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It depends on the person, but sometimes we're freakier and filthier. 😅
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 10:48 AM
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Suicides, radicalized men who need real help, etc.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 01:35 AM
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I can't believe people fall for this garbage still.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 12:37 AM
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You need to focus on getting help before you ruin this poor girl.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/23 07:28 PM
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With all due respect, this isn't helpful.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/23 05:23 PM
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I was and sorta still am that woman (though I've been in treatment for many years and am much more healed than when it was being forced on me). After I got massively fucked over by multiple Red Pillers (got blackmailed, falsely exposed, career ruined, and everything) and saw professionals to heal from all the damages, every single one said that people like that typically are very predatory of woman who are 'at the bottom of the totem pole' because that behaviour and treatment is likely to be our…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/23 05:10 PM
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Right, I was like that too and then I actually studied things like this on an academic level. What do humans really behave like? Society's beliefs don't always match science and facts, which is why I chose to look at it a different way. Things like brainwashing and grooming from predatory people, especially online, are a great example of that. Capable men who were only lost and broken being caught up and being brainwashed by e-cult leaders who are justifying certain behaviours are a perfect exam…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 08:51 PM
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The way you use "uncontrollable" makes it sound as if I'm talking about someone who has a sex addiction and is cheating every weekend. I wouldn't deal with that and it's not what I meant. If someone is that bad off and are literally dealing with an addiction, it's unlikely I would stay unless they're actively seeking a lot of support from professionals. I'm not stupid about my 'forgiveness', I'm just realistic. I just think the one off ones are possible to be more "it just happened". Sometimes p…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 08:22 PM
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I went to therapy to deal with being cheated on and the therapist helped me understand a lot about human behaviour that society-wide holds a lot of very incorrect assumptions and stigmas about. It helped me to logically look at it rather than emotionally. First, I was taught that it can be either intentional and it can be unintentional. Some do plan it out and do it with intent, but many people, "it just happens". They act from the primal parts of their brains. At first I didn't believe it, but …
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 01:49 PM
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He used the very standard trauma and fear-based conditioning with things like exploitation and blackmail (called "collateral" for women to 'prove' they were worthy of being 'taught' by him, a proclaimed genius) mixed with feel good brain chems and grooming/"love". He groomed others well. Those 'tactics' work at a brain level too, so people often don't realize why it works. Watch a docuseries called The Vow. They explain everything he did very well. Nearly everyone is susceptible to brainwashing,…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 08:51 AM
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Nothing in life is a sure thing. Homes can burn down, jobs can be lost, partners can die, etc. Control is an illusion. Relying on a "sure thing" is giving yourself false comfort.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 07:28 PM
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Unfortunately after some time I had to completely disconnect from those people as it became clear they didn't care about what I wanted. They only cared that I wasn't going to be there as much for them anymore. These things, at least on my side, were born from selfishness and codependency. They wanted me to always be at their disposal and having partners that I got along amazing with, spent lots of time with, got along better with than anyone else, and all that made them jealous and they acted on…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 03:57 PM
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Maybe they're projecting their own negativity biases? I've definitely been in your shoes and some really try to tear people apart because it means they'll get less attention. Sad reality, but humans are very flawed sometimes. https://www.verywellmind.com/negative-bias-4589618
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 02:25 PM
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"No such thing as bad student, Daniel-San, only bad teacher...Lesson not just Karate only. Lesson for whole life. Whole life have a balance. Everything be better." -Mr. Miyagi Here are 14 symptoms of people who are brainwashed: https://ideapod.com/brainwashed-symptoms/ "The Cult of Two" https://psychopathsandlove.com/the-cult-of-two-psychopaths-and-brainwashing/
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 02:05 PM
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Quite honestly, I recommend you start with someone who does ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy). I think you'll start to feel less at the mercy of being pushed around by the world. Gaining stable ground mentally would help you significantly. You can do some self-guided worksheets to explore from here: https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheets
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 01:44 PM
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I personally would take them all down but part 1 and then put a sentence that the rest are on your profile if anyone wants to read further. Then post them to your wall instead of flooding the sub. That may be why they were removed. Hope that helps.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 07:32 AM
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Did you forget to post some parts?
