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2	Questions to ask lawyer (TX) I'm in TX. I went with a counsel who just started an independent practice after leaving a large firm. He was hungry, but not a shark. I felt outmanned for the first 6 months vs. opposing counsel. But his cost and strategy pulled through in the long-term and I ended up with 50/50 with tight residency restrictions in the end. Here are some questions I wish I would have asked: What are your billing increments? (If the answer is more than 15 min, walk. They can charge you the minimum time for sendin…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/21 05:36 AM
2	Still uncertain level 1Noononsense · 3hIt’s time to have the come to Jesus conversation with her. Stop being wishy washy and man up. You have to be willing to lose her to keep her. Download one of those apps on your phone that records audio. If she is "spewing hate", this is an easy insurance policy against false accusations. Keep your calm, especially when you're recording (because it might become valuable evidence). It would also be good to listen to the recording a couple of days later when you're in a settl…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/21 05:55 PM
-4	I just found Alec Baldwin's book about his own divorce. It's sad and shocking, and shows that the unfairness of divorce can happen to ANY man. So you discovered this book yesterday and posted about it today? Have you finished the book yet?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/21 05:32 PM