Hermiisk Archive

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10	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. I agree. Found this; "State law may give that man (or the mother) a chance to challenge his legal paternity, but there are time limits, typically two years after the child’s birth or less, to bring that challenge." So seems like (unless recently changed) after two years you're stuck paying for a kid that isnt yours, even if you were unaware.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:06 AM
15	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. Your best choice is (if possible) to do a private one first behind your partners back. If its yours, no harm no foul. If its not, then you ask for the court one to have it official.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:43 AM
7	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. If you're in a relationship with someone and you can't trust them not to cheat on you and have someone else's baby, you shouldn't be in that relationship, let alone have a child. I dont understand people making this argument. 99% of people that got cheated on trusted their partner explicitly. If the person that made that comment had their partner cheat on them tomorrow, id love for someone to slap them in the face with "Duh, you shouldnt have been in that relationship if you didnt trust them". I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:40 AM
19	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. Depends. I've heard of cases where the person that didnt know he wasnt the real dad stayed for too long, so by "being a part of the kids life for x amount of time" made that person the "defacto" "father" of that child, and thus liable to pay child support for a kid that biologically isnt his.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 02:37 AM
7	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? I work in a pub and sometimes i think it would be easier working with people deeply addicted to heroin over these alcohol-infused idiots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 07:00 AM
2	The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women. Fine. Is it "better" to heal a child for money, or because you have an innate need/want to help people? Edit: Im trying to make the point that feelings can be a valid, and often times "better" reason for action than money. Does not matter if that action is considered "bad" or "good".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 06:40 AM
4	The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women. Is it "better" to kill someone for money, or because they mistreated you? Its essentially the same argument. One is for money, one is to make you feel better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 03:02 AM
0	The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women. Have you been to college? Plenty of girls i went to school with would fuck around and experiment sexually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 02:58 AM
2	The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women. and makes men think we are all worthless whores. Quite sure they thought that long before this dumb bitch started fucking around. I mean no offense, but most people today are what you would call "worthless whores". That goes for both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 02:53 AM
–	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation Maybe just naive or foolishly optimistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 09:31 PM
2	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation Point is relevant and makes perfect sense if you give him the benefit of the doubt. Nobody thinks losing your foreskin means you lose your entire personhood, but agency is removed, just like with FGM.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 04:31 PM
3	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation Ah, might not be a native english speaker, like me. I would assume he meant to have agency removed, not "personhood".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 03:28 PM
7	Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilation True, but collectively we can try to make that choice be on the person itself, not the parent, or some religious clergyman nutter. Normalize waiting for either a medical emergency, or till the person can make choices of their own before starting to cut into genitals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 03:13 PM
–	If women could magically force men to answer ONE question truthfully what question should women ask? Personally i have a very different view on abuse than most people. In my view it has to be incessant to some degree, and if the entire situation could have been avoided with going "no" or leaving, then in my honest opinion, it wasnt abuse. In my view, calling your partner a bitch wouldnt be abusive unless you did it incessantly in order to fuck with him/her emotionally. But to most people, (especially young people) calling your partner a bitch in a non-joking manner would be considered abusive. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 07:27 PM
–	If women could magically force men to answer ONE question truthfully what question should women ask? "With what YOU define as abuse." (As in YOU (the commenter), or "you" as in the hypothetical guy you questioned?) Do you not consider any of the things i listed abuse? Are you specifically thinking physical abuse? I still think most people that are honest with themselves would say they've been abusive. Both male and female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:59 PM
–	If women could magically force men to answer ONE question truthfully what question should women ask? I think most people have abused someone of the other sex, considering how many different behaviours are now considered abusive. Lying to your partner could be a form of abuse. 99% of people have done this. Pestering about sexual intimacy could be considered abusive. Pretty normal stuff for both sexes. Being angry at your partner and saying the wrong thing can be considered abusive. Both sexes do this all the time. Some people think hiding finances is abusive. Especially if its excess wealth you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:44 PM
