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Quit the vice. Stop trying to find the middle ground of "smoke a different strain" or "do it with the right people". These are just easy lies to justify something which generally does not drive you forward.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:21 PM
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Women, your need for them, and your ex are the least of your problems. Sorting yourself out is your immediate priority. Women coming in to your life are the result of a properly lived existance, you need to get that in order first. There are a lot of holidays coming up- use them to plan and organize for a better 2020. 2019 is over, its time to get out a peice of paper and begin planning and organizing a life that you would want to live. Why did you fail in 2019 and the years before? What can you…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:42 PM
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Begin to design a life that you would want to live.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:47 AM
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Read "Ippolit's Necessary Explaination" from Dostoevsky's The Idiot. It comes fairly close to providing The Purpose of life.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:41 AM
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Genuine and lasting confidence is derived from building a strong internal wellspring of control, power, discipline, and relevant skills. When you have these in order internally, external obstacles are easier to handle. Frame is never a goal in itself, but the result of improvement in other areas.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:27 AM
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You need a new place ASAP. Your living in a kettle that's boiling, and its only a matter of time before something breaks that will be difficult to fix. Other option: Next.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:18 PM
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Some guys will really thrive in bars where a big personality can expand and take charge. If your a more introverted / intellectual type, which you seem to be, then you won't do well in this kind of enviroment. For a guy like you, if I am correct, you will do much better with social circle game, and 1 on 1 dates, where acual conversation matters more. You can still be powerful in these scenarios with a sharp wit, good posture, and a lot of prolonged eye contact. Its possible to get better in thes…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:11 PM
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Not going means you're weak and can't handle being around a lot of women. ​ You should go, chat with people and with ultra subtlety flirt with her hotter friends, and enjoy talking with other women. If you can pull this off properly, and with class and maturity, it works wonders for your confidence, social skills, and value in the eyes of your partner.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:51 PM
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Time spent improving yourself is never wasted. New hobby Gym Hike Read Find new music Volunteer Go on TRP or other subreddit and post encouraging comments to people who are down and out.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:45 PM
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Sexual marketplace dynamics are are like wealth in that the market share is skewed towards the top. Essentially, average dude or below = very few dates and little interest, high value man with game = constant attention and easy dates. You have to become better if you want abundance. In this game, average = below average. It'll take a few years to get where you want to be. Keep that in mind, and keep going.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:41 PM
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Everything is in continual oscillation, this includes moods. Take advantage of your down days to be critical of your more grandiose plans. Its normal and a part of life, try to leverage it.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:40 PM
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Get your head straight man. This is totally unacceptable. This guy is talking to your girl about sex parties and “exploring her sexuality” and you didn’t do anything? Where are your boundaries? If you rolled up to a girl and talked about the same subject matter would you or would you not be trying to sleep with her? Obvious answer... and your GF knows it too. Unless your GF is radically unintelligent she knows this guy is trying to make plays and she’s entertaining it. Loyal, quality women don’t…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:43 PM
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I would respectfully disagree. Society has completely abdicated its responsibility to pass on masculinity to the next generation. Young men have no guidance. TRP is attempting to remedy this terrible situation. Fixing problems with women is the first step of TRP. However, if we collectively agree that this aim is all we represent then we are no different than a glorified PUA forum. I think TRP can and is becoming more then that.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 01:49 AM
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Read my post on journaling in the main TRP subreddit, it may help you. A few words of advice: Ditch toxic people immediately, they bring you down and allow you to rationalize bad habits and dysfunctional patterns of behavior. From where you are starting it will take a long time to see substantial changes. Understand this, and always keep it in mind when you feel stagnation. Build your ambition by continuous improvement. Look back on where you started to see how far you've come. Because you can l…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:31 PM
