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That's how it goes, until she realizes you can't sleep your way out of a situationship, or the guy moves on to a another girl. Routine lmao, it's why 65% of women are in relationships, but only like 30% of men—a lot of women are in situationships where the guy only values them for sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:50 PM
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99% of the time, it's women willingly entering 'situationships' with fuckboys and getting used for free sex, and then blaming everyone else for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:36 PM
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The men using women to 'masturbate' are NOT unhappy about the situation lol. They are getting everything they want, and women are continuing to give it to them. It's men who are not fuckboys who are complaining, so you're literally speaking to the group of men who aren't doing that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:04 PM
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I can. Most do this. Working in a place with a high volume of women coworkers reveals so much it's insane. Most of them are genuinely like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:20 AM
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Bluepill rule one is that it is always your 🫵 fault. It is what it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:18 AM
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Real shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:26 AM
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Clav hasn’t left his house except to get a nose job and his penis surgery since he got on probation (so clearly you aren’t even aware of what’s happening) Bro, he was in Paris like two days ago, you have zero idea what you're talking about. It got millions of views on TikTok and millions of impressions on Twitter. He has no shortage of statistical success lol. Maybe do a little research before commenting. The TikTok of him in Paris got 8,000,000 views alone. Moistcritical Moistcritical isn't blu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:47 AM
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Clip farming is nothing. And the livestreaming is showing how bad the numbers are terrible AND embarrassing to them. Opinion, invalid. They objectively pull in millions of views on Twitter, TikTok, and continue to pull numbers streaming. Clav still gets money enough to travel, hire people to stream with, pay for surgery, et cetera. It's profitable and popular to an insane degree. And neither of those “creators” has anything close to 1.6 million views. Cope? They pull in more than that on a month…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:06 AM
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Clipfarming is everything. It is how you reach the kids and teens. That and streaming. That’s why you can’t find a single RP/mano-pedo post that actually gets high views. It’s all fake Astroturfing Hoe_Math on YouTube and K Shami on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:48 AM
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To be fair, that is exactly one video from a celebrity TV star. I can pull up like three channels with that many views collectively in the past 6 months, aka how long that video has been out. And RP/BP content has only gotten more mainstream. It's all over Instagram and Twitter. The Manosphere died because the content that they sold got packaged and redistributed for free across every social media platform. It's just out there now. If you go on YouTube or TikTok it's quite literally everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:34 AM
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How does the left pander to us as women? The political left is viscerally misogynistic BTW It's not, unless you're insane. The modren left is quite literally the most objectively pro-women position on the planet. No wonder the left hardly wins anything off merit—no matter how hard they try, folks like you will call them misogynistic. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:24 AM
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'Patriarchy' is nebulous and means exactly nothing to most men. It's quite literally just a buzzword feminists use to complain about societal aspects they don't like. It means nothing, especially in 2026. The whole feminist 'dismantle the Patriarchy' cope is always hurled at men when they bring up their own issues, even when it has nothing to do with the issue at hand. Not to mention that the kind of women that most often bring it up are typically the myopic, ignorant types. Men want their issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:20 AM
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Outside lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:19 PM
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This really changes nothing. And I don't watch podcasts, so I'm not buying the product. It's literally just listening to people that get multiple women rather than listening to a woman ramble about what she wants in a guy she already likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:18 PM
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And for a lot of them, it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:15 PM
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They're powerful, but that has nothing to do with the fact that I would choose Margaery as my favorite over Cersei or Dany.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:00 AM
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I could name Anne Rice as a woman I admire, wouldn't make me any more or less compatible even though I answered. Now the date feels like an interview and I'm bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:59 PM
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Its your first date with a gal and she asks you, " what women do you admire". Would the question be offputting to you. Mildly. Feels like a job interview. It would probably be my grandmother, or a colleague in the army. I don't tend to admire people I don't know on a personal level. I wouldn't ask them what men they admire or anything like that. It has no relevance to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:54 PM
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Nobody has much moral character, 50% of women voted Trump into office, lol. Off the high-horse please and thank you. You can have self-respect without putting your body on the line for random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:27 PM
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...For the most part. For how common I hear this complaint, women aren't half as pushy as they should be on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:29 PM
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The thought process is simply, "Let's look out for myself." Everything else runs downstream from that thought. And really, why shouldn't they? Not like people are bending over backwards to help the average Joe Schmoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:23 PM
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They want the men they're attracted to to be clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:09 PM
