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I don't even remember them, I play off each comment without giving it much notice. I'd have replied something like "Unfortunately I actually have Benjamin button syndrome, it's only going to get worse". Had a similar thing when I was 21 and she was 29, kept saying I was too young. I just played the classic is "We shouldn't be doing this" while actively continuing and it worked for awhile. Ironically I ended that one because she was too immature for my tastes.
/r/seduction05/04/24 11:21 PM
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You may have been given a bad score with Tinder. Make sure you're accounts perfect, then save all the photos and information. Create a new account, on a new phone, new email, new everything. Then follow the rules of 1/4 right-left etc. No reason you shouldn't be getting matches if you've done everything right.
/r/seduction25/10/22 11:44 PM
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As others have said, get feedback on your profile and read about optimising it. Also I don't know about where you live, but Tinder is the only one I've ever had much luck with. Might be worth focusing your efforts on one rather than spread out over 4.
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:50 PM
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No social media except for Reddit and it's only impact are dates being confused that I don't use them as much as they do. Hasn't hurt at all though and I feel so much better not dealing with it too.
/r/seduction24/09/22 04:52 AM
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I remember reading awhile back, it may have been mystery, that for a group, giving the friend attention first disarms them and makes it less apparent that you want that one girls attention. Never had much luck with group game but it worth a try? Otherwise a wingman would help a lot.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:27 PM
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Each to their own but 3 women was already one too many in my experience.
/r/seduction04/09/22 10:56 PM
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I ended up just going with "Hey name 😋" Honestly in most cases they are either into you or they're not, not worth putting too much time and effort into it. I also make a couple of good jokes/comments then switch to another platform because it's the same thing, if they are into you they will do it or they aren't and won't. Tinder is a numbers game at the end of the day. Goodluck man 👍
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:38 AM
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That one hurt my soul, we all do it at some point though.
/r/seduction31/08/22 10:39 PM
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Ok
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:26 AM
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Hey man, I wouldn't aim for the socials straight off. Like the other guy said, you'll likely get ghosted from just socials. Find something you have in common, like maybe she's never been out to some cool restaurant or arcade or whatever. Then say something like: "Well I'm heading there on Saturday, you free then?". If you've made an impression and she's interested she'll jump at the chance and that's when you get her number or socials. You can go for the socials early on but if she's not interes…
/r/seduction20/08/22 10:01 PM
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The first time is always the hardest. I find everything is awkward and fumbly the first time, you'll do a bit better with every go 😊
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:29 AM
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Along with the other advice here, remembering anything new is always awkward and full of fumbles. Try writing with your other hand, it feels weird and your writing will probably be terrible. Slowly it gets better and at some point it just becomes muscle memory. You got this man! 🙂
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:34 AM
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It's just the age difference man, it's not always a deal-breaker but a lot of the time it is. Best advice would be to say something like "oh I don't think you could handle me" or "We really shouldn't do it". They want to but they don't want to want to.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:14 AM
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Probably lost interest but you got to laugh it off: "You saying I should cut back on the coffees?" "I bet you say that to all the men" "You more into the stoic or smoldering intensity?" "Usually my fast moving mouth is an asset" Etc etc it sounds more like a shit test to me, she cares less about how much you talk and more about how you react. Though, for future reference, you're unlikely to increase your chances of getting with a woman by texting a lot. You're better off moving it into real inte…
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:51 AM
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Bear Grylls' Island season 2 is a great example of this.
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:20 PM
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Yes. It's not so much a lie as an omission. As the previous commenter said, being truthful doesn't mean you need to include a break-down of your bathroom schedule. If she asked then yeah tell her, otherwise it's kind of a non-issue. Source: Dated a 30yo when I was 20. Some of the best sex of my life.
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:06 PM
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I see a lot of replies but if you truly believe you have a decent amount to offer and you aren't having luck, it could be your location. Yes almost every town will have someone into you, a bigger or different town could have more opportunity to meet them.
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:31 AM
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Was going to say exactly this. You need to start dating her again. The same reason marriages become sexless, they become friends or roommates rather than the person they are dating.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:40 AM
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I used to use cutie when I was younger and new to dating. I honestly thought it helped because I was doing pretty well for myself. Only as I've gotten older and wiser have I realised I was still getting them not because of but despite calling them cutie.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:26 AM
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Hey man I've read some of your replies. Sounds like you just need to take your chance, you only get one life. I dated 3 of the girls in my class in highschool, failed miserably on the few others. Got to make a fool of yourself if you want something more and it doesn't matter anyway, you'll probably see very few of these people again after you finish college. You got this, just find someone who seems interesting and go up and introduce yourself. Ask them what they're studying etc.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:41 AM
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As the great Doctor says "Try and be all nervous and rubbish and a bit shaky. Why? Because you're going to be like that, anyway. You might as well make it part of the plan then it will feel on purpose, off you go then."
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:22 AM
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True, worth try though. For me it was always breathing in smoke I didn't like.
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:00 AM
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Edibles, they are so much better than smoking and they can taste good. Just sucks if you live somewhere you can't get them, like where I am
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:03 PM
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Any effort you put into this you'll regret later on. Kind of like if you painted firewood to make it look pretty, therefore making it worse to use. Use that effort to improve other aspects of your life and eventually you wouldn't need it in the first place.
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:36 AM
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