HermitVoyeur Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Get a load of this 💩 As a woman I also found it extremely odd that he posted photos of his dick on his page. I was curious how the men viewing that perceived it. I got the impression that he probably just created a Fetlife profile advertising himself as a Dominant and female submissives probably threw themselves at him. Like shooting fish in a barrel.	/r/seduction	10/05/20 07:45 PM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020 I dated a guy once that kept a list in his notes app on his phone of all the things I had told him I liked over the course of us dating. Along with important dates. So he could surprise me with my favorite dishes from various restaurants if he wanted to grab food on his way to see me. Or buy me something in my favorite color, etc. It was sweet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 10:53 PM
213	HELL YA!! This is how I feel about my relationship with the gym. I get back exactly what I put into it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 05:36 PM
3	I had a date planned with a Girl I have known as a friend for 4 years. The date is tomorrow But she has completely ghosted me for the whole day today which she’s never done before. Double text or no? A complete lack of an answer from someone is still an answer. Just move on.	/r/seduction	17/01/20 02:46 AM
-4	Wrote for nice guys as basic things not to do in r/nice guys Most of this seems like a validation seeking post so I’ll skip those parts. Also quite a few very rare exception types of examples that aren’t going to be the norm for most folks. I do agree that these days more women than in the past no longer NEED a man which provides new challenges for men. Men have to find a way for women to WANT them in their life and keep things interesting or they’ll move on. It’s harder to control women when they have their own shit together and you have to bring somethi…	/r/seduction	04/01/20 07:30 PM
1	Why are there no pick-up groups for Women? I think there is a UK guy named Matthew Hussey that does conferences for women interested in “how to get the guy”. Seems like most of the Pick Up stuff for women is geared towards making yourself more approachable though. So you are still waiting on men to take the lead, rather than being proactive. Good luck	/r/seduction	04/01/20 06:43 PM
6	Wrote for nice guys as basic things not to do in r/nice guys He doesn’t say “be a dick” directly, but it is implied in a few places. “Treat her like a sex object. “ “The guys you think are being jerks or assholes are just treating her like a normal person”, etc... I consider this normalizing some actions that I would consider dickish moves, but hey that’s just my opinion. Take it with a grain of salt. The internet is full of opinions. 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/seduction	04/01/20 06:00 PM
2	Wrote for nice guys as basic things not to do in r/nice guys I’m not here for advice as a man... 😏 Just a woman who has been involved in the seduction community on and off for over a decade offering a different take on things. You do you...if it works for you. I just hate for the nice guys to think that this approach is the only way, and that they have to completely change who they are as men to be successful with us women.	/r/seduction	04/01/20 05:36 PM
14	Men, please don't be like this guy at the club I’m well aware of this. I just imagined his level of possessiveness like a dog marking his territory, which is why I worded it that way. 😂	/r/seduction	04/01/20 05:30 PM
45	Men, please don't be like this guy at the club It’s different if the women have asked for your support in fighting off the sharks circling the group. The guy in the OPs post was clearly being possessive and overstepping.	/r/seduction	04/01/20 05:10 PM
13	Wrote for nice guys as basic things not to do in r/nice guys This is a bit cringeworthy. 🤢 I definitely feel for the nice guys and it’s hard to find a balance, but becoming a dick is not the answer. The only difference between a woman seeing you as romantic or a stalker/serial killer type is her level of attraction/interest in you. So while you can’t jump into doing all those things for a woman who isn’t interested in you without repelling her, once you have established attraction with her she’d appreciate those things (in moderation of course). I’d love …	/r/seduction	04/01/20 05:07 PM
1	Talk to 6, get cold shoulder. Talk to 8 or 9, get a great reaction. WHAT THE HECK She’s saying go in with confidence but don’t go in with expectations. Women can tell when you WANT something from them, and as a woman being approached constantly by guys who only talk to them to satisfy their needs, it is really refreshing to talk to someone who just takes the time to get to know you or just make interesting conversation and see where it goes. As opposed to “I want to fuck this chick, with as little effort as possible on my part”. You don’t go into it thinking “this won’t go an…	/r/seduction	04/01/20 04:53 PM
317	Men, please don't be like this guy at the club If one of my guy friends pulled that shit on me he wouldn’t be my friend anymore since he clearly doesn’t understand boundaries. He’s being so possessive over her that he might as well just lift his leg and piss on her to mark his territory too. Wonder what will happen when she actually does have a boyfriend... She has nobody but herself to blame for allowing it though.	/r/seduction	04/01/20 04:42 PM