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| 4 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..." | Discussion | HeisterWolf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 05:59 PM |
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| 1 | CMV: "Friend-zoning" is judging a woman for her right to say "no", slut shaming is judging a woman for her right to say "yes"Not from my experience but I wouldn't be surprised if you've seen the term friendzone being "incelified" and used out of it's original meaning. I don't doubt it could happen. In my view the issue is using "I've been friendzoned" to say "you're a bad person for friendzoning me". About "slut shaming" I think it depends on what you consider slut shaming. Not wanting to hook up with a girl because of her body count or because she has an onlyfans acc is the person's choice and their right to say no. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?There's some lessons you have to learn by yourself. But a mentor can, in fact, help a lot. There's just... Some stuff our brains refuse to learn until it's too late, but that's alright, it's a natural step in life. Fighting testosterone-induced hornyness is a helluva difficult fight i can tell you that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 06:46 AM |
| 2 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?Irrelevant as in relationships? That'd go against human social instincts. It's something one would need to learn and accept. No way in hell men would stop getting heartbroken if i just went there and said "ayo you don't need a girlfriend dude". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 06:36 AM |
| 5 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?Sadly no one can help with that. You are the only one that can "discover" the truth about your life. Max others can do about that is sharing their own conclusions about their own lives. We are not a hivemind after all. Cherish your individuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 06:12 AM |
| 9 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?Do it for yourself then. As they say: "the best vengeance is to live a good life" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:25 AM |
| 7 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?/s Here, you dropped this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:22 AM |
| 6 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?Not sure i want sex and a relationship. Just tired, can't even connect with people anymore, the dating game is filled with to much bullshit imo. No one my age (22) would want to be with a tired person when there's a lot of energetic and attractive people around. That's why i think "havin sum coochie" is extremely overrated. Gotta accept how i am if i'm going to live with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 04:56 AM |
| 10 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?How would we know how the real thing feels if we never "had" it? Beats using the good ol hands at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 04:43 AM |
| 5 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guySometimes people fail to see the opposite sex as human. It's like they forget that the word "gender" isn't the same as "species", maybe because of some form of media alienation or whatever. Maybe we're so used to hear things that set men apart from women that we kinda just see em as different species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Goes both ways. Dating nowadays is just a clusterfuck of attwhores and people wanting some good ole ego bj. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Truly a badge of honor.Joined the sub and was banned like 5mins later. It's either a bot or the mods really take moderating as an actual job 💀 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/03/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then menBoth men and women do tbh. Shitty people will be shitty, doesn't really matter if they have ovaries or a pair of balls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Study: Misogynists Believe They Are Unattractive to WomenI agree, dating apps are a nuclear disaster. I think the solution is everyone just minding their own businesses w/o going out of their way to be assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Study: Misogynists Believe They Are Unattractive to WomenWhere will that attitude get us Look at the window and see what's happening outside, we are already there. But where is "there"? Well, what else could it be besides the hellhole that dating is today + the huge quantity of toxic people (from both sexes) out there. Seeking relationships today is just like running straigt into a minefield in hopes of finding a diamond. I'll also go as far to say that we can ignore all that "low value - high value" bullshit bc at the end it still won't change the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."Then i think you are a lucky ans strong person. Also i hope you never have to suffer that again. I've heard about people who suffered less and commited terrible crimrs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."I said in a comment in this post before. I try correcting toxic thoughts whenever i can but i have no control over a rapist's action. As a common citizen all i can do is hope that the police does it's job, simply because i know who is the victim but i have no idea who is the aggressor unless they show themselves or express these kind of thoughts somewhere. That means i will stop correcting toxic thoughts whenever i see tem? