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| 20 | Need some dating advice... | Henery02 | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 03:54 PM |
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| 2 | Which Christian denomination has the best looking women in your opinion??If you're going to a church because of how "hot" the women are, you have the complete wrong reasons to go to church. You sound incredibly immature. | /r/RPChristians | 13/11/25 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Which Christian denomination has the best looking women in your opinion??Depends on what you fond as attractive I guess, also LDS aren't Christian. | /r/RPChristians | 13/11/25 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Reflection on my Second LTRNo I saw that, your intentions are clear with what you want. Also, that's not maturing. She sounds mature as it is, it's you who needs to mature. You claim she'll make a good wife after only knowing her for 3 months, that's not enough time to tell at all. There's plenty of other things that show your immaturity that I have mentioned in previous comments so I'm not gona beat a dead horse. | /r/RPChristians | 13/11/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Reflection on my Second LTRIt's not hot to be provocative, it makes a girl look like she has loose morals and sleeps around, the opposite of a high quality woman. What you want is for her to dress for YOUR pleasure, so you can get turned on by looking at her, which is pretty disgusting when you think about it. You hardly even know each other, been officially dating for a very short time, and you're wanting her to do things a wife does. Your brand new girlfriend should NOT be dressing for your sexual gratification. It seem… | /r/RPChristians | 12/11/25 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Reflection on my Second LTRYouve been see8ng each other for 3 months, just started officially dating, you're FAR from wanting her to be provocative. That is for a wife and her husband, not her boyfriend. | /r/RPChristians | 12/11/25 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Reflection on my Second LTRDoesn't change the fact that you want her to be more provocative. I'll ask the question again since you didn't answer it. Do you refute anything I said? | /r/RPChristians | 11/11/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Reflection on my Second LTRExcept your post does not reflect biblical values, nor does you wanting her to be more provocative. I can make a claim of wanting to commit a sin then follow it up by saying it's within a good moral context, but the two are contradictory. | /r/RPChristians | 11/11/25 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Reflection on my Second LTRDo you refute anything I said? You're intentions seem to be very clear, you want to break down her modesty, you want her to be more provocative, you want her to turn you on. You already said you've ignored self control around women in the past, it seems to be very clear you want to get her to compromise her morals so you can sleep with her. There was nothing in your original post asking how to get to know her better, how to be someone who practices good intentions and how to be a man with biblic… | /r/RPChristians | 11/11/25 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Reflection on my Second LTRLet me first give you a definition of a predator. A predator is someone who uses manipulation, deceit, or coercion to take advantage of another person’s trust or weaknesses, often forming relationships that appear caring or supportive but are actually self-serving and harmful. A predator typically takes advantage of someone who's younger (not necessarilya child), has less experience, and they seek to corrupt them. This girl is younger than OP, is innocent as he said (she's a virgin, never dated,… | /r/RPChristians | 11/11/25 12:26 PM |
| 5 | Reflection on my Second LTRAre you? The bible instructs us to not sleep around and for women to dress modestly, you have slept around, you talk about her not turning you on, and you said you want to get her to dress provocatively. You say you're a Christian yet your actions don't reflect it. | /r/RPChristians | 11/11/25 12:05 PM |
| 19 | Reflection on my Second LTRYour goal is to get her to be more provocative? Sounds like you want to talk her into having sex and taking her virginity (assuming she is one, sounds like she is from what you say.) You sound like a predator, very immature and wanting to date her to sleep with her. Stop talking to her, let her know you have bad intentions, and fix yourself before finding someone else to "date". Fixed typos | /r/RPChristians | 10/11/25 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Need some dating advice...Thank you for your advice. It's kinda a unique situation. We have not been able to really get together because she has a compromised immune system and is having issue with her heart which are worsened by hot days, so right now is a really bad time for her to be out socializing. We have talked on the phone, and our conversation lasted almost an hour. The thing with having reservations with me joining the force, it's more of what life married to an officer would look like that is concerning her. I… | /r/RPChristians | 10/06/20 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Need some dating advice...Thank you for your reply. I'm glad you did not also jump to the conclusion that I have oneitis. We are only in the