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Increased, depending on how literally you take your wording. On both sides, but this is about women. This isn't 1935, where women have to get hitched to survive in a patriarchal society. Women can do what they want and have fun, so more of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:01 PM
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I don't particularly feel sympathy either, which I suppose explains why we are where we are. I know what I'm talking about just fine, it's the other side which is so overtly myopic, it lost the country to Trump of all people. And my definition of women isn't overtly sex motivated, it's simply a description of women as they are. My pardons if it offends you so. No hard feelings, but I must sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:54 AM
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Most men are bad at imitating these skills because the women they want to impress are attracted to the facsimile. To judge a man, appraise him how you would a bug—with no interest in partnering, simply observation. Does how he acts match up with what he says about himself. Does his accoutrements—clothes, finances, assets—fit who he says he is. Does he treat men substantially differently than women? This is important, as the nuances of this can betray everything else about him. It goes on and on.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:49 AM
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Most people are simply people, who go through life with no tutorial—patented, or not, by people who are also on their first life. That 25% of your acquaintances are emotionally competent is a blessing in itself. At least IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:43 AM
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many incels hold down jobs, are relatively socially normal (not perfect, just regular), and they shouldn't want to die in the first place. Last part is debatable IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:41 AM
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Most just blow their shii smoove off. Only the shocking cases are heard about. I live near a range, and men cannot rent guns alone without bringing their own ammo for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:40 AM
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There was a 29-year-old autistic Dutch woman who legally euthanized herself because she was experiencing intense depression. But what really shocked me is that she apparently had a boyfriend the entire time. I feel like women aren't as content just simply being in a relationship as men are. Man, this isn't exclusive to women. Having a GF wouldn't sway me at ALL from what I wanted to do. Only I myself could. It has nothing to do with the relationship, but your brain. Depression is a sickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:38 AM
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Most of it. Work and school takes up most, gaming and socializing takes up the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:36 AM
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You deal with this tangling with american women anyway. It's called dating in the 2020's ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:34 AM
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It's not that American women are ugly, It quite literally is. In the military, like every passport bro I met was like this. Looks, attitude, and mentality. A lot of passport bros do pick European women, most of them are military or contractors though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:33 AM
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That is a very common passport bro. Like half of them are military who like foreign women more than their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:30 AM
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Yes, unsatisfaction with the status quo makes people unhappy and pushes them elsewhere. News at six. They don't like American women (understandable and relatable) and look elsewhere, no problem to be seen yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:27 AM
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"Oppressed." Alr bro, a Polish/Russian passport woman is somehow oppressed. Sure. ☠️🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:25 AM
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When you meet men, what do you look for to judge if he’s a good person or not? How he talks, how he banters with people, how well he is attuned to the mood of a conversation or group. Knowing when to lay off or be self-deprecating. Not taking himself too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:21 AM
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I think the majority of women would be good partners (I see them as more caring, empathetic, sensitive, etc) and I'm jealous that men have so many great women to choose from. Men have what is available to choose from, which is on average, not alot—and whatever women decide to grace them with. And most women are young, immature, impetuous, carefree, etc—just like young men. They aren't particularly stable people, let alone partners. You're extrapolating your friend group to most women. Meanwhile,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:19 AM
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Then why are you trying to make men feel sympathy for women complaining? What women get isn't "far harsher" unless you live in Afghanistan, stop coping lmao. The western woman is on average healthier, wealthier, better educated, and is treated with a positive bias by society as a whole. They are less likely to be victimized in practically every crime category, and are exempt from military conscription in most countries. Why would they care—women see all of their issues as non-starters, unworthy …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:17 PM
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Makes sense lol, where I work, the women that actually cook are all around 30+. Below that, neither men nor women seem to cook regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:10 PM
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Random conversations are not harassment. Some people lmao ☠️🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:07 PM
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It's crazy that this line of patronizing nonsense lost them the election to Trump of all people—and instead of learning, they double down, to make sure the USA stays republican past 2028. It's so blackpilling lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:05 PM
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The manosphere teaching men that women are too stupid to not go against their own biology for hypergamy but also tricking the men the "settle" for is absolutely propaganda, as none of that is functionally or scientifically true. Nah, were it not based in a core of truth, it wouldn't have taken young men by storm. Men don't just get picked up by redpill/manosphere ideology, they often turn to it after real life doesn't react how traditional bluepill nonsense says it will. And it is true though, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:03 PM