–	The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this? Like the gym? :')	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 06:19 AM
–	The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this? Oof, i work in a pub and this is a daily for me. Sometimes i get embarrassed over my gender, and the females reaction is totally justified, other times i feel sorry for the dude, getting chewed out publically for daring to ask if the person was single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 06:18 AM
4	Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work? I live in Norway, and you're not far off for our situation atleast. Physicians make a decent amount of money. Pulling numbers out of my ass here, but say a doctor here makes 8-900,000 NOK a year, while a school teacher makes 350,000. If they end up in different tax brackets (im not quite sure what the cut-offs are here in Norway right now) the doc would pay a little bit more than the school teacher in taxes. But you can definitely live on 350 a year. If you have a partner that works aswell you w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 07:37 PM
2	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? It definitely feels like it is becoming more popular, but from my anecdotal experience, cheating is a way "more popular", and i personally think that non-monogamy is just a side-effect of all the want to cheat. Feels like non-monogamy is just cheaters with the balls to ask their partner for permission. Not that there is anything wrong with that, if you both are willing and you think it'll work out in the long run, though most of the non-monogamous relationships i've seen have failed. (Mostly due…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 07:28 PM
2	How comfortable are you dating someone that uses drugs? I don't mind a partner that smokes a little bit. I'd actually prefer that to someone who drinks. Any of the other drugs though, and I'm out. Too many bad experiences with people that use them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/23 10:33 PM
3	“80% of women date 20% of men” is BS but to believe women are like oh he’s a manager at jiffy lube? He’s out. Too bad I liked him and we clicked really well on our date. This happens more than you would think. Men do the same though, its not exclusive to gender. "She doesnt suck cock? Too bad, i liked her and we really clicked well on our date."	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 04:03 PM
1	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. 1: Not all kids look like their family. 2: Not all kids are that well planned. I had my first one at 19 with a girl that said she was sterile, and couples can have unprotected sex for years without having any kids. 3: Yes, the only way to know for certain is to test. Protip for all the guys out there; go behind your girls back, do the test, get your peace of mind and avoid her irrational anger. Edit: Punctuation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 02:14 PM
1	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. It was more of a "I let her use my phone". I dont know if shes ever gone over my messages or whatever. I just dont get why people get so butthurt. Statistically, you should be careful, and every single time this happened to anyone, they trusted their partner implicitly. You should never trust anyone implicitly. But the answer to this situation anyways is to just have the test behind your girls back. You wont have to deal with her irrational anger, and you get your peace of mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 03:43 AM
-1	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. But by trusting them implicitly, (in the case of fatherhood) you would have no idea. That is the cause of the issue at hand. The ONLY way to be sure, no matter how much you trust someone, is to do the test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:49 PM
2	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Not stupid per se, just of less "import" if you catch my drift.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:45 PM
2	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Yes, but everyone can see the difference between "My feefees got hurt because someone implied i might have had sex with another person" And "I want the peace of mind to know that this kid (that will entirely change my life for the remainder of it) is in fact mine".	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 04:11 PM
5	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Its kind of like asking a partner to get tested before you bang.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 04:00 PM
-1	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Its not really even about trust, statistically you should be careful, no matter how much you trust your partner. Lets say 20% of the time you parked your car outside a house it got robbed, but your friend tells you "Trust me, its fine!" Shes your best friends, and want nothing but the best for you. Should you trust her? Statistically, no. I love my parents, and they love me. Im sure they want the best for me, and all their advice im sure is meant in that way. But would i trust them implicitly? F…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 03:58 PM
2	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. the husband did trust their partner implicitly. Yea, i shouldnt have said husbands. My bad. "the one partner did trust the other partner implicitly." Would have been a better sentence, i didnt mean to single out married couples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 03:52 PM
0	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. What echo chamber are you thinking about? The one where paternity tests should be mandatory? Not that far, im just looking out for everyones best interest. Even though you disagree, i do believe that fathering kids that are not yours could end up with bigger problems down the line than just knowing and being done with it. Still curious why you are so against it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 03:48 PM
2	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Good! In my view, something as important as paternity, you should always not trust. No matter how good a wife. Personally, i would advice guys to take the test behind your girlfriends back. You wont have to deal with her irrational issues with paternity testing, and you get your peace of mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 03:44 PM