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."No. Parents that care will prevent it from happening, and if it does will invest in therapy and general wellbeing for the child. I'm talking about the bad part. Families that doesn't care about what happens with the child and abuse them/ let tem be abused. Those are common backgrounds of rapists I was abused by a friend when i was only a child. My parents are great people and helped me up with that. And i never even looked women in an improper manner. That is the difference of a child that is ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."Agreed. There are too much variables in this, but if we just dig up excuses, the problem will never be addressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."Ok, so let's eliminate toxic male entitlement and the patriarchal part of the society. Now males act like women (in the good sense of course) and women are not judged/looked down by anyone. Child abuse continues happening. Yeah we sure don't have men being pushy and commiting sexual crimes anymore, but abusers are everywhere. Toxic masculinity is a factor? Indeed! But as i just said, abusers are everywhere! Whatever if sick pedos, or people that think violence is the correct way to teach childre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."That... Does make a lot of sense actually. It's not to much of a hassle to carry a taser with you, i see your point here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."That's also fair. I guess i used the wrong word. I do not want to force you to be cautious, and above all i will never force another human being to do something they don't want to do. So let me correct myself. What i hope is that every person is cautious about other people, because no one ever knows what other people are thinking. Not wanting to stop you from doing whatever you want to do, just not wanting to see you or someone else being part of the rape statistics and ending up in a news headl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."Yes. That's why i agree with the onus until we come up with a more permanent solution. On the other side, most rapes are indeed commited by friends, dates, etc. And then we come back at where rapes come from, and that prevention is rarely enough against perpetrators that are in close proximity. I agree with you there, but it does not change what i think: Punish rapists, protect children from child abuse so they don't turn into rapists in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."Really interesting actually, those who bitch about being treated as a predator eventually stop thinking that much about if because at the end of the day it is fair that women are so cautious about being raped (for obvious reasons) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."What onus? The one where i say they have less of a chance of being assaulted if they try to prevent it, because i, personally, as a man, can not directly control what rapists do and also feel extremely uneasy about women being raped? It's not women's responsibility to protect themselves all the time, but it is also not my responsibility to not walk alone at night, but i don't. I don't want to compare rape with being robbed because rapes are obviously 1000x worse in every sense of the action, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."Finally you got the point. People who are there only to blame serve no function in solving the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."They are not. They never were and as a logical conclusion they never will be. I'm even impressed that someone thinks that being a sexual harasser may be excusable in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."If you don't accept men are "rapey" what would happen? I don't like being tagged as a dangerous person (mostly bc i am not) but cautiousness is never enough. I think being called "rapey" is a cheap price to pay for a women to be cautious and have less of a chance to be abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."I already talked about it and showed an article that studied on it. Most rapists show signs of childhood abuse, that means: Rapists and bad family backgrounds create more rapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 4 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."Fix the men, and let the women live free. Without generalizing, that's literally what i said. A lot of men are indeed immoral, and a whole other lot are immorals that also rape. I also want them arrested when they commit sexual crimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:37 PM |
| 2 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."I got it. Thanks for explaining i wanted to reassure it because i think of the whole rape thing as extremely unsettling. I do wish a world safe enough that people could walk alone at night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."Hmm. No need to go this far to try "proving op as a rapist supporter". I'm not, i agree with you, women are free to do whatever they want, what i'm putting here is an analysis about where does rape "come from", and an advice for those who want to take it. I will never blame women for a rapist's action, what i expect from women is that they are cautious, nothing less, nothing more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."I understand where are you coming from. I read it all before posting and still found that article somewhat reliable (that's also why i pointed specifically the "attachment" section) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."Thanks for the considerate response. Just trying to bring this debate into the table in a logic way, but it seems some preconceptions are already to deep for that lol (not in your comment, i understood your point) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 4 | "Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..."I'm not trying to excuse bad behavior ma'am, just trying to explain it so we can discuss in a healthy manner (as in thinking about concepts in a logical manner). I said that rapists should be punished a lot of times throughout the text, but as much as i like to see them out of the streets, there is not a 100% way to stop women from being raped. Not that man are natural