HelloKittyandPizza Archive

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3	Q4W: Why when you are in a relationship do you still wear sexy clothes and makeup etc.? Who are you advertising yourself to if you are already taken? There’s a lot more to life than sex. Maybe not for some men. But damn, It’s literally just an urge for procreation. That’s it. Most of you guys who spend so much time and money trying to get laid, might actually get laid if you worked on creating a life outside of trying to get laid. Ironic but true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 11:25 PM
11	Q4W: Why when you are in a relationship do you still wear sexy clothes and makeup etc.? Who are you advertising yourself to if you are already taken? Why is it so hard for guys to believe that “other men looking at you” doesn’t even cross our minds or factor into it? Is that what you guys think when you put outfits on? Or go workout at the gym? That other people will be lusting after you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:11 PM
2	CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than men Well yeah. Good vibes are kind of vague though. And anyone can give off good vibes at first. Or outside of a relationship setting. But two people coming together to do life can be complicated and the vibes aren’t always great. What then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 05:48 AM
1	CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than men No because when it’s all based on physical attraction for a man, there is always a prettier woman around every corner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 05:21 AM
5	Dating single Mother's is a massive "L" For men. I’m a 45 year old mom. I also have a long term partner/fiance. None of that has deterred men from approaching me and expressing interest. One thing I have learned as a woman is that you will have a lot of people in your life telling that “men won’t want you if you x y or z” and it’s never been true. Not just for me but any woman really. And that means we are free to keep our standards as high as we want. You doth protest too much OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 03:58 AM
1	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. You are getting pedantic. Under that definition, well yeah- we all have to wear seatbelts in the car when we are driving. But when you go to the doctor, there are no laws about what healthcare you can or cannot receive. Women do- even if we are dying because of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 12:48 PM
3	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. Just because rape isn’t legal doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. And pregnancy sometimes results from it. So that’s a moot point. Not having empathy for people isn’t the flex you think it is. It doesn’t make you morally superior. It makes you a hypocrite and in this case, frankly a misogynist. Because you don’t care to put yourself in the shoes of women. You don’t have to so it’s easier to say stuff like “oh they are overreacting”…rather than showing that you care about your fellow human beings and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/26 02:50 AM
3	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. The lowest class of women might be able to be hired in a sweatshop or sewing factory. But you cannot tell me that a woman would have been able to be hired in any kind of professional career or business etc. You don’t really think that a woman could have just been hired anywhere, do you? They just chose sweatshops and sewing factories? Why do you think that is? Do you think she could have supported herself or her entire family on that salary? Get real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 06:47 PM
7	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. If there wasn’t a patriarchy, women wouldn’t have had to fight for the right to vote. Or the ability to drive. Or open a bank account or credit card without a husband. Or go to universities. Alimony was because women weren’t allowed to work. They had to stay home and take care of the kids. Alimony gave them the ability to leave their husbands and get on their feet financially. The patriarchy is what has caused women to not have complete medical autonomy of their own bodies. There is no law dicta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 03:23 PM
–	For “Men can want sex AND relationships” to be believed, they can’t despise non-sexual relationship activities and the vetting process. This is flat out not true. Do you think women don’t have one night stands? Or friends with benefits? Seeing if a guy can’t wait for a little bit and not pressure me into something, says to me that he respects me and is trying to form something serious with me. Not just trying to get into my pants. Plus a man who is disciplined and not ruled by his sexual desires is hot. It doesn’t mean the chemistry isn’t there. If there is chemistry you will both know. You shouldn’t need to sleep with someone t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 11:47 PM
1	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics Ok what if a woman was only attracted to wealthy men? Because I’d say she needs therapy too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 04:53 AM
–	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics I’ll never be insulted by comments like this. Just glad to have aged out of getting hit on by creeps like OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 01:51 AM
1	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics No gay men and white women attracted to black men don’t need therapy. There is a huge difference between having a preference and “ONLY being attracted to” a young age range of women. I’m not just hating on the OP. This is objectifying women and it’s rooted in misogyny. A belief that the only thing a woman has to offer is her physical beauty or youth. Even when I was young and beautiful, if a man told me he was only interested in women in their 20’s- that was a huge red flag to me because I knew …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 01:41 AM