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It's essentially useless noise though. A lot of it is literally just "k*ll all men", phrases such as "men are inherently violent and dangerous," "they deserve nothing," "the sui rate isn't high enough," etc cetera. It's literally just female hate speech getting +140,000 likes in a day. That's not feedback, lol. It is better, and essential for men to simply ignore them entirely—nothing good will come from listening to those people who hate you for simply being born 'wrong.'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:00 PM
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I promise you, there is no shortage of women who are willing to cook or even enjoy cooking for their husbands and families. Majorly, majorly depends on your race/culture, and your age. It is 100% not guaranteed that a young woman here will even cook for themselves, let alone a man. They see cooking for a man as free labor and refuse to do it. I work in a career filled with women, and the ones that cook for their men are all like 28-30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:55 PM
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I worked alongside a lot of those types of men in food service, and it's very apparent when a dude is simply masculine versus a man that is domineering and aggressive. No sense of tact or light-heartedness that comes with banter. And, yes looks play a role the majority of the time, as usual—though that universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:20 PM
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It really isn't. The majority of abusers aren't smart or even subtle—people just ignore bad traits in people they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:14 PM
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Being around them for like a day, maybe a week at the most. It's very easy to tell, women just ignore it if they're attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:12 PM
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If being snarky and bitter is 'abusive' then the entire subreddit needs to be put on a list atp. Not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:10 PM
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You have no idea how many men spend money on prostitutes and feel zero shame. Spend time in the military. An AI is even less 'shame inducing', because the man in question isn't partaking in probable sex-trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:44 AM
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They can even post about it on social media about it if they want (nobody does this) I can find one in literally 5 seconds tops on Twitter alone. You literally have zero idea what men have to deal with, and you genuinely aren't worth a discussion with until you get a grip. Most men not only interact with women but date, marry and have children with them. But tell me I know nothing again. You know nothing. Marriage rates have fallen off a cliff, the majority of Gen-Z men have no interest in appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:30 PM
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Lie, to get them written up, expelled from clubs and programs, bullied by others, ostracized by friend groups. All stuff I've personally seen at school and the workplace. I've seen a girl lie on a coworker to get her boyfriend to slash his tires.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:31 PM
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Flatly yes, lol. Most men don't try and have no will to. You're talking about subjects you know nothing about, as usual. Typical bluepill behavior, though. This isn't 1950 where contests of physical capability matters in daily interactions. The average woman holds immense social power over the average dude, and most don't want to gamble their self-esteem and social capital by asking one out. Depending on how she feels your ass will be screenshotted and posted on three separate social media platf…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:25 PM
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We already give deadbeats shit, they don't care. Why the fuck would a deadbeat give a shit what you 🫵 have to say, when women will open their legs for him anyway? Therefore, judgement must also fall on women for getting duped by deadbeats that can't wipe their own ass. The solution to deadbeats is better discernment. Just like the solution to thievery is making it harder to steal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:20 AM
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JWF is the belief that everything good or bad is deserved Yes, and that is different from the 'hey, you didn't quite succeed this time, let's adjust' that the RP provides. It is simply a response, and a set of reactionary rules, which ever evolves with the world. RP in India will look different from RP in UK. 'You fail with women? You must secretly be sexist or an Incel' is what the Bluepill will peddle, and an example of the Just World Fallcy. I already described how the “meta game” red pill pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:38 PM
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yeah, these hyper specifics are useless & unnecessary. “maintain your hairline or have a beard” absolutely groundbreaking shit man. this is basic advice on looking attractive to the opposite sex. imagine if women were “black pilled” and the advice was; wear a sundress and have long hair. men will put up with anything if you wear a sundress and have long hair” lol Because I'm basing it on a hypothetical man, kinda hard to be specific when talking about an imaginary subject. And also, this isn't '…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:18 PM
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FYI, Redpill is more about specifics. Bluepill will be like, 'be healthy and employed.' Redpill is like, "as a 5'10 man, you at least want to be 165-175lbs with a 'X' type build based on your body shape. Maintain your hairline at all costs, and if you can't, maintain a good beard. Women are money-focused and statistically date up, so where you live, you want to be making at least X-thousand a month." Et cetera, et cetera. Redpill gives very concrete answers to questions men have, which is what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:54 AM
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Red pillers often use their own form of JWF. Redpill has no 'just world fallacy' to fall into. It is acknowledging that the world is unjust — life is what it is — and that the most logical choice is to 'metagame' the system to your advantage. Nothing about 'belief' in the redpill or 'being alpha' really matters. Most people achieving success with the RP don't follow all it's 'tenets', just the parts that work for them. And if a woman’s attracted to you, it must be because you embody the red pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:44 AM
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Doesn't hurt them much considering all the single mothers running around. 🤷‍♂️🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:36 AM
