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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | The note I didn’t read | HelpfulasICan1 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/22 05:21 PM |
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| 1 | Advice on Temporary Custody?Uh, I’ve actually been on the other side of this. I’m bipolar and in a manic episode, started prepping legally for divorce and beyond and taking everything out on her, then apologizing and wondering what was wrong with her. She kicked me out and filed for divorce on me, saying that all she wanted was protection for our kids and our finances, and for me to seek more mental health care treatment. Our mutually shared frustration once divorce was initiated was this: the mental health piece was almos… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Resentment and how the narrative solidifiesThis post really helps me a lot. My ex and I are back together and we’ve done a lot of couple’s counseling, but I still can’t grasp how a lot of effort on my part over a pretty long period of time essentially goes unrecognized. I really felt like I was responding to her needs and concerns, but it the end it was never enough and I grew really frustrated. The “too little, too late” attitude is really unfair, logically and emotionally. Plus, I’m bipolar and the impending divorce triggered a devasta… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/25 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What was the final straw that led to your divorceUnlike some of the posts, I’m gonna recommend avoiding divorce at (almost) all costs. Double down on whatever she is telling you her needs are. Then triple down. And if that doesn’t work, then take the steps. I’m nearly fully divorced and wished I had heeded this advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Healing Post-DivorceWhen divorce was filed on me, I was happy. Free. And I had all the confidence I would win everything including my kids easily. That was all a delusion. I’ve now riding waves of grief and regret. I’ve always been a happy person so this feels alien. So, my focus is on me and my health, and my two girls who are doing great. But I am fully grieving 15 years of marriage and a divorce I didn’t want. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/22 04:22 AM |
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