Heressi Archive

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5	When it comes to N count - does it matter if it’s the number of men she’s slept with? Or just the men within your social circle that matters? “EVERY” I think not despite niche studies and anecdotes you can’t generalise a gender or a group of people based on sexual history. When I was younger although I wouldn’t describe my previous history in the same derogatory language you’ve been using I’ve had a range of different sexual partners in my youth. This has had absolutely no Impact on me settling down and I’ve lived with my current partner for years and we’re very happy together. With previous men, for me it was literally just fun, safe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/20 12:05 AM
5	Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction? It feels better... but most of the time I don’t finish from just penetration, it’s usually guys more skilled at giving oral that make me orgasm, which has nothing to do with dick size. So I would say there’s a slight correlation with pleasure during penetration but not orgasm, I hope that clarifies it. It’s hard to quantify it but it’s not something that would make me attracted to someone I otherwise wouldn’t be if that makes sense, if I’m already dating a guy and they have a big dick then that’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 11:58 PM
2	Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction? Yeah, a guy with an average size dick can compensate easily if he’s “skilled” in other ways. Attraction wise it has an impact but not by much, average or a bit smaller isn’t necessarily a turn off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 11:13 PM
5	Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction? Guys who are average in that department can be great in bed, and for me there isn’t much correlation between dick size and orgasm it’s more about their ability. I have had some sex that was less than great with smaller guys but that was because they couldn’t really do some positions, but they were definitely below average size. When it comes to dating penis size never put me off unless it was really small.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 10:53 PM
2	Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction? It’s more of a turn on and feels better In my opinion, however certain positions can be uncomfortable or even a bit painful if he’s very large so it’s not always a good thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 09:39 PM
7	Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction? It’s all about personal preference, I’m more attracted to guys who are larger but average doesn’t bother me, a few of my female friends actually prefer smaller penises. As long as it’s clean I don’t think you have anything to worry about honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 07:55 PM
1	Are all of your relationships with men always geared toward the end goal of marriage and kids? As a woman I never dated with marriage as the end goal in mind, I just enjoyed their company and if things developed naturally that was a bonus. When I started dating my current partner years ago I didn’t expect it to lead to anything serious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 08:33 PM
2	What are your physical deal breakers? I would not not date any guy under 6ft, I’m quite tall especially in heels and find it really unattractive if they’re either shorter than me or near enough my height. I’m kind of put off by long hair, it’s not a definite no but I prefer a shorter haircut on guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/20 10:22 AM
7	If a guy can’t commit/be faithful to a girl, it doesn’t mean he’s out of her league; it means he’s a man with options that he wants to explore. I have lived with my partner for a long time after some “exploration” when I was younger. We are very happy together and have a great bond so I fail to see your point. Seems you are generalising massively, which is not something you can accurately do with an entire gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/20 12:31 AM
6	If a guy can’t commit/be faithful to a girl, it doesn’t mean he’s out of her league; it means he’s a man with options that he wants to explore. Exploration is a positive thing, not just being a “slut”. I think someone is better prepared for marriage if earlier in life they spend time dating multiple people and therefore learning what they appreciate and dislike within relationships and sexually, that way when they are ready to settle down they’re better equipped to choose a monogamous partner that they are more likely to stay with. As long as they practice safe sex it’s not an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/20 12:12 AM