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 07:17 AM
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Yeah, this is really hard to cope with. I spent moments like this being the outcast in school too. Then I became funny, started telling silly jokes, being a class clown, etc. It all changed, but then people only liked me for my entertainment value, not for the kind and loving person I was. These are exact hurts that you need to heal though. They still affect you and how you perceive yourself now. Are you able to attend therapy?
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 01:41 AM
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Always heal the psychological damage that you are able first. It controls everything in your life and the steps afterwards you won't struggle as much. Was your childhood abusive or what happened if you don't mind me asking?
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 11:17 PM
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I get it, I'm the same way. I just wanted to make the distinction clear when I was able. :)
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 04:31 PM
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Agreeable isn't codependent. You seem to have the Red Pill take on it and not how the rest of society sees it. Being kind and agreeable is a strength; if you do it to get something or to be liked, that's different. Not everyone who is agreeable allows others to take advantage. You can be agreeable and still have strong boundaries.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 03:54 PM
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A friend and I were just talking about this the other day. Here's one of the articles we were talking about that does a decent job of explaining big parts of it: https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/nice-guy-syndrome-dating-tactics-persona-men-women-relationships-a7476651.html My TL;DR take from personal experiences: One does kind things for you because they genuinely like or love you. They see you struggling and want to help because they can and want to a majority of the time (beca…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 01:39 PM
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Ah yes, the chucklefucks who fucked up my life and career for revenge and entertainment. Fun...
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 08:37 PM
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What is "that" website?
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 03:59 PM
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All my life I've heard I'm privileged as no one will judge me for my skin color and yet I'm a 24-year-old virgin with little family, no friends and invisible whenever I go out in public. They're not judging you for your colour in this case. Our attitude towards life also plays a role. When I had/have seasonal depression, my attitude suffers and I don't have as many opportunities to hang out with friends (I'm pretty sure most of us hibernate anyways haha). Alternatively, I think you're expecting …
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 01:36 PM
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Hitch is such a great example! I love that movie. But having been in gaming for over 20-years, I can say that there is plenty of diverse love options in gaming.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 07:02 AM
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After having gone through something very similar over the last decade of my life, this kind of thing should be requirements to watch and study. The general population is just neither aware nor can they comprehend the power of undue influence. It's literal insanity, but it's like our brains can't turn it off and look away. We start to capitulate to our own exploitation. Red Pill tells you it'll only work with certain woman and that's simply not true and quite honestly, I think this is a ruse to m…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 10:01 PM
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So it's obviously just theory, but we tend to go through our first natural ego deaths around 28-34. Unless you guys do shrooms or something together, there is going to be a time where she doesn't know how to care for you (and why guys your age tend to also go for older women, as we've gone through those stages already). Nobody is naturally a good partner. It takes growing up, growing out, growing together, and all the pains in-between. You can either fight through it or not. Finding yourself ano…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 06:59 PM
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How old is she? Lots of people in their 20's still have their egos fully intact and can cause issues just like this.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 05:36 PM
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they can claim women are worse morally for liking these types. It can easily wrap around into an "I am a good man but women want only bad men" argument. What gets me is that often these women don't really like him naturally. A lot of them, myself included, was all based on a trauma bond/Stockholm Symdrome because of the love bombing, devalue, discard, and return cycle I couldn't escape. Then it loops over and over. There is an intentional effort to make the bond as permanent as possible. Many ar…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 02:11 PM
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Autistic people aren't usually dark triad. We're actually more likely to be their victims than anything else. Red Pillers are likely dark triad themselves, struggle in life, and are gaslighting en masse to convince people they won't ruin our lives from their vindictive/manipulative/exploitative nature. Every Red Piller I was with started with love bombing to prime me, but the pain they cause is up there on the pain scale; like really up there. I've never had such damaging relationships to every …
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 12:17 PM
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You've missed so many points that you're a professional woooosher at this point. People don't want to be made fun of when they seek out a support group. It's like going to AA to make fun of them when they're trying to get better.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 10:15 AM
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Can't find much on her honestly. She may not be qualified to give the best advice on mastering one's emotions.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 12:01 AM
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Okay, that shit is just funny. Totally bamboozled. Love it!
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 11:52 PM
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Hell yeah, man! Time to celebrate!
