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| 0 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistyou know what I apologize for any personal insults that isn't my intention. to be honest I don't believe people who use this "maneuver" are doing it with evil intentions. But the grey area of the whole situation lays with the idea that every women will eventually want to experience this token resistance. I get it and I have had experiences with women before where I totally understand. But I have also had experiences with women who have reacted negatively to the same situations. I tend to believe… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistdude what fucking language are you using? making it happen is what pick up is about? Dude you shouldn't be trying to get a girl to fuck you. just be your fucking self, sex isn't the most important thing in the world. I guess cause I'm older now and more "mature" but I don't understand why people treat sex like a game they have to plan and get ready for. Its just pathetic looking to have a game plan to get chicks. Whats wrong with just being your self and not trying to manipulate a situation to f… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistthere is no golden answer. there is no guide to getting laid. If two consenting adults have a relationship more then likely there isn't a need to have consent...it just happens. But when your with a girl the first time being intimate, it isn't cool to keep returning to an action she has said no to. Your assuming she said no to play hard to get but its impossible to know why she said NO unless you ask her. In that case if your to embarrassed to ask then stop trying to move further and enjoy what … | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 08:44 PM |
| -4 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistthats not what I said at all. I just disagree HEAVILY that all women say no as a form of a tease. why would anyone believe that its ok to repeatedly attempt to move further despite being rejected more than once in the same "session" | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistdid you read that article before posting it? because it makes you look like an even biger douche. We found that 39.3% of the women had engaged in token resistance at least once. Yup that deff means all chicks do it your right.... It could, however, have negative consequences, including discouraging honest communication, perpetuating restrictive gender stereotypes, and--if men learn to disregard women's refusals--increasing the incidence of rape. LOL WOW YOU FUCKING RETARD READ SHIT BEFORE YOU PO… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 07:55 PM |
| -6 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a RapistSTOP ASSUMING YOU KNOW WHAT ALL WOMEN THINK AND FEEL THIS IS YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 07:41 PM |
| -7 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistits alot better then your technique where you force the girl to say no until she stops. i rather be a fucking idiot then someone who tries to take advantage of a girl the first time im with her because some asshole online told me that girls like that. Guess what creep all women don't secretly want you to pursue them and ignore there no's. just because you aren't getting what you want doesn't mean you get to escalate the situation. Fucking idiots like you don't understand consensual sexual relati… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistuh no...i was responding to someone who stated all women like to play hard to get in the bed. what are you talking about? | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistlol wow now i know your either just trolling or really pathetic...your bragging about sex on reddit? ok cool brah....what is a sample group? your sad btw i hope you find something that makes you happy. learn to respect women. and i call ball shit your deff a virgin...only virgins will use phrases like "sample group" and "they come back for more". you look like a poser and its sad brah. stop raping chicks then get butthurt when people call you out on it. whenever a guy imagines that all women thi… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 06:40 PM |
| -5 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistwhat does that have to do with this conversation? i'm engaged if thats what your getting at. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 06:19 PM |
| 10 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistno not a lot of women expect you to push through it. thats a dangerous assumption to make that WOMEN in general want that. I never heard of that before till I came here to be honest. I would also assume there are women who are like that. But the problem is assuming ALL women like that and to apply that thinking to every situation. Thats leads to rapey situations. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 05:35 PM |
| -7 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapisti agree with you but if you then try to do the same thing later it shouldn't be a surprise for her to say no again. and when she does that should be a double confirmation. this whole system being debated here says to keep trying without asking or any communication. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 05:24 PM |
| -8 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapisttry to get her to have sex with you is the rapey part. What are you trying? It doesn't sound so consensual when you try to get her to do something two people should be doing consensually. Sex is between two people who want to have sex, not one person convincing the other to have sex at the last minute. Before you even get into a bed with a women for the first time it should be known what is going on or at least discussed. If not then you're leaving yourself open for there to be a misunderstandin… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Calling a woman a "cunt" for stealing $105,000 on a game show is misogynyI personally don't mind curse or slur words and don't get offended when called so. But I do understand why some people do get offended. I might not agree with them personally but I never would push my personal opinion on anyone else even more so when its involving slurs to a particular "group". I do think in the distant future that people will stop giving such power to words and learn to accept or deny people based off their actions and not their words. People do like to throw their hands up in … | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 04:27 PM |