4	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Clean deal. I will leave this convo feeling like i made you think twice about your moronic arguments (no offense), so i feel good :D Enjoy the rest of your day!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 12:49 PM
6	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. In the sense that it is (Just like a paternity test) distrust in the other person? Yes. It is exactly the same actually. So why do you guys act like you do have something to hide when it comes to paternity testing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 12:33 PM
9	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Honestly, if I were a guy I’d just do the testing in secret for my own peace of mind This is the way. Atleast untill it is mandatory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 12:04 PM
1	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Imho, you shouldnt trust anyone implicitly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 12:03 PM
5	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. because women all have a vested interest in supporting a system that benefits the collective female interest- even if doing so is not defensible in the instance. This is the only reason i can think of for all these women to defend not having paternity testing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 12:00 PM
3	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. just two random people. About 40% of unmarried relationships and 25% of marriages see at least one incident of infidelity. Statistically, you should be careful no matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:58 AM
8	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. If your partner accused you of cheating out of nowhere, and demanded proof that you were not, wouldn’t that bother you? I let my girl check my phone whenever she wants. I have nothing to hide. Why do you guys act like you do when it comes to paternity testing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:55 AM
11	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Cause "Muh feelings!" Its fucking moronic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:54 AM
3	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Depends on if its yours or not, and how family court splits where the kids are, and how much you and your significant other makes. If you are lucky, you get 50/50 and she has to pay you, cause she makes DOUGH.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:52 AM
-1	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. If its even mine :P	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:50 AM
0	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. men as most don't feel the way you do and don't want paternity tests. If you polled the worlds male population, and asked them if paternity testing should be mandatory, im sure 99% would say yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:48 AM
10	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. And you should just trust the guy when he said he put the condom on. If you check for yourself you show that you dont trust him blablabla. If hes never taken the condom off during sex with other women, why would he do it to you. Every single man that was fucked over due to this, trusted their partner implicitly. Which is why it was allowed to happen. Imho, paternity testing should be mandatory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:46 AM
9	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. But you get the logic right? Every time a man gets fucked over in that way, it is BECAUSE he implicitly trusted his wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:43 AM
16	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. On the other hand, every case in which this happens, the husband did trust their partner implicitly. Which is why it was allowed to happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:41 AM
11	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. He has a point. 99% of people that was cheated on trusted their partner implicitly, and could never imagine they would ever cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:39 AM
8	One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse. Trusting any person implicitly is absolutely (in my view) the dumbest fucking thing you can do. I have very loving parents, and i am sure they want the best for me, but no fucking way would i ever trust everything they say. Same goes for a wife. I already have kids, so its a non-issue for me, but the first thing i did when she was born, was test to see if she was actually mine. So many men get fucked over, i was not going to be one of those. I agree it should be mandatory, but 90% of women wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:38 AM
5	If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids. I had a girlfriend at 18 that said she was sterile and had a propensity for cheating, I wish she told me she was a liar and a cheater before I knocked her up... But we don't always get what we want. Guys, if your woman shames you for wanting a paternity test, leave her. She is obviously insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 05:55 AM
6	Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from? Anecdotally, to me, whenever full adulthood is reached changes with my age. I thought it would be 18, then i turned 18, then i was sure it was 21. Turned 21, still not adult Maybe 25? Nope. Now im 29, and i still feel like a fucking teen. Edit: I feel like i should preface this by saying im not attracted to teens, and i do all the "adult" stuff (go to work, got a kid, pay my bills etc), just mentally, i dont feel that much "older" than i did when i was, say, 20.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 04:19 PM
-2	CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”. I've fucked around in my younger days. Getting poon is easy. Finding someone to share your life with is not. Im sure the norm is to hate on women cause they wont sleep with you, but i've seen a lot of guys whos "woes" isnt that they cant get laid, its that most women dont fit what they see as a "marriable woman". I feel the same way. I've yet to meet a woman id like to share my life with, and i've been with a handful or two.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 01:13 AM