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It takes time for worthy investments to pay off. Drugs and clubbing are easy. Study, gym, and improvement are hard. Because your young you can’t see how much your paths will eventually diverge. After 5 years you will look back and see them leading pathetic lives of quiet desperation and hedonistic indulgence. Wasted time, wasted health, wasted money, wasted potential. No man ever bettered himself by picking up the habits of losers. Try to increase your social circle and build networks with matur…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:33 AM
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The quotes/principles section is small because it’s for the information of the utmost quality. I have gone through entire books and not found one quote or principle that was worth adding to the quotes/principles section. Not that these were bad books, just that they didn’t have those gems of information. It’s totally fine to record decent quality quotes in the main body of your journal. I do this often. If one of my entries only takes up half a page then it’s totally fine to just leave a space a…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 06:30 PM
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Do you know anyone who ever went to a theme park and rode the carousel alone?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:22 AM
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Thanks a ton! I really appreciate it. More posts on nihilism, meaning, and psychology to come.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 08:18 AM
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In my experience the internet (for its size) contains a very small amount of actual personal development content. Most material is devoted to easily digestible concepts and getting rich. You have to search a long time to find anything decent or worth noting. Because of this, books are ususally the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 07:05 PM
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Finding your mission is difficult and takes time. Yes this method helped me greatly in finding my mission. In fact, I would say it was the only reason I found it. Keep in mind your career and your mission can be different. It is totally acceptible to work a decent job to pay the bills and work on your mission on the side. Example: Work a decent marketing job while completing your first album in your spare time.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 07:08 PM
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I always recommend going the with the physical route. The reason is that you will get a more focused period of relfection when you have no other option but to reflect. Also this method will help you retain information because you write it and don't type it. Try heading over to Amazon and buy a cheap hardcover notebook. Try writing for a month. If you hate it, maybe typing is the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 04:03 PM
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A few times a week right now. The longest I go without writing is usually about a week.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 03:59 PM
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That looks suitable, good suggestion. My very first journal was a 5$ notebook. Now I buy them off Etsy because I like the leather and hardcover type books. You really only need something that is of sufficient quality to last approximately 2 years. A nice one will encourage you to write in it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 03:59 PM
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Journaling is a skill, like any other, that you can develop mastery in, but it will take trial and error, years of practice and focused effort. Completely agree, comparing my earliest journals to now shows a huge increase in quality.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 03:49 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 03:46 PM
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From a purely stats point of view I agree excel is the way to go. If your journal consists of a ton of lifting stats/dietary macros/milage tracking paper would get tedious. Where I think the physical way comes in is that it allows you to have a deeper level of focus because there is no nagging temptation to do other things. It’s just you, your mind, a pen, and a book. In addition to this studies have shown that physical writing helps with retention.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 05:53 AM
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A few things: Understand that self-hate is recursive. You look in the mirror at someone you consider a fraud who also hates themselves and you hate them. Improve and develop to where you look in the mirror and you see a man you respect. How does respect work? You respect people who are moral, productive, disciplined, skilled, confident, and contribute to society. See yourself practice these qualities and when you look in the mirror you can have self-respect because you see yourself act them out.…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:38 AM
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Lets put her mental rationalizations into plain language and see if it makes sense. "I will become close friends with the women my exboyfriend who dumped me is now fucking. I will do this simply because she is a nice person and I have no other ulterior motives." If that quotation seems reasonable to you then you have nothing to worry about. If not, you better watch yourself.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:05 AM
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Toxic person. If is difficult to stop envy from destroying friendships. As you rise higher he may grow to despise you. In addition to that it sounds like he adds no value to your life- another reason to cut him off. "Smoke weed and listen to sad music." Words never spoken by any man who made something of his life. My advice: Buy Robert Greene's book Laws of Human Nature and read the section on envy. If he oscillates between hostility and being nice to you then there is little doubt that he shoul…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:01 AM
