM
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I think it would depend on age, but welcome other input. An 18-21 year old from a traditional family who wants to wait a few months? That's a good sign, so long as she seems chaste otherwise. 25+ year old? Huge red flag. You're being betabux'ed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/20 02:29 AM
3

It's funny how men are terrible yet these women are desperate to get married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 06:05 PM
1

It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 06:03 PM
2

I was astounded that the article didn't mention this. They did say, Guilt is energy that can be used to further explore what one can do differently in the future. The article didn't absolve her of blame, but hinted that those feelings might indicate something to review. I suppose it makes sense from a "it's done, so making her feel worse won't help" perspective. In my opinion, the response should have been more like yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/20 04:22 PM
9

And it's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/20 04:16 PM
5

A system built on the preservation of feelings rather than the acknowledgement of reality will just lead us down the road to everyone trying their hardest not to offend anyone while society crumbles. We've been going down that road for years, but it's really accelerated in the last decade. I wouldn't bet on the U.S. being recognizable in 2030.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 03:50 AM
2

https://therationalmale.com/2012/11/19/mid-life-crisis/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 09:11 PM
5

A 44 year old mom . . . insists on going with her teenage daughters to a friday night hot tub party to give handjobs to the poor kid's crush. I wish you were kidding. Ewww . . .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 09:09 PM
1

People who provide value usually get paid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 04:26 PM
4

In a few generations we'll probably go back to the old relationships. Because they work. But in the meantime . . . 🤡🌏
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 03:52 PM
5

True high-value women: are respectful, and value themselves and their men. High-value women have no trouble attracting worthy men . . . Fake high-value women: Men are trash! I'm better than all of them! It's men's fault! WAATGM?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 03:47 PM
7

She's being honest here. Chad = blowjob queen Billy Beta = no hookups!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 03:39 PM
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This one upset me so much I'm posting a second comment. This woman is desperate to blame someone, ANYONE, for her loss of youth and beauty. Rather than accepting that this is normal and happens to humans, she blames society. "I had to smile. Society made me. I had to have children. Society made me." Honey, you could have held a perfectly straight face, kept your legs closed, and never eaten a carb. You would still get older, get wrinkles, and become less pert and perky over time. Reading between…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 03:36 PM
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It's funny how she hears exactly the opposite messages from society that most people do. I see endless articles shaming men for a "mid-life crisis" and "all these amazing 30+-year-old women are single! what's wrong with men?" She somehow sees this as congratulating men for getting younger women. I have yet to hear, see, or even get a hint of someone disapproving of an older woman with a younger man. Hell, statutory rape gets called a "tryst" so long as it's older female, younger male. She someho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 03:20 PM
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I actually gasped at the nerve of that line. "mooch off them? . . . I'm not . . . [it] would be no more than most people pay for a car loan." Honey, you expect him to pay off your loans. That's the definition of mooching.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 10:32 PM
2

And the media publishes them and gives them accolades.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/20 10:23 PM
9

Where is the government cutting back handouts?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/20 01:01 AM
1

Bonus points for "twat turnips"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/20 10:21 PM
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Yes, but thanks to welfare programs it's now society's problem. At least until/unless some naive betabucks takes the bait.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 08:35 PM
11

This. 1000x this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 08:22 PM
5

Fair enough. Have an upvote.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/20 03:49 AM
7

. . . or maybe she's just enjoying having sex at 50 while she can. She married young, stayed faithful, and her husband died. It's churlish to begrudge her what joy she can find at this point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/20 04:33 PM
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Those rules only apply to women who fail to secure commitment early on. A woman who is: 1. Young and attractive 2. Respectful (not trashy) 3. A virgin She can refuse to put out before marriage, choose from the multiple men who make it past that hurdle, spend some time with each, and select the one who seems the best for lifetime commitment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 07:23 PM
5

