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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	When is connection dead? So, as a woman who stumbled upon this, I don't think I would have agreed to meet you based on what you just shared, and i also wouldn't have wanted to meet with the woman based on how she responded to you. I'm sorry. But bro. What does this girl know about you aside from you pestering her to get together with you? And what do you know about her aside from her immediately being stand-offish and bitchy to you for initiating conversation? Neither of you is giving vibes that sound compatible at all.	/r/seduction	07/02/25 11:57 AM
2	It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success. As a woman, this is facts! The guys I have gone out of my way to ask out/date haven't been the model looking type dudes, its been the guys I've met and gotten to see they are legitamitely good guys. Being a good person isn't a cripple unless you become cynical enough to view it as one. You should be able to legitimately get pleasure from being nice and helpful towards others until you're given a reason to do otherwise which is obviously going to happen from time to time and is perfectly reasonab…	/r/seduction	28/08/22 05:40 AM
2	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? I'm a single woman in my 30s who could write an essay on why you're entirely wrong, but I'll summarize it with this: For anyone who reads this: if you're haboring this level of bitterness towards women, THAT is why you're single. We don't see ourselves as gatekeepers, we don't see ourselves as prized commodities, we are PEOPLE. We are people who are looking for other people who we can trust. If you have the mentality like what this dude spouted we will RUN.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 07:43 AM
2	The girl I was seeing stayed at my best friends house I'm gonna play devils advocate here for a second: you said in the initial post that you guys "weren't official". Had you ever talked to her or your friends about your desire to be exclusive with her? If you didn't communicate any of your feelings with anyone how was she or them supposed to know you were getting real feelings? Also, how was she supposed to know days/nights you're not with her you're not out with other girls? If you never mentioned wanting to be official she might think the same t…	/r/seduction	14/05/22 04:13 PM
3	Girl stopped talking to me the moment I revealed that I was dating other girls Looking at things from her side, sure you guys were "just talking" from your perspective, but my guess is she just personally doesn't play the numbers game you do. There's nothing wrong with how you do, lots of people do that, but if thats not how she plays the dating game I could see her throwing up her own red flags. She might feel that even if she kept talking and dated you that you'd still be talking to others and looking for the next best thing and string her along while she's copping feels…	/r/seduction	10/12/21 06:16 AM
5	Talk. To. Everyone. It pays. Money. Wasn't...Wasn't everyone white the first time I saw this gif?	/r/seduction	22/08/12 05:33 PM

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