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You’re reeeeallly simplifying things here. Things like this aren’t black and white. There are shades of gray. Plus there are cases where people genuinely turn their life around/ alter it dramatically. Yes, a person’s past matters as it has shaped them to be who they are today. The whole point is to not judge them for past iterations of themselves if they are different today. Ex: a person is an alcoholic and horribly messes up (loses a job, gets a divorce, etc). They then go to rehab/ therapy/ AA…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:54 AM
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Fair enough. That was not my intention. What I was trying to say was that is my guess for their reasoning that they base their behavior on. I do not agree with that reasoning, or behavior, nor think it is okay. It is just a guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:04 AM
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Okay then my bad dude. I worded it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:44 AM
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Dude I literally said I don’t personally have that view point, I just think that’s how others are justifying it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:36 AM
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I don’t personally hold this view but I imagine it’s sort of a “play shitty games, win shitty prizes” kind of deal. Men used to do that stuff to women without repercussions for decades. Now women are doing it back. I don’t think it’s okay to do it back, but that’s how the whole situation seems to me. And just really want to emphasize- I don’t think it’s okay to treat either gender like that. I do my best to be polite and respectful to everyone I meet, and give the benefit of the doubt. Just want…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:23 AM
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I think we’re just going to have to agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:25 PM
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I highly doubt saying “wow I like how you did your hair today” or “hey I think your outfit looks nice” can be misinterpreted as objectification but go off I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:22 PM
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This is supposed to be in the context of this happening over time. But my personal rule is until I know those things about people I only compliment things they have control over or choose
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:12 PM
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Some of that yes, and other parts no. Tone, how you define your relationship with the person (friend, acquaintance, etc) are things that are very much up to the person receiving it. But if someone only compliments you about physical characteristics and not accomplishments, personality, or behavior then I think it’s reasonable to feel objectified from that alone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:36 PM
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Whoa man. Take a beat. I don’t personally have those views, that’s just how I think society views it Edit: also I don’t think viewing it like that is okay. At all. It’s just an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:05 PM
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Maybe I should have explained better- catcalling can lead to threatening behavior. It doesn’t always, but it can. I’ve heard plenty of stories from women where that sort of thing happened to them. So if you don’t know the person and they catcall you, it’s scary because you don’t know what they might do next. Also I think less people value others strictly on looks than you think. I’m not saying people don’t at all, there’s plenty of shallow people out there, but there are a good number of people …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:25 PM
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Thing is tho- not everyone values people on looks first 🤯 crazy thought I know. And yeah, it is different than physically threatening someone, I never said it was the same. But it is still threatening because in those situations, you don’t know what the catcaller is going to do. Some of them follow people that want to be left alone, some get violent when you rebuff them. You don’t know who is going to do what, so the overall situation is threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:01 PM
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I have. I was just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:45 PM
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Lol no. False. Abuse can happen in relationships, I would argue that being alone is better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:43 PM
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People might not be physically hurt, but it can be threatening behavior. Not to mention degrading, only being valued for your body
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:42 PM
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I disagree. While I don’t hold this specific viewpoint, I think the idea for athletes who have done that is that they still bring their athletic career to the table. PUA’s don’t bring anything else. Personally, if someone is a rapist(either gender, idc), I don’t want anything to do with them, whether its consuming their media or products or whatever- it’s a no from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:41 PM
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There are way worse things than being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:38 PM
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I usually am very responsive when texting most people. I try to engage and ask questions back. I only do curt replies if they message me first and I just don’t feel like talking or if I’m busy. If I’m going to be away for awhile I do try to give a heads up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:50 AM
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I’m sort of whatever about having kids. I’m not particularly fond of kids for a good chunk of their childhood, particularly the younger years. I think they’re annoying. But I’m not totally opposed to them. For me what it really comes down to is can I provide a good quality of life for them? If I can’t then I’m not doing it. And honestly I’m leaning more towards adopting an older child if I do go down that route simply because I do not want to deal with the toddler years and whatnot. And because …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:36 PM
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I mean yeah I’d consider it normal in my circles, but to my family I’m a nerd. That and I feel like there is the opinion on here that all women just sleep around and party and hook up (AWALT and all that jazz). I don’t fit that so that’s why I guessed nerd. I don’t really classify myself as anything other than “me”, but OP asked us to pick a group/identity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:44 PM