Also: women hitting their 30s want alpha fucks and beta bucks in the same man. They want an exciting rebel bad boy player who gives the tingles. They also need someone stable, commitment-minded, and gainfully employed. In short: fried ice. https://therationalmale.com/2012/12/19/the-epiphany-phase/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 01:27 AM
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https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2015/06/30/modern-christian-cultures-deep-antipathy-for-fathers/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 01:18 AM
1

Keep in mind, it's older women who want the allure of young, attractive women contained. Men love to see women uncovered! If men enforce this, it's at the behest of older women (moms, wives, etc.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 01:17 AM
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Side note: I have multiple college degrees, have been a professor for about 15 years. My nephew made more than me his first year as a deputy Sheriff. No college degree needed. Degrees have their place, but other life paths are good also. Women (and society) will realize that eventually.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 02:47 PM
1

The problem isn't who she picks out of the men competing for her attention, no. It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 02:43 PM
2

Good point. I wonder if the social push from the next generation will shift from "party hard" and "live for yourself" to "be a good person" and "be a good parent."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 02:38 PM
8

It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 06:11 PM
1

Modern feminists and SJWs hate straight, white, Christians and nuclear families. You might not fully believe this, but it explains an awful lot of behavior: Why so many white men working at colleges are gay (me included, that's not a slur) Why Elizabeth Warren claimed to be Native American, or Shaun King claimed to be black Why feminists support Muslims - when Muslim society is a literal patriarchy that keeps women firmly in their assigned place Why a panel full of white women is not longer quit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/20 01:51 PM
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It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/20 04:55 AM
9

Note HOW he was abusive: "during both pregnancies . . . I was made to feel like I needed to keep on eating to ensure the babies were getting enough nutrients." He insisted his pregnant wife eat so their kids could survive the womb. That absolute cad! I feel really bad for those kids. It's clear where they fall on her priority list.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/20 09:32 PM
4

I pity da fool dat swipes right!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 03:16 AM
1

. . . which would quickly categorize the guy as beta.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/20 01:18 AM
5

Nah. We've been through this before, will go through it again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/20 01:11 AM
3

The heavily tattooed arm and cross in the same photo is . . . interesting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/20 03:44 PM
3

I'm an atheist, but after seeing the results of countries going atheist I'm ready to support Christianity. I don't argue with results.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/20 12:22 AM
2

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and they have agency. They're still responsible. Especially when they continue to make the same bad decisions, or decide to randomly divorce their husband without realizing their own SMV has dropped. It's true that many of the support structures that used to guide women (and men) are gone. That's part of the reason for this sub: pointing out that behavior has consequences, even if nobody else tells you that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/20 12:16 AM
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Our neighbor is a single mom. My guess is she used to be hot. She keeps angling her, uh, assets at my husband and me. (We bat for the other team.) Mind you: When she bought a generator, her boyfriend was there to help install it. Boyfriend is no longer in the picture. When her house needed yard work, no less than 3 beta orbiters showed up from work to do it for her. There's stable, kind, income-positive men all around still begging for her attention. She literally doesn't see them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/20 12:03 AM
40

"adventurous pregnant chick" -> I'm not going to slow down my party lifestyle for my kids. "must be willing to eat carbs, in moderation" -> I'm going to bloat up like a whale. Your abs must stay visible until I divorce you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/20 03:15 PM
44

Once again women ignore the key piece: men are motivated to provide for THEIR OWN offspring. "I have kids from two other guys" is not a plus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/20 03:07 PM
2

I regret I have but one upvote to give. Spot on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/20 09:07 PM
5

Oh, snap!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/20 09:02 PM
9

It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/20 09:00 PM
7

Of course, there's nothing at all she's doing to encourage this behavior. It's always men's fault. Always.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/20 02:43 PM
3

"he already tried to restrict my drug and alcohol use." The absolute CAD!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/20 09:08 PM
8

1000x this. A fiancee is someone about to commit to marriage. This is the fun infatuation phase of the relationship! If the spouse isn't happy for the chance to spend time with you, something is very very wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/20 03:47 PM
16