1	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics If you are a man who only finds women 18-30 year olds attractive, and that isn’t the age you currently are, you need therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:01 PM
–	Women deserve to know My man says “god bless America” with his hand over his heart and a tear in his eye after we have sex. I’m sorry you are struggling OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/24 01:40 AM
1	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. You have no idea what you are talking about. There are zero grizzly bears in the smokies. Google it. There are black bears. Go ahead and search up the number of bear attacks in the smokies and see how fake it is. You guys who have zero experience in the wilderness or outdoors talking confidently incorrectly about things you have zero experience or knowledge about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 10:43 PM
1	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. They were close. I even have my bear can that I used on that trip that has claw marks in it from bears trying to get it open. If anyone has spent anytime in the smokies- they will know that the bears aren’t necessarily scared of people and they aren’t aggressive. On that trip, we talked to a park ranger who said the only act of bear attack on people happened when a guy was taking pics of the bears and he was feeding them to try to get better pics. The bear bit him so the rangers had to put the b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 10:36 PM
-5	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. I used to backpack a lot. I’ve been around and seen quite a few bears. Being on the trail, it’s expected to see wild animals. I never had any trouble with them whatsoever. I even hiked the Smokies in the spring when the mamas had their cubs. It’s easy to avoid trouble with wild animals. On the other hand, if a human decides they are going to do something to hurt you, good luck. Look up stats on wild bear attacks vs. how many men attack women. Per the numbers, it’s actually unhinged to pick an an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 03:54 PM
1	"You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse." I’m not sure what makes you think that writing your wife a love letter would get you called gay. Can you explain why you think that? If you write your wife a love letter and SHE calls you gay- you married the wrong woman. So don’t marry a woman who would call you gay for writing a love letter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 09:35 PM
2	"You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse." No worries. 🫶🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 11:13 AM
5	"You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse." Well idk what to tell you. My grandma died in 2012 at 94 years old. She and my grandpa got married on d-day and she had a black wedding dress. I don’t remember how old she was but 19- early 20s. Edit to add: I just checked and Dday was June 6 1944. By my math Grandma was 26 when she got married. I’m not sure why this is the point being debated here 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 10:47 AM
3	"You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse." Sorry I am old and in my 40’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 10:42 AM
13	"You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse." Let’s do a little comparison- You can get your phone out and open any number of apps to meet and talk with women. Grandpa had to find a girl he liked in person, was expected to have decent hygiene, manners, talk to her, ask her out, have a car, take her on dates, court her, ask her dad’s permission to marry, prove that he could provide for her and their family, and go fight in world war 2. My grandpa used to write my grandma love letters. His handwriting was absolutely beautiful and the letters …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 10:37 AM
2	What sapiosexuals actually are attracted to: being mentally toyed with Yes, playful teasing and ribbing is a form of flirting. Sapiosexuals (I hate that term) are attracted to intelligence and you can demonstrate intelligence through humor and witty banter. There’s a difference between IQ and knowing things. Women are attracted to smart men because it means they can provide for them, keep them safe and it’s frankly damn hot when you find a man who can have conversations about interesting things and provide new perspectives. There’s more to it than that but it’s rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 04:29 PM
2	Many women take male attention for granted If you think I haven’t been massively creeped out by physically attractive men then you are wrong. You can be the most physically attractive man, you can have lots of money…and it might attract people initially but they won’t stay if you are a creep, self obsessed, a jerk…any number of things. Unless they are the same kind of person. Painting with a broad brush might seem like the easy way of figuring things out but it’s not accurate and it only ends up hurting yourself in the long run.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 02:19 AM
4	Many women take male attention for granted No. I’ll remember wanted male attention fondly. I’ll never, ever remember unwanted male attention fondly. That’s not how it works. It’s not much to brag about if a creepy/weird/old guy thinks you are hot. And getting hit on or cat called doesn’t mean you’ve “still got it.” It means someone is horny and that’s their mating call. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 05:59 PM
1	CMV: There are plenty of good men out there, but there’s a shortage of high value good men which are the men women actually want Henry Cavill has never in his life dated a 5. That’s ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 01:30 AM
