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HenSica/r/seduction24/04/12 03:12 AM
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It’s really a solid self help book disguised as a seduction book.
/r/seduction26/08/19 03:20 PM
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It looks like magic to everybody but the magician.
/r/seduction16/08/19 09:09 PM
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Many people have tried to feel less uncomfortable in multiple aspects of dating, and many have failed. Those who have dared to be more courageous, have succeeded many times over.
/r/seduction07/08/19 05:52 PM
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Anecdotally I do not take many naps, but when I do I try to keep them short to 20-30minutes otherwise I get super groggy. There’s some research on when deep sleep and REM cycles occur in naps, but there’s so many factors to consider I rather not make generalizations. It’s really hard to say which is better since it’s so dependent on the culture you’re in. 9-5 work hours vs areas with siesta. Bars close at 2 vs night life starts at midnight. I can’t recall of any studies that directly control for…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 09:18 PM
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Redefine creepy, because it’s commonly used as a catch all umbrella term for any discomfort or awkwardness. It is not creepy to approach someone you’re attracted to and start a conversation. Nor is it creepy to express that you are sexually or romantically interested in that person. What is creepy is if you ignore communicated boundaries, whether they are implicit (turning her back, brushing you off, palm to your face), or explicit (sorry I’m not interested, please leave me alone.) If you ignore…
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:14 PM
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You’re trying to optimize for like 3% gains. Regardless of whatever action you take, it’s not a strong enough sample size to determine a pattern or determine your strengths and weaknesses. Roll a dice, pick one, take action. Make mistakes faster and more often. You’re basically on vacation, go talk to multiple girls. It’s like spending all this time trying to make a play for 2 pts in basketball, without having a strategy for the entire game. It’s already halftime, shoot your shot or don’t.
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:06 PM
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You can systematically increase the “intensity” of strangers. Make an effort to get to know friends of friends. Talk to retail or service workers, they are basically paid to be nice to you. Look strangers in the eye as you’re walking, don’t break eye contact first. Pay strangers a compliment and walk away. Pretend to be a tourist and ask local strangers the best spots in the city. Ask old people how their day is going, old people love to yap away because no one else would listen. Then finally “s…
/r/seduction04/07/19 11:06 PM
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It’s true that you can’t recover effectively from “sleep debt” but a nap mid-day because you got 6-7hrs is probably still very solid for your mind and body. Lots of countries around the world have siesta time; western countries are “unique” in that they press for continuous 9-5pm productivity. It may very well be the norm that biphasic sleep cycles are the best for our bodies, and monophasic is a new cultural pressure for us to adapt to. But sleep research is still a very new field, and its meth…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 03:29 PM
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I cannot speak for OPs intentions, but I found value in the mindset and creative thinking that he displayed. It made me wonder what opportunities are available around me and my city, that I just couldn’t see with my current perspective. Everyone around me talks about tinder/bumble/okc. Tiny percentage talk about cold approach. But this is completely different. Unfortunately we can’t just copy/paste his process, we have to do a bit of thinking/work to achieve similar results. I for one am thankfu…
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:03 PM
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Simply put, you need to come out of the (straight) closet. Anything can get you rejected, is a great action to take. Anything that you actually want to do (kissing, touching, fucking) are great actions to lead to. It’s not rocket science, your body is genetically inclined to be sexual, it’s not some philosophical idea or virtue that you have to strive and cultivate. If you want the how, look up Dicarlo Escalation ladder. But that’s not what the issue is. You have to be willing to take those risk…
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:23 PM
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I'm on day 9 now Yeah make this post at the end of your 75 day challenge. This is just motivation masturbation
/r/seduction23/04/19 10:16 PM
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Let yourself feel nervous man. It’s all part of the human experience. Dating isn’t this flawless perfectly smooth James Bond approach to the bedroom. It’s full of hiccups and mistakes and blunders, like anything in life. It’s how you choose to respond to these moments that are important. Not that you made them at all. This is some Nice Guy paradigm of wanting to appear perfect and mistake free. There’s some shame going on that for some reason if she sees you’re nervous or something, then you los…
/r/seduction27/03/19 01:54 AM
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When you go up to a girl, you are (hopefully) offering a proposal for a delightfully pleasurable experience together. When a girl says no or rejects your proposal, it’s often not saying “no” to that pleasurable good time, but no to some perceived loss that may happen. Maybe if I say yes to dinner he’s going to want me to have sex, and I feel uncomfortable saying no to the pressure of sex, so I’m just going to say no now. In sales it’s eliciting and overcoming objections. You want this deal to ha…
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:19 PM
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You can try some books from David Dieda, I've heard good things about Dear Lover which is written for a female audience
/r/seduction12/01/19 04:20 AM
