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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	People have issue even when men are happy being single The problem is with men being happy that doesn't involve women period. He's gaming, it's a problem. Saw a video of a group of black guys dancing at a concert and no women around, they called them gay. When men can enjoy themselves without women, it's a problem, but women have fun without men and it's encouraged. They always ask "Do men like women?" When I think the real question should be "Do women really like men?". My theory? Women don't want to see men in peace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 01:38 AM
1	Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ? Birth control plays a part as well, especially when it comes to mate selection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 03:30 AM
2	Tinder is testing a HEIGHT filter - as devastated users say it's 'over for short men' Most men altogether have. That's why the stock price is in the dirt.	/r/MensRights	03/06/25 03:23 AM
-1	If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating them You typed two paragraphs and still didnt manage to say anything. What's the legit point of having a female friend that I don't sleep with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 10:02 PM
2	How to totally wow a man I was a machinist in a past life. A guy's wife cooked for the guys on the shift. People started asking if she had a sister. Cooking for your husband and his coworkers gets your sister married!	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/25 05:57 PM
2	How do you feel about the "small dick energy" comments? Reply with a pause and then "body shaming is cool until you mention someone's [something they're sensitive about]"	/r/MensRights	28/02/25 04:06 PM
1	Mozambique: DOGE cuts €9.5M male circumcision programme How is anything and anyone not American the responsibility of the US?	/r/MensRights	25/02/25 09:22 PM
–	Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'. What's Q4W?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 08:23 PM
2	Mozambique: DOGE cuts €9.5M male circumcision programme Why is the US paying for circumcisions in Mozambique?	/r/MensRights	21/02/25 08:07 PM
3	Only 2-10% of rape allegations were determined to be provably false "it is better and more satisfactory to acquit a thousand guilty persons than to put a single innocent one to death -- William Blackstone	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 08:41 AM
3	Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it. For safety reasons, please don't travel with your eyes AND ears preoccupied.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 04:31 AM
15	I keep going around in circles.... It's not a direct route. Healing isnt a straight line. Just recognize when you're falling into bad habits.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/25 11:19 PM
1	Boyfriend treatment vs husband treatment? Do you draw a line somewhere? Happy cake day	/r/RedPillWomen	02/01/25 05:51 AM
1	I still believe in the red pill even though it's harmful.But I don't know what else to believe in Believe in yourself. Someone described this journey as a tunnel. You go through this journey with so much anger. It's like walking through a tunnel. You can't turn around once you start, you have to make it to the end to see the light. If at any point you stop before hitting light, you're just sitting in darkness.	/r/ExRedPill	24/12/24 04:30 PM
1	The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women. So she has absolutely NO CONTROL over who she has sex with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 03:20 PM
1	The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women. This is a display that women are the be believed to have no agency. Phillips is not same helpless woman. Nobody put a gun to her head and MADE her get banged out by a battalion of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 10:57 PM
2	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. So a guy has to be tall, rich, and entertaining as well. Does anyone ask what does she have to do? She can be fat, have 100 kids and 200 baby fathers, can't cook or clean, don't wear her own hair, nails, eyelashes, or belly, and I'm still not good enough?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:33 PM
5	Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men. Women aren't invisible. The most "invisible" woman still gets more attention than the average man	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 01:43 PM
1	Should Autistic Men Not Even Try? Autistic people are the whole reason pickup even started. Women bash it so hard, but don't even get the point. You're not misogynistic because you want to learn to be more social and find someone to love.	/r/seduction	28/11/24 11:23 PM
1	MSNBC Analyst: "Men would rather listen to Joe Rogan and be converted to fascism than go to therapy." This is just what they like to do to attack Joe because he has 2.5 times the reach that they do. And that's just on the surface. Joe Rogan got a $100M+ check cut to him, CNN+ got shut down!	/r/MensRights	21/10/24 06:03 AM
1	If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction. They use studies and statistics from credible sources. I think the redpillers won this one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 05:14 AM
1	If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction. You haven't said anything still. I guess you're trying to categorize me as red pill, I'm not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 02:59 AM
