Helper175737 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Thought I'd post something short. New to divorce and new to this forum		Helper175737	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/23 09:07 AM

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7	If you're a good person and got married, how did it feel when your marriage broke down? Did you ever wonder as to where you went wrong, and why God made you meet the person that you ended up marrying? How did you reconcile these events whilst still believing that God still has a plan for everything? i view it as God had a plan for my life but so did the enemy. i was extremely tempted the week before my wife decided to start having an emotional affair. i was tempted by someone at my work. i resisted that temptation. so when i wouldn't do wrong the enemy i believe tempted my wife and she was not strong. Jesus was present in our marriage when it was good. i went through a point when i thought it was because i didn't pray enough but no, as it says in the Bible each will be punished for their ow…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/01/24 09:07 PM
2	How do I not be the creepy old guy? this is the truth. i say this but still feel like a creeper going on walks lol	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 05:23 AM
2	Seperation my original comment was from personal experience, but you wouldn't know that. you claim to know something about me based on looking at my comment history. you're wrong. and saying "piss off" as if that will get me to stop commenting, is not gonna work buddy. carry on being a negative guy tho man, it's a bold move cotton we'll see how it plays out	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/23 11:00 PM
2	Seperation just because you don't understand does not make the content of what i said any less intelligent. That's like if you told someone about a math concept they didn't understand and instead of trying to learn they accused you of being unable to hold an intelligent conversation. It is in fact YOU who are unable to understand what i'm saying, therefore making you mad so you retaliate by asking me to keep my faith to myself. And i will not keep my faith to myself, someone might have needed to hear what …	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/23 10:29 PM
3	Seperation The fool says in his heart, “There is no God.” Psalm 14:1	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/23 07:27 PM
3	Seperation There is a God, and He will not reward them. in fact there is punishment for adultery. Things break down, relationships, cars, they will find they have to work extra hard to do things. There will be no help from God or His angels, it will feel like to them living is walking up hill always, and finally in the end judgement. they will stand before God and see all they have done against your marriage. missing Heaven is the ultimate punishment if they do not ask forgiveness. In the Bible, all those …	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/23 05:49 PM
1	Not attracted to women after divorce? i'm 32, was only married 2.5 years. i put my all in my marriage. Was the highlight of my life, so i thought. now i don't wanna date, women traumatize me. i'm not gay i just don't wanna be divorced 3 times at 60 like the guy who's been giving me advice on how to get over marriage. this sucks guys. honestly really glad just to have this online support group. i have more fun using my mind, solving things being tactical playing games having hobbies anything is better than putting effort into a relat…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/23 10:48 AM
5	Why do women complicate their lives so much? busy body is a term for a reason, a lot of women if not all are like this.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 08:16 PM
1	Why Women are Walking Away "you can tell" as if you know everything i think based on one comment. Where did i once say she was perfect? Where did i once act like i'm also not mad at my wife, and why tf are you defending a cheating man? dudes so off base he's not even in the right stadium	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/23 03:58 AM
10	Tonight was tough for me i'm sorry she's treating you like that, that being said i'm a huge advocate for trying to save marriages and prevent divorce. Have you guys tried talking sessions or counseling (want to apologize for how basic this recomendation is i just never even got that from my wife before she left me. She never gave me a chance to go to counseling or talk things out she just gave up on me so if i can stop just 1 man from abandoning ship i will try my best) i know i don't know the whole story so sorry	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/23 08:52 AM
-1	Why Women are Walking Away Not to mention we need to find the trashbag of a man that sleeps with our wife and tell him he's a living piece of garbage that did none of the work and doesn't deserve any of the woman that was my wife!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/23 08:50 AM
2	Unable to trust a new partner because of the divorce trauma. you gotta find wife material, she's not wife material. Idk tho i'm not you so just think and pray about it	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/23 01:49 AM
1	Thought I'd post something short. New to divorce and new to this forum dang i'm sorry	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/23 06:43 PM
4	I think I'm going to throw away most of my stuff. honestly brother, unless you actually use it throw it out. Move on, next paycheck buy yourself some new things. Get new things, you're a new you. Get in touch with the you who was before you met her. What did that you like? And mix it with the new you, but take that phase of your life where you were with her and cut that out of your dna. Replace it with good things. You'll get through this. Find hobbies and passions and just buy what you can afford. And set aside a dump day to throw away all you…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/23 07:01 AM
3	Thought I'd post something short. New to divorce and new to this forum thanks =)	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/23 01:58 AM
7	To sleep with your eX i'm sorry bro, one of the hardest parts about leaving my ex was the loneliness and wanting to do it again, but having sex with someone who cheated on you, there is no more trust. I think you know the answer before you posted this, it's not worth it. What if you had a kid, what if you got emotionally involved, and then she left you again. If she's cheated once chances are she'll cheat again. Picking a scab the second time hurts and will leave more of a scar. There's more to it than just "she foun…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/23 09:06 PM
2	Thought I'd post something short. New to divorce and new to this forum thanks man	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/23 08:51 PM
2	Thought I'd post something short. New to divorce and new to this forum ya idk i may have taken the red pill too but we'll see if i meet someone else	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/23 08:50 PM
3	Thought I'd post something short. New to divorce and new to this forum thanks man means a lot, and i will keep an eye out for her issue whatever it may be	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/23 08:50 PM