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Also, “you just got lucky” is a lazy. Anyone who disagrees with blackpill fatalism gets written off as genetically lucky, low libido, lying, or coping which makes the worldview unfalsifiable. Yeah, because reality is unfalsifiable. People try to peddle this self-help bootstrap mysticism like nobody has ever heard of practicing self-control before. Newsflash, it's unattainable for the masses. Men have never been free of the desire to center sex and literally never will be. Calling it an addiction…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 08:59 AM
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High libido does not mean you “physically cannot” decentre women. It means you have a strong sex drive. That is it. Sure bro. That's 'all it means'. Having an abnormally high urge to do the one thing you're biologically driven to want is just a simple thing. 🥀 Plenty of people have strong urges and still regulate them. Anger, hunger, envy, lust, status anxiety, whatever. Having the urge is not the same as being owned by it. Sure, and hundreds of millions fall prey to their addictions and vices. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:55 AM
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Also, “most men don’t want to change” is not the same as “men cannot change.” That is my entire point. Stop dressing up learned helplessness as realism. No, I mean some men biologically cannot. They are wired differently. If you are low-libido enough than sure you can decouple. But some men simply just physically cannot. It's just realism. I'm not dressing anything up. Genetics determine it. If you get lucky, you can live a monks life. If you roll bad, you'll be stuck chasing ass until you hit y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:43 AM
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I literally wouldn't exist if my father wasn't looking to please and attract female attention. So, there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:19 AM
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Doing those things simply for women is more straightforward and honest to themselves. You honestly believe most men will accept going through hell at the gym simply for 'themselves'? No. Tell them it will get them pussy and they will work through even the most difficult sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:18 AM
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Attention, affection and respect from women IS the valid reason. No need for air quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:16 AM
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But this is just biology fatalism dressed up as realism. Because it's true. Men aren't a monolith — and so many can decouple from this thinking, but billions simply cannot. Most don't want to even if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:14 AM
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most LVMs wouldn't care about any of these if it didn't lead to women down the road. Duh bro, most men want a wife and child. Not only is it biological, but social. Men and women like, respect, and trust married men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:12 AM
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Going through decades and decades of live, untouched and ignored means you ARE unlovable and repulsive. It is over for men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:07 AM
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We straight up don't need them like they don't need us You don’t. Do not speak for the majority of men on that, because it's incorrect. Most men need women like they need water.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:57 AM
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Your flair isn't inspiring confidence that you understand the mind of the average straight horndog.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:55 AM
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It's all cope and baseless. Super unhealthy to delude yourself with that self-love cope. It's better to accept that you have no value until you put in work to make yourself valuable. It reflects life. The love you receive from other will determine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:54 AM
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If everyone 'matters', nobody does. Everything becomes platitudes, and we're back at square one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:49 AM
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that's still MUCH better than them fully internalizing that confidence and money make you Better. These, plus lifting, make you Better than someone who doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:47 AM
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I wouldn't say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:07 AM
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You're making a faulty assumption that women position themselves as the arbiters of moral law and are agents of justice. It's a very, very common retort that lonely men are lonely because they're "misogynistic" or "bigoted" or bear some other form of undesirable personality trait. You can hop on Twitter right now and find tweets with multiple hundreds of thousands of likes individually all posting to the same effect. So it's easy for men to believe that women are moral arbiters because they very…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:03 AM
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I know tons of attractive men who aren’t misogynistic, so this is just another retarded post about how attractive men = bad, while ugly men = good (!) which never fails to amuse me. Allegedly. ☠️ I’m more sexist than all the men I’ve dated; believing in the red pill is inherently sexist to both women and men, and yet somehow men keep “rewarding” me with relationships lmao. So I guess men also reward bad behavior! A redpilled woman is just one that isn't delusional, what about that would make a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:57 AM
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I don't know, maybe if you were better at asking questions you would have clearer answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:36 AM
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Others culturally yeah, but the Taliban have actually enshrined their gender subjugation into law, banning women from all facets of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:32 AM
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The Taliban do. If you're asking why most men aren't the Taliban, western ideals probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:26 AM
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I mean yeah — being burned and then turning cruel is how men typically end up incels in the first place — which should indicate why holding things as basic as 'respect for your fellow citizens' as some exclusionary reward is generally harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:20 AM
