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It's only awkward if you believe it's awkward.
/r/seduction05/08/14 07:25 AM
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I forgot to add, that if you like the slow approach, and don't really wanna break up your workout, then whenever you go to the gym, and it's time to use a machine for a while (tread, stairclimber, etc), always find the one next to the hot girl, and use that one, ask some innocuous question. Then when you see them again another day, say Hi, and do that to a lot of girls. You'll probably find the ones that are more open and available to talk to by reading their receptiveness over time... I know it…
/r/seduction04/08/14 08:51 AM
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Your post sounds like you're not sure what YOU wanna do... You wanna work out and not talk to people, or you wanna talk to girls and interrupt your workout? Aside from that, you can talk to them during and after, if you want to. I doubt your gonna chase a girl as she's walking out while your still doing your workout. But A) if she's finishing up and walking by you then talk to her... Or B) if you wanna use a machine she's using, walk over and start chatting, while she's doing her set, say a litt…
/r/seduction04/08/14 08:47 AM
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Wondering whether a girl is interested in you or not, is a waste of your mental and emotional energy. You either get her to meet up with you again or you don't. If she meets with you, then escalate and close the deal. You only know if a girl likes you or not when your sleeping with her. Then she likes you. It doesn't mean she's in love, or wants to have your babies. It means she liked you enough to have sex with you. Before that is just mental masturbation.
/r/seduction04/08/14 07:42 AM
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Keep worrying about non-sense and your game will not improve.
/r/seduction29/07/14 07:50 AM
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If all you do is get her number and don't call her phone right there so she knows your number and hopefully puts you in her contacts with your name, then no matter what you will have to qualify yourself when you call her or text her... it's an unknown number! So you will have to remind her of who you are. If you step into the reality of a hot girl you will realize how many value leachers and value seekers she has to deal with all day.. guys hitting on her, guys semi-hitting on her but not trying…
/r/seduction28/07/14 08:46 PM
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I was gonna suggest the same as iwbafam1... READ THAT BOOK. I just finished it last month and working on creating my own self-talk audio, which is different than affirmations. And it's only 5 bucks. http://www.amazon.com/What-Say-When-Talk-Yourself/dp/0671708821
/r/seduction28/07/14 05:36 AM
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Good Post! Just today i was at a small restaurant/cafe, and i talked myself out of approaching 2 really attractive single girls each sitting in their own booth, but since there were other people in the booths next to them and at the table around, i blew it and didn't do anything.... Not to mention a couple other 2 sets that would have been good approach/learning experiences. Not looking weird or like a loser in front of people has been a huge problem of mine. I seem to always try to find the gir…
/r/seduction28/07/14 05:26 AM
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LOL.. well if you are on the street and a girl walks by, try just walking up to her having her stop without saying "excuse me" or some state break like that... I guess you still don't understand. That's ok. No biggie to me. If you all your approaches are with women who are stationary in quiet environments, then i agree, you don't have to say excuse me if you don't want to, because your presence will get them to look at you and at least pay some attention. Not on the street however.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:08 AM
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Spore2012: I guess my post didn't make sense to you, again Excuse Me is just to get her attention, it is not the opener, it is not meant to be interesting or non-boring... It get's her to pay attention for a second. You need to get in the field and understand normal social cues bud.
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:46 AM
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You're probably not getting them to invest emotionally in the interaction... if the whole interaction is polite/social and somewhat fun, then it might seem like she's having a good time, but she's not truly invested in wanting to get to know you more after you part ways. People can enjoy a good conversation if they've got the time (willing to go on an insta-date), but that doesn't mean they feel the "need" to see you again. Maybe you are getting them to invest emotionally cause of the fact that …
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:14 PM
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Response: "ok, tomorrow at 7pm... Dessert is on you, and i mean literally (sexual innuendo)." or "ok, tomorrow at 7pm... i've been wanting someone to buy me a lobster dinner, get ready to spend some money on me." ("just kidding" - if she doesn't laugh)" If a girl flakes, then forget about her. If she flakes but says "i promise i'll make it up to you". then set another date. Don't take life so seriously, if you take shit seriously, you will be broadcasting that she can get to you, she can shift y…
/r/seduction25/07/14 04:34 PM
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Umm...Cause you gotta get her attention FIRST... You have to get that person ready to receive your communication. Do you really wanna say "i saw you, and i thought this and that, blah, blah...''' for her then say "what?" Repeating what you said after that would be retarded. That's what the two words "EXCUSE ME" where designed to do, along with being loud enough for them to be heard. Obviously if someone is stationary, or sitting next to you and you turn to them or walk up in front of them, and t…
/r/seduction25/07/14 04:19 PM
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Really good article....
/r/seduction24/07/14 07:49 PM
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No, excuse me is just being polite, but also getting a girls attention if you say it loud enough... More than anything it's just the vibe you give off through your facial expression, eyes, energy, voice that matters most... You can say "excuse me" in a super-weak way which makes them ignore you, or you can say it with a dominant voice which makes them stop more often than not and get's their attention... it's all in the vibe really.
