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Removing time and attention for behavior you don’t like is passive bitch behavior. Be a man and communicate directly. I don’t like it when you do X. Why are you doing X? When you boil it down it’s probably an issue you have (why it’s bothering you) or an issue she has (why she’s doing it) or something between the both of you. Solve the root issue otherwise you’ll just be going in circles your entire life.
/r/askMRP27/12/25 03:02 PM
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Yeah i just find here the guys are much more switched on than typical RP circles. I’m retarded yes but there are those a lot more retarded than me. Better community and more sage advice here basically.
/r/askMRP06/08/25 06:26 PM
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Thanks for the perspective, I didn’t see it that way. I had a virgin gf over 10 years ago but I didn’t see those issues back then just because I was so lost in my own
/r/askMRP05/08/25 02:42 PM
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Appreciate that
/r/askMRP05/08/25 02:41 PM
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😄
/r/askMRP02/08/25 02:21 PM
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Good questions thanks. I’ll go answer those and resolve these issues I have
/r/askMRP02/08/25 02:09 PM
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Thanks I appreciate that a lot. Any recommended next steps or resources to get into for my situation? I’ll have to make an alt account to post in OYS as this account is banned
/r/askMRP02/08/25 02:00 PM
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Hey no worries thanks
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:49 PM
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I didn’t delete it the mods did.
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:41 PM
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Is there not manipulation all the way to the core of relationships? Each relationship is co dependent to a degree it seems. I’m yet to see a ‘perfectly healthy’ relationship where both parties are purely there because they want to be. Everyone seems out to get something from someone else. Maybe I’m just jaded and have limited exposure.
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:39 PM
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I’m asking random people online to highlight my blinds spots and see what I might be missing. Appreciate your opinion and input here.
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:34 PM
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Yeah I’m working on it
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:24 PM
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Any recommendations on specifics of what to work on from here
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:24 PM
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True thank you
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:22 PM
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Yes I am using her and she’s using me too. I can see it from both sides but that doesn’t make it right for me.
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:22 PM
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Appreciate that. I’m saying I’m too comfortable just getting my dick sucked everyday with food and a clean house but maybe that’s making me soft or showing how soft I already am.
/r/askMRP02/08/25 10:48 AM
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But that’s what I mentioned in the body of my post. If I make it a boundary and she just hides it. She’ll watch the videos just not ‘like it’ There’s a deeper underlying issue here which is not being addressed. Do you understand what I’m saying? I don’t want my wife to be fake and a slave to me. I want my wife to be loyal to me without manipulation.
/r/askMRP02/08/25 10:35 AM
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What boundary? Hey baby don’t like other men’s videos on Instagram. Doesn’t fix the underlying issue that she wants to do that. How am I acting like a child?
/r/askMRP02/08/25 10:27 AM
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Just make number 2 your overall frame without the fight part. Then everything else will figure itself out. Setting boundaries about her behavior. Taking care of yourself and putting yourself first. Maybe read Dread by Rian Stone
/r/askMRP20/05/25 10:49 AM
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Mindset is way more important. Girls would rather fuck and be with a skinny guy with game than some big jacked insecure loser.
/r/askMRP14/05/25 02:04 PM
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Nice way to accept constructive criticism
/r/askMRP07/05/25 06:17 AM
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Glad I created some entertainment for you guys
/r/askMRP05/05/25 07:42 PM
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Getting in shape is more about diet than training if you’re fat, if you’re skinny it’s still about eating enough with some training. Yes it is more prep work but this is about long term setting yourself up for success. It’s about learning how to train and move effectively so you don’t get injured and you have a better physique in the future. It’s about playing short term vs long term games. I prefer playing long term games.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 07:10 PM
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Oh I was referring to myself I got perma banned
/r/askMRP05/05/25 07:07 PM
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Ok so I just make a new account and then post with that.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 07:04 PM
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How is that applicable to my situation?
