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sphere spaces as they tend to exacerbate these feelings. what exacerbates my feelings is being lonely and people like you who dont care. your resources dont help and it's a cop out to wipe your hands and feel like you did right and nothing else matters. you're just as guilty as everyone else and you will reap what you have sown.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:34 AM
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yes, anything to rationalise what you already believe. bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:29 AM
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I just think you might not get much sympathy for feeling lonely if you don't even care about people dying. you literally just repeat the chicken and egg. PEOPLE DID NOT HAVE ANY SYMPATHY BEFORE I DIDNT CARE. You have no fucking conscience. And as I said, the feeling lonely will LEAD TO MY DEATH. None of you give a single shit about me dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:29 AM
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my lived experience and until you people recognize that the problem will just keep growing. enjoy reaping what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:25 AM
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you say that, but your actions are to the contrary. same as nearly all the other normies. It's as good as not intervening to help someone (the point of the OP)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:25 AM
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I don't know how you expect others to care about your complaints if you would just let someone die. it's always mixing up the chicken and egg with you fucking people. I used to be the kind of guy who would intervene to help and still got no love. You would be just as angry and depressed if you did things right and still got nothing, but you're married at 22 so stfu and recognize your own privilege instead of gloating at lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:21 AM
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chicken and egg. I used to be the guy who would risk myself and intervene, now Im depressed and no one cares if I die. you only get love if you look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:20 AM
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This is such a fucking cop out. The male loneliness epidemic has been around long enough that society should know AND be SUBSTANTIALLY acting to end it. But no one gives a fuck and no one will notice when Im lying dead so fuck you all, get mugged and burned. Do none of you have a conscience for fellow human being like me getting hurt? FUCK NO. No one fucking cares and I have sop much proof of that in lived experience. When people come to help lonely men then I'll think different. But you are ano…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:17 AM
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but don't come back complaining about not being seen as a potential candidate for the other sex. classic chicken and egg mixup, common of bloops
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:14 AM
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we arent the ones who started it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:14 AM
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but some people care. no they dont. they want incels to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:11 AM
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yup, when young men have an issue evryone is Thatcher/Reagan: "no one is owed anything, pull yourself up by the bootstraps". Not the case otherwise...and they wonder why we are angry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:10 AM
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don't know how you could just walk past in that situation. because that person should know that there is a male loneliness epidemic going on (either wilfully ignorant or knows but doesnt care) and that means they dont want to lift a finger to stop me from offing myself, so no I won't help people who don't care if Im depressed and want to die aren't psychopaths have this thing called a conscience that tells them it's wrong to be complicit in someone getting hurt. society is full of psychopaths th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:07 AM
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odds are that person doesnt care if I kms, seeing how society as a whole has responded to the male loneliness epidemic. so no I wont help because every jack and jill doesnt care if I literally off myself before 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:05 AM
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but at the same time it is not a sign of healthy society. neither is so few young men getting romantic partners, but women here dont give a single shit about lonely suicidal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:03 AM
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I’d think you’re a pos if you don’t call 911 and report someone being beat up or mugged though And I think women are POS for only letting chads feel romantic love. too bad so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:00 AM
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"just dont be yourself, this is a cookie cutter world" "pull yourself up by the bootstraps" bye
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:00 PM
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Yes. Meek men are hated (especially by bluepillers) but meek women are loved, it's BS
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:30 AM
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You know that you can be likeable as a shy and introverted man, right? I have a wide social circle, hasn't helped with dating and what women want ROMANTICALLY (rather than platonically) I never said it was breaking news? just that a cookie cutter world is bullshit and deserves to burn. bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:00 PM
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it's as good a talk as you deserve with that ridiculous position. What a cookie cutter world you people want to live in where every man who is meek must change or be left to die alone. Imagine expecting everyone to min-max through life like we should treat humans as if they're playing some hardcore RPG. Soul crushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:49 PM
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You can work on your social skills without necessarily betraying your personality and values. Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:40 PM
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The person you would be if reached your potential while staying true to yourself blue and red pillers always say this and then push things that betray the true self. "Just be charistmatic bro". "pull yourself up by the bootstraps bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:13 PM
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most people openly admit to having no success with dating. all the bluepillers talk about is how successful they are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:16 PM
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Yeah I guess it's better than nothing...better than suicide which seems to be the only option left
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:12 PM
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I don't do that so no clue what you're on about. I want romance but being ugly + shy is a death sentence (for men, not women)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:23 PM
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This thread is a perfect illustration of why THE ONLY RECOURSE IS REVENGE.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:08 PM
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Most attention women get is from men seeking holes. because women make it so that men have to approach and be charismatic instead of giving awkward and shy guys chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:02 PM
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This is it. You can't pay to be truly desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:59 PM
