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| 5 | Long Distance Girlfriend becoming distant and uninterested in me. What do I do?I think just voice what you’re feeling. Don’t default to tactics, just express the things to her what you are expressing here. Bottom line: you’ll get your answers on how to proceed, just communicate | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Didn’t strike when the iron was hot. A lesson on what not to do.How far away is her birthday? Try to see her before that | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 05:41 PM |
| – | Didn’t strike when the iron was hot. A lesson on what not to do.You didn’t fuck up. You built up sexual tension. You’re good. Keep going | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 05:28 PM |
| – | Where to beginCan’t help you much with the video games aspect, but i can recommend joining either a kickball,softball, or volleyball league or meet up. Those sports in particular are co-ed and makes for a great opportunity to meet women | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Where to beginWhat are your interests? | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I’m confused, need help...Careful there. Temper your response to her advances. Remain how you are, keep doing whatever it is you’ve been doing because it’s been working. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I’m confused, need help...Very simple. She did not find value in you before and she now does. She’s noticed a change: whether it be appearance or overall demeanor and now she is drawn to you. How are you going to respond? | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 04:59 PM |
| 3 | I’m confused, need help...I just want to be clear about something before i respond. You are confused by what exactly? Her change in attention she gives you? | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Finally talked to that girl at the gym ! But I think I messed up ?Glad to help. Let me know if this works out. DM me to keep me updated on your progress 👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 03:26 PM |
| 12 | Finally talked to that girl at the gym ! But I think I messed up ?I think you’re doing well and have gotten acquainted. I would make one tweak to to your approach. When asking a woman questions, you want to stay away from “data” questions. Meaning, your objective is to illicit emotional responses rather than informational ones. The problem with data questions like: “where do you work, where do you go to school” these tend to be conversational dead ends. Instead ask her questions about how she FEELs about any given subject. For example: HOW is your semester goi… | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Things going great with a girl and she stops answering...Don’t overthink it. Be “you” regardless of the attention she gives you. When she does give attention be scarce in your affections, leave her wanting more. Don’t fill her cup | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Need Help (high school game)Yes. Ask her out | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Need Help (high school game)There really is nothing more for you to except just be the person you are. If she is smiling and making eye contact, there is very REAL and CLEAR interest. Don’t get bogged down by the “friendzone” thing. People get so caught up with that. Some of the hottest girls i ever banged started off as friends. Gives you a chance to get to know what makes her tick. Add a touch or two of playful flirting and you’re good | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Things going great with a girl and she stops answering...Don’t ever give up, just lay low. Allow for rhythm to compensate. There are a peaks and troughs to these things | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 04:49 PM |
| 0 | I hanged out with a girl last Saturday and I just asked her to hangout again and she said "Yeah I had a lot of fun, but I think you’re way cool to just hang out with" How would you take this?????Exactly what you think it means | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 04:47 AM |
| – | Im confused as shitTouching does indeed show interest but don’t go overboard, she is merely exploring and reading your reactions. How to approach the situation: reciprocate her playful touching, talk to her, joke with her... have conversations with her (alone if possible) .. look her square in the eye and listen to the words she says and how she expresses it. Learn about her and what makes her tick These are the micro building blocks needed to move away from a platonic bond to a more romantic one. Be patient, noth… | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 05:15 AM |
| 2 | How to act when girl is sending dry texts but agrees to date?A dry texter may or may not be like that in real life so just use it as an opportunity to get to know how she interacts. If there is a connection, keep it going and try establishing more time on the phone hearing each other’s voice. If you don’t feel a connection, on to the next... | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 03:40 AM |
| – | Im confused as shitI’m confused by your post. Let’s organize your thoughts a bit. Do you like her? Do you want to know if she likes you? Do you want to know how to approach the situation if she does like you? | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 03:37 AM |
| 4 | I freeze when I meet women.One thing you have to realize is everything is a merely a moment. A moment that passes. Don’t get into your head, the awkwardness is part of natural human reaction. Guess what she is thinking? Oh “he didn’t respond to my obvious flirting, did i come off too strong?”. Everyone has insecurities and moments of awkwardness. Dont waste your time trying to correct them, just move on from them and on to the next moment | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 09:07 PM |
| 9 | Joseph Gordan Levitt makes the point clear. This community literally taught me this. Most of us are stuck in getting attention rather than paying attention. In order to switch to our happier selves and naturally get people we need to switch to paying attention.Great share! Thank you! | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Should I ask a girl whether she has a boyfriend?When you flirt, give her 3 drops of water when she wants a whole cup. She is fishing for compliments, it’s obvious. If you overdo it by saying, well your ass looks awesome, then she is satisfied. She doesn’t need you anymore lol. If you say something like, “I’m sure you’re not that far off from your goal” or something along those lines then it’s a bit more ambiguous | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 04:23 PM |
| 2 | My Ex Messaged MeIt can be nothing more than a momentary instance of loneliness. Temper your reaction to it | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | how do i ask a guy i like out without being awkward?So, I can’t speak for everyone, but I personally like when a woman asks me out in a flirtatious way. Something like “well if you just asked me out for a drink, maybe you’d find out”.... basically challenging me. It’s sexy | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 04:16 PM |
| 9 | Should I ask a girl whether she has a boyfriend?Your reaction should be the same regardless of the outcome. Neither response should change where you stand, which is an individual who she, at the very least, has interest in,taken or not. And yes, flirt. She’ll define the boundaries | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 03:54 PM |
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