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I feel like the older you are the less weird an age gap gets. Mainly just because there’s a lot of development going on up until 23-25 (just my experience, not saying this is ironclad). Anything after that most people assume you’ve got stuff figured out and you’re just in the “adulting” phase of your life. And that phase encapsulates a waaaay larger range of ages than the developmental stage of your life does
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:32 PM
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I guess I would say nerd? Did really well in school and got a degree in chemistry. I spend most of my free time reading, playing video games, gym, and watching tv. And browse Reddit of course. Sometimes I do art. Parties really aren’t my jam, I’m better with people one on one and would absolutely prefer a board game night with drinks and whatnot than a rager
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:27 PM
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Humor is definitely important to me at least. It’s not the only factor I consider, but it’s in the top 5. When I saw my bf’s profile on hinge I was initially interested because he’s cute, but what really sealed the deal was that I thought his profile was funny. I want someone I can laugh with who gets my humor
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:27 AM
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IMO your “first choice” changes at different points in your life and based on the people you meet. Personally I think the goal is to find someone who becomes your first choice (usually after a couple of dates it should be easy to figure out) and then stick with them. Before I met my bf, he wasn’t my first choice- because I didn’t even know he existed. Once I met him and got to know him, then he became my first choice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:45 AM
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Yeah I agree. That’s part of the communication I was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:57 PM
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I feel like it just comes down to communication and honesty. I feel like the instance that it would be on the guy is if the woman explicitly stated what she wanted and then he lies to her about commitment just to get sex. That’s shitty. But I mean that sort of thing applies to everybody. If I told a guy I’d sleep with him if he bought me something and then didn’t follow through that’s shitty of me too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:44 PM
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I could say the same thing back to you. That’s my point. You’re not providing evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:58 AM
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You literally said that you’re “not making anything up…..many people are saying they are seeing it and hearing it”. I don’t think there’s a way of proving that women are becoming egotistical from social media comments. You’re saying women are becoming egotistical and your proof is that other people in your circles are saying that they’re hearing it. In my circles I’m not encountering that. I don’t think it’s happening on a scale that you can say it’s “pervasive”. I’m not saying it doesn’t ever h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:40 AM
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I mean you didn’t address anything in my response but ok. So for you it’s just other people say they see that so it must be true? Do you also believe that the earth is flat? Some people say that too, does that make it true?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:21 AM
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Once again, I think you’re over estimating how women feel about their looks. Unattractive people know they’re unattractive. They’ve lived as an unattractive person, it usually is made pretty clear. Like when I was younger I was not very pretty. People would tell me I was, and I appreciated the thought, because it showed that they were being nice, but I didn’t believe them. I was very aware that I wasn’t very pretty, despite some compliments. I mean if you felt that you weren’t attractive and dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:05 AM
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I absolutely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:32 PM
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I think most of the men here are assuming that some social media comments are going to suddenly make someone super egotistical about their looks, which isn’t really even close to the truth for most women. A lot of women are insecure and I say this as a woman. Some days I feel great about myself, some days neutral, and other days I feel bad about my looks. It’s a bit of a tossup to be honest. So when women who are ugly receive these compliments I feel like it’s more of an encouragement thing. A l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:51 PM
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Together almost 3 years, living together ~7 months. We keep our finances separate but split things down the middle for the apartment. If I want something only I am going to use, I buy it using only my money. Same for him. He does the cooking since he loves it and it’s his hobby, so I do the dishes after he cooks. We each do our own laundry and take turns with the chores. Both unsure if we ever want kids. We both work full time, but he works from home whereas I have to go in. Sometimes this means…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:06 PM
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I see you have this tagged as “science”. Where are your sources my dude. Making a lot of declarative statements with nothing backing it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:27 AM
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Crying is totally fine. It’s normal. Most people do it. I’m not going to judge my bf for doing something completely normal. I would only be concerned if the instances that he did it increased dramatically. Then I would wonder if something was wrong. But even then it’s not in the same realm of things that would make me break up with someone. I would just be concerned and see how I could help/ encourage introspection and therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:52 PM
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I mean I can only speak for myself. I just hate being in sweaty clothes 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:52 PM
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I mean I can only comment on the sports bra part, but for me it’s because I hate sweating, especially with more layers on. I will say tho that the ones I wore covered up all cleavage. And I would wear normal leggings as I’ve got bigger thighs and shorts would ride up and make my inner thighs chafe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:56 PM
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Ohh okay I see. Well I’m glad you have someone :) I wish you guys the best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:00 AM
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I was just confused by you saying “I feel like I eliminated the possibility of actually being able to love someone”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:46 AM