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And those single women are still experiencing situationships and other encounters of the like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:59 PM
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Men want women to pick them. And is that so wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:58 PM
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not if they too unattractive physically, then yeah there is nothing they can do, although they could make themselves more attractive it wouldn't be enough. suicide fuel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:05 PM
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women live on easy mode and also you're higher than 2
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:47 PM
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hahahaa crazy you guys make this the only outcome and then even still you want control so you make threats. bye
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:31 PM
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It's not a victory, but this is why I always say the only recourse is revenge. ugly men should focus on starting forest fires and poisoning waterways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:41 PM
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Blackpill is undefeated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:39 PM
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If you can't get your foot in the door, nothing else matters. Blackpill is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:14 PM
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“Looks and charisma” is for getting your foot in the door. I think women largely become attracted to a guy based on if she can stereotype things about his appearance to assume that he may be “her usual type.” the blackpill is real and society must reap what is has sown
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:41 PM
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I am very fit I've been going to the gym 4-5 times a week for years. Nothing makes up for an ugly face with gen z women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:23 PM
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I have many female (and male) friends, it's never helped even when they've tried to wingman. If you have an ugly face and are not "charismatic", it does not matter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:04 PM
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You still have to be good looking for it to work. My female friends have tried for me but still nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:02 PM
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suicide fuel
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:18 PM
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I cook and clean. In a relationship I would do all the cooking and half the cleaning. I have a good job. Women pick based on looks and "charisma", not lightening burdens. I see chads picked who don't cook or clean. The disparity in household labour is a direct result of women being shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:42 AM
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How about if being in a relationship eased burdens instead of increasing them? I cook and clean. In a relationship I would do all the cooking and half the cleaning. I have a good job. Women pick based on looks and "charisma", not lightening burdens. I see chads picked who don't cook or clean
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:41 AM
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I respond earnestly and then you'll ban me, funny trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:49 PM
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Not all of us are shallow, speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:10 PM
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Women are attracted to confidence and someone who has a high degree of social ability. Combine that with some degree of physical attractivness and you can sleep with basically any woman in your area. I know it's irrelevant but I'll always highlight where I can - none of these have anything to do with morality. Society will reap what it sows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:01 PM
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Why don't women ever try to extend the olive branch the other way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:12 PM
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Shy women do fine in dating. Shy shouldn't shy guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:42 PM
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anything to deflect from women being shallow chad lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:30 PM
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You arent at 15 percent. you don't even know me, wtf is this? My face isn't fat, the bone structure is just ugly. Bye dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:22 AM
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I've been going to the gym 5 times a week for 3 years and I'm very fit, and currently 15% bodyfat but it's been a bulky month. Doesn't fix my face. Your "pull yourself up by the bootstraps" garbage doesn't work for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:13 AM
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that is shallow yes. that's why I believe in friends to lovers and asking out people you know beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:12 AM
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that's literally the textbook definition of shallow? You can think it's fine to be shallow, but you can't argue it's very definition
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:06 AM
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and I have trouble believing I am a rare exception in this regard. for gen z women what you described is almost never the case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:04 AM
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they are older than gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:51 AM
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Be someone who is attractive enough to get to the door this is a very high bar for gen z women and many of us are excluded by our genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:50 AM
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And you people have to remember that when you're batting .000 it's impossible to continue to feel good about yourself and your situation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:48 AM
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which is why society will reap what it has sown
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:25 AM
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in other words, nothing to do with morality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:16 PM
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Do you have friends? Do you have family? yes and yes What is the collective here? I am confused on what you think should be the solution? society generally. the solution is for women my age to stop being shallow and stop picking based on looks and "charisma"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:11 PM
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No one is doing loneliness to you. wrong assumption, when people don't choose you as a collective that's forcing romantic loneliness on you A girlfriend will not fix suicidal ideation. wrong assumption, it did last time You aren’t suffering because someone did a loneliness to you. wrong and deflective victim blaming There is no inherit power structure that says that you can’t get a girlfriend at all, or that you can only reach a specific threshold of happiness. no but it is effectively true beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:05 PM
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I've never felt academia is worth much because how easy it was for me to succeed in it. I have naturally exceptional writing skills and I can just read something a couple times to remember them, and I am just naturally really good at note taking from lectures. So I graduated with honours and never really put in any work. I used to write my assignments the day they were due, not edit, and get sick marks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:54 AM
