HellooooooSamarjeet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Wife wants me to sign a lease Why would you let her take the child with her?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/22 02:00 AM
2	So I floated the post-nup idea . . . I believe retirement money that you saved before marriage is normally given to you upon divorce. It's the retirement money that you saved during marriage that gets split.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/21 01:37 AM
0	I’m miserable but she doesn’t deserve half of everything. They can ask what you were spending the money on. When you say something generic like groceries, she can claim you were spending it all on alcohol and using cash to hide your alcoholism. Then she uses that to claim full custody of the kids. There's a lot of ways it can go wrong during a court case.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/21 05:38 PM
2	Repost: Survey for Dads of 6-10 year-olds Yeah, it's impossible to change course midway, of course. Just note the stratified survey questions would have to consistently ask all of the demographic questions. So it's one part that's consistent and another part that has the rotating questions. The rotating questions could be chosen entirely randomly, or they could be carefully chosen groups of question that make sense based upon whatever you're researching. In Qualtrics, it's probably easier to do the latter.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/21 03:36 PM
2	Repost: Survey for Dads of 6-10 year-olds I don't know OP, but I do know that Qualtrics (the site hosting the survey) is a legitimate statistical analysis software. And the subdomain is "UMSL", which the acronym for the University OP says they're going to. UMSL official website says they use Qualtrics as well. So the backstory seems to check-out. Totally agree that 1 hour is way too long. OP should use random assignment to stratify the survey into question groups of about 15 minutes each. OP would get a lot more responses, which should …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/21 01:09 AM
0	I’m a retired attorney & new Men’s Divorce Coach. What topics would you be willing to be willing to pay for information on to get you through your divorce process or wish you had help with when you were getting divorced? P.S. I’m not trying to sell anything. I think you mean "Color of law."	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/20 03:08 AM
16	Why do women always act like they own the kids? Stop cleaning and hire a lawyer. If she has the kids without you for days or weeks, that looks terrible to a judge.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/20 03:47 AM
1	When Can I Stop Living Here? At the end of the day, it's OK if you don't want to be with someone anyone. And it's wrong for anyone to try and take that choice away from you. In terms of abandonment, this depends upon your state's laws. What state are you in? In some places, it is only considered abandonment if you leave to cause the divorce; not if you leave because a divorce is already in progress and leaving is just another step in that process. Some states even require that the two live separately before a divorce can be…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/20 10:58 PM
2	Scared of my wife How does no-contact work when there children involved? You can't leave the kids with the narcissist. And you can't kidnap them either.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/19 01:44 AM
3	Scared of my wife Taking out the trash is huge. You can shove a ton of stuff in a trash bag that goes into the real trash bag you take outside to the bin. Then, in the morning, when you leave for work, grab the bag of stuff outta of the trash bin.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/19 01:38 AM
2	Scared of my wife Start taking more and more stuff to work until you feel comfortable leaving. You know, shove an extra change of clothes into the bag you take to work. If she doesn't see you take the bag to your car when you do, empty the bag into the trunk. Go back inside and fill up the bag again but never too full to arouse suspicion.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/19 01:36 AM
2	My wife told me she’d rather be married and unhappy than divorced and embarrassed. Hmm. Yeah, I'm familiar with the temperature meters (BBT) for that. It's more accurate if she also checks her cervical mucus. She'll be able to learn by consistency when ovulation is coming. The mucus is more accurate than BBT. (In fact, she may already be doing this, but just not telling you because she thinks you'll be weirded out by it or whatever. ) Why not progestin-only birth control pills? It's safe for high blood pressure, blood clots, etc. They're a little less effective than the usual …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/19 03:21 AM
1	My wife told me she’d rather be married and unhappy than divorced and embarrassed. Does she know about non hormonal (copper) IUDs? You still have a period with those, which some may prefer.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/19 02:04 AM