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Actually forget about past because in many places you still only sit measly few years for a murder if you are first time offender who is generally good at following society's rules. If women only cared about themselves and most weren't averse to causing harm to others, more would take that deal. It wouldn't only be the husbands either because women live under lot of threat also from other men. Yet you don't see ton of men dropping dead or disappearing mysteriously. Women tell you every day they …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:17 AM
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I've literally heard them say you aren't owed kindness, respect, conversation, pleasantness, et cetera. Women say it all the time and about anything they don't want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:09 AM
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Becoming a volcel for what amounts to a friendship is ridiculous. There isn't a woman walking this planet that is worth it, IMO. If you were ace then it would be fine, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:23 PM
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So women are children that require protection from their own bad choices? Very forward-thinking of you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:46 AM
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I ignored the stupid part. Why would I waste time trying to convince a fuckboy not to be a fuckboy — illogical and impossible — when I could just try to help the women be accountable for their actions and avoid the problem. Don't waste time telling people not to steal, just simply lock your doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:45 PM
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Yeah, so I'm advising the women to avoid them. Common sense — but they ignore it and get played, cheated on, or abused. Ah well, can't help who doesn't want to be helped. Women like those guys. 🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:33 PM
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I disagree that men are inherently terrible. Most men don’t secretly want to beat and abuse and rape and destroy. I don't either. I just think is very easy to groom men into being violent and doing terrible things because they think it will benefit them. For example, men have to be trained and abused in order to be willing to kill in wars. Most men drafted into the Vietnam war would fire their weapons over the tree tops rather than murder other human beings. It was only a small minority of me wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:50 AM
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I think what you mean to say is societal collapse. This is what I mean, but I don't want to sound like an accelerationist chud. When the situation becomes such that the average person's lives and aspirations are actually, meaningfully disrupted, things will start collapsing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:50 AM
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Women aren't going to listen to you. They'll just ignore you or think you're insecure or jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:19 AM
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Normal kids raised by human parents already have issues, so nothing is new there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:09 AM
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And nobody is going to step in and just give you an income. At the rate we are heading, it is more likely that people will just be thrown into prisons and euthanized than they will be given an income. Especially if these men continue to vote for Republicans. Societal reset is more likely to happen than that, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:07 AM
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Because I know who I'm dealing with first hand. I disagree with radfems on a lot of things, but not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:05 AM
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Your premise is that men are inherently evil, and the only reason they do not murder women left and right is because they need a broodmare to birth their spawn. You have a profoundly misandrist outlook. Men are violence prone and easy to sway when young and opportunity limited. A return to violent fundamentalism and conservatism is attractive to a large amount of men. If it's misandrist, it's misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:04 AM
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That's how it works, it's somehow always your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:20 PM
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No they 100% see it as an insult lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:19 PM
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It's easy to dismiss my opinion because i'm a woman. Its 'easy' to dismiss because it is simply an accusation. So are there women who lie? Sure. But it's way more likely that she is speaking the truth. That isn't how it should work lol. Black men got lynched all the time because people simply "believed women." I'm not playing heavy-handed with the court of opinion based off of a single accusation. When multiple come out it is more believable. And yes, it has it's price. Well before that women we…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:48 PM
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You know what, you make a fair argument. I'll concede.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:18 AM
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The red pill is a hedonistic value system that in no way aligns to conservative values. Having casual sex and spinning plates are not conservative values whatsoever. You will find plenty of cons and neo-cons doing both. Conservatism isn't a zero-sum ideology, it's an assirtment of views, it's why the spectrum is so wide. A conservative value is waiting until marriage for sex or at a minimum only having sex in a committed relationship, which the red pill is inherently against. If you happen to kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:31 AM
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More likely than who or what? Just in general. Statistically, men value having kids and successful relationships much higher than, cultivating a friend group, going to therapy regularly, or becoming emotionally balanced. What does conservatism have to do with red pill/blue pill? The redpill heavily, heavily overlaps with conservative values. Maybe not OG RP, but nu-RP does. It is like the bluepill being linked with more liberal thought — not 100% overlap but close. Conservative and RP adjacent m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:38 PM
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Black men ate with that technique icl 🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:10 PM
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They are not entitled to women and men are BRUTAL about judging women's hair cut the crap. Like 70/30 comes from women though. Men have the "colored hair = feminist" but other than that men judge women much more harshly in other areas, like facial piercings, tattoos, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:10 PM