Even in the linked article, the woman says "I allowed a friend to set me up on a blind date with an older gentleman. He was a well-heeled yachtsman with a nice car, so why not."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 04:59 AM
7

. . . and choosing to do that to hair. At 30!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 08:02 PM
4

They've been sold that bill of goods: you can have it all, without choices or sacrifices. News flash: that's not true, not true for anybody.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 03:23 PM
10

I worry for my nephews. One dodged marriage with a gold-digger who slept around on him while they were engaged, the other almost got caught by a pregnancy scare. How can they find a woman to raise a family with at this point? I think I just made a WAATGW post.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 03:42 AM
1

"The rationalization hamster is an analogy for the thought processes used by women to turn bad behavior and bad decisions into acceptable ones to herself and her friends. When a woman makes a bad decision, the hamster spins in its wheel (the woman’s thinking) and creates some type of acceptable reasons for that bad decision. The crazier the decision, the faster the hamster must spin in order to successfully rationalize away the insanity" https://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/12/12/the-rationa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 08:49 PM
5

So what action is he taking to make sure his small child doesn't end up like his family friend? Why does he look at her and see someone unmarried in their 30s? Hmm. It must be men's fault. . . . specifically, other men. Nothing he can do to avoid this. Nope, not one thing. [Edit: the father could raise his daughter to marry early to a good man. There'd be no waiting and no worry. But apparently that doesn't occur to him, so instead he wrote the article.]
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 05:21 PM
15

" I couldn’t help but think about an adult female friend of ours who’s waiting on a boy right now." . . . " she’s kissed her early 20s goodbye, and she’s still standing there waiting." The language here is highly misleading. She's waiting on "a boy." So she's been faithful in a clearly-defined monogamous relationship with one man throughout her 20s and the man still hasn't proposed? If that's what he means, then yes, that woman would deserve sympathy. But that's not what he means. It's what he s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 05:11 PM
28

[A woman] who values decency, chastity and respect for men [will] find guys lining up around the block looking to marry her and love her. This. A thousand times this. But those women don't need to write angsty articles. And they don't need their dads to write them either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 04:54 PM
33

This is a brilliant suggestion that will be ignored by society. Bringing back the dowry would at least start to balance risk men take in modern marriage. Actually balancing that risk would be interesting. What's the present value of a lifetime of alimony, child support, and the government forcing you to earn at gunpoint?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 04:50 PM
0

...those're really the biggest things they found that could be the problem? It's not about fixing things, it's about making her feel better. In other words: hamster hamster hamster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 02:36 PM
2

"I'm a virgin looking for a strong, capable man to follow faithfully. I'm 20 years old, in shape, kind and respectful, and want kids in a stable marriage."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/20 04:25 AM
24

confidence and life experience Sexy in men. Not sexy in women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 03:22 PM
2

The thirst is real.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 04:22 PM
6

There's plenty of (attempted) man-shaming. Just not for women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 10:14 PM
24

The hamster is really good at protecting people from bad feelings. "I'm a good person, that random cheating on my husband just happened. Twice. And it didn't mean anything. And it wasn't cheating because it was just physical. And . . ."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 01:21 PM
1

"Nevertheless, I refuse to rush into a relationship . . ." No kidding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/20 11:57 AM
3

The contradictions run deep in this one. "I want to [chug] peach bellinis [in public] . . . but I've grown out of partying" "[I'm] spontaneous but have grown out of my impulsivity"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 05:55 PM
123

Norah Vincent made it about a year and a half and had to be hospitalized for depression. Her book is a good read.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/20 07:03 PM
12

Some people think it gives a wonderful sense of freedom. I've been stuck on trips with them. It usually turns into a miserable waste of time. But they want to do it the same way next time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/20 01:04 PM
4

Thanks to multiple government welfare programs, we're all her walking wallet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/20 02:11 PM
1

The $1,000,000 question: why is it so important to your relatives that you get married? (Or "married" if you prefer.)
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:50 PM
2

Men killed in combat? Whatevs. Skyrocketing male suicide rate? Yawn. Women made slightly uncomfortable by global pandemic? OMG we have to save our single females.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/20 11:44 PM
15