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:04 PM
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This is so true. I've actually gotten more attention, especially from younger guys, by turning 30. It's been almost non-stop. Red Pill is for a very niche group, but they try to speak for all women and men, but their ideology just isn't reality in a lot of cases; it's why Red Pill is struggling having sticking power. They can certainly make it look that way, but in reality, there are a plethora of reasons why people do things and it's not always some monkey-brained evolutionary way. The whole li…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 01:39 PM
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No no, there are some that don't mind, but let's not forget that women get recorded without our consent and posted online with a lot of these interactions too. One of my pickup artists did this and it made it back to clients of mine and messed up my career and reputation because there was no context posted.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 10:43 AM
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One I think everyone should read regardless is The Body Keeps Score, Rage Becomes Her (for men to understand women's anger is not always "crazy"), Models by Mark Manson, Come As You Are (for men to understand women's sexuality in a way better context than Red Pill), Human Magnet Syndrome (to learn about codependency), Ego Is The Enemy, The Obstacle Is The Way, Predictably Irrational (to understand the unpredictable ways that humans behave because it's how we're designed, not character flaws), an…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 10:38 AM
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PPD is for discussing things like this. This sub is for discussing the "harm done" and for others to get support.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 12:08 PM
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The triangulations of otherwise decent couples is pretty up there too. It made all my partners paranoid and crazy which then made me paranoid and crazy. I hate what it did to my life.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 12:06 PM
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I made massive mistakes being with guys like this because how they were my 'normal'. We always think we can be the one to help them see the light or change them, but they don't, not without therapy. Those beliefs are very deep and those beliefs are being seduced out by people who know how to target him and his insecurities better than you ever will. My therapist helped me understand why staying and enabling is so bad for both of you. Don't 'reward' the bad behaviour. Just like Pavlov's dogs, it …
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 12:03 PM
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Man I love reading this stuff. I was you almost a decade ago and didn't have groups like this to pull me out in time. I'm so happy that there are better resources available to you now. 💖
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 10:52 PM
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but when you’re under 18 years old You're also easier to groom. That was a huge lesson I learned from my own horrendous "coaching" experience: grooming doesn't stop just because you're young. who can’t handle having a “handicap” like baldness, so he tells his fans to be bald too. Note to who is reading this, dark triad people are known for this behaviour. They treat you as if you're an extension of them. You are not your own mind or body and you're worthless unless you're like them and can be us…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 08:23 PM
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Granted it wasn't my first form of therapy, so I'm not sure how helpful it'll be to those who are new to the types who don't do a lot of self-analysis, but I actually found it to be more helpful than some. ACT and CBT I found a lot of benefits from, don't get me wrong, but I was very fragmented due to significant trauma throughout my life (raised around abuse, addicts, etc.); it was a welcome theory to bring into my life since my peers around me rarely thought like I did. I felt like doing a the…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:38 PM
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I don't have time to write a lengthy reply now, but I found Internal Family Systems to be incredibly healing. The book isn't that expensive, could probably be found at your local library, even. I found being forced to look at and assess all my personality parts to be very enlightening, as we don't typically do that outside of a therapeutic context when it's very beneficial to nearly everything we do, even recovering from cults. Also Steve Hassan is a leading expert on cults and his books are inc…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 01:24 PM
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The problem is that it's a support group for them that a lot of people spent a lot of time cleaning up for them. It used to be mostly trolls, but we trolled them away. It's also against the rules. They're right. You were likely rightfully banned.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:57 PM
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After having the unfortunate experience of being with many of these guys, I can confidently say everything is a trap. Every word you say can can be thrown back at you. Remember that thing you did 7 years ago? Yup, he's still gotta grudge over it. He thinks he knows your every thought and intention. Ugh.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:39 AM
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Just wait until they start running the victim baiting cons. Those are fun. /s
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:35 AM
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Which unironically is one of the biggest signs it's a cult: they don't let you leave.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:34 AM
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This is the way.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 01:05 AM
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You're nothing pill. You're a humanist perhaps? You'd have to explain more of what you do and don't like about each side.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 07:58 PM
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Translation: "Women bad. Women dumb. She doesn't like fucking guys before she knows them well; let's trick them into giving us sex with manipulation!!1! I don't have time for her to catch "the feelz" first! I got bitchez to fuck, but she can't fuck anyone but me! I know, I'll dread game her into wanting me so bad! Her panties will fly off and I won't be there! Muhaha! Then I'll give her the silent treatment and guilt trip her because that's what alphaz do. Only betas see her as human. Suckaz."