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:51 PM
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I realised it was an ego issue so I decided to delete it. I didn’t want to just attack and create conflict without a goal. I would rather use this medium to figure out my own issues and improve myself. It’s funny that you guys perma banned this account from Mrp but I could just create another account and then reengage immediately. Wouldn’t you rather see an account post a comedic field report first and then go on to be successful later?
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:47 PM
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Yeah easy thanks I’ll go figure that out now
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:41 PM
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Ah yes makes sense. I think I have a problem with a savior mindset and thinking that people can be saved and putting too much energy into that. Instead of putting that energy into myself and improving my own life. Have you ever experienced that yourself?
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:38 PM
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Look at the functional patterns 10 week course. Everyone here recommends traditional lifting but that will actually cause you pain and injuries over the long term. I’ve been a trainer/coach for 15 years. Was a semi pro athlete and then did some fitness modeling. Traditional training made me look good but I was constantly getting little injuries and pain. Functional patterns allows me to move better and feel better
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:12 PM
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Do you feel like some of us forget how hard it is and how poorly the average man is doing when you’re engaging and successful for so long in RP content? It’s like a disconnect. When I reconnect with some old high school friends I’m surprised how fucked and stuck they are but that is a big majority of men nowadays right?
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:10 PM
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You could just give a warning first and link to an FAQ/recommended resource
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:08 PM
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They’re emotionally triggered lol that’s why it’s illogical. They act like the broken women they try to warn men against ironically.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:07 PM
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Some of the mods there are insecure and power tripping. No warning and constructive criticism just bans that encourage people to make throwaway accounts and then they complain that random people are engaging and posting lmao. For Men that claim to be superior and more emotionally healthy they’re more easily triggered and don’t seem to be that intelligent. Now don’t get me wrong there are some good mods there and great people in the group. It’s just a couple of them that are not great.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 06:07 PM
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Hahaha you’re drinking cope juice and you’re calling me a retard. I think I hit a soft spot. I outlined something and then you attacked me. Anyway I appreciate your advice and time
/r/askMRP04/05/25 02:45 AM
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If you don’t look outside of yourself for confirmation of your opinions why are you even engaging in this group? If you trusted yourself and were your own judge you would be living your life and not here on this forum. Am I right? I think that you’re projecting an issue you have onto me here. Everyone has a reason for everything they do. I’ve said what my goal is here, I want other peoples opinions so I can analyze them and see if they’re of value to me. What’s your reason here? What do you what…
/r/askMRP04/05/25 02:38 AM
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I’m engaged in everything you’ve described that’s why my goal here is to just spot check my blind spots. I’m just asking for your opinion so I can analyze for myself to see if it’s useful for me or not. For some reason you’re being difficult and not giving me that opinion/viewpoint and trying to encourage me to discover it for myself. The way you worded your response is like you were alerting me to something I might be missing. So I just wanted to clarify that. That’s all.
/r/askMRP04/05/25 02:11 AM
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Progress based on what? I’ve read and made notes on the sidebar. I’ve written FRs for years. You’re judging my life based on an emotionally written FR and some engagement on this thread. Is all advice given in the red pill not spoon feeding? Don’t read the sidebar because that’s spoon feeding…. Go and make the mistakes and figure it out yourself so then you really understand it.
/r/askMRP04/05/25 01:57 AM
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Can you explain it to me like I’m a 5 year old child and you want me to understand what you’re trying to convey.
/r/askMRP04/05/25 01:30 AM
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If I hold her accountable, it works, she apologizes and shows me positive behavior change and takes action to make up for what she did then what’s the problem? Are you saying this will break or blow up in the future?
/r/askMRP04/05/25 12:14 AM
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I mean you say that but she took time to apologize and explain why she did it and how she fixed it etc and is being responsible and accountable for her actions? This is difficult to explain but I had a psychological issue where I was trying to make people hate me because my Mother tried to make people hate her. My GF said that she said she hated me in that moment because she felt like that’s what I wanted, and it was. I had deep dive into my own psychology and figure out that faulty pattern I ha…
/r/askMRP03/05/25 09:52 PM
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The mods perma banned me from r/marriedredpill for this exact post lol.
