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| 3 | CMV: Starting out as platonic friends is a good strategy for a romantic relationshipLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.Deflection is the favored argument method in this entire sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For MenYep, gotta get her drunk so she can’t take any personal responsibility right chads!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 03:26 PM |
| – | I think that, talking in simple terms, most of the dating problems can be explained by: men tend to want women more than women want men, and men are also on average hornier.Yes, so why go for an ‘equitable’ sensible male partner as a woman when you can leverage the obscene competition and desperation of the market to hold out for a beast of burden that does everything for you and even takes responsibility so you don’t have to. The ‘ReAl MeN’ that the woman claims to want for their cOnFIdEnCe and AsSeRtIvNeSs is really just someone to do literally everything they want and prioritizes and prizes the woman in the relationship and does everything possible for their sak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Male value must not be measured in womenGotta get the bit h | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Male value must not be measured in womenGotta get the bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Women basically dominate the male sex.Who is “you” in this case?? Are you mentally well? I still don’t understand for the fucking life of me how modern men are somehow connected to metaphysically with the men of countless past civilizations AND their actions. And so you’re holding ME RESPONSIBLE for the rapes and murders and stupidity of the past before I was born???? I don’t fucking get it AT ALL. Life has always been dogshit. I didn’t make those stupid rules up and I have no intention following bullshit traditions and notions that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | If you are a late bloomer / socially stunted, you may never fully catch upyou people are full of dogshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuseShit all I need access to is a suicide pod when the time is right. Yep, perfection right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Dating/relationship education should be mandatoryI agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Dating/relationship education should be mandatoryI’m defending your post. I think there’s improvements that can be made everywhere and most people will shoot it down with illogical rationalizations to defend the status quo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Dating/relationship education should be mandatoryMost brain dead comments I've ever seen on Reddit WOW. All of them summarized: "Nu uh, it won't work because people are different and to stupid to be edumucated..." 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:43 PM |
| – | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingYou can’t use logic to convince the majority of women but you can ABSOLUTELY use emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:29 PM |
| 6 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.Most women have mediocre ‘social skills’, men cannot be solely responsible for relationships. And no one is taught anything properly in formal education. Now we’re all debating what to do properly on the internet. There should be a step by step breakdown of how to interact in the dating scene for men and women. Simple. I wonder why there still isn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | To improve society, we must focus on helping both genders instead of hating one.Christ. And who’s the holdup then?? I’ll wait…. ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.That’s extremely vague and generalized. And the reason I asked for CONCISE. This is essentially the problem we’re dealing with. Without actually being taught, men who want to interact as a human must magically align to some perfect representation of a huge amount of behavioral variables. I think we all know being respectful and courteous (like how men want to be treated) to women does not work lol. The reason human brains are so big is to deal with all this social loopdey doop crap. The real ans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.Define social skills concisely and precisely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?Humans are shit. Debate(s) solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenAs a man in our world, your sole priority is to get the bitch. Mold your entire existence off of it just like some blue bird building a nest 90% of its free time. Most people lie and fake cOnFiDeNcE, doesn’t matter as long as you manipulate her emotions with the proper precision she desires at the particular moment. Although men take all their cues from women on behavior that is tolerated/works defacto, they must do so in reverse while trying to lead and progress every interaction/relationship i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Life isn’t worth it. Not when you’re born with these freaks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 5 | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementWomen are COMPLETELY OBLIVIOUS to how much men do for them so yes its a rather disgusting statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 03:04 PM |
| 8 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themNo shit. They want every advantage and to take advantage of men’s enforced desperation in EVERY opportunity, and will lie about it and gaslight anyone stupid enough to believe them that they’re honorable people that are worth making your single highest priority to meet their laundry list of demands, while never prioritizing yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickFacts, this is a solid argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is...The fact is some young and ______ 20 y/o woman have no qualms or problem getting with an established 30-50 y/o male. There’s no real advantage in men doing the opposite seeing as the financial and experience difference in the age gap serves women and not men. As far as looks go, if you take care of yourself you can look decent to good in old age regardless of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment?Isn’t open relationship really just code for watch the man get cucked many times over while twiddling his thumbs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | What does "insecure" even means?The culture is just too shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Prostitution won’t work (change my mind)Society doesn’t give a shit about the individual, especially not men. It’s about control and money that’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 06:04 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.Literally all that’s done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 08:32 PM |
| – | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Listening to entitled bitchy women like you keeps men from approaching. No matter how urgent the sex drive shit is. What's depressing is how much women can turn men off despite the MASSIVE BUILT-IN IMPULSE that would otherwise make women irresistible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.And you go to a whore house to hire a prostitute. No shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 02:31 AM |
| 1 | How come it is almost never considered that a guy can develop feelings for a woman he is friends with and that he just became friends to get into her pants?There’s never nuance in the debates. Nice/considerate people who also happen to be men are actually just devious self interested lusting apes like everyone else apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 03:47 PM |
| 2 | “genuinely kind guy” is a rebrand of the “nice guy”You don’t know what you’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Why is confidence such an aphrodisiac?It's the lazy man(woman's) preselection metric. All the work in getting to know someone condensed down into an easily fakeable metric that had more proportional value when we were a primitive society(s). It's got very little to do with an honest outlook on this rocky parasite filled planet. Maybe that's why women like it so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Serious question for the ladys: Do you find this kind of man attractiv?It's funny because men will make things work in many different scenarios ways if they have to. Women are the impossible negotiators who want literally everything and make more scenarios like this not the norm. It will never be a norm that women accept. To them, you not working and them working will make most of them resentful. Funny too how this is literally just the reverse of what all of feminism complained about, but now it's men doing the domestic stuff (and not asking for a 50 50 house chor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Serious question for the ladys: Do you find this kind of man attractiv?IF theses women say they'd want someone like this then it's readily available to them, they just can't comprehend that. They'd be living a life analogous to the one OP posted about if they desired to. They're women in 21st century they have their pick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault?There’s this idea that you’re supposed to just cycle through people more or less permanently. That’s pointless and inefficient in the end, but people don’t want to actually hold themselves to a standard for deciding who’s lives they wanna mess up by fucking with them. The roads are more organized than how we organize dating. Just be superficial and sell yourself over and over again with some naive expectation sky daddy will give you everything or some shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Debating women's preferences won't lead to women changing themOnly morons. These gas lighting straw man posts that assume people make some of the stupidest assumptions are as obnoxious as op claims other posts are. As if talking about war in the world is expected to change it… gtfo op | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Debate: free romantic love has failedThe 'better off single thing' is so laughable. It means society HAS FAILED, and better off single is NO DIFFERENT than choosing extinction. Which is fine for me honestly, but it's the death of the human project be honest and stop acting like it's some transcendent state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.I won't gaslight you into thinking you SHOULD prefer something either way. You do you I'm just speaking honestly, my sex drive has caused me 1,000x more pain than it will ever cause me pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:33 PM |
| 6 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.There should be a pill for that. It would be really nice to not have to be bothered by the insufferable need that forces men to interact with women. Honestly, it would be really really nice to turn that shit off like a switch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 02:48 PM |
| – | How is it not better to be toxic?You have to be handsome, Charismatic, Witty, interesting, Godly in bed, + effortlessly Romantic, Thoughtful, Kind/Supportive, Emotionally intelligent, and extremely cOnFiDeNt AND do not forget you have the onus of leading every relationship building step/task from inception to execution and the smallest mistake(s) can give females the dreaded 'ick'. Instantly ending anything you could have been building towards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?The hoards of sexually starved men (scabs) undermine any attempt at coordinated line towing. That and the social pressure to prove you’re better than others through access to snatch also plays in. Life’s about being better than other people, not doing the right thing. Made quite evident by the behavior of all the participants in this zoo called civilization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | What is an unpopular dating opinion you have about your gender?Fool me once type-a shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:46 AM |
| 13 | Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing?So it’s easy as long as you have limitless talent, opportunities, and resources as you’ve described? Correct, that major caveat willing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beStop straw manning. Jesus christ these types | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | You need three things for a successful dating cycle. I think this is a universal law that's true for everyoneBoozehounds. Don’t know why op didn’t premise this wall of text is only for men. It always is. Rule #16,893 if you want to merely exist as a male presumably interested in modern women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys/gals don’t finish last people with unhealthy dating patterns do.Gotta get the bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 06:29 PM |
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