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| 1 | "social skills" = superficially charmingIf its anything like a artsyle instead of shifting completely i can try to blend different styles and techniques to my own, i believe charisma doesnt come in only one shape or form, probvably i can mainting a bunch of my style while mixing different stuff with it. i will look on youtube to see if i find anything that helps me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:44 AM |
| 2 | "social skills" = superficially charmingI see, if its like artstyle then you can try to blend different techniques and other styles to make your own. As a neurodivergent person do you ever had trouble caring about people's personal lives in like when getting to know them, did you feel curiosity for whom your crush might be? i mean i have huge trouble with relationships because i dont get any dopamine effect by getting to know people or who they are, even when i had crushes i never thought of getting to know them but rather being toget… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:41 AM |
| 3 | "social skills" = superficially charmingA relationship is a friendship plus attraction. If you have no interest in your friends lives what makes you think that you would have interest in a potential partner’s life? You see? i just cant understand why i am like this, i didnt choose or wanted to be like this, even when i was a kid i didnt show any interest in other kids personal lives, we just played and had fun together and i grew like that, even nowadays at 27 yo i am still like that and i dont know why... Even when i had crushes on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Women, what’s the one quality in a man that instantly makes you interested?i am curious but not about other peoples lives, i am curious about my job and the things i still dont know but i am not curious about people, their personali life and etc... this might be why i never had a relationship with a woman, i am not curious about her as a person i am curious about what we can do together, does that makes sense? most of the time i think i have some kind of mental illness because there has to be some problem with me that i dont find appealing in connecting to people via a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 12:15 AM |
| 2 | "social skills" = superficially charmingThe thing i find frustating is that there is no actual way to learn that from a person, i tried asking people about how to be more attractive to women, charming and such, people always give werid responses filled with politcal ideology or they dont know how to explain it, its not like trying to learn how to draw where if you follow the corrects steps you can actually learn to draw, relationships and such always come with a certain type of political viewpoint about how the person perceives the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 11:42 PM |
| 3 | "social skills" = superficially charminghow are you able to connect with people like in the way to "get to know them"? I usually find it very hard to maintain bonds or even care about their personal lives in anyway, my current friendship only works because we play games together and talk about anime and such, i find extremilly hard to get to know another person because more often than not i dont care about others peoples personal lives, where the live, what is their job and such. This problem even carries on into my family, i find har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | "social skills" = superficially charmingone can always improve their social skills the first step being of course to leave your house and talk to people. i wish things where so simple as most people say like "just go out and touch some grass", i am pretty nerd myself, yes i am overwight, i dont practice any kind of sport or anything like that, i do take a bit of care about my appearance, i hate beards and such, i am really into art, 3D and such but where i live there isnt any "nerd people" club or anything like that i can go to, its a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 10:54 PM |
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