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| 1 | Why do redpill men hate women they don't want to be with anyway?Poverty finance is one of your fav subs but you made your own 6 figs? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/24 03:10 AM |
| 7 | SAHM to-do list once kids are older?I’m not a stay at home mom but I do carry the main mental load of housework so this is super easy for me. I’m gonna assume you do everything to ensure the house runs smoothly so here we go: Manage finances / budget / pay bills Plan meals Grocery shopping / miscellaneous shopping for house Cook Clean daily Laundry Get kids ready Appts School Homework Pet care (if you have any) I do all of this stuff (minus the kids part) on top of working 2 jobs and let me tell you running the house feels like it… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | 2 proposals 2 rings.This is the truth right here lol | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Your S.O. sex drive is largely dependent on your physical attractivenessNo. I’m extremely attracted to my boyfriend, but he is just bad in bed, doesn’t try, doesn’t act interested, etc so I don’t like having sex anymore and my libido for him has been destroyed over the years. Sometimes you just aren’t that good in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Are women more content with being sexless?I love having sex but that’s just me 🤷♀️ if I’m sexually compatible with my partner my desire goes up. If I’m not really satisfied with them in bed (they lack confidence and don’t seem to really desire me the way I want) then my sex drive drops and I don’t care because it’s not as good for me as I know it could be. In my mind, if we aren’t sexually compatible, I’d rather not have sex. No, that doesn’t mean I’m going to leave someone because they are lacking in the bedroom. No, sometimes talking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Research shows men feel as lonely as men despite reporting more friends than men, what do you think is the reason behind this discrepancy?Feeling lonely in my romantic relationship. Yes, I have friendships, but something about a sour romantic relationship just puts a damper on all parts of my life. It brings out my financial insecurities if I were to go single, and it poses a lot of questions about why he can’t act right, or be what I want/need. I feel really, really lonely when I don’t have a good romantic relationship. Yes, I had a rocky childhood. No, I don’t have any family except my mom who lives over a 20 hour drive away fro… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I emotionally detachJust because she sleeps around doesn’t really mean anything. Is she single? Does she even have a history of cheating? Regardless of that, if something feels off to you, then maybe it’s not a match. You need to figure out why you feel off or weird about it first, then decide. If it’s a confidence issue, either find it in you to ask her out or cut your losses. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 02:57 PM |
| 3 | How do I emotionally detachJust because she sleeps around doesn’t really mean anything. Is she single? Does she even have a history of cheating? Regardless of that, if something feels off to you, then maybe it’s not a match. You need to figure out why you feel off or weird about it first, then decide. If it’s a confidence issue, either find it in you to ask her out or cut your losses. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 02:57 PM |
| 2 | What to wear on bike riding date?I think leggings would be fine since it is an exercise based activity for the first half of the date :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/23 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Joint bank account?We have a joint account and our own personal checking and savings accounts. All money earned goes into the joint, then we get our “allowance” at the beginning of the month from our collective pot of money. All else goes to savings and bills | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?Isn’t tinder for hooking up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Is trauma offputting?It depends on how far along they are in their healing process and how long I’ve known them. Lots of info goes into that. You also don’t have to share that with a new partner up front. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaThis looks pretty average…..some guys are toned, some are skinny, some got a tiny bit of pudge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4W - which of the following two men would you rather have?A | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Is the main reason ugly men fail because they only go for women too attractive for them?If you’re that old then you should realize that just because you’ve had bad luck with women, doesn’t mean it’s the same for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Is the main reason ugly men fail because they only go for women too attractive for them?No, you simply want to believe the stereotype. You think women don’t care about fixing their relationship problems? You don’t see all the women on Reddit posting about issues in their relationships asking for advice or what to do? Have you ever even dated a woman? Genuinely what real life experience do you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:18 PM |
| -2 | Is the main reason ugly men fail because they only go for women too attractive for them?It’s the truth. You’re just making generalizations about women that are wrong. I’m a woman and don’t feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:42 PM |