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yet your tone and emoji suggest vitriol at men who don't succeed romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:47 AM
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yeah, suicidal ideation as a result of loneliness and being romantically unwanted isn't suffering...okay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:46 AM
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I get your frustrstion. nope I'm just saying there are other things that can be done. not to any effect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:07 PM
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It will literally do nothing in pushing towards a change that will increase empathizing with men's issues. There will never be empathising with men's loneliness regardless of what I do or don't do. All my observation, online and in person, has shown me this. Everyone will always hate us. The best we ever get is "pull yourself up by the bootstraps", which is useless. The worst is people wishing we off ourselves, which I've already heard today on here. Nothing will get better and no one will reach…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:40 PM
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firstly, that's hilarious how blue pillers always claim moral superiority and then you tell me to kms. But yes, it's no great loss if a guy like my offs himself right? and then you wonder why we are so resentful... It's revenge. I suffer every day, since all of you refuse to empathise than it is only fair that you suffer the same. No, it does not serve a purpose to make me more likely to succeed in dating, but nothing will fix that as I've learned. Making friends and touching grass hasn't fixed …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:26 PM
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In my experience, men who are able to form and maintain friendships with women are often the ones who do best romantically not always true. I have a wide mixed gender friend group and some close friends are women, still an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:14 PM
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wallowing in defeat because you're too afraid to seek revenge yourself, okay. This is why things don't get better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:46 AM
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Yes, most men need to realise that the only recourse left is revenge, and start lighting forest fires and dumping certain chemicals in lakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:42 AM
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Those are the men women choose to date yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:31 AM
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They will deny anything that suggests pre-determination in dating. Gotta stick to that just world fallacy i wish I could verbalize this: if women are attracted to you they will just tell you they're attracted to you. attractive men dont have to try ANYTHING in life all of us who have gone out with chad friends know how true this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:30 AM
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it will get much worse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:43 PM
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Tinder is basically down to who advertises themselves well real life gen z women pick the same in person. the young men who succeed are the best salesmen, not the best people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:36 PM
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I wonder why they feel that way? women (our own age) make us feel this way. and I say that as someone who has approached and did have a gf for 2 years while in uni
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:33 PM
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slightly, not close to anything conclusive. and even then I keep an open mind to get to know them more. I figure that, since I always meet friends of friends, that my judgment should be withheld until after getting to know the other person well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:58 AM
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people can do what they want, seems like most here have already made up their minds. as an ugly and shier, more awkward guy it is definitely suicide fuel that people are so ready to dismiss others with "bad covers"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:54 AM
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"it's good to exclude books with bad covers" is my summary of most comments
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:51 AM
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this thread is all suicide fuel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:35 AM
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haha bs chicken and egg here. I became the way I am because of people like you, not in reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:28 AM
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her comments are always in bad faith, and she accuses men of pushing the limits when she spouts as much vitriol if not more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:58 PM
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Get in shape done Go back to school or take a course. I have a degree and a good job and I do ongoing professional development Go outside and touch grass. do this pretty often, I have many platonic friends of both genders No one needs to be a Chad to find a girlfriend. not true anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:44 PM
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anyone who has been to college in gen z will disagree. maybe this held true for previous generations of women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:16 AM
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But don’t lash out at those who do. you don't get to mock us for being lonely and then live repercussion free. we all reap what we sow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:15 AM
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I think shallowness of modern relationships that you're worried about comes not from feminism or sexual revolution. But it is enabled by feminism, and society not being willing to tell young women to stop being shallow pickers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:14 AM
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I want women to not be shallow in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:54 AM
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Should be frustrated at yourselves for screening based on shallow traits above all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:11 PM
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lift is far harsher when he isnt speaking to women and blue pill men...like much much harsher and categorical about "you get what you deserve" and if you don't do as he says then you deserve to be alone. what you are saying just isn't my experience, I wish you could empathise with that but oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:59 PM
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I said people like you, referencing the "(blue)" , although I will be fair and say that you specifically show more compassion than other women and bluepillers and the dudes like liftandlurk towards lonely men, although you still do a fair bit of victim blaming / "pull yourself up by the bootstraps" I'm also not going to go through every ppd comment I've ever received since this hasn't been my only account so it wouldn't be as simple as going through the inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:38 PM
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lmao, chicken and egg. long before I ever acted like this I was almost always rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:21 PM
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Women could pick dudes and literally any trait they select for would be criticized here by unwell men huge lie. pick based on virtues instead of looks, "confidence" and "charisma' and there wouldn't be criticism. but continue to excuse your shallowness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:15 PM