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Always just keep the conversation on them. Boo the villains, cheer the heros. Say little of yourself and only give them small, interesting, and easy to understand peices of philosophy or anything intellectual. Most women don't care for intellectual type conversations. If you want that go to talk to men or find the few women who are interested.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 11:53 PM
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Don’t go nuclear. If you spurn her she will use her influence to evict you or cause trouble. Roll up with awful breath or just be boring and play the fool. Avoid unnecessary contact. Glad that for once I didn’t have to read a post on asktrp asking if it was ok to smash your landlords wife.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:19 PM
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Journal your greatest failings and review then yearly.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:15 PM
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Buying drugs to alleviate your happiness will only build the pattern you explicitly said you were trying to destroy. If your first thought is “Something bad happened, what cheap dopamine can I get so I don’t have to cope?” Your practicing dysfunctional behaviour patterns and solidifying them. Man up, be stoic, and counteract this pattern by accelerating your development in other ways. While others get depressed and turn to drugs when fortune slaps them you become even more motivated to succeed.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:11 PM
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No contact. Block her on all forms of communication. If you have her shit give it to one of her friends or drop it off at her place. No contact is critical. Do not engage. Don't talk to your brother about this. All he needs to know is that you broke up. He doesn't need to know anything more than that.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:01 PM
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If your seriously struggling mentally you need a mental health professional, we arent qualified nor do we have the physical resources to solve those problems. Here's some advice: When you are in an a LTR you are repeatedly dousing your brain in chemicals. These chemicals are more structurally similar to street drugs then they are similar to sugar. Its dopamine from sex and other intimate interactions and oxytocin from more cuddling-like behaviors. You grow "addicted" to these chemicals over time…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:56 PM
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Organic broccoli with hummus is my favourite, organic spinach is good too. Rice is essentially nutritionally dead, sub out some rice for broccoli and hummus or spinach salad. If nothing else see a doctor, could be something else going on.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:39 PM
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Your attempting to hamster away radically unacceptable behaviour. That’s why most people only needed 5 paragraphs to say “next” while you wrote 10. If she’s flirty with your own brother after a few drinks imagine what she’s going to be like with a better looking man when she’s drunk. Actions not words. Untrustworthy, disrespectful, duplicitous, manipulative, gaslighted you, next.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:36 PM
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Your diet is suboptimal, add dark leafy greens, fermented foods for digestion, add in healthy cholesterol from organic eggs, radically reduce sugar and absolutely no seed oils. Do not microwave food in plastic containers. Do not drink IPA beer. Heavy compound lifting and competitive sports. Proper sleep. Good luck.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:20 PM
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Good advice from mrmaldoror. I would like to add that keeping a journal is an excellent way of tracking progress. Also, if you do it long enough you can detect patterns in your behavior that would otherwise go unnoticed. This allows you to improve in a much deeper way.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:03 AM
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AWALT applies to female psychology and behavioral patterns. AWALT doesn't entail that all women have slept with 20+ men. Quality women with low numbers exist. It takes judgement, time, and experience to detect them. There is always purpose in life. Right now you seem confused and far too focused on women. First: Focus on yourself. Control your thoughts and emotions. Lift and be healthy. Study TRP and once you've mastered the principles study other subjects like psychology. Second: Over a period …
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:59 AM
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Ie Deans List Award for 85% average or “The Bob Smith Award for demonstrating leadership” there are a lot of different awards for stuff like this.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 11:46 PM
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A bunch of tips: Buy a large white board that covers the span of one month. Every month, write down all assignments and their due dates. This will save you a fuck ton of stress and keep you organized. Erase and repeat every month. Make sure you get the dates right when you write them down. Work out as much as you can. In 1st year everyone is just out of highschool and most are skinny. If your jacked you will stand out and be high value. Join clubs. Increadible social circle game and a lot of fun…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 11:28 PM
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If your struggling mentally, and in a serious way, you need more help then we can give you here. A few things: "I opened up to her and showed my demons and ended up super super depressed and not leaving bed for days at a time." Women despise weakness universally. Women want a man who can destroy his own demons and the demons of others. Its tough, its sad, its the truth. With women you must carry the burden alone. Sometimes they can be there for you and help, but as a pretty hard and fast rule: D…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 11:19 PM
