HelloGoodbye239 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Vocational Assessment		HelloGoodbye239	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/24 10:21 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Update on life after divorce My brother. “Your kids know”. You’ll be alright and I am rooting for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/24 02:19 PM
1	Got fired a day before signing a lease. Now what? Did you already provide paystubs to sign said lease? Do you think you can get any job soon enough to be able to afford lease eventually? I was in somewhat of a similar situation. Did your lawyer tell you to leave? Need more info.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/24 02:13 PM
3	Living like a hermit, but last night… Are you living in the same house as your daughter? Is there a reason for the lack of communication? I would make a calendar and try to get stbxw on board. X day will be yours and x day will be hers so there is no “surprises”	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/24 01:59 PM
1	Help me talk some sense into my 20 year old son I think this is great advice. He won’t listen and he needs to figure this out on his own. He is young. It may work out. It may not. Father isn’t wrong for giving his opinion but it may go on deaf ears. Situation seems complicated and father is being proactive. It’s all he can do.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/24 01:53 PM
1	What do you like most about being divorced? Damn it’s like you wrote this for me. I couldn’t even drink coffee in my house because she hated the smell. So many little things made living in that house a nightmare. She is soft spoken so no one would ever see how she truly is.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/24 01:26 AM
1	I feel out of sorts here Didn’t have to buy her out of her equity in the home? Issue I have is marital home has about 230k of equity and taking out a heloc/refi etc to get the equity out would make the house impossible to afford for any of us.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/24 08:25 PM
1	Vocational Assessment So 100k is what she was making before. I think more of my concern is her time away from the position. While she can make that amount of money, my fear is the evaluation will say she needs x amount of time to get said job and I’m only looking at about 1.5 years of alimony at 1k and CS of about 660 for 15 years. It would be worth it because it would reduce my CS but it’s kind of frustrating when she is saying under oath that she does not know how much the position makes and she can’t find entry le…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/24 09:25 AM
1	Vocational Assessment So she is basically fighting everything. I currently have 50/50 on a temp plan but pay alimony and CS based on an imputed income of min wage. She used to make 100k in her last position. Her demands are that I become a weekend dad and she keeps the marital home. And I get to keep our marital debt so we all live happily ever after. she also has decided she wants to homeschool the kids so now obviously she cannot have a career anymore. It’s very frustrating that I even have to pay for it because a …	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/24 09:20 AM