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It is not really his choice if you force this outdated tradition on him and dangle a party over his head saying he isn't a man if he doesn't get this done. Girls are told to love themselves in the body they were given. You're telling boys they aren't manly enough if they don't cut their penis tip that God gave them. Why are the girls left alone to have a simple party but the boys are forced to give a piece of their manhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:25 PM
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You cant for example both sides a military conscription for young males. In a lot of cases, it is black and white. When pro-life is stripping away access for a woman to make a choice for her health or life saving care between her and her doctor if a pregnancy is non-viable, you can't both sides abortion. I understand why some morally object to it and every one is entitled to their opinion as to when a fetus becomes a person but prolife doesnt keep it to themselves. It's the government telling a …
/r/MensRights13/05/26 03:31 PM
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I was encouraged to take it in high school. I went to college for computer science and switch to database because I couldn't handle the calculus. Most of the courses were mostly guys like 80%. My friend was in elementary education and his were the reversed. I am okay encouraging girls as long as it doesn't discourage boys. Girls have to exist in boys spaces and boys have to exist in girls spaces. It's also maybe not an industry I would push young people towards at this time with AI creep which I…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 04:37 PM
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It's not happening at the federal or state level. Insurance might have to be the only deterent or just a personal opinion for your kid. There's worst things in the world than being concerned over your kid being different in his private area.
/r/MensRights19/12/25 02:06 PM
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Its different when the kid is here. You get use to it and the kid handles most things by the time he's taking care of himself.
/r/MensRights09/11/25 03:59 PM
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This stuff is for cut guys in what's not there and isn't more important than consent. It's how parents want to handle that conversation or what they feel comfortable with their son. If it's all there, I don't think they search for a justification and they usually have a "guess I'm not" attitude. Kids handle themselves and they'll figure it out privately.
/r/MensRights09/11/25 04:29 AM
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I can't control other parents. I can tell mine that he just isn't and get a girl to like him as it shouldn't matter.
/r/MensRights23/09/25 11:12 PM
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Boys find out eventually and look down to find if they are or not. Parents will do what they will do and no one can change that. People are so radicalized online over it. I dont care what my kid has and doesnt matter. There's other issues than skin or helmet down there.
/r/MensRights23/09/25 05:39 PM
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This screams insecurity that most men learn to deal with as kids or teens. My parents choose different but I had to learn to not let it get to me and get comfortable with myself being uncircumcised. I don't have a lot of empathy to give for this type of bullshit. It happened to you but you don't get to play the insecure card.
/r/MensRights21/09/25 05:19 PM
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I have a college friend that I haven't really kept in touch with recently. I remember him in 2022 at a shared friend's wedding showing us this picture of a girl he messed around with with this infant. Everyone from the friends of the bride to myself said that he looked like him. As far as I know he went through the proper channels. I don't know if the girl had some post-pardum or what her situation was but at least on fa. He was a late bloomer maturity wise but he is in special education so I th…
/r/MensRights06/09/25 03:19 PM
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I can't imagine mine cut so never bothered. Parents didnt tell me anything but I personally prefer this approach with a future son. We're only familiar with ourselves and most if not all are happy with theirs. Deciding based on stats is dumb too. Never crossed my mind that most are.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 07:24 PM
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A circumcision can also cause an infection. So both have risks either way. Had this situation and if there are issues later, he's healthier to fight it then than he was at 2 days.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 02:51 PM
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Not really sure why I was skipped as it never really came up. Just isn't.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 01:26 PM
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I forget that I'm not so most guys don't really think about it to be honest.
/r/MensRights09/07/25 09:30 PM
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That's just weird. Neither really cared or seemed to notice or have brought it up yet. If they see something online or health class brings it up, they'll just realize they aren't. What connection?
/r/MensRights24/06/25 10:48 PM
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It really shouldn't open at one month. Some boys can retract when they start noticing it but some dont until preteen to age 16 at the latest. Testostrone loosens it so it maybe that late. The skin is to protect and he'll handle it as he develops.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 03:28 PM
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He's going to get more length so it's away from the body more and wouldn't be in diapers past age 3. Get him to use a tp square after he pees when he's learning potty. He also needs to rinse out the fold of it when he's 4 or 5. He should be the only one moving it and at some point, he'll take responsibility for it. It's on him so he'll like it as is.