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You need to refine your social skills. And yes. Stay away at all costs. You don't fuck crazy for a few of the following reasons: False rape charge False allegations of misconduct against you "Accidental" pregnancy Telling her friends you are abusive Causing her mental state to worsen, leading to further destruction of her life and others. When you have sex with a women you are giving her some power over you. BP women will wield this power in ways normal humans don't consider. Stay away.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:49 PM
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Sometimes giving a phone call is best because you can: Show confidence cause most men are too pussy to actually call a female. Sort out everything right then and there. Save time and effort, if she gives you an excuse or flakes move on. No way to misinterpret that. ​ Texting only for logistics is generally a good rule of thumb. Only betas are willing to put in the time and effort to send blocks of texts to a girl who they can't sleep with and is not their gf. If you have wit using it in texting …
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:44 PM
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One of the most critical peices of advice I can give you that took me many years to learn is as follows: Drugs offer only false enlightenment. We confound the feeling of emotional renewal and novelty with the aquisition of genuine knowledge. Real understanding is gained only through rational observation, study, and time. There is no shortcuts. Many will disagree.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:43 AM
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Spend the first half of your life aquiring knowledge, experience, wealth and understanding. Spend the second half giving everything you aquired in the first half away.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:38 AM
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Life can be as boring or interesting as you want it to be. Boredom is often reflection of your inner state. Not of life itself. Life is deep, complex, and fascinating. Cultivate a holistic sense of worldy interest in your mind. Be interested in life and in people to make life more interesting. Desire to know, develop, understand, and grow.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:30 AM
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Everyone struggles. The RP is like any other skill, it takes years. No one ever ran a 10 second 100m sprint without years of hard training. No one ever came to enlightenment by reading a couple good books in one year. Keep going, keep developing. You can increase your SMV far more then you think. Lift, style, intelligence, hobbies. Eat well and take care of your skin. Get nice haircuts. If you got that many dates and closed a few you are miles ahead of most. Look back and see how far you’ve come…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:06 AM
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It will take different people a different amount of time to get a deep answer to this question. Some people are born with a natural ability to know their mission. Some people find it in adolescence. Some people are taken by the currents of society and culture and never find it and remain unhappy and unfulfilled. Depending on your condition it can take anywhere from a month of solid reflection to four years of extensive self-analysis. It’s a harsh truth that some people don’t want to accept. Self…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:57 AM
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Don’t think in dichotomies. Life is more complicated then whore/Madonna and cuck/chad. All of these archetypes exist, but most exist between the two poles. Hone judgement and experience to detect and plate quality women. Hone judgement and experience to detect and invest in good male friendships. Happiness is like any other subject. Gather experience, study eminent men who have written on the subject, and cultivate psychological health and maturity. You will get there.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:40 AM
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Skill and mastery of most subjects/activities is usually considered cool. Amazing athletes, skilled musicians, socially adept and charismatic people, geniuses, high-achievers ect. Mix these traits to increase value. Ie athlete and good student who can play the piano. Cool people are nearly always charismatic and enjoyable to spend time with. They add value to the group. What value to the group do you bring? And how much?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 10:19 PM
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Understand that exits are more important then entrances. If you make moves on this girl your friend will despise you. Especially if he is really into her. Don't underestimate how often seemingly disparate paths cross.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 09:21 PM
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Go do a difficult and challenging hike. Sit on the highest peak you can find and reflect alone. Consider the following passage as you do so. "If you have ever come on a dense wood of ancient trees that have risen to an exceptional height, shutting out all sight of the sky with one thick screen of branches upon another, the loftiness of the forest, the seclusion of the spot, your sense of the wonder at finding so deep and unbroken a gloom out of doors, will persuade you of the presence of a deity…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 08:47 PM
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You can be the President of the United States and still be beta (quite obviously this does not apply to the current president). Being beta with women is interesting from a psychological standpoint as it is relatively independent from other factors. There are some skinny muscian-types who eminate power and show alpha behavior. There are some 250lb football players who are betas. Being alpha with other men is a good indication of possible alpha behavior with women, but its not the case that the fo…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 08:33 PM