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Wait you have a fiancée but don’t love her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:28 AM
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Nope. It’s always been something I’ve wanted to do. Growing up I didn’t always feel like I had someone on my side. That’s why having a partner is so important to me. And getting married shows you’re super serious. It’s not about the money for me. Want me to sign a prenup? Sure. I’m marrying them for who they are, not their money
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:34 PM
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Yeah this is basically it for me too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:44 PM
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Yikes. Never heard the “women don’t feel emotions” tactic before. TIL what I’ve been feeling aren’t actually emotions 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:23 AM
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Woman. It’s pretty even. We each have a drawer and a cabinet. The bigger cabinet under the sink is for stuff we both use- meds, first aid, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:00 PM
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This is it right here. I dgaf about what they do with anyone else, I would just encourage they be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:08 AM
2

Absolutely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:20 PM
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Yeah that too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:50 AM
3

Yeah I was thinking about something similar. I remember reading somewhere that hot people sometimes actually end up with little attention from people as everyone else is intimidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:55 AM
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My bf seems to like getting gifts. But I usually ask him for ideas before getting him something. Sometimes he sends me a link to the exact thing he wants and that’s fine too, I’ll still get it for him. But I do try to get him something in addition that’s a surprise that I think he’ll like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:54 PM
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Thank you for putting into words what I was thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:11 PM
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That’s absolutely psychotic. No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:24 PM
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Have been thinking exactly this for awhile now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:47 AM
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I mean I disagree, but you’re more than welcome to have your own opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:52 PM
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Yeah. The reason there isn’t a choice now is capitalism….it’s also the reason why people have to have roommates or live at their parents. Capitalism exploited the choice feminism gave. That’s not feminism’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:50 PM
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It’s terrible to have a choice? That makes no sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:42 PM
2

I’ve been looking at your responses and I think you should be blaming capitalism more than feminism. Feminism gives you the choice, capitalism took it away. A genuine feminist will tell you to do what makes you happy and not feel forced into one or the other based on your gender. Capitalism has pushed the cost of living to point that most people need dual income to get by
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:40 PM
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Communication is number 1. We never have fights because we discuss things when they come up and don’t let them fester. We also both verbally acknowledge when we might be unreasonable in a situation. Spending time together. I’m not permanently attached to his hip, but we make time for each other. But also time doing our own things so we don’t resent a lack of freedom. Compatibility is also important. We have the same values, views and life goals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:10 AM
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I do think AWALT is interesting because the behaviors that I see people here talk about, I don’t think I do. Maybe I do and don’t see it, idk. It’s just weird to me to lump so many people together under one category when there’s so many factors that can cause someone’s behavior. I mean I don’t view men that way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:15 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:22 PM
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Car got broken into again. Second time within 6 months. First time they took my radio. So I’ve been using a Bluetooth speaker for music. This time they took the speaker. Guess I’m not allowed to listen to music huh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:18 PM
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Absolutely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:41 PM
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I totally get what you mean. At the end of the day, people come first, but we still do all that we can for them up until that point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:38 PM
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I guess to clarify, the two examples of them not being members of the family would be 1- my former landlord never letting his dogs inside. No matter the weather conditions. 2- my family not taking their dog to the vet because “she’s just a dog” and they didn’t think anything was wrong with the mass on her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:37 PM
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What is everyone’s thoughts on pets? Would you consider them as a member of your family, or are they a step lower than that? I was raised that they’re a member of your family, but some of my extended family see them as just a pet and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:18 PM
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Well I wish you guys the best
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:57 PM
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That’s always is great to hear happen. My bf said something similar about us moving in together. I lowered rent for him and other utilities
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:49 PM
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I’ll delete, but not immediately. And I usually move photos to my laptop in some obscure folder. Call it sentimentality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:36 PM
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How many cats do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:44 PM
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I’m just curious, what is everyone’s job? I’m a chemist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:30 PM
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Lol wow this is incredibly toxic. I respect my bf because of who he is, not how many options he has