| -7 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a RapistPlease don't speak for myself or any others. I do have explicit verbal consent before I embark on a intimate moment the first time with a women. It would be rude and intimidating to force my will on someone the first time waiting for them to stop me. I don't do it as much any more because I'm engaged. But if I were to meet a women and then end up in a bed with her I would not imagine thats a free pass to do whatever I want until I'm told to stop. Thats fucking retarded if you think you can touch… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistit just seems like a bunch of guys who are intimidating to have a intimate conversation with a women. in this day and age its best to talk to someone you're about to be sexual with for the first time (and there is nothing wrong with that) | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 02:22 PM |
| -14 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistwow I applaud your attempt at trying to sway the issue and bring in sharia law into the conversation. that was a good one. I think it would just be easier for all parties involving if communication took place. Is it really that scary to talk to a girl about sexual things before you do them? This isn't a task or a situation that requires guess work and innuendo. If you want to bypass intimidating conversations on intimate details then its best not to get intimate to begin with. Why would a man or… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 01:31 PM |
| -6 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistbut you don't have your hands all over the car salesman while your haggling. you certainly aren't in the middle of undressing him either. and frankly i find that comparison a little offensive. are you insisting that using this "technique" to further sexual activities is the same as haggling a car price down? because in that example both parties are trying to serve their own self interests. I think its best not to have those expectations when being intimate with another person. To pretend that in… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 01:18 PM |
| -2 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a RapistContinue to say no? How many times does one person have to hear no to get the picture? I feel like this is getting to a weird place. Feeling comfortable enough to put up restrictions while being intimate is within itself a hard place to reach with a person. It isn't always easy to tell a stranger or someone you don't know that much to get up and leave me alone. I just don't understand why anyone would think its acceptable behavior to do whatever they want and expect to stop when kicked off the b… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 01:05 PM |
| -4 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistthats great that you wouldn't stay in bed but not all women or men or as bright as you. I would assume that most women don't expect a man to keep insisting something they said no to. It can be intimidating to have to get off the bed. Its kind of creepy that the only way to get a signal to stop is if the woman jumps off the bed. Thats the rapey part of this all. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 12:50 PM |
| 12 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a Rapistlol she can say no as many times as she wants. lol wut dude? if a girl says no once just leave it alone, its mad creepy and juvenile to keep trying to put your hand down her pants if she originally said no. what do you think changes after the first no? you think you will end up changing her mind with passionate kisses? lol it might be assault if the woman was adamant about the no. no means no why would you try again later? its just creepy. i just got the total cringe factor reading your comment.… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 02:02 AM |
| -14 | Why We Should Care that Ken Hoinsky Has Been Branded a RapistMen, who are typically the initiating party in sex, lolwut? | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Calling a woman a "cunt" for stealing $105,000 on a game show is misogynywhen you call a woman a cunt it doesn't always mean she is a vile person. who are you to give meaning to every use of the word cunt as a slur? There are so many wild assumptions on /mensrights its not even funny. Just because you believe something doesn't mean the rest of the world should or does believe it the same. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 01:50 AM |
| -1 | Calling a woman a "cunt" for stealing $105,000 on a game show is misogynythe slur cunt is misogynistic. how can you pretend it isn't a common slur used at women? what universe do you exist in, i would love to visit some time. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Calling a woman a "cunt" for stealing $105,000 on a game show is misogynyi find it hard how anyone can assume the guys intent by calling her a cunt. unless he is here stating his intention then its best to just assume what he meant and not go off on a "he didn't mean that". He called her a cunt and the word cunt is used as a female slur. It is more wild of an assumption to believe her sex had no involvement in his word selection. Its asine to believe it played no part, even more so to state you know for sure his intent. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Arguing with my girlfriend about revealing clothing and rape.Is there any data/research at all that wearing "revealing" clothes increases your chances of being raped? The definition of what is "revealing" or not varies from person to person and a man who would rape a women probaly is doing more then looking for women wearing "revealing" clothes. Its misguided to tell women not to dress sexy because men will just want to rape her, its assuming that men who do rape women do it because there attracted to the victim rather then the man just wanted to overpowe… | /r/MensRights | 18/09/12 07:36 PM |
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