–	Is it better for men to GTOW or to become a passport bro to deal with the modern dating situation? The reason why Passport bros find success is because their attractiveness is higher compared to the local population of males where they travel to. Generally, wouldnt the fatness of the wallet be more of a reason they find success? I live in Norway, and most of the people that bring back a wife from another country, generally did so because said wife didnt want to live in a shithole anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 04:50 PM
1	Is raw confidence only an aphrodisiac if there's already a fair level of attraction? An attractive man that confidently claims to be a Nazi supporter is probably going to do worse than a plain man that confidently rescues a puppy from a drainage ditch. Comparing a bad and a good hot guy to eachother, i would agree. But in this comment, which to me looked, and still looks like OP, you do in fact compare a hot guy to a plain guy. Edit: In fact you say hot bad guy will do worse than plain good guy, which seems to me to not always be the case. In fact, atleast at younger ages, to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 04:49 AM
1	Is raw confidence only an aphrodisiac if there's already a fair level of attraction? I used "Most" because of the fact that he got more hits with the hot paedo than just with his plain old self. Seems to me to indicate that "most" women on that platform preferred hot child molester over plain dude. I do agree that shitty people usually date shitty people. And yes, you are not required, but it seems that for a semi large portion of the male population, the choices are either; Celibate, or Shitty Person. Luckily im blessed with great looks, and most women are shallow as hell, so g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 06:43 PM
1	Is raw confidence only an aphrodisiac if there's already a fair level of attraction? An attractive man that confidently claims to be a Nazi supporter is probably going to do worse than a plain man that confidently rescues a puppy from a drainage ditch. Attractive man - Nazi supporter Attractive man - Child rapist Plain man - Saves puppies Plain man - Just normal. Shows that "most" of them (Most likely not all women ofcourse, but atleast on whatever platform he made the profiles on) prefer an attractive paedophile to a regular plain man that atleast isnt a convicted sex offender …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 04:08 PM
19	Is raw confidence only an aphrodisiac if there's already a fair level of attraction? Looks & Status > Confidence > Other stuff > Less important stuff > Loving & Caring person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 04:00 PM
7	Is raw confidence only an aphrodisiac if there's already a fair level of attraction? While i would agree with you in most cases, i remember this one video where a guy had no chance matching with women online, so he decided to do an experiment. He took the hottest profile pic he could find, amazing looking dude with chiseled muscles and a handsome face. He wrote in the bio that he was a convicted child rapist, and still would get way more matches than he did with his own profile. Women saying they wanted a "bad boy" and shit like that. A child fucking rapist :')	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 03:44 PM
2	If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on? Women with a high body count are risky, but only because they have a higher chance to have an STI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 04:05 AM
5	q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it? Meh, it was fun during. Maybe some reminiscing has been enjoyable. And i am sure if i didnt sleep around, i would feel bad that i kind of "missed" out on something. But i shouldnt. Sleeping with someone random, that wont end up in something more serious, gives VERY little "ultimate" value to your life. I very well could have been around my friends or family instead of sleeping around, and have the time spent be "ultimately" more fulfilling. M, 28.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 03:13 AM
1	How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts? Truuuuue!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 03:04 AM
1	CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always been Women do not have the option to do those labour intensive jobs because of physical limitations and gender based discrimination. Maybe in some countries, or in my country fifty - hundred years ago. Obviously i cant speak for every country out there, but Norway is letting you into trade school as a woman with way lower grades than men need, and labour intensive jobs are recruiting women as much as they can because of underrepresentation in those fields. Issue is that practically no women tend to g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 10:31 AM
3	CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always been Because we generally have to starve. Or take on some sort of heavy labour that another person might perform sex work in order to avoid. Essentially, we (most men) dont have that choice. That is atleast my assumption.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 08:03 PM
13	CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always been I'm a guy, and in no shape or form educated on these subjects, its all anecdotal. So id rather frame it as a question, since my knowledge on the subject is miniscule at best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 08:01 PM
7	CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always been Selling your body on the street is not an “option” for women. For most of them, it is. For some, it is not. Claiming that none of them do it out of choice is ignorant. It may not be a choice you like but it’s one you preferred to do to the alternative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 10:55 AM