1	If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction. That doesn't disprove my statement at all. They don't think that they're one monolith. They think they're 12 monoliths.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 01:36 AM
1	If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction. Meanwhile women use burning balls of gas billions of miles away in the sky to determine whether you're a match with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 01:32 AM
2	"males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging message If it's fair for women to ask for a 6'5" Romeo that makes twice the average income, I think it's fair for men to ask for a virgin debt free woman. Key word "ASK".	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 08:31 PM
5	Another Male student punished over his hair at school. It looks like a regular white boy haircut. Id hate to see what they authorized.	/r/MensRights	10/10/24 06:21 PM
–	Jordan Peterson tells young men to sacrifice themselves and endure. Young men should suck it up. It is my belief that men have the right to opt out of a society that discriminates against them. Nothing risked, nothing gained, man. If you want to be a nobody, that's fine, but if you want to be remembered, you got a fight coming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 02:56 AM
2	CMV: males often use the ol "I'm not a mind reader" to excuse their laziness The link you shared is what men mean when they say women play games. Why not just tell him the first time? He asked twice! She wanted to feel important and decided to play. She hurt her own feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 10:53 PM
1	“Women aren’t a monolith” vs “Not all men” The thing is that women are more of a hive mind collective when it comes to men in comparison to men when it comes to women. That's why men talk about pre-selection so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 04:36 AM
9	Why is it that when a man doesn't want to be with a girl that has a high body count he is "insecure", but when a woman doesn't like a man because he's short, it's her "preference" Because men aren't allowed to have preferences.	/r/MensRights	31/08/24 03:16 PM
0	Is it true, young men will vote for Republicans? I'm more willing to vote for Trump than Harris. I truly believe that she's a danger to Black people as a whole. All skinfolk ain't kinfolk.	/r/MensRights	20/08/24 11:52 AM
1	How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend line "He has great taste. Best of luck to you two."	/r/seduction	05/08/24 11:38 PM
3	The double standards around male standards Men aren't allowed to have standards. A woman says that she wants a man that's tall, she gets cheers. A man says she wants a woman that's not fat he gets "who hurt you?". Men love WOMEN who take care of themselves. We don't care how big your tits are! You have to remember that sex for men is what attention is for women. The same way you don't want a man that doesn't watch porn men don't want a woman who's always on social media. Most women wouldn't give up social media for a man that has 80 perc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 04:02 PM
0	Are most people here pro life or pro choice? Last I checked in Arizona children outnumbered eligible families 50 to 1.	/r/MensRights	29/07/24 04:21 AM
4	Are most people here pro life or pro choice? While I do think it's wrong to get an abortion, I'm pro-choice. A lot of people don't quite understand how crazy outnumbered children seeking adoption are for eligible families seeking adoption. Banning abortion just ups the competition. The US already adopts more children than anywhere in the world and it's still insane. The system is flawed and repair is IMPOSSIBLE. People use the argument that "people shouldn't be having sex". The US birthrate is already low, and almost beyond repair itself. …	/r/MensRights	28/07/24 11:58 PM
–	CMV: Males should not look at women in gyms You're more than welcome to go to a women's only gym. You know that, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:42 PM
1	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates I tell people that if you can't take her out on a $20-30 date and have a good time then she's not worth a $200-300 date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 02:03 AM
1	Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choice Thats his point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 06:32 PM
3	Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choice That's the whole point of the post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 06:32 PM
0	Why don’t straight men read novels? "This idea of the hyper-capitalist man with no time for something as ‘pointless’ as reading began to take root in the Victorian era. In the 19th century, reading novels developed a reputation as a frivolous and feminised activity as bourgeois women" I sit here with books on my dresser, audiobooks, comic books, and then books I give away.	/r/MensRights	25/07/24 01:05 PM
15	The Red Pill is dying I think it's just being reordered. F&F, Sneako, and JPT just kinda did it to themselves. They pushed the boundaries too far.	/r/ExRedPill	10/07/24 03:17 AM
3	Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientists I agreed until the first line of your post. Science is trial and error. He's supposed to find what works. If a scientist is chasing a false hypothesis he's never going to get positive results. But keep spewing BS. It's not like you're going to actually read these and learn from them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 03:34 AM