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:06 PM
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I’m totally fine with it so long as they’re seeking treatment and handling it in a healthy way. I wouldn’t mind them talking about it with me either- so long as I don’t turn into a therapist. I’m not qualified for that and I would prefer they get professional help that I can’t offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:41 PM
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I think you guys actually are in agreement. I read OP as splitting chores evenly. Like for me and my SO I do bathrooms he does kitchen etc. There are some chores we both do: laundry, unloading the dishwasher- just depends who has the free time to do it. To me this is sharing chores evenly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:44 AM
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Lol yeah that sounds about right. Rugby is sorta like that but it’s usually only a few key players making decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:53 AM
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It makes sense that those would go together in skills
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:44 AM
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I did actually dabble in bjj for awhile back in 2016. The guy I was dating at the time was getting into it and I wanted to try it out too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:31 AM
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Lol oh man that sounds too intense for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:25 AM
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Yeah it’s something I picked up in my 4th year of college. I wouldn’t have considered it until I was approached to join the team
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:25 AM
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I’m starting up rugby again after stopping due to an injury two years ago. I’m super pumped to get back out there again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:06 AM
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Lol exactly. I’m super happy with my bf. He’s the best
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:05 AM
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I think like a month and a half? I don’t entirely remember
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:54 AM
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10 including the 6 that I matched with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:28 AM
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Yeah. I do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:21 AM
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Don’t really want to discuss my sex life with strangers, so not answering that. And I understand that there are men who drastically struggle with dating. That being said I think it’s a combo of situations that lead to that. And I think some women do too. That’s all. I’m all about equality between the sexes and I don’t necessarily agree that one gender has it more difficult overall. All that being said I know you and many on here don’t agree with that, and that’s okay. We don’t have to agree. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:16 AM
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Fair enough. To me 6 just didn’t seem like a lot. Especially combined with being ignored for the most part by dudes growing up. But I will concede that there are people who get less than I did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:51 AM
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I mean yeah I have a current bf I’m just saying guys didn’t really pay attention to me a lot. Everything I see on here makes it seem like women get hundreds of matches, I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:37 AM
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I never really got asked out growing up and I would consider myself at least average. I did try to ask guys out and usually they were in a relationship so it didn’t go anywhere. When I tried OLD I only signed up for hinge and got about 6 matches and only 4 of them even talked to me. One of them we just didn’t click on the first date, another ghosted after awhile, one I saw a couple times and the last one is my current bf of over 2 years. He was the only guy who really ever asked me out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:32 AM
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I always went into dates expecting to go Dutch. If they paid for me for food I’d offer to pay for something else. But now my bf and I just split the bill unless one of us is treating the other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:29 PM
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I mean I can’t speak for every woman but I certainly don’t have sex everyday. Sometimes I’m not up for it and sometimes my partner isn’t up for it. It’s not the foundation of my relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:23 AM
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I mean I don’t give advice I wouldn’t take but aight. Also BC has other uses than just stopping pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:13 AM
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I’m not saying this to be antagonizing but why is getting sex such a big deal? If the right person hadn’t come along for me when they did I would’ve been happy to wait as long as I needed to until the right person came along. It just feels that a lot of the complaints on this sub boil down to lack of sex. There are other ways to have a fulfilling life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:38 AM
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I’ve seen my bf cry once or twice and it was never a problem for us. It showed he was comfortable being vulnerable with me and that he trusted me. Besides I cry way more often than he does, it wouldn’t be fair for me to be upset when he cries if he’s not when I cry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:26 PM
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Holy shit no. Just no. That is going to upset a someone way more than just seeing you cry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:25 PM
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I think you’re over exaggerating but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:01 AM
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I’m not a whole movement dude. I don’t personally know those things. I’m just saying what I said based on what I’ve personally seen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:18 PM
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I mean I’m not an entire movement so I can’t speak for it but personally I would be fine with advocating for men in those spheres.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:17 PM
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Saying they hate men is simply untrue. The origins of the word feminist is because they were fighting for women’s rights. Fighting for your own rights doesn’t mean you hate others
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:28 PM
