HelloKalder Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Have you recently met any man who was actually willing to wait to have sex with you under YOUR TERMS? Yes absolutely. My boyfriend has always been extremely respectful. I originally told him I wanted to wait until marriage which he immediately respected, never commented about it, and never pressured me. I changed my mind for other reasons, but even during our relationship he has still been very respectful and has never pressured me. I also have endometriosis so there have been times where we can't have sex for long periods, and he always takes care of me and doesn't even breathe a word about sex…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/21 05:28 AM
14	So I'm deleting my Facebook. A strategy? Wow, I haven't read about it on here much, but I've also done the same for personal reasons and it has made my life a lot better. Sure I can be an advocate on social media, that can be a good thing, but it also sits out in the public eye to be commented on and argued with. And I'm just not about that. I'd rather keep my life and thoughts private and share only with people who are interested in a genuine dialogue at the very least. I reactivated my Instagram the other day and within 5 minutes rem…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 02:36 PM
5	Rape is just entertainment for them 🙄 This ruined my day	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 03:21 PM
2	Today I removed a troll post designed to paint FDS as Anti-gay & called AHS out in the comments. Oddly, one of the AHS mods suddenly banned me from their profile. I have NEVER contacted this mod personally. Wonder how this mod 1) knew about this REMOVED post & 2) figured I was talking about them? 🤔 Oh yikes. Yeah I used to follow. How are you going to say the deadeyes sub is comparable to fds? They make no sense.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/21 01:33 AM
11	Today I removed a troll post designed to paint FDS as Anti-gay & called AHS out in the comments. Oddly, one of the AHS mods suddenly banned me from their profile. I have NEVER contacted this mod personally. Wonder how this mod 1) knew about this REMOVED post & 2) figured I was talking about them? 🤔 What is AHS?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/21 01:59 PM
14	Friendly reminder that LVM/NVM are overrepresented on Reddit. If you find yourself scrolling the front page and feel yourself losing hope for huMANity, remember that most HVM are too busy going outside, touching grass, and doing manly shit. Unfortunately, I found reddit when I was 13. It was worse, so much worse back then. But I have also had to take frequent breaks, and in fact I deleted my old account, made a new one, and I only sub to wholesome subs, hobby subs, and FDS, for the sake of my mental health I can't participate in discussion subs or even look at the front page generally.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 03:33 AM
2	This is why “Not All Men” should NEVER be entertained I wish I could post this in TwoX just to see the debate. It's all too accurate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 05:05 PM
17	From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol. Here's the difference: Incels are involuntarily celibate. They can't get women. FDS PURPOSEFULLY picks and chooses their partners carefully. Many women have multiple choices in partners at any given time, but FDS is about not settling.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 05:11 PM
24	Wesley, the original HVM. The Dread Pirate Roberts	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/21 09:28 PM
32	The lows you stoop to to get picked. She's cleaning it over the pot in the sink?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 09:48 PM
2	Thoughts on “My SO is my best friend”? I think it depends on the dynamic you are looking for in a relationship. Personally, I want a life partner where we have similar interests and life goals. I have two girl friends that are my best friends in life, they've been there through thick and thin and I will always think of them as my best friends. Sometimes there are things that only women can really relate to, so it's important to have those solid friendships. However, I would also consider my boyfriend to be one of my best friends, and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 05:27 PM
17	Saw this on twitter - Hinge date puts woman's pictures through an analyzer online to "check if she is actually attractive," tells her her "forehead is too big," then tries to secure a hang out next week Literally. I went to the site and tried two different pics that were essentially the same. One was 50% the other was 95%. It's really bogus.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 10:57 PM
58	Confronted my (27F) husband (34M) about his porn use today... This is how it went. I hope to see an edit that says EX-husband	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 06:18 PM
27	Don’t you DARE kink shame him 🤡 No matter how long the relationship, no matter how much he seemed to be my soulmate, no matter the circumstances, it would be an INSTANT breakup or divorce.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 04:31 PM
4	Whelp it’s the end of an era y’all. r/UnpopularOpinion moderators and their selective application of the rules only on women who have actual unpopular opinions that they don’t personally like strikes again. I unfollowed that sub long ago. Instead of being unpopular opinions, it's just horrible opinions that people agree on but don't talk about irl because it's socially unacceptable and possibly illegal. Absolute dumpster fire of a sub and you won't catch me ruining my mental health reading those posts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 02:11 PM
2	Male in r/ sex admits to looking for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY SINGLE COMMENT tells him that it's normal. I didn't even comment cause I knew I would get downvoted. Imagine telling someone who has the desire to rape others, that it's normal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 08:52 PM