0	The men here might be concerned about the wrong things? It feels like you are just looking for a fight. Everyone should consider their money. I never said they shouldn’t. I said that if a woman is going to use someone for money- it’s likely going to be someone who has some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 05:04 PM
0	The men here might be concerned about the wrong things? Don’t just give someone $1,000 then? Problem solved. Alternatively, get better at screening people with user tendencies. This helps if you look past the surface of a person to who they are inside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 02:56 AM
6	The men here might be concerned about the wrong things? Because if you don’t have a lot of money, there’s a good chance she’s not using you for…the money you don’t have? And if you are with a woman, you are not doing great financially and are having issues with her spending too much of your money…there are a bunch of other explanations to start with before “she’s using me for my money.” Including 1. Try not giving her money 2. She has spending issues that don’t equate to using you 3. Maybe you are a tightwad and it’s easy to blame financial problems …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 01:39 AM
–	Women don't rate each other in the same way men rate women Women understand what men (in general) want. We are literally told day in and out, from every direction. I’m not going to speak for all women here, just my experience and opinions. I have no interest in fitting into whatever mold that equates to “what men want.” It’s my life and I want to be who I am and be myself. Fitting into that mold only serves to attract more attention in general from men and I’m not interested in attracting the most amount of men possible. I’m interested in being myself. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 04:03 AM
1	Women overestimate the times they are being "hit" by men I prefer to never be hit personally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 08:52 AM
1	Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them success I hope you can think about it for a bit and maybe my words will sink in. I am trying to help you adjust your perspective. At the end of the day, if your only motivation for improving your personality is getting interest from women, how long would you expect to see results before you knew it was a failed attempt? Don’t you think it’s better to improve your personality for yourself or in general? How permanent will these improvements be once you get what you want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 08:27 PM
1	Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them success You are missing the point. Nowhere did I say that actions don’t have consequences. But if you need a consequence to influence your actions, then maybe you aren’t living your best life. And what happens when you do something that you know in your heart is right and you get a negative consequence for it? This post for example- why improve yourself if you aren’t getting what you want? Now you are just shooting yourself in the foot because you are allowing the consequence to dictate the action.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 08:17 PM
5	Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them success Okay but it will. It just won’t be quick. Especially if you are looking for love. This actually reminds me of the argument that Christians sometimes make about atheists. “Why be a good person if you don’t believe in an afterlife?” It’s a sad question because being a good person and doing the right thing are rewards in and of themselves for people. You should want to improve yourself for you. Your friends. Family. And potential love interests. Not because there is something you believe you are ow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 07:31 PM
5	Women don’t want men to have success in dating I think most of us want each other to win, to be happy and find love. I do anyway. I do think sometimes people get frustrated and it’s easier to write it off as “women don’t want men to win at dating.” But that’s just not true. We have to remember to keep learning and growing. Not just to find a partner but for ourselves too. It’s not easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 04:40 AM
2	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic I’m not blaming him for it. I’m upset that it’s not bringing him happiness and he’s obsessive about it. I’m blaming the influencers who spew the garbage advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 06:15 AM
2	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic I’m probably pretty out of touch with what teen girls are looking for in guys. But I do know that advice that includes focusing on your physical appearance, money and degrading women is toxic. It’s a negative feedback loop. You can have muscles, wealth and attract beautiful women but it doesn’t make you happy because you are just going through the motions of becoming someone else to get what they say will make you happy. I don’t want him to attract girls who only want to date him for these super…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 06:04 AM
2	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic As a mom of a teen boy (he’s my nephew but we’ve adopted him) I am at my wits end with this. We are a pretty liberal house but somehow this redpill asshattery has gotten to our teen. At first I thought him working out was a good thing- developing healthy habits and all of that. But it’s just become obsessive. I had no idea at first about the link between the weight lifting and the red pill stuff. But yeah. I don’t know what to do. He’s at the age when he thinks we just don’t understand or get it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 03:59 AM