67	CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always been Depends i guess? I think if a woman says she is a sex worker, most (not all) guys will act like they wont care, but wont touch that woman with a ten foot pole. (hyperbole, but you know what i mean.) And the same other way around, guys wont care if their friend hired a hooker or three, but most (not all) women might look at you a bit different?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 10:52 AM
1	Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years? Im a dude and i would rather have the cash. Im short on cash though. Edit: I also have a kid, so she takes priority over a partner, and the money would go a long way to improve her life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 11:22 PM
3	It's impossible for murder to be the leading cause of death among pregnant woman A leading cause of death could simply mean "one of the top 20 causes of death". So practically, murder is one of the leading causes of death for any group? :P	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 05:35 PM
3	What are ways to affirm a man’s “masculinity” that aren’t tied to “dominating” or “subjugation”? Taking care of someone/something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 12:43 PM
1	Natural selection is favoring poorer people with little education; people with higher earnings and better education are being selected against Would it also be in direct defiance of nature if your concern wasnt college, but how to gather enough berries and meat to feed all of them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 02:31 AM
1	Is withholding sex as a man a mistake? I wouldnt listen to these "Sexually compatible" people. They have no idea what they are talking about. You can teach anyone to be sexually compatible with you, as long as they are willing and loves you. If you are just vocal about what you like, and how you like it, 99% of men will want to do that to you. Most men enjoy when you are enjoying yourself. And most men want to be considered good in bed, which is different for every woman you are with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 01:48 PM
1	If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers ! Not uninformed, just a joke. Some lawyers are great im sure, i've just yet to meet one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 07:40 PM
3	Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally? I've heard that young men are less likely to have traditional male/DIY skills. I can believe this. And if you dont step up and do stuff at home at this point you are a massive POS and dont deserve to be in a relationship, unless your partner is as big a cunt as you. I am very much for trying to split housework as close to 50/50 as possible, or 60/40 or 70/30 depending on how long one person is at work. My general issue with this complaint is that often women wont think of "manly" housework as ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 07:38 PM
1	If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers ! Lawyers are higher earning contributors to society. I spotted the obvious lie! Edit: Before you freak out, its a joke. If you are a lawyer i am sure you are the nicest and most society-contributing cockroach in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 05:30 PM
1	Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally? In my experience, a lot of "housework" isnt counted as "housework". Like painting, plumbing, changing tires, oil, tiles, carpentry around the house etc.. I remember my mom complaining that my dad never did any housework like the dishes, vacuum etc, yet he spent 90% of his free time fixing shit around the house. My assumption is that a lot of women complain about men not doing the housework they usually do, but if you got off your ass and changed the tires, chances are your husband would be willi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 04:48 PM
1	Many men nowadays don't want to date and avoid marriage because they don't want to lose their money and assets and they are afraid of having to pay child support and being able to go to jail if they do not pay it not quite sure why you think women wouldn’t have always sucked dick for money. True.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 04:30 PM
6	Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men? People suck. :P	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 07:27 AM
2	Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulate You would be surprised how many older women go after younger men, then turn around and spout the same BS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 09:01 AM
44	Do overweight women struggle attracting men? I can only speak for myself, but it dont matter if the girl looks like a model and has zero physical flaws. If she is a massive cunt im dropping her without hesitation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 04:38 PM
1	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men A lot of men are victims of getting shafted when it comes to their kids in divorce court, even though they hold more power than women in society in general. A lot of men are victims of drowning during titanic like events, even though they hold more power than women in society in general. A lot of men are victims of murder when called to fight on the front lines, even though they hold more power than women in society in general. I could go on and on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 02:14 AM
1	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men Alright. Men as a group can be victims because of their gender. Men can also have power over women while this is the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 02:08 AM
1	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men If you’re a victim you have no power. If you’re in charge you have power. But you agree that you can have power, and be a victim?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 02:06 AM
1	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men Actually lets make it even more obvious. Say you are the owner of a company. You are the boss, and hold all the power. Then one of your employees start massaging your breast, telling you he wants to stick his schlong in your ass and starts to undress you, while you keep telling him to fuck off. Were you not the victim of sexual harrassment, just because you hold the power?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 01:56 AM