/r/MensRights17/06/25 10:12 PM
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You gave an inch and he's taking a mile. He posts multiple times a week on the same couple topics. Everything he posts is a manefesto. Its spam
/r/MensRights19/05/25 11:32 AM
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It depends on the health of the infant, hospital, and a bit of insurance. There are hospitals where they ask 3 or 4 times. Our boy was delayed to the point where it gone on too long and wasn't going to be low risk while having insurance cover it. 7 and hasn't said anything.
/r/MensRights02/05/25 02:28 PM
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It was optional when I was born in the US and still is. I didn't even notice the difference until I was a teenager and just nothing happened and it's the default. Globally it's 70% uncut and the US is the only non-religious countries where a majority practices it at birth. Circumcision is the minority and the odd one.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 12:21 PM
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He's posted about a dozen in the last 2 days since I made the comment. It's not you who made a readable post a month or so ago. It's nearly every few hours.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 08:32 PM
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It's not the only male issue. On top of the lack of sentence structure, it has been nonstop for over a month about kids genitals.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 04:55 PM
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It's access to information but nothing has really changed in terms of legality. Parents have been able to decide since the 70s and they still do. Whether or not they should isn't going to change any time soon. Nothing has changed since you've posted about this over a dozen times this week. You have to move on.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 04:26 PM
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It is a back page issue in mra. Nothing has changed in 40 years with this topic and it's never going to be a hot button issue. It's going to be a choice of the parents for now and there is no law that changes the status quo any time soon. Its going to be several decades. You have to move on and stop being obsessed. You really have to learn how to write and find a hobby that isn't around kids genitals.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 02:59 PM
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No one can read this shit. I honestly think you're illiterate because there is no way you read this and completely understood what you wrote before posting. It is nonsense ramblings that are unfocused, unreadable, and lacks a point. Just because you split it up doesn't make it more readable when you touch on 5 different topics in a section that isn't a complete sentence. Stop blaming others because you can't get your point across and stop posting.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 04:04 PM
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And the German Christian, Hindu Indian, and atheist American most likely aren't. Culture is what's around and what someone is born into and they have to discuss and decide this topic for themselves when it comes to their own family. I am American and I think it's going to be split and not really matter as much.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 06:45 PM
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We're not in Somalia and we're on males.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 06:18 PM
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There isn't a cultural reason for me but it might be for someone else having a boy and it just seems like a massive over step.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 04:56 PM
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It's not a high priority for me and it's going to be up to parents as none of this stuff is going to happen. If you guys don't want to, your kid will understand and shrug it off.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 02:34 PM
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You're spamming the sub and no one can read what you write with a 2nd grade writing level. It's not complete sentences as it's just words in random order with an incredibly vague hint of an idea. Read a book and go outside.
/r/MensRights03/03/25 10:52 PM
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No. I think something is missed here. I can have a son and say yours and he's not going to think much of it. If he sees his intact one with the head underneath, I don't think he would have any opinions about someone else being different. Parents just make a bigger deal about it than it actually is. I think boys and eventual grown men are able to figure themselves out privately. A woman isn't in to them because relationships or lack there of happen.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 11:25 PM
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Yours and that the head is underneath. Kid wouldn't know or care until he's older. I dont know why everyone chooses the hardest way out with this topic.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 06:44 PM
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About a third of California under 25 is circumcised and it's lower for boys being born now. It's not normal there. You haven't done your research and reply to the one comment downvoted to oblivion with false information is tiggering that you aren't taking this question seriously.
/r/MensRights12/02/25 11:49 PM
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Boys only know theirs and are use to what they are given. Leaving it future proofs that decision and at worst he feels mid about his hood. If it's two boys, they will sort of notice each other and not think much of it. It's trivial and they'll figure themselves out as adults.
/r/MensRights12/02/25 01:10 PM
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No. Some guys do need to keep their ego in check and dick size is just an easy target. Coming from another guy, there are just some that are ass holes.