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Will power is like a muscle, it will take years to hone and build. Discipline yourself in all areas of your life. Cleaning, work, school, gym, mental patterns, emotions, should all be disciplined. If your sloppy in one area it will spread. Regularly listen to motivational audiobooks to help keep you focused. Keep a journal to track when you fail and why. Understand the patterns. Don't spend/minimize time with weak, unmotivated, undisciplined people. Understand the antecedent triggers that cause …
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:13 PM
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Work the best job you can find. Most universities have subsidized jobs that pay well. Try to find these. At ~18.5USD/hr for 10hrs a week part-time you'll make ~5,800$ in one year. That will cover a lot of expenses.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:07 PM
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Behold, the story of Alfred de Marigny. International playboy, self-made business man, aristocrat, and international yacht champion. As close as you can get to the real life "world's most interesting man". Here's his autobiography: The book
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:00 PM
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I would say no. "What gets you in the beginning, gets you in the end." You are beginning this relationship with the intention of ending it. Why commit and limit freedom and options when you can not commit, keep freedom, and still get the same benefits? You put yourself at risk when you half commit to these things. You'll catch feelings, have your lives and social circles become intertwined, and spend money and time on her. Then, when your lack of fundamental interest in her comes back to haunt y…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 03:40 PM
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She invited you over. It's only a small IOI. She almost certainly invited a lot of other guys as well. "I asked for some suggestions of what’s good in her area." Lack of leadership. Ladies want to be taken on a date by a competent man. They don't want to have to do the planning, thinking, logistics, ect. You defaulted to going to her. If you are higher value then her she should be coming to you. Because you failed due to 1-3 she now attempts to plate you/evade. Move on, maybe consider putting in…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 03:30 PM
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Classical shit test. Example of a good reply: “Set me up with your hottest friend and let her tell you.” Look up sidebar material on shit tests.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:48 AM
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In general: Don’t shit where you eat. If there is any risk at all of this going side ways and messing up your employment or business for your company don’t do it. Otherwise, green light.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:46 AM
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Without a fully equipped gym or advanced calisthenics (rings, pull up bars, ect.) you simply wont progress to the level you want. Either make it a priority to find a gym or invest in your own equipment. Dumbbells are quite expensive. If you have straight up no other options get a pull up bar and two heavy dumbbells are probably the best investment
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:42 AM
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Because we discuss and analyze the most base instincts of women here its easy to get the impression that "they will cheat on you the second they can, looks are essentially all that matters" ect. This is not the case. Understand what is lurking below the surface but also know that some/a few women are capable of restraint and faithfulness. Be careful that when you are considering these matters you don't fall into the trap of black/white dichotomies. Ie. "All women are sluts" "Only Chad gets women…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 10:40 PM
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I specifically used the qualifier "some" before "some people do not want to be cured of their depression" to show that this is not an absolute claim. Certainly not saying you are toxic. I'm trying to make you aware that there exists a dynamic in human psychology such that people will signal how down and out they are to gain attention and sympathy from you. Its a power move.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 10:32 PM
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Hold frame, give no indication that they are correct. It's just another basic shit test. ​ Also: For men and women with keen judgement smoking is a red flag trait. It demonstrates that: You are financially irresponsible You don't care about your health You have a misguided sense of what is cool If you smoke weed all the time this does not show that you are cool or creative. It shows you can't cope with your baseline psychological state, indicitive of psychological weakness. ​ Yes, smoking gives …
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:54 PM
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Classical rule of social relations and personal development: Avoid the down and out like the plague. Never underestimate the effects that depressed, unambitious, bored people have on your mind. They are worse then poison. At least with poison you become ill and realize the toxicity. Be aware that some people do not want to be cured of their depression, for some highly toxic people this is their mechanism for gaining attention and power over others. My advice: Cut them out slowly, then completely…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:47 PM
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Understand that the journey that you are on is measured not in days, weeks, or months. It is measured in years. You are changing aspects of your psychology, beliefs about yourself, and attitude that are so deep inside your mind that you cannot consciously perceive them. It takes time, reflecton, journaling, study, self-awareness, and ambition to change. ​ A few pieces of advice: Excercising at home is not enough unless you have an extensive home gym. To get a serious uptick in female attention y…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:36 PM