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all it did was make me angrier when the guy said some "pull yourself up by the bootstraps" thatcher-esque shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:11 PM
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women pick based on looks and these meaningless traits like "confidence" and "charisma" and then wonder why there are so many single moms...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:00 PM
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I get your point but it's easy to say if you aren't struggling and sad about it and told you deserve all the misery you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:12 PM
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Young men aren't told that "they deserve to die alone", but they are told to improve themselves if they struggle with getting dates. I've been told that 100s of times by people like you actually and the popular guys here like lift n lurk. why do you think guys like me get so resentful? I've been told I deserve to die alone. And I do have a social circle btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:58 PM
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holy mother of gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:57 PM
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I've been told it 100s of times on this subreddit as well as dating and dating_advice and lots of the popular guys here like lift n lurk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:55 PM
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i honestly have never heard anyone, male or female, say that anyone is entitled to love or a relationship. I've been told it many times by bluepillers and people like you, this is obvious gaslighting. And yes I'm talking about romantic love specifically. yeah thats incredibly rude and whoever said that is shitty Pretty sure you've said it to guys like me many a time but okay. I couldn't tell you the amount of times I've heard it. Maybe now you'll understand why guys like me are now so resentful.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:48 PM
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Women get the advice, but they are not told that they deserve to die alone if they don't follow it. Meanwhile young men are constantly told we deserve to die alone if we don't do all the self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:39 PM
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And yet young women are still not told that they deserve to be alone if they don't do those things. Young men are told they deserve to die alone unless they live perfectly and do all the self improvement, and in some instances fundamentally change who they are. Shy and awkward and ugly women still find love. Gen z men with those traits are told that they deserve to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:38 PM
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The government coffers are made up of Bob down the street's tax contributions This is why collectivist politics will die, especially policies to address climate change like the carbon tax in Canada which will be scrapped after the next election. Can't get buy in for collectivism from people who are ostracized by the collective, which is most gen z men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:34 PM
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The only thing people are entitled to is basic decency clearly this doesn't apply to ugly young men, so no, no one is owed that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:33 PM
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A moral man would've not made half the comments you were posting, intention matters just as much as action.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:24 PM
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I'm not sure why this woman would've been better off marry someone she wasn't attracted to in the first place? If you are shallow then you deserve the disrespect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:23 PM
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I got platonic relationships but nothing more. Only chads get more for our generation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:50 PM
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You screen for proper traits. It isn't hard to see who the actual moral men are when you take off the chad blinders. Lots of the "meek" men are very good people and it wouldn't be hard to find out if you looked past the superficial standards you lot have. "social skills" (I use quotes because lots of men who succeed with platonic relationships are not included in having social skills as far as romantic interactions go) and "charisma" say nothing about morality. And often the men who are very cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:40 PM
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Husband material is a (huge) compliment coming from women who go for husband material FROM THE GET-GO. There can be no greater compliment for a man in my opinion coming from women who sought situationships with chad first, of course it's an insult Most gen z women are the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:37 PM
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this thing specifically? she can't know of course since he's hiding it, but that's a misleading question women should be screening for morality instead of looks and "charisma". so much of what young women now screen for is men who have "social skills" which are essentially not tied to morality in any way and often are disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:35 PM
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i don't understand why men hate being called husband material? nobody hates that we hate that women, who supposedly "value commitment", don't go for husband material men from the get-go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:30 PM
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It's crazy guys like u/zairnotfair get gfs when they can't even be truly loyal in their hearts while so many good men are alone women don't picked based on morals
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:29 PM
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"act like a fake sociopath / inauthentic to yourself if you want love, ortherwise you deserve to die alone" charisma doesn't even say anything about moral character and the ability to be a good husband and father
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:27 PM
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True to an extent but Rome did not fall from environmental destruction. Things always stay the same...until they change. Patterns can be broken
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:15 PM
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Any society you find now, young women are chad chasers. even where passport bros go. the world deserves to burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:14 PM
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You aren't one of the ones who is really hated if you don't want society to fall
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:55 PM
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If those are your answers than you are already in the privileged class of men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:54 PM
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War used to come with certainty, or near certainty, that there would be a wife and a home at the other end so if you lived you could start a family. No longer. So why fight for this society that hates us gen z men? Instead young men should focus on increasing their GHG emissions and voting in ways that further destabilise society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:47 PM
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OP, be ready for a whole bunch of Thatchers and Reagans in the comments. "Pull yourself up by the bootstraps!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:52 PM
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yes like how everyone has the choice to "pull themselves up by the bootstraps", okay Thatcher/Reagan.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:12 PM