/r/seduction24/07/14 07:32 PM
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The reason you should call her phone right there is so that when she gets your call or text, she doesn't ask "who is this?" forcing you to qualify and say "hey, this is x, we met at so and so, remember?" (beta)... Worrying that calling her phone "might" look untrustworthy of her is also beta. You are worried about about what she thinks.
/r/seduction24/07/14 05:32 AM
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I like to setup the next meeting at a place, where if they flake, i know there will probably be other girls that i can hit on, so it's not a total waste of my time.
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:28 AM
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Wondering why you didn't you post the whole pickup?
/r/seduction23/07/14 07:17 PM
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Remember that most couples whether their young or old, are pretty damn boring.... they really aren't partying it up everynight, going on wild adventures on the weekends, and having threesomes/foursomes/etc.. They go to work, try to have dinner a few times a week and watch movies at home together. On the weekends they do the same and possibly go on short trips to places when they can afford it or take real vacations when they can afford it. At least that's what i've seen of all the people i know,…
/r/seduction23/07/14 04:54 AM
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For future women, DON'T TAKE THEM OUT TO LUNCH. It's fine that you went with her since she's new and you invited her (friendly invitation), but it's not a date, and don't make that a thing you do in the future. Trying to flirt and get physical over lunch is lose/lose situation. Whether you limited your conversation or not is irrelevant really. Since it wasn't a situation where you could flirt and get physical with her. You're focusing on the wrong part of this. If you wanna possibly show your in…
/r/seduction22/07/14 07:39 AM
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I agree, that daygame is probably the hardest way to get dates and get laid. Mainly because those girls are not necessarily looking (they are not pre-screened, as they would be on an online dating site), they are on their little mission when you try to stop them, they may be in bad moods, they may not be social or comfortable being social in general, they may be sexually unavailable even if they are single, etc., etc., etc... I think almost anything is easier to meet women and go out wth them th…
/r/seduction22/07/14 07:28 AM
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Gotcha... yeah, when you get a hook in a girl from online dating, then she is effectively pre-screened and open, so things can just click more often if they show up for the date. thanks man
/r/seduction21/07/14 07:36 AM
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Also, learn meditation and do that, if you don't already. It will calm your nerves generally and you'll have better control when talking to women.
/r/seduction21/07/14 07:27 AM
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Yes, it will get easier, and easier. You just need to keep doing it. When does it get easier after repeated exposure? Everyone is different. There is no magic pill, just keep approaching. If you want something easy to do when your wing pushes you into set, then just ask for directions, so you can use that as a default if just can't think of anything else to say. Eventually you can change that up to being neutral (commenting on their fashion, or getting their opinion on something) or going direct…
/r/seduction21/07/14 07:22 AM
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For getting over your writer's block when talking, i'm not sure how much of this you've tried or not.. but you must work on these at least a little each day... CONSISTENCY is what makes the difference. Meditate every day - it will help you control your emotions, get clearer thinking, listen better, get out of your head, etc. Look up Free-Assocciation Drills... Write down topics you could talk about using the letters of the alphabet, so A-Art, B-Books, C-College, etc.... and drill through them so…
/r/seduction21/07/14 07:01 AM
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Guys hate being called nice because they know automatically that the girl sees them as nothing more than a friend/brother/gayboy.... So us guys hate that! The thing girls hate is to be seen as a slut (societal conditioning against it)... so the gender equivalent for women (as guys being called a nice guy) would be being called a SLUT. It gets and emotional reaction out of her, and they may fly off the handle but that's because they are emotional, they don't know how to control their emotions. Wh…
/r/seduction20/07/14 09:19 PM
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So you are referring to average looking guys who you've seen get good enough to get a same day lay or two after six months, correct? I hate seeing infield videos of typical good looking guys, with horrible game, get interest from a girl, get her phone number after a couple minutes and then it's reported that they banged that girl within a couple days. What the hell am i suppose to learn from that. That's why i am a subscriber to JW's method of daygame, because he actually advocates getting reall…
/r/seduction20/07/14 07:20 AM
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What's your process for using OKC? All i've ever done is put a basic profile on POF, and only get a few responses from overweight women who are older than me.. kind of sucks.
