HerbSchmeckman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	What if the man I'm searching for simply doesn't exist? Relationships are a negotiation that requires willingness and flexibility. Hopefully the person you marry w will check all your boxes. But probably not. As long as s/he checks boxes like _ navigates disagreement without disrespect, _ shares their emotions including vulnerable ones and takes an interest in yours, _ has the adulting habits that predict a healthy and prosperous life and avoids aaalll the bad habits that don't, and _ puts no one, often not even himself, before you. You can partner h…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/26 10:57 PM
1	AMA I’m a SAHM married to provider that’s makes 1.8 million That sounds like a GREAT plan!!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/26 01:40 AM
1	AMA I’m a SAHM married to provider that’s makes 1.8 million As your kids get older and they need you less, cultuvate something meaningful for yourself that makes you feel consistently productive, getting more involved in charity work, going back to school ... Something you can build an identity around, because "Mr. Money's Wife" isn't gonna cut it.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/26 01:54 PM
1	AMA I’m a SAHM married to provider that’s makes 1.8 million Well 11 years will fly by, believe me. I'm a psychotherapist and the empty nest identity crisis is real for SAH parents.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/26 04:49 AM
2	AMA I’m a SAHM married to provider that’s makes 1.8 million Did you have a career before you married him? What are your plans for when your nest in empty?	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/26 09:21 PM
1	Guys I date don’t compliment my physical appearance Why do you play along with guys that neg you? You sound beautiful enough to have plenty of options and you don't need to put with that bullshit!	/r/RedPillWomen	11/03/24 06:45 PM
7	How to become a better homemaker? Sounds like your kids would benefit from learning to entertain themselves (without screens obviously).	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/24 12:01 PM
0	Ladies, in your opinion is it better to work or be a stay at home wife? Imo is better to develop a good career and work. Otherwise you run the risk of feeling trapped if the relationship goes south. Because you kind are.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/08/23 03:44 AM
1	What are your easiest "hacks" for appearing feminine on the daily? Gel manicures and pedicures. Totally worth the money.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/22 09:42 PM
19	What is the female equivalent of height on a guy? 56F here. Yes, age, but also body shape. After about age 30, the two are correlated. Women start gaining visceral (torso) fat and that just accelerates with time. But if they keep their weight down and stay active, they can (usually) retain a youthful body shape that men still find attractive. Source: men I've dated, my age and younger, who've appreciated this about me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 07:51 PM
10	How do you know someone is right for you? Well they have to be your favorite person in the world. If not, move on. They also have to not engage in any of Gottman's Four Horsemen when there's conflict.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/22 11:39 PM
2	Q4W what do you think of the argument that the sexual revolution has failed? I wouldn't say that. I'm about to give it 5 minutes on double speed and if I'm hooked it's only another 30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 04:55 AM
9	What is the best seduction and relationship advice you have ever received? If someone likes you you'll know it. If you feel confused, they don't really like you, no matter what they say.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/21 03:35 AM
4	How much does your SO being "objectively" attractive matter to you? Apparently they think people should think your partner is hot. Maybe you're invested in that too, which is fine if you are. But as I see it, the only person who matters when it comes to opinions about your partner's hotness is you.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/07/21 04:51 PM
8	How much does your SO being "objectively" attractive matter to you? Wow. Maybe consider finding more mature friends? That's not okay!	/r/RedPillWomen	16/07/21 05:04 AM
4	Woman leaves relationship because she "wanted to explore herself" AKA hop on Chad's pipe. but regrets it after 6 months of "exploration" So you've ghosted your kids too?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	18/10/20 08:48 PM
1	Vetting for emotional intimacy/depth? I think a good definition of emotional intimacy is a mutual interest in what it's like to be each other and willingness to share what it's like to be us. (A lot of men aren't good at either of those things and that may be one reason 70% of divorces are initiated by women.) Good luck.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/20 06:06 AM
0	Women think there above people because of there looks Wow.	/r/MGTOW	29/12/19 06:24 AM
2	Older 50+Ms find me(22F) attractive but not men my own age. WHY? Girl, I know! In my teens I had a poster of Ted Turner in my room. And now in my 50's I find men in their 20's attractive. Go figure.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/19 08:55 AM
5	I've seen many ways to indicate the Men's and Women's toilet but this one left me speechless! OP's obviously male.	/r/MGTOW	27/06/18 06:19 AM