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proof that the only recourse is revenge. you women are the textbook definition of shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:11 AM
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When we give up it isn't on your terms, that's the thing you people don't understand about giving up...you no longer hold any control over us as society abandoned us. Enjoy reaping what you've sown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:10 AM
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That being said: when I hear women say the bar is in hell they aren’t talking about looks. They definitely aren’t talking about money. They are talking about behavior. They’re talking about partnership. They’re talking about doing the dishes and child rearing. They’re talking about showing love. And yet they exclude young men like me who would do all the cooking and half the cleaning and want to show earnest love, because of lacking looks and "charisma"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:05 AM
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a minority can still do much damage. forests are awfully flammable this time of year in the northern hemisphere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:32 PM
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Everything can be controlled. Women just draw the line where it is convenient for them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:43 PM
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Shallow doesn't mean looks don't matter. actually that is what it means, you just edit the definition because people like you want to deny that you're shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:16 PM
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It is homophobic to suggest that sexuality is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:12 PM
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It doesn't love you neither do women? I don't believe in using a sex bot, would be a pain in the ass to clean, but you people act like it's young men's first choice. Absolutely not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:10 PM
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same, a couple years younger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:07 PM
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No, we are not okay with total lack of romantic love*, and it's frustrating to an insane degree. The society that made us will devoid of romantic love (for being not good looking and shy/awkward) will reap what it has sown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:07 PM
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at this point I'm rooting for chad to effectively dismantle the entire thing yeah this'll never happen. The only recourse is revenge. I would recommend looking into how vulnerable ecosystems are, especially forests being vulnerable to fires and rivers being vulnerable to toxins you can buy without any special licenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:30 AM
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Yeah. Society has bluepilled men into thinking attraction doesn't matter, that being attractive as a man doesn't matter. They know, they just want to subdue blackpillers and put all the just world fallacy blame on us for failing with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:24 AM
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Nope, men are perfectly capable of pair bonding and being widely in love with their looksmatch. You just project chad's behaviour onto all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:53 PM
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treat your acne not always possible. i've tried it all including several trips to the doc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:18 AM
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Yes. I'm sick of going to bed every night and hoping that I don't wake up because I know I'll never fulfill my dream of being a committed husband and father
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:16 AM
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Thank you for articulating my thoughts perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:15 AM
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I have got fit, tried everything for skincare. taken the dressing and grooming advice. still not good looking enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:45 PM
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there is no way to cope with it, I've found distractions with literature, music, gaming, cooking and the gym but it's all fleeting. they put us in a situation that cannot be coped with and then say that we are evil if we don't just take it lying down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:41 PM
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exactly. this is why the only recourse is revenge. they will always draw the line where it kills us and saves them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:31 PM
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someone who gets it. too bad most don't. they will reap what they have sown
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:31 PM
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They need to find purpose outside of women. not possible for some of us. the only recourse is revenge and/or suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:29 PM
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then the advice given is entirely worthless. not just useless, but unbelievably infuriating. this is a huge source of anger and bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:22 PM
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I would prefer the former, but if sex free also means no biological kids then I think I might just be alone. My dream was always to be a husband AND father, not just one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:20 PM
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harsh response to Bonehead's Bank Holiday. Some of Noel's most underrated writing...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:07 PM
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me singing Bonehead's Bank Holiday at the top of my lungs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:02 PM
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Either they choose to make it fairer (which is what men and women should do, aim to not be shallow) or I use my autonomy to express my emotions. No one owes anyone anything and autonomy goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:51 PM
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Because not everyone will be partnered and realistically there is no other advice to give other than go kill yourself. And i will not encourage suicide. revenge is the only recourse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:51 AM
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yup, they all turn into Thatcher and Reagan when it comes to dating ("pull yourself up by the bootstraps"). no one is surprised that lots of people wished for Thatcher's death...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:41 AM
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this is true. "life's not fair!" why don't we strive to make it fairer? looks and charisma say little about true character
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:40 AM
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If you are not getting the women you want, you have to: Lower or change your standards in which women you want; or Move to another location where you might be more attractive to women you want; or Change yourself to be more attractive to what the women you want WANT. or get revenge, which based on your list is the only viable recourse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:39 AM
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Also, meeting people through mutual friends or shared activities is a lot easier than both cold approaching and online dating. if you aren't good looking and charismatic, all this does is bring more platonic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:59 PM
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