HermitOnAJourney Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What's up with the goals of MGTOW in the sidebar? Hmm... good point. Always saw MGTOW as an concept, so never really thought there'll be any specific goals for it. After all, everybody's way will differ. I guess if there's a guideline I follow, it's something like this: Live life the way you want; to the best of your ability. And be a better person than yesterday.	/r/MGTOW	05/06/15 11:09 AM
1	How many of you look for a frugal, minimalist life, how much of you love luxury (and three stages of consumption that probably disappeared to you anyway) I used to collect a whole lot of crap. Am clearing them bit by bit ever since I took the pill.	/r/MGTOW	24/04/15 02:56 PM
2	Thinking of getting a punching bag I suggest you attend some boxing classes first to get your form down. Who knows, you may decide to forgo buying the bag and just train at the club.	/r/askTRP	25/03/15 12:56 PM
3	Wife had threesomes, lied to husband about it. He found out and handled it in the most RedPill way. Seems like the guy isn't sexually promiscuous, I think it's reasonable for him to expect the same of his wife.	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/15 03:31 AM
0	So what does a woman have to do to not be a fuck and dump? I want a soul mate, but I know that's just a fantasy. Anyways, work on being the best version of yourself (emotionally, physically, morally etc) and look for a man that's doing the same. Easier said than done, unfortunately.	/r/askTRP	27/02/15 01:41 PM
3	Why You Need to Give Up Video Games (and How to Do it) Honestly, MMA replaced gaming for me. Only reason I play LoL now is just to hang out with my buddies and that's about an hour on days that I do play. Need my 8 hours of sleep or I won't be able to get through the day.	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/14 08:29 AM
1	Confused about whether to "be yourself" or not The way I see it: Be the best of yourself. Eat right, work out to be in your best health. Read, meditate, think to keep your mind at its sharpest. Pursue your passion to keep your soul burning at its brightest. You'll probably need money to do all that so... Work hard, work smart, keep a look out for opportunities to maximize your finances.	/r/askTRP	04/12/14 08:07 AM
9	Interesting little piece over at "RedPill" I do think that training for a good physique is a good thing; self-improvement (health and aesthetics) and all, and it requires discipline to upkeep. The reason may be shallow, but that's their path. Personally, I dislike training just for the aesthetic reasons and hey, turns out martial arts training and a healthier diet helps develop those nice shapes!	/r/MGTOW	27/11/14 02:36 AM
1	Conversation with someone from OkCupid - it's shit like this that's made me continue to want to be single for over a year I think it went down alright, unless you were intending to stay in contact as friends.	/r/MGTOW	22/11/14 04:17 PM
1	Transgender (M2F) MMA Fighter Grievously Injures Female Opponent. This is Feminism's Equality at Work. Cutting your balls off makes you stronger. Example: Dongfang Bubai.	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 07:28 AM
3	Should I play video games anymore? I think video gaming can be a good hobby, but not if you are going to do it mindlessly (this genre dependent I guess). If you are the type to FAQ everything, then drop it. If you enjoy thinking up strategies and solving the problems, then go ahead and spend some time. It's a good brain work out, just don't overdo it. Personally, I try to limit myself to about 5 hours a week (max). I do about an hour of gaming a day, and deduct that from the 5 hours.	/r/askTRP	21/08/14 06:30 AM
5	So I made a short list of some of the times I probably could have gotten laid and didn't realize it because I thought "Woman aren't like that." Learn from my mistakes and feel free to share your own! I'm not even sure about this one but it felt right for this thread. I had a cousin* who's on a job assignment near my area. We held hands when we went out (she initiated). She asked me why I didn't introduce her as my girlfriend to my friends And the one time she came over to my place, she lied down on my bed and asked me to join her. She's not a real cousin, a daughter of my mother's friend. It's just that my parents kept telling me she's my cousin for some reason. I didn't do shit because she'…	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/14 05:03 AM
1	I need to know if I'm overstepping here or not: want to tell a guy friend not to go through with a marriage. I'm in a similar situation as you. My friend is really stubborn as hell, even though I've given him advice on other things which he ignored and got himself burned. Still, as a friend, I just told him to think it through and hope for the best. Nothing pushy though. I just told him that it's great that he think she's the one. But, as a friend, I'll play the Devil's Advocate as this is an important life decision.	/r/askTRP	14/08/14 12:16 PM
1	I loved a girl, she rejected me, I cut off contact. 4 years later, mutual friend wants us to give it a go at a relationship. A few of you guys mentioned about meeting her if I can maintain frame? I doubt it. I'm still too inexperienced. Sure, my mindset is pretty clear that I don't want friendship and I know I won't contract oneitis anymore. And I can present a calm and cordial demeanor, but I will probably not be able to identify and respond properly to her attempts at reframing.	/r/askTRP	11/08/14 12:15 PM
3	I loved a girl, she rejected me, I cut off contact. 4 years later, mutual friend wants us to give it a go at a relationship. Friendship is definitely out of the question, I am clear with myself on that. I'm not sure if amicable is the right word. After the rejection, I did try for a short period to remain friends. When I realize that it's impossible for me, I did a pretty abrupt cut off. You were NOT her first romantic choice, that is for sure. So it certainly is not love, because love does not work on this kind of path "I rejected him, because he did not arouse me, but when he did not want to be my friend, now sudden…	/r/askTRP	10/08/14 04:23 PM
2	I loved a girl, she rejected me, I cut off contact. 4 years later, mutual friend wants us to give it a go at a relationship. I didn't realize the creep factor. Thanks for pointing this out. And I admit that I had a severe case of oneitis on this girl. It took me a couple of years to get out of the depression stage.	/r/askTRP	10/08/14 03:28 PM
1	MGTOW and why I did Don't forget that there are levels to MGTOW. The main difference between RP and MGTOW is how active they are in pursuing for sex. Both seek self-improvement, which differs from person to person. Personally, I do think that self-improvement includes learning how to deal with women. Btw OP, I do think you should've posted this over at /r/MGTOW	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/14 12:38 AM
4	The awful 100 that lead me here Awesome, I've just recently started on this path myself (ok, maybe not so recent, about half a year now). Here's a little tip from Shaun T that I follow (1:17 onwards): Any day where you don't feel like doing it, do something light to get your body moving. And it'll lead to a full workout. In my case, I dance to a song or do some punches/sword swings to eventually transition into my intended full workout.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/14 08:10 AM
2	Why are you MGTOW? In a nutshell, I am a virgin that was looking for the one true love and when I realize that it's not going to happen, I decided to move on and improve on myself. The only reason why I consider myself more of a MGTOW subscriber instead of TRP is that I'm not improving myself to get laid.	/r/MGTOW	01/08/14 06:47 PM