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I get you 100%. It takes a very specific personality to be able to do that lol
/r/RedPillWives27/11/18 04:05 AM
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Could you provide more evidence to defend this? I know a bible verse but want to understand more reasoning of why you or others recommend this if there is any other than having the traditional feminine look
/r/RedPillWives25/11/18 07:56 PM
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I. Am. Dying 😂😂😂😂😂😂 immediately sent this to one of my friends who almost dated a borderline. (Definitely helped him avoid the bullet) She soon after became lesbian, then got with a guy and is now pregnant a few months after meeting. Seriously yikes!
/r/RedPillWives07/11/18 12:43 AM
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Bane of my existence. Trying to avoid my parents future... and doing my best not to be at all costs. I’m forcing myself as well as the pain to learn selflessness daily
/r/RedPillWives05/11/18 01:07 PM
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Thanks for your thoughts teaandtalk
/r/RedPillWives05/11/18 01:06 PM
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Yeahhhh exactly that’s the only way out—— move forward! So I don’t get stuck in the trap of long term depression
/r/RedPillWives05/11/18 01:05 PM
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I know it sounds crazy but i feel like it’s a part of my self growth to actually not let him go. Unpopular opinion I know lol, but I will consider all of this. Thanks for your input :)
/r/RedPillWives04/11/18 05:35 AM
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I know what you’re saying, it’s repeated in my head hundreds of times. He has the self respect to have left me and still not talk to me right now. And I am actually happy for him about that. Sadly yes I didn’t know but our whole relationship was me forcing to be the lead and resenting him because he wasn’t. I didn’t know what I really wanted or how that would look like between us. I was forcing him into a beta role which is what I thought I wanted in the moment, but not what I truly wanted long …
/r/RedPillWives04/11/18 02:15 AM
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Hey, so the first time was last December and then this August/september. It was really bad after the first time understandably, but he decided to not break up with me then. And things were good for a while, or at least as good as they could get at that point with my constant stress for medschool I wasn’t able to handle in a healthy way plus the distance of not being able to have any shared life experiences made things harder imo. and me and the other guy who was my best friend for many years cut…
/r/RedPillWives04/11/18 01:58 AM
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And I think that’s the life test right now. To see how I will respond to the decision he would make. True I would like to say if he was done with me I wouldn’t move on and I would still fight for the relationship. But I know my bad history begs to differ and I would be moved on in a heart beat. It’s time for me to really get to know myself during this period
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 07:12 PM
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Yes and I genuinely genuinely look forward to becoming the person I actually want to be. That’s the only keeping me sane!!!!! Thanks for replying zegiknie
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 07:10 PM
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Thankfully I’ve been locked away in medschool across the country so that makes things easier. And I know, to be a man I would admire right now and to respect he basically wouldn’t be able to be with me. I 100% understand that. It hurts to hear but I am aware. That’s why I’m actually happy he broke up with me to show himself that he loves himself enough to separate himself from me and cares about me enough to punish me and not let himself be walked all over by me. He is teaching me right now the …
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 05:54 PM
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Very happy you told me things I wouldn’t want to hear. Appreciate it Kara__El ❤️
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 04:37 PM
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I accept the fact that wanting what’s best for him is consciously putting his needs and feelings before mine and if that includes me or doesn’t include me in his future I have come to terms with that, at least intellectually
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 04:36 PM
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I understand what you’re saying. Unfortunately, I have seen how he has become another person. I can’t stand myself and can’t believe I did this to someone I love so much. It really disgusts me and it still confuses me that I was able to do this. Truthfully, I never, ever wanted to hurt him
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 04:28 PM
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I understand. And no.... if I were widowed, I do not think I could OR would move on. And that’s the fucked up part. I already knew even in the worst times of our relationship that this love would stay. We did have a lot of disconnects in the end because of a lot of pent up resentment from unresolved fights of constantly being apart / creating another new kind of relationship when we are together / adjusting to distance again / attempting to adjust to each other with how much we have changed as p…
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 04:19 PM
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Thank you for responding so quickly. I completely understand where you’re coming from and have heard the same advice from sound friends before. And yeah I think this all had to blow up in my face to realize and go back to core issues in myself I need to fix to even live a good life on my own (not thinking about being married to anyone). I believe I am still going through this transformation process and true, you can never really know where someone stands and see how they’ve progressed truly unti…
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 04:06 PM
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This was so good!!!!! Thank you so much for making this video. As a 23 f in medical school, was brainwashed by the far left living on the west coast, and now I can finally see how wrong I was this entire time and am still working on some of these views I hold (namely the princess one and looking down on those who choose to have babies young even if that’s what I want for myself now).
/r/RedPillWives29/10/18 10:03 PM
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