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While I can’t explain that, and if what you’re saying is true- that is horrible. Yes they should have taken notice, but they also focus on stuff that affects men as well, such as rape. In my experience it’s usually feminists who advocate for all rape victims no matter the gender
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:17 PM
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It’s about equality for both genders. The reason why it has an emphasis on women’s issues is because for a long time women were not treated equally as men. Once those issues are cleared up it won’t have such a focus on women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:15 PM
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Okay but those people aren’t true feminists then. Just like how TERFs aren’t true feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:01 PM
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How are feminists a hate group?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:55 PM
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There is literally no amount that would make me give up my boyfriend. My relationship with him is so much more valuable to me than money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:55 AM
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My dad and stepmom were the ones who tried to push gender roles on me by making me dress differently and trying to get me to use make up. My mom on the other hand just focused on being hygienic instead. And school. She really cared about that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:32 AM
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He has a beard. Taller than me (I’m 5’2). In decent shape. Not talking high muscle definition but a little bulky. Caring. Kind. Funny. Smart. Trustworthy. Emotionally intelligent. Same values as me. Some similar hobbies or interests, doesn’t need to be all of them. Good communicator. Willing to have the relationship be a partnership, we pull equal weight. Has his shit together financially, idc how much he makes, just live within your own means. Has a college degree. Understanding of mental healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:19 AM
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Being a virign at 25 isn’t that old. I’ve come across a couple myself and I didn’t think poorly of them. I was a bit surprised as they were both good looking, but it didn’t bother me in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:15 PM
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I agree with the conclusions you came to in your post. All the people shitting on fat women in the comments below are proof of that. And all of those comments of “it’s so easy to lose weight”, there are people with medical conditions/problems that cause them to be overweight. Not every single overweight person is that way because they’re lazy or don’t have discipline. It’s frustrating to see those comments from people who don’t understand what those people go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 02:25 AM
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Simply because not every woman is like that. Sure there are gold diggers out there but not every woman is one. Believing that and saying you find women detestable as a whole is what makes you a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:25 AM
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So you’re a misogynist. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:13 AM
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You’re not an asshole for giving up a one sided friendship. People say red pillers are assholes for assuming all women are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:52 AM
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I fully agree that men and women can be good friends. One of my best friends is a guy. We talk about stuff, give advice to each other, hang out, etc. It seems like a lot of guys on here just feel that women are only there to use them- which might be true for some women, but also for some men. Friends can be shitty and use you no matter the gender. It just seems to me that men on here don’t know how to have healthy relationships in general
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:35 PM
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I’m sure we’ll both be happy as we both put in work in our relationship and genuinely care about one another. And that’s all I have left to say to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:25 AM
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Lol okay. Sure. Believe what you’d like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:30 AM
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I’m actually a woman and I wouldn’t consider myself to be living in a bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:13 AM
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You’re not living in reality my guy. It must suck having such a pessimistic view of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 04:54 PM
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So you’re saying that if you don’t follow the stupid 6-6-6 rule you will always get divorced? Divorce rates don’t take those things into consideration when they display stats
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:53 PM
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I’m right there with you. Some of the shit I read on here blows my fucking mind with how insane it is. I only come here to be exposed to different ideas and possibly debate if I get a response. Nothing is black and white. There is always nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:08 AM
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I mean first off it’s not my standard. I’m more interested in guys how they are as a person to be honest. If I were to have a son that might have difficulties dating I would tell him to focus on himself and try to develop as a person who can stand on his own. I’d also tell him to socialize. Chances are the more social you are the more opportunities you have for meeting someone. Honestly, sometimes you find the person when you just stop looking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:54 AM
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I’d like a stat for that very unbelievable statement please
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:45 AM
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It doesn’t matter what gender they are if they’re being passive aggressive clearly they’re upset about something and they should communicate it clearly to the other person. If it’s teasing instead and both do it to each other I don’t see what the problem is with name calling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:51 AM
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In my experience either they say something nice to agree with you about a guy’s attractiveness or they don’t say anything at all. So I usually wouldn’t know that they felt that way so it never mattered
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:35 AM