/r/askMRP03/05/25 09:34 PM
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You were right gg
/r/askMRP03/05/25 05:50 AM
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I was in Rian Stones private group for about a year when I first started the relationship with this woman. I don’t really believe in the OYS concept it’s a bit excessive imo. I would rather spot adjust as needed when something comes up. I have my own journalling and reflective practice for self improvement. I found something like OYS actually has its own issues on relying for others for constant validation and writing in a way to impress others instead of being pure. If that all makes sense. Bas…
/r/askMRP03/05/25 04:42 AM
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Hey everyone appreciate the inputs here. Already reconnected talked hugged and fucked and everything is just great as before as if nothing happened. Will reflect and make any adjustments I need to make.
/r/askMRP03/05/25 04:36 AM
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Yes just a poor use of words by myself. I just meant I spent a lot of time studying and applying PUA and RP for dating a lot of women. Learning attraction and short term relationships etc. But I’m lacking in the LTR skills and the finer touches of a relationship.
/r/askMRP03/05/25 03:17 AM
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In this regard is the concept to forgive the woman for these little transgressions and not ‘keep score’ as long as she changes and improves her behavior after the fact?
/r/askMRP03/05/25 01:57 AM
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Ah man yes this is a frustrating truth to accept.
/r/askMRP03/05/25 01:50 AM
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Can you clarify what you mean by keeping score? As in I will hold this situation against her in future in my mind? Or do you mean just writing this post and analyzing the situation is keeping score?
/r/askMRP03/05/25 01:40 AM
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Haha note to self check ego
/r/askMRP03/05/25 12:50 AM
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Yes I can see that. All the events recently revealed some insecurity in me which is why I couldn’t hold frame and just be normal in that situation as I was too angry. I’ll address that and resolve it now
/r/askMRP03/05/25 12:20 AM
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Thank you I think it was a shitty comfort test
/r/askMRP03/05/25 12:17 AM
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With her asking for space I guess the only strategy here is to just wait for her to reach out. I wouldn’t want to message her with any profound realization or anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/25 12:06 AM
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As yes I treated a comfort test like a shit test that’s it
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/25 12:04 AM
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Thank you this makes a lot of sense. I even gave her some advice that if any word or language triggers her then that’s an issue she needs to resolve. Then she says she ‘hates’ me and I’m the one getting triggered by it. Time to reflect and take my own advice here.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/25 11:27 PM
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I don’t believe it’s Alpha to repress your emotions
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/25 11:23 PM
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Ah this makes sense maybe I was too strong and direct with her. As it was her issue but I could come at it from a more understanding perspective. Also in the social dynamic it was a group of mixed friends hanging out so I didn’t overtly flirt with her I just maintained a friendly conversation without disturbing the overall vibe. But also my GF said you call me out when I do shit you don’t like so why didn’t you call out this girl and her boyfriend when they did shit you don’t like? Which was a v…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/25 11:20 PM
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Yes this makes sense thank you. I figured out why her hating me triggered me just now so I can accept it. My gut reaction now is more like if a little girl tells you she hates you, you just laugh and pat her on the head. Tease her about it etc
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/25 11:17 PM
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Ok tell me straight what should I work on and what can I do better here
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/25 11:00 PM
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I’ve been progressing personally very fast and she’s following but lagging behind. I noticed her starting to get more insecure and more sensitive to the female attention I get. This has been happening for around 1 year or so. But I’m also becoming less tolerant of her bullshit and more assertive and direct. Most of the time she responds positively, but it’s like she can’t handle it anymore and is struggling for some reason. I still love her but if she can’t improve herself then I will have to fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/25 10:55 PM
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