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The basic gist of it is, do you want to fit in with a bunch of people? Or find a group of people where you belong. Fitting in often uses the strategy of changing yourself to meet what you think their expectations are for you. And if you meet these expectations, you will "earn" their approval. It's a poor strategy because even if you have a large social circle, you're going to feel lonely, because the YOU hasn't been expressed and instead continually altered or masked to fit in with people. Belon…
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:46 AM
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useless exercise that helps no one Hyperbole doesn't help anyone. And you wonder why "Reddit" isn't taking you seriously? Fat people definitely should exercise because it helps insulin sensitivity, PREVENTING diabetes. Bigger muscles needs extra calories to support it, raising your basic metabolic rate. It's an activity that has compounding positive effects toward weight loss. Expend calories + daily calorie maintence goes up = Larger margin to hit net caloric loss. it will make fat person more …
/r/PussyPassDenied22/11/18 12:34 AM
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Sounds like you're fusing multiple concepts together and putting a black or white spin on things. I'm hearing people can take pride over mastering a skillset, and using others to expedite that process. Game and seduction are skill sets, not metrics to measure your own self worth against. I'm hearing people can have a lack of introspection and hiding from their own personal shortcomings, and that other people can serve as a sober reality check. But all in all, measure your own criteria for succes…
/r/seduction30/10/18 01:54 AM
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Comparison is the thief of joy brotha
/r/seduction30/10/18 01:20 AM
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Ah, I misunderstood your comments then. But really the working individual should initiate, not the other way around no matter the sex I am really talking about OP's experience though and reversing the sexes. Frankly it's totally cool to ask a service worker her number, be subtle and discreet, don't take rejection personally. This is /r/seduction, where we learn how to create successful dating lives ourselves, not passively wait for others to give you their numbers.
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:28 PM
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If anything the working individual should NOT initiate. If the customer makes a complaint to management, you're at a risk for losing your job. At the very least it's unprofessional. It's a smaller risk for the customer to ask a worker out
/r/seduction16/09/18 12:10 AM
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A friend brought another perspective around learning seduction, which was increasing the efficiency in which you can express yourself as a person. Increasing the efficiency in which a person can understand and connect with you. It's also learning a lot of getting out of your own way because by nature, you are ALREADY attractive to a certain subset of women. Much like anything, you can learn bad habits that will hurt your relationships later down the road, or great habits that only compound to im…
/r/seduction11/06/18 02:48 AM
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Here's a few things I've gleaned from your perspective reading your post. •Your sense of sexual worth is defined by your (lack) of experience. "Pathetic" are your words, not that "9.5." I also have very little experience compared with guys on this sub, but I know I bring other things to the table:openness, curiosity, patience, communication, kink friendly and an eagerness to explore all the shit I've read or seen online. That comprises most of my "sexual value." •It sounds like you wanted her va…
/r/seduction18/03/18 09:56 AM
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If you haven't had success with girls, why don't you take in the input of people who are successful? Who cares what you think when there are thousands of guys who have had millions of collective hours of experience more than you. Have you even read the sidebar? Nothing resonates or clicks? No sticking points? Are you initiating conversations with girls? Escalating more than just platonic?
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:04 PM
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Whereas being in bed with another human is quite normal and shouldn't, in itself, send up any red flags or be considered a problem by anyone. What constitutes "normal" is rapidly changing. What you think is normal and what society holds as normal is also changing. Look at this whole #metoo trend coming up and you'll see similar stories of mere someone's discomfort being used in the same vein as someone actually going through harassment and coercion. This isn't some, "being in bed with another hu…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 05:44 AM
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OP are you referring to this book? I'm surprised there are barely any reviews on amazon nor goodreads. https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Guide-Psychology-Integrated-Consciousness-ebook/dp/B01KQVSLHG/ref=sr_1_2?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1506416774&sr=1-2&keywords=Man%27s+Guide+to+Psychology
/r/seduction26/09/17 09:08 AM
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Jesus christ man The problem with the internet (and this subreddit) is that people draw conclusions with little to no evidence. You don't know anything about me, or almost anyone else on this subreddit, so you have no room whatsoever to make a sweeping statement about who I am, or who anyone else is that you might lump into whatever arbitrary category you've placed me in. Hold up a mirror and realize and you did that to both these girls and this dude. Sure hes not spitting out Shakespearean poet…
/r/seduction02/11/15 04:07 AM
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It's hard enough to remember all my approaches, even harder to remember my rejections, but pretty easy to ruminate over the ones I didn't approach. Now as for the approaches I see other guys do, even my wings, I barely remember them unless it was some epic story or they remind me. Everyone is so wrapped up in their own shit and being self conscious and judging themselves, they have little energy for you.