/r/MensRights25/01/25 04:52 PM
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That is their culture to sort of work out and fix that issue. There really isn't a reasonable action item as outsiders half way around the globe. Some cultures view it as childish and trying to change that thinking is harder than changing someones religion especially if one isn't part of that culture. It's like an American trying to end the cast system in India when it is the Hindu population. This is on the Christian Phillippines that have to abandon the practice as a group. It's unfortunate bu…
/r/MensRights07/01/25 07:11 PM
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It's not legal action stuff. This is a boyfriend and girlfriend thing. Family planning and boundaries are set by both people. There are times where I am not up for it and don't want to be touched and most guys are very up front about it. Women should get accused of baby trapping or assault when it happens but the text doesn't really go there. The double standard isn't in the example.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 11:57 PM
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Guy is an ass and lied. If he was actually honest and telling her he is vertile, she would be more on top of birth control. It's sort of that topic that couples have to discuss truthfully on how to stop a baby and when to actually try for a kid. With birth control, both need to be tested for STDs so there is that honesty from both sides too. The guy is being irresponsible. Women get accussed of baby trapping a man too but this is two very immature people. I just can't take his side for being a d…
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:43 PM
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Obvious troll. This is a load of crap. It is so utterly pointless but not in the same way. A mother can pop out a son, they drag him home, and at 5 or 6 tell him to wash his peepee. I was 15 when I found out I was uncircumcised or understood that concept. I find certain private acts a little easier if it wasn't there but to her there isn't much different. While active, it's comfortable and not rubbing down there. It had been marker like Slave or Roman like Jew or Gentile for centuries. It's been…
/r/MensRights24/12/24 01:52 PM
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No, it's more of the transgender issue. 2-3% of high schoolers are transgender. At 13 to 15 years old, a parent should know that their male child or female child doesn't feel comfortable with their assigned gender. A licensed therapist takes several sessions and parent meetings to have a kid be diagnosed with gender dysmorphia. It shouldn't be up to the government to restrict the kids choice with a parent as proxy. Hospitals don't do sex changes for those under 18. We're struggling with costs of…
/r/MensRights23/12/24 10:43 PM
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I don't think people care enough to do it. He might learn that some friends are circumcised when he's a teenager but just so use to his being the other way that it just wouldn't matter. Also no tattoos or piercings for boys and it's so it's consistent with the rules.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 04:23 PM
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By 16, they should look at topical solutions because of the hormone and sweat glan changes with it developing. There isn't the same biome down there when they are young to cause any issues but a teenager going through puberty should address it. 20-21 is very late for congenital phimosis.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 03:36 PM
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I don't know exactly the cost without insurance. I medically couldn't and would like my kid to be uncircumcised like me. Not really something public or constant as hospitals have different pay sheets.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 06:33 PM
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There is also insurance and what is covered in a hospital while the UK is more nationalized in that sense. I've had medication cost $300/mo under one employer plan and $20/mo when they changed plans on us. I know Brits have NHS stories but the American healthcare is a different animal. Deliveries with insurance can be a couple hundred to couple thousand to almost $20k if there is complications. Circumcision is not really discussed and it's determined by the parents. There are some that are reall…
/r/MensRights01/12/24 05:17 PM
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No. It's across the board and because 9 out of 10 boys have one in the UK or EU, they don't see it as anything different to be educated on. India and the Christian/Hindi population is also very conservative. They're not fixated. The numerous foreskin questions on reddit are majority from countries which don't practice it. US is also bad with it. I had to Google so much at 16 in what to do and how to clean.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 05:02 PM
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I don't know what I said to get 10+ downvotes. Some can do it around toliet trainning age and no one's memory is good before age 5 or 6. It should be up to the kid but some are so early they don't remember.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 12:42 PM
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idk. could have been a toddler and done it myself. It developed as it was suppose to.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 08:34 PM
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The Trump nomination for secratary of defense Pete Hegseth doesn't want women in combat roles. Draft or enlist, it is sort of the same thing. If a butch lesbian and her transgender friend want to take my place in the next draft, I don't give a fuck and the army shouldn't. These people on the right want to go back to enlisting boys in public schools again and I don't trust them if there is a draft either. They are just going to send men with lower socio-economic classes to die in the wars like th…
/r/MensRights19/11/24 03:50 PM
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Why are so many people on this sub supporting the Republicans when they want to take women and LGBTQ+ out of the army? If some butch lesbian wants to take a guy's place, why the fuck not? The Ukraine and Russian war I think is close to an end but long term in the US for guys, why are we supporting the party that targets boys in public schools to enlist?