3	"90% of men are incels" If 90 percent of men are incels, the problem isn't the men.	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/24 05:14 PM
-1	A comment on a youtube post that really triggered me. There's disposablity in being a protector. There's no way around that. Where all going to die, why not die fighting?	/r/MensRights	19/06/24 12:51 PM
42	Men should stop asking women for advice I'm going to get shit for this, but you pay attention to what a woman does more than what she says.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 04:05 AM
1	Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry? Well girls got mad because they couldn't join and they also had a string of controversy with gay scout masters. They needed a rebrand and probably paid a consulting firm for this. Since everyone is pushing for DEI, they may have felt forced. Only time will tell if it's a good idea or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 09:23 PM
2	The View has declared men useless on mainstream television Tell me you've never seen Y: The Last Man without telling me that you've never seen Y: The Last Man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/24 02:21 AM
2	What causes men to lean more conservative while women liberal? I think women see the world more idealistically, while men see the world more logistically. MOST women will say "X should be free" and then vote for it. Meanwhile men will be more likely to say "Whoa, whoa, whoa! Where is the money from this gonna come from? Because none of this is really free!". And that's where the gap comes. It's girl math at it's finest!	/r/MensRights	14/04/24 04:20 PM
2	How do I start with the game I will also add I hope they Serve Beer in Hell, Assholes Finish first and Sloppy Seconds by Tucker Max.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 12:02 AM
1	Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women? cries in libertarian	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 04:50 PM
3	Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using it How faulty of an argument is it if it's 99.999% true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 06:05 PM
1	Cop-gone-wild, 28, will get $500,000 PAYDAY after suing city claiming she was sexually groomed by her 'predator' superiors - after she was fired for sex romps with seven officers That town will never hire another female officer for the next 20 years!	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 04:49 AM
1	Do men not care about having female friends? Do we "care"? No! I don't look up and go "I need a female friend". But I also don't look at someone's gender as criteria for friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 08:34 PM
1	Almost all sides of social media sees the manosphere as some misogynistic group. Because that's what feminism teaches, but they take and use the logic and teachings. It's like they use the talking points, but can't say where they came from.	/r/MensRights	26/02/24 10:40 PM
6	What started your RP journey I know someone is going to read this and call me names, but I saw a bunch of women that will never be happy. Men fight like HELL to make a lot of unappreciating women happy. Then it's a BUNCH of women with 3 kids, by three different men, saying that I with no kids, making $60k a year, and living with my parents (I have no kids, I can stay here, save money, and pay my parent's mortgage) am not good enough, call me a broke, short, momma's boy. I'm shamed for doing the very things that other cultur…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/24 08:32 PM
0	I feel violated. Girl lied to me about taking birth control… So he has no accountability for himself? We just completely absolve him of that shit? You gotta be kidding me!	/r/MensRights	25/01/24 03:18 AM
2	I feel violated. Girl lied to me about taking birth control… You shouldn't be having to write this post. You should be using a condom EVERY time, ALL THE TIME! Do NOT place your reproductive rights into the hands of a woman that feigns the understanding of responsibility. This was stupid on your behalf.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 07:37 AM
2	What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have? Red pill: 1. Women control access to sex. 2. If you can't take her out on a $30 date and have a good time, she's not worth a $300 date. Blue pill: 1. Women should have access to abortions. 2. Men desire love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 09:34 PM
1	Why do a lot of women say that men like b*tc3s? I was going out with one girl and thought that she was "boring". She wasnt flashy, she spoke softly, she had no ass, and I thought I wanted a "city girl" before it had a name. I went out with this one girl with a FAT ass, dressed like a Power Ranger, and loud. I was SOOOO turned off by how rude she was to people, including me. I went to the bathroom and tipped wait staff $20 as an apology. I never went out with her again. I went back to the boring girl and we stayed together for about 4 months. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 02:45 AM
–	I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight. It doesn't have that much of a role in genetics. It's the food, she refuses to work out, and the fact that she can't put down the fork.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 02:44 PM
2	How do you want things again It's not an exhausting thing to me. I can't speak for everyone with ADHD, but I often have 3-4 streams of thought running at one time, why not use one of those streams for "doing the thing"? Even if it is MENTALLY exhausting, think of how exhausting it is to NOT do the thing and having to deal with the consequences of not doing it.	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/23 07:06 PM