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Time spent in study is rarely time wasted- if you study excellent material that is. A good general system is to spend the weekend and daytime for the aquisition of experiential knowledge and the nightime and Sunday is for study and reading. If your young keep in mind the compound interest effect that knowledge will have.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:53 AM
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Most of what your experiencing is the classic dynamic of men giving eachother shit to test resilience, emotional stability, and signal that your good friends. Another aspect is that you were once like them. Now you look better. This makes them feel bad because now they have even less excuses to make for their mediocre bodies. Another aspect is that humans have a stange tendency to feel attraction/repulsion to objects of desire. They want the physique (attraction) but they are irritated by it bec…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:46 AM
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I wholeheartedly disagree. TRP goes far beyond "becoming alpha" or banging a lot of "hot thotty thots". It's about eliminating dysfunctional patterns and beliefs screw men's lives up in a major way. It's about bringing what you believe line with what reality actually is. If this seems extreme or dramatic go read some "Blue Pill Example" posts over at the main TRP subreddit. You will see some utterly ruined men. Men who are more experienced and wiser then us gave us knowledge for free because the…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:01 AM
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There feelings are normal. However, simply because they are normal does not mean they aren't toxic. You are focusing far to much on your friend then yourself. Follow the advice others have written. Lift Cultivate skills: Woodworking, shooting, piano, debate, stand-up, art, painting, philosophy. Work and further your career. Read more sidebar material. Buy a notebook and take notes. Summarize and condense fundamental principles. Envy will ruin the health of a human mind. Better to learn from him …
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:50 AM
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Read the biographies of great men. Marcus Aurelius - Meditations, or Seneca - Letters from a Stoic are good places to start for literature.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:42 AM
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There is a difference between the smooth wit and class of Cary Grant and the buffonery displayed by many young men today. Women will laugh at both, but only one signals value. Anyone can act like an idiot, make crude jokes, and draw attention. Very few can be witty and charming. ​
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:37 AM
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New account. Been around philosophy and RP for awhile. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:49 AM
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Feelings of emptiness and lack of deep satisfaction. Cognitive dissonance caused by knowing I am overall quite successful but still lacking that more fundamental contentment. Did extensive study of psychology and journaled for 4 years. Saw that part of what was going on is that I was playing a role and maintaining a front to acquire social affirmation. You need to see the mask to take it off. Very happy now, and psychologically resilient. I know myself and my path better. I don’t need social aff…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:52 PM
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Understand narcissism and all its manifestations. I am much like you. This was my affliction. Found it, healed it, better now. Read all you can by Sam Vaknin.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:21 PM
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Your problems are much bigger then "getting her back". You need to read the sidebar material, as well as the material on the main TRP subreddit. Click "Open New Tab" on all of them and spend 3 hours minimum reading. ​
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:34 PM
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One of the things philosophers have always felt was special about humans was the will. It is strange to consider that a mere human will, something immaterial and seemingly vague is the force that builds countries, or launches a rocket into space, or changes the world for the better. Inside you there is a will. It is no different from the will of great men, except that right now it is broken, weak, and sickly. It is time that you stop neglecting what is uniquely endowed to humans and use your gre…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:10 PM
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Women live in the eternal present of their emotional state. It's like the weather. It's possible they just were not feeling like it. "Not feeling like it" is a totally reasonable and justified cause to blow you off as they see it. Search up the post on "Beta Bait" Women are willing to invest time to aquire orbiters
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:24 PM
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In Logic: Women want to date a man whom they consider to be of either equal or higher value to them. A pedestal is a piece of furniture used to elevate an object of value beyond its natural height. If you pedestalize a woman you elevate her. Hence, if she is of relatively equal or greater value to you she is now above you. Hence, she will not want you, because from her view on the pedestal you are below her. ​ In Aphorism: Pedestalizing women puts you below them.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:19 PM
