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That's all pretty believable yeah. Note that the men in these cases are in the position that normally the woman would be in lol. The only surefire way of getting just sex and nothing more would be for these girls to pay for sex. It's like we've always said, you're not paying for the sex, you're paying for them to leave But again, I think anyone trying to have emotionless sex is not being realistic. Not with what they expect from other people, and not being realistic with themselves either If the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:49 PM
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Right, but all this info comes from your female friends that were involved in this situation, right? So who is to say they're telling the whole truth? They wanted the women to be emotionally invested enough to care about them, validate them and offer companionship etc You expect me to believe the men wanted these things and the women didn't? Does anyone want to have sex without these things? Yeah, they mighta said they did, but people say shit and don't know what they're talking about all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:56 AM
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Sure if I sat down with a pen and paper like a fuckin sweat then yeah I can probably figure it out. Kinda a thing most people keep track of, I think. If you really need to then yeah, use the pen and paper and figure it out. Then here's the trick: next time you have sex with someone new, you take the old number and add 1 to it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:51 AM
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It's not hot to you. I don't want you. Yeah.. let's get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:56 AM
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Uhh, it's way crazier to "lose count." You mean to tell me you don't remember the names of everyone you've slept with? THAT is crazy.. Or at least some quality of the person. Or where it happened, or when, or.. fucking something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:48 AM
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This is actually something that I value in a woman (or anyone). To me, it is a sign of maturity, honesty, and willingness to open up about themselves. It's also a sign that she isn't ashamed about sex, herself, her past, etc.. If a girl straight up refuses to talk about her past, sexual and/or otherwise, then I don't think I would date her I might be sounding crazy to a lot of people but hear me out, would ya? Which part is really bothering you? The fact that she is talking to you about her past…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:40 AM
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now I would expect any lady who needs an abortion to choose herself over keeping the baby, but that's just me. Well fuckin' A right they should. That's not a baby to me, but whatever, don't need to invite that whole shitshow of an argument lol I did kinda say that self-preservation wasn't what we were talking about though I was thinking more the kind of selfish where only the woman's opinion matters in the relationship, she doesn't really care what her dude thinks/wants/likes, you know what I me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:15 AM
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There I worked last half of junior year and also happened to switch seats next to my soon to be coworker and eventually first love. I felt a love for and from someone I’d never felt. At this point I already felt the confidence boost, increasing my social and life skills, maturity and motivation. To really be the best person I could for her So what happened with her? Where is she now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:02 AM
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Guys are driven by a biological urge to have sex Can someone describe this to me? I honestly don't think I ever experienced this in my life. I'm almost positive it's just total bullshit but hopefully someone can convince me otherwise Sex does however provide guys with extremely important life skills, social skills, maturity and self confidence Definitely not true lol Not only that, it helps guys interact better with half the population (women). Probably one of the least true statements I've ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:50 AM
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But how do you know if he was selfish or not since the Bible depiction of him wasn’t real. I don't care, he's just as real as Yoda to me. In the Bible, Jesus wasn't selfish, and he taught that we shouldn't be selfish either, for good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:20 AM
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but yeah some people are less selfish than others but that doesn't mean no one would choose what's best for themselves. I think we're all very aware that some people will choose that, yes. You really shouldn't choose what's best for yourself if it's at the cost of someone else, you know? jesus (if a real person) is closer to what i'd describe as a martyr - someone who WANTS to sacrifice themselves No, not WANTS to. A martyr is someone who stands up for something knowing that it'll most likely, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:15 AM
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So? That doesn't mean he was wrong. Should I quote Yoda instead? Plus I think it's pretty accepted that Jesus was real, right? Not the son of God or anything but he existed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:00 AM
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newsflash: everyone is selfish - it's built into our DNA Honestly, that's the first time I've heard this argument. Hmm, Jesus wasn't selfish though.. I'm not sure which part of our "DNA" you're talking about, but if you're referring to self-preservation then yeah I mean.. that doesn't really apply, does it? Basically, Jesus wasn't selfish, and Jesus said not to be selfish, sooo? I don't think most men have selfish motives when looking for a committed relationship with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:49 AM
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Where do I meet these women? They aren't hanging out in bars or going to a lot of parties. The problem with OLD is that women get buried in matches, and they would have to dig me out of the other 50 guys who have vaguely the right profile. College? Forget it, "everyone" goes to college, now, so it doesn't mean anything, and I'm not impressed by the level of education you get out of it, anymore. Work? I'm an industrial engineer and jack-of-all-trades troubleshooter for manufacturing; there are al…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:29 AM
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For instance I like punk / emo / etc type women but it would kill my career to be seen with one in my professional circles. Oh give me a break.. What professional circle are you a part of? I have to know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:12 AM
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In 1985, psychologist Dean Keith Simonton studied the connection between IQ and persuasiveness in leadership. [3] He discovered that professional relationships work best when two people share a "window" of 15 IQ points. He called this window the Window of Comprehension. Communication with people outside of the Window grows increasingly strenuous. When the IQ difference is too big, some ideas cannot be communicated at all, no matter how much time the more intelligent of two dialog partners invest…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:04 AM