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Don't conservatives tend to marry more often and have more kids, which is statistically what young men are more likely to want? Not saying you do. I don't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:08 PM
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But women might give useful advice too, because they are part of the dating process and have perspective that men don't. They very much don't beyond very surface level platitudes about showering and dressing nice. Anything more helpful than that typically will come from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:50 AM
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I wish you could have told younger me this, but alas, most things like this have to be learned the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:43 PM
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Women repeatedly say they don't want to date men who perform for them. We just want to chat and get to know you, the real you. Depends on where you are. Performance and adherence to certain roles is very much expected where I am. Being yourself is great until you find out it's not the most effective tactic for getting dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:42 PM
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Monkey dancing is basically trying to win affection and further attention from a woman, with the onus mostly on you to do everything from planning and paying for dates, leading convos, etc. It feels like a job interview. It's called monkey dancing because it feels that way. Like a dance. Most women have a wide variety of choices, and can just disregard men who don't 'play the game', so sometimes, it's either play or miss out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:39 PM
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Depends on how much effort the woman puts in. It's only "monkey dancing" when the effort you put in greatly exceeds hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:35 PM
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It’s hard to have a conversation if you guys keep being dishonest about what your point is. So let’s rewind and make a new argument including what you guys actually want to say. The point is in the above comment, as well as OPs responses. Re-read them until you can conjure up a clue. 🥀 So how did me explaining this subreddit doesnt represent most guys end up meaning “I represent all women”. Please, walk me through your thought process. I'd say it does represent most men pretty well. And with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:56 PM
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he doesn’t want quick sex, why would this matter? No guys don't want to be the fallback option, the person being settled with. If anything, the guy wanting the long-term relationship could care more. A guy looking for quick sex doesn't care, because he isn't staking anything in the encounter other than a few minutes of his time. Are you guys are doing a piss poor job at explaining it. It's been explained to you multiple times. You've been here for months and months. You just do a piss-poor job o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:13 PM
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Are you sure about that?" is not phrased as rhetorical question in this context. It comes off more that you're backtracking after I caught the contradiction. Nah, it's pretty clearly rhetorical, at least IMO. "but learn afterward that she didn't wait with some other dudes." if he doesn't want quick sex, why would that matter? That has nothing to do with his own priorities. Because you're second string, she's settling for you, you're the backup plan, etc. And you have no idea as to how it relates…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:57 PM
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I really don't believe that it is. I originally meant to disagree with that premise to begin with, but I sidetracked myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:41 PM
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It wasn't just a little success. I can agree that you can go further than the RP, but let's be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:52 PM
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What do you think the ultimatum is? It is pressuring them to propose, and leaving if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:40 PM
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Your completely correct. And courtship is thusly a scam in a modern dating market. Bad return on investment and a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:33 PM
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I mean, you have a point. But ending things because he hasn't yet committed is not uncommon where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:31 PM
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I mean, the problem with this, is that it's just a waste of time for the man. Why do all of this? When you can just say no, and all of my time and weeks of effort and money are wasted. Terrible return on investment for any man. I could just spend that time in the gym to self-improve, on better clothes, etc. All things that make you more attractive to women, and make you better outside of dating as well. This isn't even considering that women that actually like me, will make their interest known …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:29 PM
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Based???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:23 PM
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No. It's just refusing to engage with behavior that has a bad return on time investment. Why waste time on bullshit courting, when you could spend that time in the gym, or on clothes that fit properly. Y'know, things that actually help women notice and like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:22 PM
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No? I'll just go for women who actually like me, lmao. Women that require courting don't really like you to begin with. Cut your losses and your time and move one. Courting is the biggest scam this side of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:20 PM
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Do they anymore? I didn’t pressure my husband to propose. They very much do. I don't fault them, it weeds out fuckboys, but they do very much. Though it is changing — given the very much misogynist policies being pushed through in the US in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:14 PM
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No. It is true. It's crazy how "loving yourself" has never been a substitute for relationship and companionship in the entirety of human history — yet people expect the loneliest generation ever to walk this earth to simply "love themselves." It's not working now, and hasn't ever worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:12 PM
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Not in the slightest. It would actually be an event I would cling to as I passed from this world. edit: An act of love like this is simply something I could never find it in my heart to be upset with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:07 PM