4	How do you want things again Start by changing your mindset. Instead of telling yourself that you have to do the thing, tell yourself that you WANT to do the thing, or that you get to do the thing. Far example: say "I want to make my bed" or "I get to make my bed, it's people out there without a bed. If I have it I'm going to take care of it.". By doing that I went from "crap, I don't want to do it" to feeling disgusted when I don't do the thing.	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/23 05:17 AM
2	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it Feminism isn't made to address it. They don't care!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 10:26 PM
1	Q4M - would you date a woman who has limited themselves to the same grooming/self care regimen you have? I would encourage it! Makeup is damaging to your skin, shampoo is the cause of the very problem they want to fix, nails is a waste of money. I work out doing cardio and weightlifting. I'm not perfect, but I'm not against it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 02:01 AM
6	should I tell my father about the redpill I always felt like TRP isn't something you should recruit for. It's more like going to a family reunion and you see your friend there and you find out that you two are cousins.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/23 04:22 PM
3	Q4M: Would you break up with a girl because she's boring? When I was 21-22, I initially wanted something "more exciting". The girl I was with was this girl who just wanted to go to work, go to school, go home, and dressed modestly. I went out with another girl, a "city girl" before it had a name, on this HORRIBLE date. She dressed flashier, had a fat ass, but terrible in every other way. She couldnt hold a conversation, she was rude to waiters, bad attitude, and she was on her phone. I went home and deleted all my dating apps, and went back to my "bori…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 02:44 PM
2	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? The only men attracted to fat women are the men who think that they can't get better. Your weight is an indicator of health. Same way women say they like tall men, men like women that aren't fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:44 PM
3	Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumption Have you ever seen a woman get rejected? They completely lose their shit! You get called gay, broke, loser, etc, way more often than dudes when rejected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 10:41 PM
4	“Are we dating the same guy” is literally just the natural consequence of less and less people dating from their social circle. Are we dating the same guy is just proof that women keep picking the same guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 08:10 AM
–	Should men be friends or even partners with women who claim to hate men? Would women ever encourage female friends to continue a relationship with a misogynist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 05:10 AM
2	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay The numbers reflect that. A married couple have a median income of $101,560, whereas a single mom makes $32,586 at the median income. Doesn't that make it look like posturing to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 06:40 AM
6	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay Sun Tzu one said "appear strong when you are weak, appear weak when you are strong". They're posturing. Think about a rattlesnake, when they're coiled up and shaking their tail to show that they're a threat, but they are also afraid, because you're a threat to them. You think women are screaming their strengths, but really screaming that they are weak. That's what I think when I see/hear women say that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 06:29 AM
9	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay I would absolutely agree. It's so many single mothers running around it's evident that having the kid first ain't working!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 06:15 AM
1	Men don’t care about women’s career? I'm not going to say that I dont care, but it doesnt have the weight you think it does. Whether she works at McDonalds or is an engineer, if she's good to me, I'm in. A lot of women think because she's an engineer then she's going to get X type of man, when it really most likely wont get you any closer to that man either way. Being an engineer is awesome, it's my childhood dream, but if you got your education and became an engineer to gain a certain type of man then you just wasted your time. I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 01:32 AM
3	Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular women I would rather have a decent woman that's loving and in decent shape, than a fat woman in any sort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 05:23 PM
1	Fucked up my 20's, i am a 30yo loser. You look back and say you wasted your 20s. Ten years can pass in a Thanos snap. Set it up so you don't look at your 30s the same.	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/22 06:19 AM
1	Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him? Tell him to work out and to learn to be social.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 05:31 AM