1	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men I've demonstrated that you can have power/be in charge and be a victim multiple times. Say the president got raped by a woman. Is he still not a victim, because of the fact that he has power? Ofcourse you can have power and be a victim. Anyone can be a victim regardless of their situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 01:52 AM
0	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men No. But the argument you made, that people cant be "superior" and in charge, and victims at the same time is illogical. My analogy demonstrates that. An easier analogy to follow would be a president having his car broken into. The most powerful man in a country, a victim of a crime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 01:29 AM
0	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men You can’t claim to be a victim while also claiming to be superior and in charge. Volodymyr Zelenskyy is the current leader of Ukraine. I would argue he is a victim, but also in charge, and in some eyes, maybe "superior".	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 12:51 AM
0	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men Zelenskyy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 11:11 PM
0	Question for women: Why do you willingly have children knowing the father won’t be around? And staying with your friends is different from avoiding dark alleys. Sure it does. But when you got half your ass hanging out of your skirt, and another woman is wearing pants, and a rapist has to choose between the two of you, i wouldnt be surprised if he went for the one with half her ass out. Not saying the advice is good or bad, just that it isnt malicious in intent, and that it doesnt absolve the person that is performing the awful act. And i want to make sure that people understand that t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:45 AM
2	Question for women: Why do you willingly have children knowing the father won’t be around? Because some guys are dickheads. I wish more people would be privy to the knowledge that not every person on earth is looking out for your best interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:14 AM
1	Question for women: Why do you willingly have children knowing the father won’t be around? Why do people think that means absolving anyone? Men will leave their kids. Its been happening since the dawn of man, and will continue till our species are no more. When people tell you to avoid guys like that, they arent saying what the guy is doing is ok, they are giving you genuine (Sometimes good, often bad, but usually never malicious) advice to avoid a situation you dont want to end up in. Its the same with "Victim blaming.". If you get raped, and someone tells you to dress more modest, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:11 AM
11	If older men going for younger women is a redflag as he is using the difference is life experience to potentially manipulate her and take advantage, isn't it the same thing when women with relationship experience date similarly aged men with no relationship experience? Depends on the people in said relationship. I've met tons of guys with no backbone that get stepped on by their girlfriends, because they feel lucky they've finally got someone, and would do anything to avoid losing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:22 AM
1	Biologically speaking(maybe not philosophically) the entire meaning of life for men is to produce sperm and spread their genes through sex? Do you therefore think men are unfairly criticised in society for showing a strong interest in sex? Depends on what kind of sex worker. I realize most of the dealings (atleast in the western world) is done on the internet, or via phone. But if you go to other countries, or even just poorer neighborhoods, you can find women standing on the street in a thong and a bra, waiting for cars to pull up. Not saying you, or the previous commenter is right or wrong, but claiming sex workers are never scantily clad in public is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 12:39 PM
2	Do women think men are OK with being a safe option or a second thought? Sounds plausible, but doesnt make it less of a dick move.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/21 07:54 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. I agree. All i am arguing is that they are comporable in their deception.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 03:25 PM
3	What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive? My penis is always out... Id be pretty concerned if it was pointing in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:44 AM
2	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Thank you!!!! .... Wait a minute...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:28 AM
2	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. And men being providers is an expected norm throughout most of the world. Is that a good excuse to lie about our income? Just because its expected does not make it less deceptive. Not saying we shouldnt though. Lies (or holding back the truth) in order to hook your talons into a partner is pretty effective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:25 AM
2	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. If you dont want to lie. But why wouldnt you? Lies are great. Edit: Id even argue; necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:22 AM
1	"Men are not 'more visual' or more easily turned on than women are, a study finds" Almost all women aren't into monkeys fucking How do you know this?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:11 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Women aren't outright lying just because naive boys don't realize most women’s skin is imperfection and most of us don't have big eyelashes. Men aren't outright lying when they say they drive a porche (that they rented for the day), just because naive girls don't realize most guys' cars are shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:10 AM
2	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Are we lying about how our body really smells? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:05 AM
