HeftyIncident7003 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	UK: Calling a female colleague a 'pretty woman' at work is sex discrimination, tribunal rules What is pretty? Who defines pretty? Who told you pretty is important?	/r/MensRights	30/04/24 07:03 PM
1	UK: Calling a female colleague a 'pretty woman' at work is sex discrimination, tribunal rules That’s just called, taking advantage of a sucker because, well, they are dumb enough to fall for it.	/r/MensRights	30/04/24 05:11 PM
1	UK: Calling a female colleague a 'pretty woman' at work is sex discrimination, tribunal rules Why is society like that?	/r/MensRights	30/04/24 05:10 PM
-1	UK: Calling a female colleague a 'pretty woman' at work is sex discrimination, tribunal rules Amen.	/r/MensRights	30/04/24 05:09 PM
1	Scrolled through r/feminism Please explain?	/r/MensRights	01/04/24 06:59 PM
2	Scrolled through r/feminism Poverty, gender and race intersect. Each is equally a cause for pain and suffering but in combination they can amplify the problems of the other as well as make additional problems. Poverty can cause struggles for every person. Adding on being a woman who are often abandoned with children to feed and raise while trying to find work (Im not saying this does not happen to men) in a society (speaking of USA) which is only beginning to really value raising children as actual work is also hard. Add o…	/r/MensRights	01/04/24 04:00 PM
2	Scrolled through r/feminism You are right. Empathy does give us good feelings. It’s also what we use to connect to people. That’s a problem lots of men struggle with. It’s empathy that allows people to feel okay with being vulnerable because an empathetic person can help another person feel safe enough to express themselves fully. It’s a basic principle of therapy. You are also right that women have made a lot of progress. Their progress has opened up a lot of information about the difficulties men face and the deeper unde…	/r/MensRights	01/04/24 03:44 PM
1	Scrolled through r/feminism I get that everyone faces some kind of discrimination. I’m glad you see it. But, you are off topic here. Pointing out one group’s suffering does not diminish the injustice of another group. Recognizing and supporting another’s injustice helps heal that. When we heal as a society we learn to empathize with more injustice and can heal more. But, when people point out their injustice we marginalize their suffering by saying, well this group is hurting too or (arguably worse) I am hurting too even t…	/r/MensRights	01/04/24 01:35 PM
2	Scrolled through r/feminism I said nothing leading to that conclusion. If I am misunderstanding something you are saying I invite you to take some time to share what you are seeing. I am not afraid to change my understanding of something or someone.	/r/MensRights	01/04/24 01:24 PM
3	Scrolled through r/feminism You are misunderstanding. I did not compare Iranian women and Iranian under 18 boys (oddly specific). I compared the ISSUES current Iranian women face with those ISSUES European women faced in the 1700s. I am glad you understand that women have suffered (1700s Europe) and still suffer now (Iran). The world still has growth and healing it needs to do.	/r/MensRights	01/04/24 01:03 PM
1	Scrolled through r/feminism Thank you for sharing. It’s very brave to do so in a way so many people can see. It must have been hard, even for this small moment, to relive a large amount of verbal trauma. As men we have been conditioned to push down our emotions and bury our pain under shame and false bravery. Your life sounds incredibly hard. It is impressive that even though you have been abused by so many women you have found yourself back in the spaces of feminism there to support them and their causes. That shows how y…	/r/MensRights	01/04/24 12:54 PM
-1	Scrolled through r/feminism I don’t disagree with you at all. Men have created a society that discriminates against both men and women. All I have said is in the case noted above there is a misunderstanding. I believe that women, feminists are on the side of men. When women speaking out against the injustices they face it does not diminish what is also happening to men. It’s like BLM is not about diminishing white people it’s just about bringing awareness that society has done harm to black people. In fact, in many cases w…	/r/MensRights	01/04/24 04:09 AM
-14	Scrolled through r/feminism I politely disagree. But, pointing out that women struggle does not mean men do not struggle too. The reasons while can be similar are not the same.	/r/MensRights	31/03/24 06:56 PM
0	Society (and men) have long since deemed that expecting a woman to fit the “housewife” role in a relationship is unacceptable and sexist, but for some reason women still hold it over us? Wouldn’t you want that?	/r/MensRights	31/03/24 04:11 PM
-15	Scrolled through r/feminism Do You realize you have just marginalized what women experience to something very singular and are doing it in a “safe “space? If you don’t understand that the comment is probably about how the world is designed mostly with men in mind then you might want to start having conversations with women who actually walk in the outside world.	/r/MensRights	31/03/24 04:08 PM
-16	Scrolled through r/feminism I get what you are saying. In detail they are very different causes but in concept they are very similar. What women in Iran face is probably more like what women in 1700ad Europe may have faced. I doubt we would compare the changes being sought by European women of 1724 to women in 2024. Both would still be women concerned with women’s rights. The contexts are what is different.	/r/MensRights	31/03/24 04:03 PM