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Redpill thrives on actually working short-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:06 PM
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Yeah, and that redpill content isn't the old redpill she was talking about in her comment. It's all stoicism, philosophy, and self-maximalization through behavioral changes and various forms of looksmaxxing. Where's the relevance? Do you even know what your talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:05 PM
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"Women are the oldest children in the room" is direct from old school red pill. You aren't credible. Old-school redpill has no real relevance to any conversation about the modern manosphere. Modern, online redpill content is all about stoicism, accepting life as it is, and women for how they naturally behave, and maximizing your own traits as effectively and quickly as possible. Be that looksmaxxing, gymmaxxing, etc. Sure, modern RP believes heavily in women being rather ruthless hypergamists — …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:03 PM
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100% It's great to de-bluepilled, but redpilling, especially modern redpilling, is just over-correcting in the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:56 AM
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I will agree, and state that it actively affects the way the you see women, in a negative way. It burns you out, and isn't sustainable long-term. It's why you see virtually no old, married RP men. It's an unbalanced worldview. I was one, until it burned me out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:54 AM
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I disagree. The RP will fucking them up because it works, at the expense of your outlook on life. Sure it gets you women, but it corrodes your view of them, and will leave you bitter and tired. I'm glad I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:51 AM
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The actual downside to TRP that people don't realise. It has no problem with getting you women, it just makes you a toxic asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:50 AM
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Categorically — no it does NOT. Do not give this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:48 AM
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I severely doubt it. But only because I don't think "society" will be in a position to judge. You will be either "in" or "out" ideologically speaking. And society is starting to split pretty evenly along multiple lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:46 AM
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Not really. It's because the Bluepill isn't really effective at actually getting you laid. The Redpill is much more effective, but at the cost of your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:43 AM
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Incorrect. Incels as a group lean neither right or left — one's views on women have little effect on if you'll be successful in dating. Men are some of the most dogged pursuers of effective dating strategies. Any easy advantage men can grasp they will take. if becoming blue-pilled solved all your dating issues, men would pick it en-masse to get laid or in a relationship. But it doesn't, so men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:42 AM
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Any jokes or banter common among the median group of young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:35 AM
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That's also my biggest critique of TRP — it's just draining to your mental. It burned me out, and I'm still stuck in the blackpill mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:32 AM
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Not true literally at all lmao. TRP has critiques but its efficacy isn't one of them. It's more the outlook and temperament.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:30 AM
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Did you actually think that you or the problems you go through are actually unique and only affect you? Before the red pill online, did you bother forming any in person groups or talking to your friends about those issues? Yeah. My friends were what you would consider redpilled. And guess what — they were more successful with women than my more traditional bluepill-adjacent normal friends. Both long-term and short-term. I was pretty leftist and bluepilled myself, and had zero success. That’s act…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:29 AM
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You think being used as a warmed-up fleshlight by some dude who may or may not give a shit about your pleasure, comfort or safety is particularly appealing? Experienced this in uni for a semester. If asked, I 100% would go through that phase in my life again. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:19 PM
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Typically when that person is in their age group, and isn't Tommy, 63-year-old geezer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:04 PM
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Normal gloryholes exist and there is a surplus of men there and willing. That shit is filthy and an STI-magnet, and men still show up in surplus. That metaphor is dumb when there really isn't any kind of readily accessible sex a man won't jump for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:02 PM
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Dating woes are only a small part of larger, more nebulous social issues that men will vote to 'change' — as they already have done. The overlap between these young men and the political right is a venn diagram. After seeing Trump voted back into power largely by the same group of disenfranchised men, I do not see issues like this as minor. But it is expected from a woman who handwaves shit away with a "It's easily solvable, you just need to collectively do XXX!" As if that's ever how humanity h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:30 PM
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"It's easily solvable" clearly not cause it's not solved. Simple as that lmao. Imagine applying this statememt to other social issues that ended up taking decades to reverse. Goofy ass comment, but expected from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:22 PM
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If it was easily solvable, it would have been solved. No social dysfunction in this life is easy to solve, or it would have been solved already. 2 IQ comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:13 PM
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Oh - that’s not the kind of sex you wanted? Probably because most men aren't gay lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:10 PM
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Yeah but does that actually work, or does that lead to thousands of young men forming echo chambers and propagating rapidly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:09 PM
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