/r/MensRights19/11/24 03:36 PM
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It's not male reproductive rights and Trump is talking about trans which is less than <1% of the population. HRT is done over the course of years and with doctors who specialize in gender dysmorphia. It takes more than one visit to get T or E which aren't administered until 14 or 15 and the kid already identifies as the opposite gender. They know that it's irreversable. Surgery isn't done until 18. This is less than <1% of the population and the people who regret their transition is fewer than t…
/r/MensRights11/11/24 06:27 PM
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I don't think either side wants selective service because of how politically unpopular it is. Canada and Mexico are friendly and in the 60s and 70s it was a disaster for the Democratic party and Republicans that took over. I know history likes to repeat itself but people should remember how disasterous the Vietnam draft was politically. I actually had a childhood neighbor and close friend that was dropped off at a fire station. It was in 1989 but I am still certain that it is illegal. Fire stati…
/r/MensRights11/11/24 05:06 PM
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Because abortion and women's health is a key issue in their platform. Men's health isn't a voting issue. Check the Republican platform and you would find just as little mention.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 02:11 AM
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There are women who are sexually abused and would find the baby traumatic or young mothers that aren't ready to love or financial support a baby. The foster care system is a mess and it's not always right to bring a human into this world unloved. I don't think it's anyone's business. Teach your sons to use condoms and be in a loving relationship before starting a family. Once an infant is breathing on its own and named, there are certain rights they are given. I don't handle scars well and I thi…
/r/MensRights14/08/24 02:06 PM
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UTIs are more common in uncircumcised babies up until a certain age where they are about the same. I don't know exactly what age but maybe around the time he's a toddler or young child. Some parents don't wipe or dry properly and that causes issues. A newborn has it glued on but retraction is not something that can be scheduled. It detaches by age 9 at the latest and the task of stretching the opening can be age 4 to 18. I don't have a son but I just want to avoid wound care it and have him resp…
/r/MensRights13/08/24 03:16 PM
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Circumcision reduces risks of UTIs in infancy. After infancy, not really. Some nurses I've asked still say that 90% of the people in for a UTI are AFAB just because biology of their plumbing. When the boy is out of diapers, whether he is cut or not doesn't matter and there is generally a low risk for both.
/r/MensRights13/08/24 02:55 PM
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It was surgery for balantis and the doctor took too much off. I don't know anyone that goes into surgery and not know what the plan is.
/r/MensRights13/08/24 11:30 AM
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How does one go into surgery and not know what is going to be done in writing?
/r/MensRights13/08/24 11:19 AM
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"The man expressly told the doctor he would not consent to a “full” circumcision. He was not provided with written information about the procedure, nor was he provided with a copy of the consultation documentation." It was a procedure for balantis on the penis. Both parties are at fault. The urologist needs to provide a consultation and surgery documentation before performing it and the man should have known to get documentation and wishes in writing. It's not like the guy got heart surgery and …
/r/MensRights12/08/24 08:21 PM
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20% uncircumcised for people over 30 is still 1 in 5. 20% of men don't have an issue in finding a girl that is nuts for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:18 PM
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You're just feeding the notion that it's not normal by asking women if they are grossed out by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:39 PM
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While guys do anything that likes them back. It's not how it works in the real world. What about all the American girls that date an English or German exchange student? There are adopted Russuans who don't get circumcised. Boys are in the NICU and don't get circumcised. Women are not that vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:29 PM
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Why are you asking the women this specifically? I know I got downvoted for saying cultural option but this isn't how relationships work. They go on a few dates and eventually get physical and what's there is there. There has to be a few Americans that met a guy in college who isn't and they eventually settle down and they are just use to how a normal one is suppose to work that they don't even think about it. It's trivial. My ideals are that people aren't so surface level judgement when it comes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:04 PM
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It's a cultural option and up to parents. We don't allow tattoos or piercings in men even as adults and it's just consistent if he's not. That's his business and not someone elses. I just don't think it should be anyone's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:13 PM
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Talk therapy only helps to some extent. I felt like I was just listing off stuff I should be doing but executive dysfunction from ADD prevents me from doing it. Still had a dirty condo and no social life after months of therapy. Helped me a bit when my father died but just not enough action items. 90 minutes is too long.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 03:57 PM
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My brother thinks guys are like him and it's just what Jewish or Muslims do. All of Europe thinks this way anyways and it's just how it is viewed in the family. I was not routine and in the NICU when I was born which lead to that initial decision but that was the explanation I got from my parents.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 05:38 PM
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Because it shouldn't be a priority. The main priority is raising a confident boy who is somewhat prepared for the adult world after 18. I am an uncircumcised Christian that lives in the US. There is no discussion if I have a kid.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 04:31 PM
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I was 15 when I realized I wasn't circumcised. I think my Dad was and it's just such a non factor. It's how one looks to me and it's healthy looking. With a kid I feel comfortable with just telling him that's it's his and move on. It's nuts that it's a thing but it's such a low priority with raising a son.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 01:01 PM
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What does this guy do anyways if the money went through? Even organizations run by ex RNs for that, I am not sure where the money goes. There's no real research being done by them and it's just to keep the website up. They don't have influence over policy as nothing has changed. This guy is wasting a lot of time and asking for money for baby dicks.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 03:27 PM
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I don't really care but I think uncircumcised wouldn't feel the need to ask Dad. Edit: Sorry, I would rather have my son deal with it himself. I don't think uncircumcised are compelled to ask why theirs is that way.