| -2 | Is the main reason ugly men fail because they only go for women too attractive for them?Nah you’re just sexist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Is the main reason ugly men fail because they only go for women too attractive for them?Well if I can genuinely give a guy that advice, I would be stupid not to consider it for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:31 PM |
| 5 | Is the main reason ugly men fail because they only go for women too attractive for them?Yes. I told a friend his standards were too high. He lowered them and got a live in GF now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Can two average looking people be genuinely in love?Someone that is average to you can be super handsome or beautiful to another. Also, the better the emotional connection gets, the stronger the love and desire for the other person. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How can I improve my conversation skills with girls through text and in person?He literally said he’s too focused on getting nudes to have a normal conversation | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/22 02:49 PM |
| 2 | How can I improve my conversation skills with girls through text and in person?So you only care about sex? That’s your problem. They’re people | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Do women say they don’t care about dick size and things like that to be nice? As in, would you say the same thing to a partner who’s small as a partner whos bigger?As long as he makes me feel good I don’t care. Especially if he is good at going down/fingering me | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 07:57 AM |
| 4 | How was the perception of sex presented to you when you were younger?Add one to “awkward and gross” please :) | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 8 | How was the perception of sex presented to you when you were younger?Wish we could vote more than once. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Even if it is true, (I don’t think it is) Why is being BBb considered such a bad thing?I thought we were talking about the better business bureau. What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:51 AM |
| 10 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Being fit won’t remove or fix stretched skin from having a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?Parts of Europe arent too far off from America, buddy. https://ec.europa.eu/eurostat/statistics-explained/index.php?title=Overweight_and_obesity_-_BMI_statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?What???? You think women at that body fat percentage are having problems dating?????? She’s still skinnier than average! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible for a woman to be thin and below-average looking in today’s dating market like it’s possible for men?Yeah I just know some women who are naturally extremely thin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Is it possible for a woman to be thin and below-average looking in today’s dating market like it’s possible for men?I disagree. There are also fetishes for people who like extremely thin women. If she’s beautiful in the face and is that thin, I doubt a guy will mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands?Nah I’ll go all out for anyone in bed. Especially a partner. I’m not having anal with a hook up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what is the most comfortable condom/type of of condom you have ever tried?Ribbed | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/22 07:34 AM |
| 3 | “Lower you standard”, is the worst possible advice a person can get, when it comes to datingIt should serve as a wake up call. Maybe you’re being unrealistic with your expectations. Or you will only date a 10 when you’re a 3. If you want to have higher chances of finding a partner, expand your acceptable dating prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?Women expect men to have higher emotional maturity as they age. Which is important | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 3 | A cheating man is worse than a cheating womanYeah I agree men have to put in more work to get pussy usually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:41 AM |
| 2 | How many “triple 6” men do you know?I like “short kings” as people would say. Guys my height are usually what I go for. I’m about 5ft6-5ft7. So they’re on the shorter side for men. I want a partner who makes at least 15$, but gets promotions and works towards making more money over time. I want someone that works on themselves. As for penis size? Average is fine. The real killer is men who don’t know what to do in bed, or the sexual chemistry isn’t there. For cars? I like car guys, but I also like the beaters people will try to bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 09:25 AM |
| -2 | Everyone talks about how women settle (and won't settle). But the fact of the matter is that almost all men settle for a woman to get a relationship.I feel like women settle a lot more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | I hate how prevalent the red pill/ incel community is in the black community.It’s really sad to see it happening to people in the black community because they deal with enough as it is. Please uplift yourselves and women! | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Younger men are betterTo each his own then. 🥂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Younger men are betterWhat’s wrong with letting a woman dominate you sexually sometimes if you both enjoy it? Have you ever had a woman take control and show you how much she wants you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What type of porn do you watch?Usually BDSM type stuff I can’t get my partner to try. Also, lots of men going down on women. With the camera up close. 