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Yeah they want a woman who wants sex on their terms. So someone who wants non-committal/non exclusive sex but who also validates them and give at least a crumb of a crap about them. Look, men are simple creatures, and we've been operating off the same playbook since.. shit, probably the beginning of time. Maybe they don't given women a copy though, so I'll tell how it goes: Men are looking for a woman worth committing to. Men are looking for someone they can love, and who is going to love them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:41 AM
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Man, I dunno, I think for the majority of people (male or female) it is pretty hard to have regular sex with someone and not develop some sort of.. I don't know the word, but basically "love," you know? Please, let me know if I'm wrong though But I was speaking to a woman on here just earlier, plus a couple of other women earlier this year, who said that a lot of women would be happy with getting just sex from men. I use just in bold, because these women said that men never want just sex. They w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:25 AM
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say that the girl equivalent of being friend zoned is a guy that will have sex and hang out with them but not be willing to actually date/have a relationship with them First of all, both of these "friend zones" can happy to a guy or a girl. I'd agree that it's more common to happen the way you say though so I'm going to mention I was very upfront about my intentions, had several talks with her about not getting too attached/talking to other guys and helped her pick better pics when I realized sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:46 AM
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+/- 5 years is a good range as you get up around 30+ but man I dunno, the difference between 18 and 23 can be pretty drastic. Course I guess it always depends on the person, but just talking generally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:06 AM
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women do not cause more emotional pain than men do. It’s just that they have better support networks while men are expected to deal with it themselves, so less likely to resort to that. I really don't buy this though. I mean, what support system does your typical woman have that men don't? I guess I just don't see women so thoroughly CRUSHED the way some men end up after after someone really does them wrong and breaks their heart. I don't hear songs about women totally heartbroken the same way m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:57 AM
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But they don’t want to pay for a sugar baby because their cheap. They genuinely want the hot young girl to be attractive to them, which is not going to happen I'm not really sure this makes them cheap but alright..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:10 PM
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EDIT: OP isn't asking about how 35+ measures up against young women, he's asking about benefits that 35+ women bring compared to younger women, which there are. I'm not saying it's impossible to have a successful relationship with a young woman, but there's a reason why marriages are less likely to end in divorce when you're both older. If you wanna pop out 5+ kids with a young woman, that's your prerogative, no one's stopping you, lol. Any dude that is 30-35+ and marrying a woman who is say.. 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:53 AM
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There aren't necessarily any benefits to dating a woman over 35. There's plenty of things that you might EXPECT from an older woman that would be a benefit, but I can tell you first hand.. none of those things are necessarily true. Examples would be: life experience, knowing what she wants, established career, "ho phase" is out of the way, plus I'm sure a bunch of other shit listed by other commenters I'm tellin' ya, all these things.. not necessarily true! Trust me, you're just as likely to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:48 AM
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Same experience. I worked in a blue collar position, and if people found out someone older than 20 was a virgin they would constantly make fun of it any time sex was talked about around them. Maybe not in a 100% mean way, but they definitely brought attention to it. Granted the guys who were the worst about it always bragged about cheating on their wives so wtf do I know? I would assume these kind of dudes aren't really being hateful about it, they're just this way all the time lol. Like if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:35 AM
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You nailed it. Normally this is what I'd call a "whore" but this idea is spot on. It's like, you're a whore because you cheated on your husband with his best friend. No, not because you had sex with more than just one man in your life.. because you fucking cheated on your husband! And the only thing that even seems to matter to them is "well, I'm not a whore though!" Oookay, whatever helps you sleep at night.. whore.. And men are actually terrible for this as well, and they do get shamed, they g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:54 AM
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A significant amount if not most " slut shaming " comes from other women Ehh, maybe >50% but nothing crazy like >80-85%, I don't think No one can really make you feel ashamed of something that you're actually proud of / not confident in You're absolutely right about this, and I preach this all the time. It irritates me so much to see things like women who say "I'm honestly not ashamed of my body count at all.. I'm not going to tell you what it is, but I'm not ashamed!" Like, noooo, bull fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:27 AM
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I think I understand what you're asking, OP. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think you're saying there's 2 kinds of people: 1.) People who get together in school, and they are obviously in the same position in life, and expect to grow with their partner, not for their partner to be established already 2.) People who miss that opportunity, and therefore don't get to grow with their partner; their partner expects them to already "have their shit together" basically Aaand your question is if you mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:08 AM
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People who don't ask questions about others aren't particularly gendered. It's a thing some people do. Sometimes it's nerves. Sometimes it's because they have no one else to talk to. Sometimes it's because they are selfish. Sometimes it's because they aren't interested in the other person. Sometimes its a lack of being able to read other people. I run into it in men much more around my professional career then around dates. But I know just as many women who are capable of monologging without any…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:45 AM
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