talking stage at this point. I did not mention some of the negatives because either they are not something to get worked up over or it's simply something that I can only find out the more I get to know her. When I said through God marriage would work very well, I should have said can work very well. I know simply by following God, even if you do everything right and do exactly what … | /r/RPChristians | 10/06/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Need some dating advice...New to reddit, had no clue what sidebar meant. Not sure if I know what it is now tbh | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Need some dating advice...I love meat lol. I get plenty of protein that's for sure. Can't lift atm since gyms are closed and I don't have weight lifting equipment at home, so I'm sticking with calisthenics for now and using an ultimate gym. | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Need some dating advice...It's not about who's older than who, it's about the maturity of the person, especially spiritual maturity. I know you're body is a reflection on other parts of your life, which is why I do in fact take care of my body. Lifting is not the only way to build muscle, which I'm pretty sure I have said. As I've said, I am only in the talking stage with this girl. I am not changing who I am for her, nor am I making any compromises. If she wants to continue talking, maybe go on a date or two, then cool.… | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Need some dating advice...I apologise if I'm coming across as snapping back at you, that is not my intention. That being said, nothing in my post had anything to do with, "I weigh this much will she think I'm cute". It had nothing to do with physical fitness. It was more of a, to put it simply, "how should I handle this particular situation" kind of questions. Like I said, read the original post. The part at the bottom after it says "edit" does not have anything to do with the sections above, that's why they aren't in th… | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Need some dating advice...So I click on the about, all I see are the rules and moderators | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Need some dating advice...How do I get to the sidebar? I'm using the app and I haven't found the sidebar. | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Need some dating advice...It's not like I'm not working out... I never said I had no intention of gaining more muscle mass. Btw, why did you comment, it has nothing to do with the topic of my original post. Literally the only reason why that's there is because otherwise I was violating rule 2 and this thread would be locked. Otherwise I would not have added it because it has nothing to do with the questions in my original post. | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Need some dating advice...Pretty sure I was asking relationship advice, not for a workout guide. Again, you should read my original post. The only reason the "edit" section is there is because I apparently had to add it in, or I would be violating one of the rules. | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 09:17 PM |
| -2 | Need some dating advice...I said I'm light, not non-athletic. Yeah I'm not a weight lifter, but I'm no slouch.. Also, I don't have oneitis, she's simply the only one I'm talking to right now. Yeah of course I want to see if it works out between us, from what I've learned about her and talking to her so far she's a pretty cool person. If she were to say she doesn't want anything to do with me then that would be that and I would move on, I'd be completely fine. The reason why she's the only one right now is because I wasn'… | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Need some dating advice...Sure I'm not as strong in some areas as other people might be, but to say I have no strength is a lie. I'm one of the more athletic people in my police academy, and when it comes to ground fighting I'm no slouch. Also I run and mountain bike a lot, that's the main reason why I'm so light. | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Need some dating advice...I could keep refuting or correcting what you say, but the point of my post had nothing to do with physical fitness or health. By the way, I never once asked for an easy way through this, are you sure you read my post? If you have nothing to say in relation to what my question was then why comment? | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 08:51 PM |
| -1 | Need some dating advice...Occasionally, not so much now since gyms are still closed where I live and I don't have weights at home. I do Calisthenics though | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 07:28 PM |
| -2 | Need some dating advice...Who hurt you? My ego is just fine, so what I put that in? | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 06:53 PM |
| -3 | Need some dating advice...I was talking about a post future relationship. I'm not planning on getting into a serious or even a casual dating relationship right away. The reason why I was talking about a future relationship is because, just like I wouldn't date someone I know I would not marry, I would not be talking to someone this way if I thought she would not be a good person to date and get to know better. I see how the way I worded it above was confusing. | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 04:39 PM |
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