rapists, but remember: those sickos think that sexual abuse is ok. I'm saying that you gals have a lower chance of being raped i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.I mean as a man i don't fear being raped, yet i still fear being robbed or killed (not even comparable, but yeah i do feel extremely uneasy walking somewhere alone at night). We as a society teach both sexes not to abuse (or what is abusive behavior) and how to prevent being abused/abusing someone. (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3777344/) /\ This article is pertinent to the discussion (look for "Intimacy/attachment problems" section). It links with other studies to say that most r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 17 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.As i see it, we need to remember the difference between prevention and victim blaming. Abuse is abuse, and the perpretators should always be punished, the thing is: A lot of those abuses would not happen or at least have a lower chance to happen if some specific behaviours (like driking alone with a stranger) were removed from the "equation". Yeah i agree, abusive men are pure scum and should be punished ASAP, but the whole idea about prevention is that it's supposed to take someone out of harm'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Woman at work complaining at me even after I asked her to email me her concerns instead. At this point she is following me around complaining at me. I walk into the mens room and..she FOLOWS me in there so i grab a stall and start taking a YUGE shit. Talking to HR about her tomorrow.Lmao i just got banned from interacting in 3 subreddits just bc i commented here. Why the hell was this place quarentined for? Must have been something really serious to reward me 3 bans. Anyway, if HR people have any sense in their minds they should do something about it, at least something to stop this harassment. | /r/MGTOW | 03/03/21 03:13 AM |
| 24 | Woman at work complaining at me even after I asked her to email me her concerns instead. At this point she is following me around complaining at me. I walk into the mens room and..she FOLOWS me in there so i grab a stall and start taking a YUGE shit. Talking to HR about her tomorrow.HR will probably not give a fuck since you don't have a pussy between your legs but i do hope everything goes just fine | /r/MGTOW | 03/03/21 02:51 AM |
| 4 | Single mom at 27. Why the fuxx can't chad/tyrone commit to me? Can we please go back in time to the period I would be shunned by normal society for thotting around town and abusing drugs?it's about personality Proceeds to post picture of her body in profile | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/02/21 07:03 AM |
| 4 | Traditional Masculinity isn't for everyoneExcept not all men and women are the same? Some men (a lot of women too) want to play this bullshit of dominance and leadership, but many other men and women actual want to be in a relationship as equals. Don't let media's spotlights make you think everyone wants to dominate/be dominated Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".Yeah i think i got what you said, shit's crazy and hitting the fan all over the already collapsing dating world. Probably works the same way as feminism and mgtow. Some think people from both sides are bad bc the most noticeable people are the more radical ones. They're screaming, so all you can hear is radicalists' scream instead of those people's true ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 06:29 AM |
| 9 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".We understand companionship, intimacy, and validation. Most of us know sex won't give it to us. Meanwhile, men think sex is like the cure to cancer. Read the phrase as a whole, women can't understand why men are so "bitchy" about not having one of those three needs because they(women) never or rarely feel how it is to have 0 of them. That's NOT code for sex. I NEVER said men are entitled to sex nor have i given any excuses to why men should get laid more often, what i did was explaining why bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 06:05 AM |
| 9 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".No. Not necessarily only sex, it's more about companionship, intimacy, validation, 3 characteristics rooted deeply into our lowest social animal instincts. If the 30%'s problem was no sex they'd just pay for a hooker lmao. Women usually can't understand this bc they have a much better availability of the 3 aforementioned characteristics. Humans are social animals, our psychophysiological needs includes some kind of romantic(hormonal) partnership/companionship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 05:46 AM |
| 4 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsThis comment makes me think that the guy in his 50's is not the one being delusional here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingReddit can be quite toxic some times lol, but it was nice to finally talk with someone sane! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingNo problem, it's easy to raise defenses when everywhere you look is filled with mad people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingSorry if i sounded like a radicalist lol, just wanting to dig the truth. Totally agree with you about the society being fucked up tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingJust a friendly disclaimer: I'm not saying men are entitled to have a date, everyone is free to do what they please and if not going on a date is what a woman want, so be it. Just saying that dating if fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 03:55 AM |