/r/MensRights30/06/24 03:35 PM
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As someone with ADD, mental health diagnosis vary person to person and they have shown that boys are easier to diagnose because they don't mask as well for what ever reason. Milder autism is much harder to pickup in girls than it is boys. It's still something science is still trying to figure out.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 06:02 PM
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I think it is an outpatient and not done in offices in my network. You would have to go back to the hospital or do it day two in another building.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 12:45 PM
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My weight at a few days old determined my status and through personal experience, no one cares that there a snout at the end. There so many issues for men. Don't do it and he'll like it as a teenager but it's so low on the list.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:54 PM
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Why be all extreme and create fan fiction going after someone who's Jewish and generalizing that circumcision is a feminists plot? Someone said this post seems to be written by a cracked out raccoon yet you're so into intactivism that you're blind to how obsurd this is. Good for you but you people need to win the argument in reality.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:42 PM
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People seem to be 99% anti-MGM here but you and OP are a new level of delusional and making yourself look stupid.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:29 PM
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What claims? Women hate foreskin? because there is plenty of videos of them knowing their way around it. FGM hypotheticals can't be googled.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:26 PM
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every reply youve commented is right wing fan fiction completely detached from reality.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:18 PM
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When I have you in a corner, you change the subject to FGM in a but what about pivot and continue with Q shit fiction.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:12 PM
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30% of male adults is still a lot of guys. There's also some boys who couldn't get one and parents werent particularly motivated enough to go back. Women feminist or not don't care what's down there on a guy.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 06:58 PM
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Intact men still tap that and get around. Completely false.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 06:40 PM
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We don't have a list of celebrities and their kids penis status because thats gross. You are just cherry picking.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 06:37 PM
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What are you talking about? Feminism is the ideolog and feminists are the ones who support it. Youre generlizing. They really don't care and thousands don't do it with their own sons. You've really created MRA fiction here. Have a son and see how few bring attention to it. There is no liberal agenda. Get off it.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 06:36 PM
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Hollywood is full of people from hippie backgrounds who are feminists and believe in natural earth yet you seem to choose the one that's Jewish and say all feminists are like this. You're delusional. No woman would touch you to have a son anyways.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 06:12 PM
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Ur just lashing out that dad didn't say no for you. It's not the feminists and who tf cares about Pink.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 05:59 PM
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Jesus. MRA fever dream that is a work of fiction. Guys have a say with who they have sex with. This generation is having it less especially the casual type. It's up to the guy to ask if she is the right age and not someone who is blacked out. Lying about age is also a crime but harder to prove. Boys need to be taught not to be in that situation. Circumcision is not a vote involving the nurses. It's paperwork and forms. Birthing plans are written beforehand. If one parent says no, doctors don't p…
/r/MensRights26/04/24 05:38 PM
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I couldn't be when I was a baby so never got it done.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 10:56 PM
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rape much harder for the perpetrator. No it doesn't. I think my son is going to ask fewer questions if he's uncut but the science is exaggerated on both sides.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 09:42 PM
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Dick head is obscene in my culture and changing rooms already suck.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 07:33 PM
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Teenage boys are self-conscious down there anyways and they have to grow up to develop a personality. Whether he likes it or is indifferent of your decision, he'll figure it out.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 05:37 PM
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Maybe my parents thought it would be common. I'm actually uncut.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 07:19 PM
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Never got the answer as to why but I was a preemie and I like not having to answer for it when I have kids.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 06:47 PM
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I never thought much about it. I thought it was like eye color growing up. Everyone in the locker room growing up was cut or loosely but I never really studied them. Mine came to a point and was skin color with the head underneath. I think I was already masturbating as a teenager when I found out the difference that mine is more common in other parts of the world. I found that if I clean it and have fun with it, it's generally better received. I just have seen the same one for 30 years everyday …
/r/MensRights11/11/23 02:38 PM
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I was high risk. I was maybe 15 until I really noticed in terms of what was opted out of.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 08:33 PM
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They spend most of childhood not noticing so not much changes when they find out. Especially with uncut, I think they only notice in porn or briefly in a locker room.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 04:20 PM
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18 year olds aren't lining up at urologist offices to get cut.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 12:17 PM
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It's personal and no one had a choice. Even intact is a choice they didn't have control over.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 06:09 PM
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