"I've been hurt! Save me, white knights!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/20 02:05 PM
58

For many women age 18-25, the world does "just happen for them". Friendly strangers are happy to stop and chat. A smile and cute head tilt makes half their problems go away. If they need money, they post a few photos on Patreon (or similar) and money just shows up! Much of the confusion when women hit the wall and/or become single mothers is that suddenly they fall from this magical blessed existence into the same world the rest of us live in. It must be quite a shock.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/20 03:43 AM
11

Most people with an iota of intelligence would weigh the consequence of making a few bucks performing in porn versus the societal backlash. $30K per month! Three years of that makes you a millionaire. Screw the backlash, I'd start doing porn right now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/20 04:41 AM
19

Women don't want sexbots. They know what's at stake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/20 11:13 PM
4

Side note: business ideas are worth NOTHING. Literally everybody and their kid has business ideas. It's the work to make things, clear obstacles, deliver, and sell that creates value.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/20 03:58 AM
3

The way I read this: Overly-woke adults want unisex toilets for the kids. The kids want nothing to do with it. Gosh, I wonder how many other overly-woke things are like this.
/r/MensRights06/10/19 04:34 PM
5

It wasn't anything to do with the babysitter. It was a woman with a kid asking "can I sue this random man for child support?"
/r/MensRights19/09/19 08:11 PM
31

The conversation can be more or less nuanced. But focusing on "what advantages does someone ELSE have, and how can I fix that" is a horrible way to look at the world. It means a lifetime spent trying to make things worse for others. But so long as you imagine some advantage for some group you decide they belong to, then it's okay.
/r/MensRights10/09/19 03:36 PM
4

Some shy woman who doesn't know how beautiful she is takes an interest in some rapey dude It's not always this. Sometimes the woman has a bad attitude and loves to put men down verbally. The romance novel man thinks, "She's a sassy wench,* and is turned on. That's how you can tell it's fiction.
/r/MensRights30/08/19 04:08 PM
3

Gillette needs to go down in business history as a cautionary tale. "Don't piss off your customers" SHOULD be a core tenet of advertising agencies and business education going forward. It used to be so obvious we didn't need to state it, but apparently . . .
/r/MensRights24/08/19 02:44 AM
2

. . . and that's why male contraceptives will never be allowed to take off. Several have been in development, but they mysteriously never make it to market.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 05:55 AM
4

That audience reaction is deeply, deeply appalling.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 12:46 AM
7

I'm not arguing the point, but it's also a step in the right direction.
/r/MensRights19/07/19 02:42 PM
106

At least men are getting some headline coverage there. In America, white men's suicides are covered as "middle-aged Americans" committing suicide, or at most "white, middle-aged Americans".
/r/MensRights30/05/19 03:21 PM
4

Married, can confirm. We both have our issues with spending money. But "fun money" gives us just enough independence without breaking the bank. Highly recommended.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 03:26 AM
2

That's not a contradiction. You must learn to deal with the world/society as it is. There are rules, and they don't change for you! But society lies, loudly and repeatedly, about what the rules are. That's why we need the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 02:38 AM
10

"I'm not saying it was better when women were ostracized for having 5 kids out of wedlock" I'm saying it. If she can't support them herself, she should be be shamed and face severe social consequences. One kid out of wedlock? Okay, it happens. Two? You clearly don't make good decisions. Five? GTFO.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 03:55 AM
8

Good for you. Everyone has an opinion on workout routines. Don't let them knock you off one that works for you.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 03:26 PM
2

Being married to a cop would be high stress for both parties involved. The cop goes into physical danger constantly, the spouse worries about the cop, and the cop needs to process and dump all the crap they see day-to-day. Domestic violence or no, a high divorce rate would be easy to hit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/19 01:52 PM
4

"What am I getting out of that other than having a date once in a while?" Honey, you're over 50. Be happy you're getting dates!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/19 01:35 PM
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