/r/seduction24/08/15 05:59 PM
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A psychologist more like a therapist, who could help you process and see these encounters in a different perspective, one with a lot less assumptions and anxiety involved. I am not saying see a psychologist so that he can prescribe you drugs to "fix" you, but a trained therapist who can offer guidance and the meta-cognition skills to handle these type of situations (cognitive behavioral therapy/mindfulness-based stress reduction). Does your school have a wellness center? Or something along those…
/r/seduction31/07/15 06:34 AM
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A psychologist wouldn't help you with this issue with this one girl, that's correct. It's to help you build the skills and paradigms so that you can deal with the situations now and in the future. It's a massive self-investment
/r/seduction31/07/15 05:14 AM
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TLDR: You eluded to her being stupid? Sounds like you have a massive anxiety issue. So fucking what if she sits next to you in your class, you're that weird awkward kid to her. Congratulations it's a rite of passage. It's not the end of the world, you're barely even done with the tutorial, its high school ffs. Stay away from "pick up" material, go make some friends and hang out with them. Just read general self development "inner game" material. Canned lines doesn't sound like something that wou…
/r/seduction31/07/15 05:04 AM
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Yet, I am having very hard time getting a single date or getting laid. How are your interactions going? Can you identify the weaknesses in your game? Banter, rapport, getting the girl invested. It sounds like you are judging your success and progress based on external results like dates and sex, I'd suggest focusing on the internal processes and steps. Do you read a lot about game, analyze how your interactions align to the textbook material. Unfortunately, I have no friends in San Francisco to …
/r/seduction12/07/15 09:43 AM
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Improv improv improv. Anything goes really, lower the standard for the garbage that would come out of your mouth. What really overpowers talking is staying "present" or maintaining eye contact CONSTANTLY, do not break it to "think" or "remember" what to say. Because the energy and intensity of that can really trump all verbal communication and the interaction feels very connected. As for more casual conversations, I'd try free association word games when you're alone, or just retelling very mund…
/r/seduction07/07/15 08:37 AM
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It really does sound absurd until you start to really adopt the "never break eye contact first" game while you're continuing to improve upon yourself. To actively scan and force eye contact with the people you walk by, many will not return your gaze, but the ones that do, it stands out tremendously. And if you never break eye contact first, you'll inevitably find people who do it for 3-5 seconds, and it's incredibly weird. I feel like I'm some kind of creepy predator mugging her down, but almost…
/r/seduction06/07/15 04:57 AM
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How important really is communication for you in a committed relationship? It definitely seemed like a lot of misunderstandings were getting passed around, and it's good that you are setting up a phone conversation, in real life meet up would be better. But I would keep how you and her communicate through this something in your mind, is she someone right for you? Or just a gratifying companion. Both are totally okay, but it's good to not distort her different from what she really brings.
/r/seduction05/07/15 07:17 PM
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Watch some sashadaygame on YouTube, he's often running up to the sets and sometimes jumping out in surprise. It's not something I'd readily recommend but you can see the range of reactions that happen, and it's not so bad. He recovers pretty well
/r/seduction04/07/15 10:32 PM
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To add onto this this, not only read the book, but take the time to seriously dedicate yourself into doing the journals or sentence completion. You're ultimately investing in yourself
/r/seduction01/02/15 02:46 AM
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That's pretty fucking cool Where have you canoed before? Do you set up your hammock alongside your camping and fishing trips? Do you normally go alone or in small groups? What's that like to experience that kind of aloneness from both other people and modern society? Or alternatively how are the interactions with your camping friends different from within the city? Any moments where you really felt solely responsible for your own health, whether it be facing a dangerous animal or situation, or r…
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:23 AM
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You should read this post http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1vpxcb/how_i_ask_girls_out/ It absolutely addresses the wishy washy way you are asking these girls out. Even I can't tell if you want to date them or just need a friend
/r/seduction07/04/14 07:37 PM
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What was that dvd?
/r/seduction06/04/14 04:46 AM
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What's the "1 in 10 in 10 in 10" rule?
/r/seduction20/03/14 02:09 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/r381m/advice_from_an_experienced_natural_68_year_old/ This post would do way more justice than I could articulate.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:32 AM
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Her boyfriend does not own her, nor is he entitled to her. It's arrogant to assume that she isn't open to the possibility of having someone else more attuned to her needs. If you aren't that person, she would let you know. Respect girls enough to let them make their own decisions regarding who she wants to date.