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Yes. Part of becoming a man is becoming independent. It will force you to learn new skills.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:11 PM
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You need far more help, development, study, and practice then we can give you here in the comment section. Redskeller and FereallyRed touched on good points. There as so many mistakes, lapses in judgement, and huge red flags that this woman gave you that are all discussed in RP material. I'm not trying to disuade your development, I just want you to know that there are answers. Example: She tried to end things. Failed to end it. Suddenly things ok. Then "she was going to start going out to bars …
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:05 PM
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A few things: Listen to what some of the other people have said. Not to rag on you, but from a RP perspective you make some substantial errors. Sometimes our lives go off the rails. We get fucked up. Shit falls apart. Understand that what you are going through is a process that is going to take a lot of time to remedy- think in terms of years. When a train derails the clean up takes awhile. In time, after lessons are learned, the train start running again and we are back heading towards our dest…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:35 PM
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I have known objectively unattractive men who get women because they have smooth game, big confidence, skill, and social prestige. You can become more. Do not base your value on the affections of women. Understand that it takes years and most people give up because if they don't get immediate results. An Aside Regarding Incel Ideology: From a psychological standpoint, incel ideaology is an example of what is called "Splitting". It is a dysfunctional, literally juvenile form of psychology that in…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:17 PM
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When something happens that hits an emotional trigger its like getting hit by a big wave. Imagine someone getting in your face and insulting you. Boom. Heartrate up, adrenaline, muscle tension, thoughts fly. Most people get swept away by the wave until its energy disapates and they become rational again. Some people like to ride the wave because it makes life interesting for them. Some people are always in the water and have no capacity to reason on solid land. ​ Control is taking a step back an…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:05 PM
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Big second for The Way of Men by Jack Donovan. Great overview.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:54 PM
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One aspect of what might be occuring: Jordan Peterson is deeply influenced by the Russian philosopher and novelist Fyodor Dostoyevsky. One of the biggest ideas Dostoyevsky tried to convey his whole life is the idea that we can instill goodness in others and spead benificence throughout the world. It all starts with yourself. Become a good man. Then spread this goodness to other men and women. They will spead the kindness you showed them to others and the world will improve. It is a truly beautif…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:23 AM
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If you're surrounded by women you are in an extremely difficult spot. I know this sounds extreme but sometimes leaving a mentally punishing job is worth it in the long run. Don't underestimate how this bullshit can set you back from progressing. Distance, maturity, stoicism, Machiavellianism can help you.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:04 AM
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Next. The medium is the message. If she wanted you she would make it happen. Women will not risk ambiguity if they really want a man.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:58 AM
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Not to be rude or disrespect you but you post reads mildly of a man who has discovered the dynamite power of RP principles and is stuggling to wield it. A few things: Don't complement her on looks. This requires little effort on her part and happens so often it has lost its meaning long ago. You lump yourself in with lower value men when you do so. Save complements for stuff that genuinely impresses you. It excites her when you roast her because it shows you don't care if you upset her and demon…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:55 AM
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Remember your 5 "Ps" Prior Preparation Prevents a Poor Performance. Don't get sucked into a nightmare date with an unattractive woman. Look at the pictures then detract 1 or 2 points for a realistic measure.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:42 AM
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One possible strategy of many: Treat them as children. When they act like children look upon them as children. Act as an adult who looks upon children who misbehave with very mild scorn and soft pity. Cultivate the attitude toward them that patrons at a restaurant would towards the children of a table next to them who are misbehaving. Do not acknowlege them. Do not give a hint that they bother you. Be better at your job in every way than they are. Understand that in a given environment hierarchi…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:28 AM
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Understand that spending a significant amount of time with a woman intimately is a form of conditioning. It will alter your base state of mind. Your brain comes to be addicted to the oxytocin gained from cuddling/intimacy/post-sex in addition to the hits of dopamine. Once this source is withdrawn your brain will essentially go "WTF!" and pester you about what the withdrawal is about. This is normal. It takes around 1-2 years or longer to rid yourself of these thoughts based on my experience. Be …
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:15 AM