/r/seduction20/07/14 07:07 AM
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First, i would say good job openning a bunch of girls! In the beginning the girls that ran off, i believe were all due to your state. You weren't comfortable yet and they felt it. That's why warmups are not only good to get you feeling more comfortable (so don't worry about the first few approaches), but that better state you get effects the next bunch of girls you are talking to. The better you get your internal state the better, longer, more fun sets you will have. Women can really feel your s…
/r/seduction19/07/14 07:22 AM
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Ask every girl you see coming toward you on the sidewalk, if they know if there's a starbucks close by... do it to every girl and soon, depending on your level of anxiety to start with, you'll start to find it become automatic, and then you can move to transitioning into conversations... Just do it. The "i'm annoying the shit out of them" is just you being in your head making excuses. Once you get out of your head and just do it, you'll realize that some will stop, some won't, some are neutral, …
/r/seduction18/07/14 08:40 PM
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You have such a history with this girl not seeing you as sexually appealing, that it's not worth trying to change yourself infront of her to try and get her. You are giving her the power to control your life, your identity and essentially your BALLS. That is the farthest thing from ALPHA as you can get. Alpha really means having a life, a purpose, a drive, and developing your masculine energy. Not making your purpose one woman. That is the ultimate Beta. And how in the world are you gonna change…
/r/seduction18/07/14 08:34 AM
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I used to hit on girls all the time when i worked in retail, and i only had one time when a girl's boyfriend called me up there after i had hit on his girlfriend. Nothing bad ever happened. Hitting on girls that you work with is another story. That can go either way depending on a lot of things.
/r/seduction17/07/14 07:26 AM
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Unfortunately, that's incorrect. It's social comfort, and people ask questions if they are comfortable talking to you. It's basic. It doesn't mean they are interested in going on a date with you, if that's what you were implying. You can get the girl on an instant date from there if you can lead her strongly enough and given her some fun emotions, but on the instant date you will still have to get the emotional investment going for them to want to meet up with you again and actually stick to it.…
/r/seduction17/07/14 07:23 AM
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From now on, don't ask for the number in a weak way like that... Make it more direct by saying "You seem pretty cool, let's hang out, what's your number (Or put your number in my phone, then text her your number right there)?" But good job breaking out of the rut, and going for it. The "You're really nice though!" was not a bad thing. She didn't have to say that, it was a genuine compliment.
/r/seduction16/07/14 06:45 PM
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You're way too invested in this working out... You are displaying too much neediness. Sounds like you're already planning on spending too much money as well. Does she like you or the fact that you can provide. Do you want to be the possible boyfriend that she can get more dinner and drinks from or do you want to bang her and then choose whether to make her a girlfriend or not? And if you've already spent time with her, then you should have enough comfort with her to invite her over and tell her …
/r/seduction16/07/14 06:48 AM
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I agree Psych40.. i am in LA, and it's humid and hot and haven't slept well, so it definitely effects my motivation and state when i go out.
/r/seduction15/07/14 09:12 PM
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LOL... What a bunch of non-sense... she probably told her boyfriend someone hit on her, and then he saw your text... You could either just delete her number from your phone, or send this.. "Hey Dickhead, first of all, i'll hit on anyone i want, your opinion means nothing to me, and do not threaten me. You're obviously highly insecure by texting guys that hit on your girlfriend, i think you are the one that needs counseling, little loser guy. And save your advice for someone who cares." Or someth…
/r/seduction15/07/14 07:46 PM
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After your first attempt was denied that night, you could have pulled back and tried again a few minutes later to at least get up to her apartment. Don't give up after the first token No. Plus how did you suggest you go up? If you try different ways to get up there "gotta use your bathroom", "do you have any internet access up there", whatever reason you think of can help to try a few times...to get into her place, then you're one step closer. Second it's best to leave her alone now since you wo…
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:16 AM
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haha.. some of these responses to this are so bad.... All you gotta say is "You can do whatever (bring whoever you want) you want, but it'll be more fun if it's just you and me." -don't deliver it like a butthurt needy idiot. Just matter of fact. That way you're not rolling over, or trying to cancel, you are still man-to-woman with your intentions, yet at the same time you're showing it's no big deal if she brings a friend. You're secure in yourself. Don't ask her if it's a girl or guy. Then cal…
/r/seduction15/07/14 07:50 AM
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Every guy should enjoy getting shit tested... it means she is or is starting to get attracted cause she wants to see how masculine you are. If she doesn't shit test you then she most likely isn't into you yet. You can provoke shit tests by being cocky, but sometimes when it's forced (agenda) like that it isn't as valuable....Please read "Way of the Superior Man"!!!!
/r/seduction15/07/14 07:31 AM
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Shit tests are more about tests of strength, and some of those are done unconsciously... this one is a conscious test just to see if you view them as someone semi-special, which may win you a couple points, probably from a younger girl. But you get more points unconsciously from women when you pass their real shit tests. This name test is pretty irrelevant. If you don't remember her name just say something like "no not really, i don't usually remember someone's name the first time i hear it, sin…
/r/seduction15/07/14 07:07 AM
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The RSD and other PUA youtube videos are marketing tools, yes, so they are meant to get people to come learn from them in person, at least if you feel you need or want to based on what you see them do. BUT the RSD guys say all the time that you have to go out and put the time in, take massive action to get to the state where you enjoy your actions, not her reactions, escalate cause you want to, not cause it's part of an agenda, etc... You can choose how you take it, it's up to the viewer, but th…
/r/seduction15/07/14 06:37 AM
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