1	Men say they want virgins A lot of men understand that virginity is an unrealistic expectation, but we don't want women that are ran through, that whored about and used. To quote the prince of toxic, Barney Stinson "no one wants to climb a mountain with a whole bunch of flags on it".	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 05:30 AM
2	What confuses me about men (since they like to be extremely honest on the internet) I want sex + women have the sex that I want + women say they want xyz behavior + I will adapt to do xyz behavior = women will have sex with me. This is basically it. I would LOVE to be that guy that is a complete simp for my girl, but they don't want that. They want an asshole. When I was a sweetheart, buying flowers and helping with favors, I got used, exploited, degraded, and friendzoned. Being a jerk got me results. I just chalked it up to that's the way it is. Ladies I apologize if I'm intru…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/09/22 03:12 PM
1	What’s your dating advice to the guys on here who can’t get success with women? Start working out. An hour a day, at minimum 3 days a week. It'll help you with mood, and confidence. Get a haircut. If you can, go to a black barbershop. You know why! It's a numbers game. Approach a girl, smile, and just be polite. Don't lose it no matter what is said or replied to you. One woman rejects you, Kanye shrug and move on. Joe Budden said it best "there's way too much pussy in this world for me to not need yours. This kinda ties into 3. READ. The Game by Niel Strauss. It's somewhat …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 10:44 PM
3	It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-related I used to read a lot of FDS, not to hate, but to get insight on being a better man. What I saw was a lot of women bashing men for doing the work. I listen to Joe Rogan to get better at conversation, I'm a scrote. I'm play video games to be social with my friends on the other side of the country, I'm a scrote. I read books to get better, I'm a scrote. I'm a virgin, I'm a scrote. I sleep around, I'm a scrote. I'm supposed to be this magic man, but if I work on being better... I'm a scrote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 04:20 AM
1	Women should stop trying to give men dating advice The advice I gave my niece was to ask her dad for advice with guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/22 05:01 PM
4	Is dating actually fun for you? Well I see EVERYONE talk like that. Dating is supposed to be FUN. The crazy things people put in here and the standards they have kinda kill it. How fat her ass is, how much money he makes, is she FDS?, is he MGTOW?, it kills the fun of possibly meeting someone you want to spend your life with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/22 04:16 PM
1	How many women here are actually in shape? You SHOULD work out. As EVERYONE should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 06:42 PM
1	How To Remain Positive Even After Getting Rejected By A Woman You Like Just shrug your shoulders and move on. I know it's easier said than done, but that's the best advice that there is. I wouldn't engage in conversation with them anymore. Stay polite, stay cordial, but limit your interaction. And as for the moving on part, just think of what Joe Budden says it's WAY TOO MUCH pussy in this world. I love that song!	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/22 04:01 PM
0	Heartbreak. But so confused. I don't have a definite answer, it's a biological thing for some. But some guys are like Peter Griffin with the boat, lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/03/22 10:15 PM
2	Do you care if your daughter is sexually active? I would want to know because I would want to make sure they're being safe. And my opinion is if you don't have the heart to tell your parents that you're having sex then you shouldn't be having sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 07:20 AM
1	I honestly feel like male spaces no longer exist anymore Can i get that link, please?	/r/MensRights	06/03/22 09:09 PM
2	I honestly feel like male spaces no longer exist anymore We don't have those spaces anymore.	/r/MensRights	06/03/22 09:08 PM
1	/r/AskMen asks "Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you?" and gets the wrong answer... Every time they threw it back in my face. One women I told her she has to quit smoking and it's a deal breaker, she kept smoking on the low. And when I told her that it's what killed my grandmother, she kept doing it. She has Chron's disease, all she had to do is quit smoking and it'll go into remission. Docs are talking about taking part of her bowels now and she's still lighting up. Second girl I told her that I couldn't continue a relationship with a girl because she has herpes and I have an …	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/22 09:12 AM
1	Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman? I just wrote a whole paragraph and in two line you said it better than I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 06:52 AM
1	Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman? FDS encourages women to point out the flaws in men without making women work out their own issues. All women in FDS are perfect, and if you disagree, you're a scrote. They use the low and worst of men and too often present them as the norm. If you are a man that fit their EXTREMELY unrealistic criteria as a HVM would you settle for one of these women and seeing how they talk? They talk like MGTOW. And remember that group got banned from reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 06:50 AM