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Is sex a need?As a woman I’m pretty disappointed when the sex doesn’t meet my standards. The simple solution? Be willing and eager to take tips and have a conversation with your partner about your likes and dislikes. The guy I’m with now is horrible in bed. I’ve slept with a few people and it’s really disappointing. The worst part is he does not let me show him what I like or really allow any assistance. Sex is usually good if you focus on FOREPLAY first. If the girl is not wet and begging for it then it’s pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Do you believe the industries men work in has a large impact on their dating opportunities and successes?Happens a lot in working class jobs or labor jobs in warehouses as well. I think it can lead to more cheating and failed relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe the industries men work in has a large impact on their dating opportunities and successes?I think men who work with women tend to cheat at work more frequently. Especially when they work in factories/warehouses. I used to work in one. Some trashy people work there, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Do women consider how good a father a man will be?Kind of, but I’d hook up with a timid nerd as well :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Do women consider how good a father a man will be?If I’m looking for a hookup I don’t particularly care. If I’m looking for a long term partner it is something to keep in mind. Trying to picture what they would do to help me and the kids, what their evenings would look like if they have kids. Would he get off his ass and stop playing 6hrs of games a night to help me raise them? If not, we aren’t having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | When did you first notice men noticing you in a sexual way?I was in 7th grade and a senior in HS was trying to hook up with me. My dad put a nail in that coffin real quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Sounds like your mom had some personal issues to deal with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 05:55 PM |
| 0 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.It’s not really mental gymnastics. People get tired of being rejected. You should know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 01:56 PM |
| 2 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Ah I missEd that part, didn’t realize it was a fighting match | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 01:55 PM |
| -7 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Maybe she wanted to hang out with him, but he was too busy with TV, so she had nothing else to do but TV too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4W of PPD: What is your personal happiness level, and why is general female happiness low?Sometimes it can be hard, but mothers can also make great friends. One of my best friends is a mom. :) It just takes some effort from both of us. We enjoy chatting together. We usually talk about the news and TV, but those are both things we do enjoy, so we focus on that. We also have typical woman talk about our partners and feelings and all that. I enjoy having friends I can share my emotions with so it works out. I think some women are okay with getting lost in their family though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 07:34 PM |
| -1 | In actual practice, do you go for well-rounded guys more than 'looksmaxers'?I consider myself to be fairly beautiful as I have been approached by handsome men in public before. In my opinion, I think I’m able to get a decent reading on a person when I meet them. They could be the most attractive guy in the room, but they’re putting off the vibes of being a tool. I would not be interested. Personality is a huge factor for me. If you are cute with a nice personality I will love you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W of PPD: What is your personal happiness level, and why is general female happiness low?I’m 23 and my happiness is probably a 5 on most days. Granted I have clinical depression so it usually dips lower, not higher. What has helped me is finding these hobbies. Women friendships, in my experience, are not as fulfilling as the friendships men have with one another. The dynamic of M + M friendships is different than F + F. I believe this is because men have more hobbies, and they are able to bond over things they enjoy outside of their family. A lot of my closest female friends I alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you have one type or multiple types ?Guys who are sober (not used to be the case) and I’d hope that they’re in to cars :) the rest idc just not boring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Is the average woman really having as much sex as some following TRP/BP would believe?I used to be extremely sexual as a woman, sleeping with my partner 1-3 times a day sometimes. Now the guy I’m with doesn’t seem to care for sex as much. So I’ve just become less interested in it. Not by my choice, but his. Hand will have to do 🙄 I also started having sex at 14 and I’ve had about 7 partners. 4 of those were hookups. I would sleep with the hookups a few times though as well. :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:44 AM |
| 5 | Q4ALL- What have you tried in a sexual context that you would never do again?Pretty much anything except stuff that has to do with shitting lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?Usually the guys that women flock to, in my experience, have acted quite arrogant. Maybe they let it get to their head? Or maybe they’re just not interested in me. Either way, I don’t care for it. 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:13 AM |
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