-5	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. You are right, one is lying about their looks, and one is lying about their income. Not comparable in the slightest. Also; I could argue that we are socially encouraged to be driving nice cars etc. just like you are encouraged to alter your looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:02 AM
3	Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportion Not if the reason for dumping a friendship is the pain of watching the person you like bang around. If one of my guy friends punched me in the face every time i saw him, but i otherwise enjoy his company, i think id let him go as my friend. Not because the other parts are so bad, but because getting punched in the face isnt that enjoyable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 05:03 AM
1	If a man is entitled to hold out for marriage until he finds a virgin, is a woman entitled to date only men who don't watch porn? "Some people observed that aversion to porn is "rooted in insecurity". But you could say the same thing about wanting to marry a virgin." Wouldnt religiosity be the more common denominator? I would think wanting a virgin would mostly be a religious thing? Not saying they have to be mutually exclusive.My guy friends frequently lament over how women bang too much nowadays, but i dont think i've heard one specify that they wanted a virgin. This is 100% my own anecdotal thoughts and experiences, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 06:08 PM
1	Would men having higher standards actually work? In Norway its illegal to buy iirc. But wamen are free to sell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 11:20 PM
2	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness Cant remember what i jerked it to last night tbh. So what do you jerk it to? Just thinking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 11:52 PM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness Have you quit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 01:01 AM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness I can only speak for myself obviously, but i think ANY orifice (ew) or hand other than my own is better. I shouldnt say ANY, i guess there might be someone out there actually actively hurting someones penis while trying to get him off. But i've yet to experience one. I've had someone hit the schlong with some part of their braces i guess, which wasnt pleasant, but you fix that in a jiffy just explaining. Anyways back on subject, i just dont get that being addicted to porn can make you not into…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 12:57 AM
1	The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid. True.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 05:32 PM
2	The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid. No doubt. What about Nice ugly guy = Hot asshole. > or < ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 02:33 AM
2	The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid. Congratulations. So you treated all your poon like the princesses they deserve to be treated like? Or were you an asshole to a couple of them? Just curious. And if you were a saint all the time, would all of them agree? Or would one call you an asshole for some reason? Ill be honest, i've treated some women like trash, and other like queens, and i dont think either behaviour had any effect on the chances i had of tapping that ass again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 02:27 AM
10	The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid. Devils advocate; But he wont really need to be a nice guy, and thus the assumption that good looking big dick guys tend to be assholes might have some merit. I know this because im a good looking big dick asshole and get hella poon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 11:45 PM
0	Why are women doing "body enhancements" seen as normal but men doing it are seen as "insecure"? When a man wants a girl smaller than him they say it's because he is insecure. Really? I've never heard someone trashing a guy for wanting a shorter girl. What sentiment seems more normal in my circles is; Guys that dont want tall girls are insecure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 06:59 PM
1	"Smart people have fewer friends" - a discussion Yes. Cause people are stupid and self-absorbed. And if someone as stupid as me feels that way, i cant imagine how someone with genius level intellect would view the common masses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/21 12:18 AM
3	The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry. Id love some sauce on this. Got links?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/21 06:24 AM
1	Does the idea of OnlyFans feel kind of unsettling to anyone else, especially in the context of growing male sexlessness? I would never pay for someone's onlyfans unless i knew the bitch IRL and wanted to see her nude. Like if my neighbor made one id might have to take a look. But pornhub and shit like that is free, why would you need LESS content and PAY for it aswell? What is freaking me out about the onlyfans stuff is that a huge amount of girls you'd might date in the future has her tiddies all over the internet. I personally wouldnt love it if my partner had nudes circulating all of internet, for anyone to see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 05:55 PM
2	What is your body count? Questionnaire. Im curious about asexuality. Do you get horny? From my understanding being asexual means you are not sexually attracted to anyone? Do you still want someone in a more romantic way? Sorry for stuped questions, but i had to ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/20 03:39 AM
0	What is your body count? Questionnaire. 30ish (Handsome dude and bitches be easy nowadays) 25 m 3 LTR. Not quite sure how many ONS. Hella introverted. In my younger days i was generally a cunt to most girlfriends, ignoring them when i cba, banging and dumping bitches that obviously was hoping for a deeper connection etc... Then at the age of 19 i got my ex pregnant. After my daughter was born sex has been very scarce because my sexdrive has taken a dive. (not quite sure why). So on one hand i could have been a lot nicer to a lot of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/20 03:34 AM