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I don’t think it’s weak and submissive at all. The fact that you’re willing to make such a commitment shows strong conviction. If the man I wanted to marry wanted a prenup in the case of a divorce I would be fine with that. I’m not marrying him for his money, I’m marrying him for the person he is. I feel that we should both tell each other of our plans and of the other had an objection they can voice it and we can discuss. I feel that you have a bad image of women if that’s what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:49 AM
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My current partner meets all of my criteria. Be taller than me (I’m only 5’2 so not that hard) Have your life together: job, finances etc Have some sort of hobby: gaming, cooking, reading etc Loves animals, particularly cats Same values as me: not a bigot, liberal, feminist Have a college degree Beards highly preferable Open to sharing their interests with me and taking an interest in mine We be an equal partnership, pull our own weight Want marriage Good hygiene Similar libido Supportive of me …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:12 AM
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Sounds like you just hate the idea of a legal document binding you to another person. I have no problem doing that with the person I marry because the intent is for it to be for life. If he’s worried about money I’ll sign a prenup idk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:47 AM
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You can still be intimately familiar with your partner’s body and use a toy. What if the partner has trouble orgasming in general? And a toy could help with achieving that goal that would otherwise be extremely difficult for both parties. But because you can’t give up your pride of doing it manually she just doesn’t get it at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:54 AM
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Are you serious? If they’re using the toy on her they’re being included. They are providing via the toy. You wouldn’t use a tool to make your job easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:47 AM
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I’m reading some of the answers here and I just don’t get it. Why would you not care about the other person who you’re with? You’re just enjoying only yourself without regard for another because you won’t face any consequences for being selfish? That seems shitty to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:22 AM
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Gonna have to disagree with you as a fellow woman. Like don’t get me wrong I’ll let someone know if I’m not into it or would like to do something else but I think it’s also courteous to check in with your partner. It’s a two way street imo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:36 PM
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I think most of you are wildin. Vulnerability is important in all types of relationships, friend or romantic. I feel like people who are rude or unsympathetic when people are vulnerable just don’t have the capacity (at that time or in general) to deal with someone else’s emotions on that level. But if you’re with someone who genuinely cares about you they’ll support you. Any time a guy has been vulnerable with me I felt more protective of them and I felt closer, that they felt safe enough to sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:36 AM
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You know shit is complicated for people right? Some people can’t leave as much as they’d like to for a variety of reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:38 AM
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I’m glad someone else said it. Because I completely agree with you. I have lots of guy friends who are nice and have been in/are in happy successful relationships. That’s honestly a majority of what I come across
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:19 PM
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I used to just wait and see who caught my eye. It was usually based on looks and humor. I would usually go and talk to them for a bit, try to get a bit of a read on them and if I was still interested I’d ask for their number. I only did it a couple of times but I usually got at least one date out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:36 AM
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I don’t act differently actually. I just let them know I was interested and asked for their number. Once again I think it’s awfully bold of you to claim that that is how most people are just based on your own anecdotal evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 01:45 AM
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I don’t act differently with my guy friends and girl friends. I also make a point to be honest at every opportunity, even with people I don’t know. Just because that is how you have perceived women to be doesn’t mean that that is how we are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 01:33 AM
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Personally I take a bunch of things into consideration for attractiveness. Sort of like a tally system I guess? It’s not a conscious thing but there are a bunch of variable that go into it. Also not all women are the same. We can’t be “hacked” like some game
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:42 PM
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I would need a definition of what you would consider to be a bad boy to answer accurately, but generally I would say no. I want a guy with ambition and dedication. An example of which is applying oneself in school or work. I don’t care if they smoke a little weed and drink but that’s about all I’ll put up with, mainly cuz I do those things too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:36 PM
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Then what would show how he is as a person? How does one show that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:48 PM
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I completely disagree with your entire premise in the context of all women, and most women. I think it would be more accurate to say some. There are enough women out there that don’t feel the way you describe that you can make that kind of statement. I want someone who is kind and nice to everyone. Not just because it would embarrass me if he wasn’t, but because it shows who he is as a person. That’s is what is important
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:45 PM
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Some women may be into it and some aren’t. Personally I’m not. I look at the person they are before anything else. Their personality is more important to me than whatever status they have. Don’t get me wrong I will brag about them to my friends if they achieve something but it’s because I’m proud and want to share that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:48 PM
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I think it’s also important to note that women aren’t a monolith. The ones who get annoyed could be the type that would let you know without a question that they’re interested, so to them it they assume it would be obvious that they’re not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:44 PM
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