/r/seduction17/09/12 03:06 AM
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Owen Cook, or Tyler Durden, founder of RSD Nation is only 5'8. He had 10+ years of going out constantly and practicing his skills to lead him to where he is today. He went from a short fat slob to a short healthy fit monster of a pua. Here's a (fairly dated) partial review of him from one of the mods here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qzr3n/my_review_of_the_simple_pickup_guys_and_tyler/
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:44 AM
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What did your wingman do exactly? And what's the point of him taking your keys? What if your interaction with the "HB9" led to her house, would your wingman just wait in your dorm room until you got home? I'm seriously not getting how that wingman was good or awesome.
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:03 AM
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Sounds a lot like RSD Tyler's idea of "intent." It's a way to be really present in the moment and out of your head. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=268fopITxKM
/r/seduction08/05/12 01:48 PM
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If you can't fix it, feature it! -Neil Strauss I personally use RSD Tyler's physical appearance from when he used to be fat, as a confidence boost for my own looks. If a short 5'8 pudgy guy with clown hair can confidently and consistently attract women, so can you. But then he did get healthier and more stylish, but he already had the skills and confidence before he went though that transformation.
/r/seduction27/04/12 08:34 AM
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The man doesn't own his girlfriend, nor is he entitled to her. It's pretty arrogant to assume that you know how their specific relationship is working out. How I see it is that you offer yourself as an alternative or a choice for her as a person to decide. She can either give up what she already has with that person, and risk it for this entirely new experience, or stick with the man that is already adequately fulfilling her needs. Sometimes you need to respect a person enough to let them make t…
/r/seduction26/04/12 07:00 AM
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http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/ The free newsletter at the middle of the page. You have to add your email to the list, and you will get the free 2 hour audio. Don't worry about spam, the emails are sent quite sporadically.
/r/seduction18/04/12 04:33 AM
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It seems like the "good" thing to do is simply do what most men men don't do to her. If a girl usually doesn't get complimented on her looks at all, you would stand out from most men by doing so, and vice versa. Problem is that you wouldn't know how most men treat her, unless you are really good at cold reading her, determining her insecurity levels, and then inferring how often she gets complimented on her looks.
/r/seduction01/04/12 08:32 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily label it as a show of "weakness." But more like putting yourself in a position that is more "vulnerable," and thus requires much more confidence to pull it off, especially towards a complete stranger. Kind of like the arms widespread "come at me bro" stance. Takes up a large amount of space, leaves you very vulnerable to attacks, but it's a very intimidating and confident posture.
/r/seduction30/03/12 12:38 AM
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Wow, I literally have this quote written on the first page of my journal, so that I can remind myself each time that the act of trying and putting in effort towards my goals is a success in its own regard.
/r/seduction17/03/12 04:50 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kth7yAtvauM David Wygant's Transformation is the one that's been on my mind lately.
/r/seduction08/03/12 08:26 AM
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Leave her better than you found her!
/r/seduction06/02/12 08:17 AM
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Could you please clarify the process a little bit further? What would I do with the word "keyboard" and link it to what? Do I just add words that are somewhat related to the previous word? What challenge are you setting up? How does this lead to a conversation, unless this is just a game? I genuinely want to know!
/r/seduction28/01/12 05:34 AM
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I totally understand what you are saying, but for me personally, I like doing these specific "high confidence" postures despite not feeling particularly confident. It kinda forces me to be more confident and relaxed, (like forcing yourself to smile while unhappy), and i notice a lot more people being more welcoming and social towards me.
/r/seduction29/10/11 01:29 AM
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Well our subconscious is able to detect these type of things, and can cause other people's perception of you to change without them even knowing.
/r/seduction28/10/11 10:16 AM
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If you don't know what to do with your hands, either hook your thumbs into your front pockets (like a cowboy) or back pockets (my preference). This keeps your hands occupied instead of moving uncomfortably at the side. I agree with everything you said, except for #2. From what I read, What Every Body is Saying-Joe Navarro, it says that thumbs in the pocket indicate low status and confidence. Showing your thumbs typically is a sign that you think highly of yourself and/or are confident. A good al…
/r/seduction28/10/11 10:10 AM
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What do you mean eye-fucking? Like they know you are that desirable and sense you are highly valued? Or giving you that glare like you are an asshole player? And that you would reject them if approached.
/r/seduction27/10/11 10:21 PM
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