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Practice emotional control in all situations. If you become angry because you lost in a videogame or depressed due to misfortune you are only practicing allowing your emotions to control you. With regard to your depression it can be due to a huge variety of factors. Here's some advice: Maintain good testosterone levels: Vitamin D, Zinc, lift heavy, good sleep, eat clean, not excessive alcohol intake, competitive sports. Diet: Low sugar, low white carbs, organic, dark leafy greens, no vegetable o…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:59 AM
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Yes that would be a good way of putting it. Sociological in that it deals in generalities regarding the human mind. Psychological in that the generalities apply to the individual.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:44 AM
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Many despise Freud because he takes a deeply pessimistic view of human nature. Academics don't want to acknowledge possibility of evil within the human mind. In Civilization and its Discontents Freud discusses his views on human nature, he doesn't get into his psychoanalytic theory much. He argues for the following: Man is happiest when he can satisfy his deepest instincts and drives. Man's deepest instincts and drives are violent, domineering, and destructive. Society functions as a system to s…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:45 AM
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Basic guidelines (in my experience): You should have a physique that is noticible from anyone looking at you. If someone sees you from 10m away they should know immediately that you lift fairly seriously. You want to look healthy, like you can lift, run, and fight. Not juiced, with dirty skin, and out of breath. Too big and you look roided and gross. A bit of a stomach is not a huge deal- at minimum try to aim for flat/moderate abs Broad chest, strong biceps and forearms, and an overall bodily s…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:48 PM
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A few basic Red Pill principles: Women want dominant men. Conditioning and feminism says women want an equal partner. This is demonstrably false. Women want a leader. Because women want a leader they look for the cues of a leader. The boss at work simply says: "The meeting will start at 2pm." The boss does not ask around with everyone what works with their schedule. If you can't make the meeting the meeting will start without you. The boss isn't dependent on you to do things. Women like to be to…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:34 PM
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Benjamin Franklin: The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin – The life and times of one of America’s greatest men. Politician, inventor, philosopher, and keen observer of human nature. * Niccolo Machiavelli: The Prince: “There are three classes of minds: one which understands by itself, another which appreciates what others understood, and a third which neither understands by itself nor through the explanation of others. The first is the most excellent, the second is good, and the third is useless…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:20 PM
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Keep working at the plates. Keep lifing, learning, and refining yourself. The harsh truth that puts off most men is that this is a process of years. You are trying to change some of the deepest aspects of yourself. You are trying to change psychological conditioning that started before you could even form complex thoughts. Catching feelings for green flag girls immediately is a by-product of LTR as goal mentality. Date them, have fun, find what makes you like them, but control yourself. Monk mod…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:15 PM
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Ensure that your physiological state is correct. This means: No porn destroying normal sex drive and dopamine funciton No constant jacking off destroying your drive Proper sleep Proper testosterone levels from Vitamin D, Zinc, and Lifting If you've got all these squared away then turn to the psychological. ​ Psychology: Make it a fundamental principle to pounce and maximize all opportunities. This applies to women as well as life. Get in the habit. Small leads turn into massive wins. The girl wh…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:06 PM
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When you have many plates you will feel little irritation when one drops. Analyze why you failed. Figure out the deepest cause. Move on. Take comfort in your ability to reflect, learn, and improve.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:59 PM
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Good analysis, especially "destroy and retroactively criticize". I have hope that times are changing to buck this trend.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 06:53 PM
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In my analysis: You asked her out indirectly which indicates a lack of confidence on your part. This was likely a contributing factor to her avoidance. She is a single mom with 2 kids, avoid at all costs for anything serious. There are other options orders of magnitude better. Therefore, your only rational options are: hook-up or social circle game. If you have nothing better going on then go to the party and network with others/check out the situaiton. If its a relaxed type of night the chances…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:50 PM
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Production is absolutely key to genuine and lasting positive self-perception. There is a subtle, yet interesting difference in the psychological states between cheap validation (buying a nice watch) and production (building a nice watch). In my experience the former is fleeting and often tinged with the knowledge that it won't last, the latter is the only thing that truely satisfies.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 05:56 PM
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