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 07:14 PM
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What's better than guys who questionably already sexually abuse/take advantage of women, abuse hacks of the mind, literally still believe pushing passed LMR is still consentual, and all that then to radicalize, propaganda-ize, and glamourize, invalidation, victim blaming, and promoting further abuse towards women? This is like Disneyland in terms of entertainment. They can continue to teach how to safely effectively steal sex from women, teach how to alpha widow them, create content and ad reven…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 05:28 PM
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Yeah, you should go read about it. It was a massive dumpster fire that was caught before the grifters started flooding the scene.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 12:03 PM
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Red Pill men came in and started trying to change a lot, bully the women in their groups, etc. The women dispersed and made Red Pill Wives, but I'm not even sure how popular that is anymore either. Lots of women got upset. lol
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:59 AM
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Not when I did it. It got taken over by men and they fucked with a bunch of women. It got all messed up. But yeah, generally we were taught the teamwork aspect for relationships, improving ourselves, learning to be more feminine and graceful, etc.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 11:24 PM
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I went down the RPW hole for my partners and I won't lie, it made me a better woman. I'm not forced to be codependent anymore to appease, I was able to aggressively defend myself against one that was shredding my mind apart for years, I can thrive better as a SAHW, I learned to separate from religion and move to philosophy, and many other things. Ultimately though, it wasn't for me. I hated being mistreated, negged, told I don't have value unless I'm being beat up, called crazy or psycho because…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 09:23 PM
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To add to this, validation in a therapeutic context is huge to a survivor (unfortunately can also be used as attention in legit fake victims). When they get validation there is a lot that happens within the psyche of someone who hurts. If they start to feel safe, they can check that notorious box on Maslow's HoN that can mimic that 'awakened' feeling too, even if the info they get afterwards is bad. But that's basically how all cults recruit; they find people who are hurting.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 09:12 PM
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I didn't say anything about arranged marriages. I mentioned a lot about suffocating ones though, and healing from them. To each their own. Good luck on your path with such a narrow perspective on other's experiences.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:29 PM
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Stockholm syndrome? Jeeeez pulling everything out the bag to make excuses! No, I can just read between the lines of the way people explain their hurts. I still think you don't understand, so we'll have to settle with being at an impasse. Based on the original post I stand by what I said, accountability in life is important to grow. A general truth, yes. But, accountability is different in those marriages. There is not a lot of breathing room. Accountability is something that's not taught as well…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:13 PM
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I could be reading this wrong, but a lot of your answers could be here: https://www.speakrj.com/audit/report/@JustPearlyThings/youtube Her subscribers goes up an even round number a few times a week. There also appears to be an insane amount of videos. I don't want to give the channel attention, but 5,800 videos is nuts and it goes up like 100+ a few times a week? Is this right? Her average likes despite all those people is only 425 and only 111 average comments? I feel like a lot of money is be…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:09 PM
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If she chose her partner, ignored red flags for how she feeling, and left him coz he was boring or she wasn’t feeling it then it’s her accountability. I still don't think you understand those upbringings. "Red flags" aren't even a concept in a lot of them. We're often taught to accept a lot of abuse as normal, especially spiritual and emotional. Physical is less common, but still so. We "deserve" it if we get it. Women don't often have as many "choices" as modern people think in those homes. Sto…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 04:52 PM
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I think a good thing to consider here is how marriage is portrayed by a lot of traditional/religious families that attract those people to Red Pill. Marriage is a goal in those upbringings. It's sold very much how OP viewed it. I was sent off at 19 and didn't get a lot of growing room at all. Accountability isn't a big factor because the man chooses us, we're often pressured to adhere without a lot of self-reflection. This sub seems to struggle with kindness towards those who aren't as "smart" a…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 04:35 PM
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Okay, how about we say emotionally unavailable, neglectful, selfish, or otherwise abusive parents, history of bullying at home and/or school, lack of proper guardian support, etc?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 03:26 PM
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Most men are fulfilled by LTRs though. Loneliness is a huge problem with men and many make the active choice to be with women to support specific needs. There is just a specific type of woman he needs, with a specific libido, beliefs, etc. Arguably that's another issue with Red Pill: it attracts a particular type of man with particular emotional issues, with particular hurts, with particular coping strategies. Red Pill men do not have the same outlook as most men. Compatibility is key. Most men …
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 02:26 PM
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