| 0 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingWhat?? Most men as in "most men from those 20% give up about dating" That of course not counting the rest of the male population who didn't even had a chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingSome men keep using apps just for hopes of finding someone, but eventually most men just give up of dating (in apps and irl) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingDating apps today are no more than a consequence of how dating itself is right now. You will know it if you watch it happening: In both dating apps and real life, women are always in advantage, hence it's much more common to see a man asking a woman out then the other way around, and that helps to move the rejection rates higher. Facing rejection everywhere, men proceed to make profiles in dating apps/sites, just to face even more rejections. Women don't even have to use dating apps, there will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Men being honest is irrelevant if they don’t take responsibility for themselves. Also, they're not more honest than women at all.I think he's saying women generally lie more when inserted in social circles, according to the linked study | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 03:00 AM |
| 1 | The Sexual Value and Dating Value Misconception.I think we can't just say that for every man/women in this planet. I've met a lot of people that are sex repulsed (some of them don't even experience sexual attraction) and also others that like to fuck with anything that moves (both categories including different kinds of men and women). If i could say something from experience is that there are as much horny people as there are people who experience less/no sexual attracttion Edit: Typos | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/01/21 08:14 PM |
| 4 | The Sexual Value and Dating Value Misconception.if men weren’t horn balls that needed to be sexually satisfied multiple times a day If humans weren't horn balls that needed to be sexually satisfied multiple times a day that would also not happen | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/01/21 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Future of HealthcareWhy the fuck people think we hate women? We just want to live far away from them. No hate at all buddy, we just want to live in peace and that's all. And if you really believe that MGTOW is about misogyny then i think that maybe you are the one who should check yourself. | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/20 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Now, let’s imagine if the roles were reversed.Based | /r/MGTOW | 03/09/20 10:10 AM |
| 5 | Uh oh... she just turned 30 and she failed to secure her meal ticket... 🎻🤧S🅱️insters | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/20 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Men should pay for dates not because it's the manly thing to do but because women are more expensive. They try to blame women wanting to put massive amounts of make up on men because "they are trying to look good in front of us and they bring up other bs like the wage gap and it's honestly sadIf i was reading this around 4 years ago, I'd surely know this is a troll. But bro, this days shit been getting really strange really fast | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/08/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | woman scratchs the car of the ex ggIf i comment here i will get banned from FDS? Imma be happy af if that really happens | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | try beating a fucking cop lmaoNot only that, but also policeman in Brazil are used to interact with interrupting, sometimes (rarely) violent bystanders, so whenever someone comes screaming at them like this they often think it's a violent person trying to interfere in their actions. Also, this cop probably faced charges or something like that. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/06/20 06:33 PM |
| 39 | 19yo, 3 kids - done with games, NO HOOKUPS!I have almost 20 and i really get what you mean, I'm actually fucking scared to know someone that's maybe even younger than me have 3 fucking kids, meaning she started having kids with random man at least 2 years and 7 months ago when she was around 16 to 17. As you said, nothing wrong in wanting to get some, but there's something really useful known as "condom" that this girl probably forgot to use when riding Chad's dick. Those three kids and the fact she had the first one at 16-17 are the fir… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/06/20 08:23 AM |
| 22 | Sex worker reminds us that the only purpose to men is to pay her bills. Normally this is weekend content, but this is champion-grade entitlement, here. And as always, no brigading will be tolerated. Do NOT go looking for OP or you will be banned.She said "gringo" (a common spanish-portuguese expression to say that someone is a foreigner), so i probably think she lives in Brazil or Argentina (not Spain tho, bc it's not considered a poor country). Anyway, i know for a fact (bc that's where i live) that in Brazil sex workers make around 250 to 350 BRL per client, that's around 50 to 70 USD, and even if she attended only one client per day, 5 days per week, she would make 1050 to 1470 dollars. With this much, people can actually live comfor… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/06/20 08:35 PM |
| 14 | Found on another sub. Others are starting to catch on to what we already know!Statistics show that rapists usually are people that the victim already knew/had contact with/trusted, so basically if you're a woman you have 1 in 1900 chances to be raped ou harassed by someone you know and trust, the chances actually decreases when the agressor is a complete stranger (because the victim will usually resist being groped by a stranger and make noise, causing undesired attention). I did not invent this, those are data and recommendations from the local police force were i live. … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/05/20 04:12 PM |
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