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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | 25 Yrs Married, Now Trying Separation | Need Support | HereInThe818 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/26 03:26 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Need help to stop this urge to find women for sex.Dude, you are a stud and there are many women who want exactly how you described yourself. Don’t cut yourself short. You will be amazed at the powerful of positive thinking. You got this! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/26 02:36 PM |
| 8 | This is a post from divorced women page… you can’t make this shit up. I will never marry againSounds like you weren’t ready to be married or perhaps you aren’t a marrying type of person. That’s fine but for many people having a spouse and kids is the greatest joy life offers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Let me be the bad exampleWhat would you have done differently? Is it the time delay in getting the divorce documents signed that you regret? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Divorce EffectGreat advice! I’m at the very beginning of my separation after being 25 yrs married and leveling up is EXACTLY the right prescription which I plan to enact. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 03:02 PM |
| 2 | 25 Yrs Married, Now Trying SeparationShe doesn’t earn much of an income as she has chosen to be a part time Pilates instructor vs full time as I am and have been the “earner” paying for everything for 25+ yrs. I plan to see an attorney before I move out. Thank you for your reply and advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 01:24 PM |
| 2 | 25 Yrs Married, Now Trying SeparationThank you 🙏🏻 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 05:28 AM |
| 4 | How do you ban the thought of Su1cide as an easy way out of the nightmare?Life is an amazing journey filled with ups and downs and the predictable and unexpected. You happen to be in a down period but just remember and take the attitude that YOU CAN CHOOSE how you respond. You can choose to be strong, create a plan, get after it and take action, and make progress OR you can be a quitter, sulk, and just let life happen to and around you. YOU CHOOSE Good luck. 👊 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/26 04:11 PM |
| 6 | Told her last nightSounds like your wife maybe took you for granted. Did you consider a 6-month separation so both of you can live apart and work on yourselves before deciding to get a divorce or not? Asking because I’m in similar boat, 25 yrs married, no lying or cheating in our relationship, she was SAHM while I built and maintained the business, 2 kids, both out of state colleges, and a few days ago brought up divorce but agreed to 6-month separation as she had 2 friends do this and both made it back together a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | I am not doing well.I am at what seems like the very beginning of a split and divorce after 25 yrs marriage. During this tenuous time of trying to figure it out I’ve channeled my energy into a regular workout and eating right. The physical improvement helps the mental side of the equation not to mention getting to know people who work out in the gym at the same time. Hang in there and channel your negative emotions and energy into self improvement and loving yourself again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/26 01:24 PM |
| 2 | When to you know??I wrote out a list of things that are important to me and plan to discuss with her today. Her reaction to them will tell me everything I need to know to make a decision. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/26 04:23 PM |
| 3 | When to you know??I’m asking the same question. 25 yrs married, newly empty nesters, no EQ type of issues (cheating or lying) yet she feels compelled to constantly be quick to criticize or correct me all the time while making me feel like I am dead last on her priority list. She is in perimenopause and I’m trying hard to maintain patience and understanding but she is pushing me away. Our latest blow up is over her outrageous reaction to her car door barely touching an adjacent cars mirror in our driveway when I w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/26 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?Sounds like you adjusted to being a free agent and are loving it. 👏🏻 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | How do I bring it upI’m in similar boat right now. Feeling like I’m living w a roommate who is judging me all the time. Married 25 yrs. Kids in college out of state and nothing I do makes her happy any more. I will not cheat even though I’m not happy but can’t go on like this. When replies on this thread refer to “first set yourself up financially” what does this mean? I work and have always payed everything as wife doesn’t work. We have assets but I wouldn’t hide anything. Rather, I’d make 2 lists and ask her whic… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/25 03:13 PM |
| -3 | I became too rich to divorce and I feel trapped.She’s your dream wife yet you maintain separate finances and even file taxes separately???? You weren’t ready for a lifelong relationship. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | I’m unhappy and can’t seem to appreciate lifeStay driven in your career and making more $$ so if anything you can save for your kids college educations (not to mention provide more freedom/options for yourself as you get older) | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/24 04:52 PM |
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