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Women are like spaghetti, straight until they're wet.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 06:01 PM
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Hey man, gender is like totally fluid, and I know I look like a man, but today I definitely identify as a woman...now bring on them MMA chicks! Do the same thing when they survey how many women are in your company, suddenly the company has 100% female employees, in management too!
/r/askMRP06/10/16 04:30 PM
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As for staying together for the kids, I had a gf in high school who's dad was physically abusive, mom finally left, but for an emotionally abusive guy. GF would start fights with me and when I told her I didn't want to fight, she would say that I didn't love her if I wouldn't fight with her. We weren't together too longer after that. Kids learn how to interact with their partners from watching their parents. You are not doing your kids any favours if you're staying together in this marriage, for…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 03:43 AM
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And there is nothing stopping her from ejecting after what ever amount of time ...and gathering 'evidence' that you are a cheating scumbag of a husband, leaving her and the kids to go off and have any number of affairs, or at least that's what she'll tell the courts. Who do you think the courts will side with?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 03:30 AM
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Women understand covert messages, IMO this is not covert, this is hitting her over the head with, "hey honey other women are hitting on me". I suspect she'll see it as the pathetic call for attention that it is...see, other women want to fuck me, so you should too.
/r/askMRP24/09/16 10:12 PM
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TRP is a sexual strategy, not a moral position. Plain and simple.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 03:17 PM
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aka...she didn't settle down with him, she settled for him.
/r/askMRP23/09/16 08:29 PM
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http://theredpillroom.blogspot.ca/2013/03/your-c-card.html?m=1 Be ever vigilant of the pedestal.
/r/askMRP21/09/16 09:06 PM
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It's from a British sketch comedy show, Man Stroke Woman. Lots of clips on YouTube.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:21 PM
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Worse case scenario! https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uivbBu1pXRg
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 09:06 PM
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Read the first chapters of Married Man's Sex Life Primer. You will learn why your wife doesn't want to have sex with you (Spoiler Alert - she does like sex, just not sex with the pussy that is you.) Then read the rest of MMSLP, it will give you an introduction to the world you are about to step into. Can any of you relate to this issue and perhaps offer some advice about how you and your partners dealt with the situation. I think the fact that we are in this sub suggests that we were where you a…
/r/askMRP02/09/16 09:58 PM
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When she says she wants to spend time with you, take what you see as a negative and turn it into a positive. Her: I want to spend time with you. You: Sure I'm going to clean out the garage; come on we'll work on it together. Don't let her sit down and bitch about her day, keep both of you busy.
/r/askMRP01/09/16 10:26 PM
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Lose the soy milk. http://www.menshealth.com/nutrition/soys-negative-effects
/r/askMRP22/08/16 11:17 PM
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However, you lose points by asking if you spoke out of turn- pussy. I deserved that. I prefer the term pansie, but a pansie by any other name would smell as faggy ~ Shakepeare
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 08:27 PM
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u/squirrelcuisine had indicated that his friend Scott was totally Blue Pill. This is a MRP forum. I was suggesting that if Scott doesn't fix the initial problem (BP), then whether the new girlfriend is a doctor or not, history will in all likelihood, repeat itself. I've been off the sub for a couple months, so if I've put this in the wrong place, or spoken out of turn please let me know.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 05:59 PM
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Power Take Off, the part that puts power to farm tractor attachments, similar to a drive shaft, but exposed. Many a one armed farmer. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBSwOS90wgQ For your viewing pleasure.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 04:30 PM
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Hell of a way to learn a lesson; kind of like losing an arm to learn not to reach in to clear the PTO!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 04:13 PM
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Possibly, but I don't think so. Merely saying if he hasn't fixed whatever (BP) issues he has, a new relationship isn't the answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 03:34 PM
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I wasn't suggesting he was better off before, I was suggesting that if he hasn't fixed whatever (BP) issues he had before, jumping into an new relationship, in all likelihood, will eventually end the same way.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 03:32 PM
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I wasn't suggesting that she was the car. I was suggesting that he is the car with bad alignment, and putting on new tires, i.e. new woman, would be an immediate fix, but because he hadn't fixed himself (alignment), that the same wear would occur (issues with the woman disrespecting him). Clear as mud. Maybe analogies aren't my thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 03:29 PM
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The guys may have traded up, but did they have kids and get divorce-raped? And if the doctor lady is paying, she will have no respect for the loser. Also, trading up without correcting the issues that caused the problem in the first place is like getting new, better tires on your car without fixing the alignment problem that caused the first set of tires to wear out.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 01:18 PM
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I ask her if she sees me as the leader and she says we are 50/50. This was your wife being polite. She can't tell you that she is the leader, if she did it would emasculate you, and kill any bit of respect that she may still have for you. A leader doesn't need to ask. This MRP stuff isn't easy. If you were blue pill all your life, trying to become red pill overnight isn't going to happen. Becoming red pill takes everything you grew up thinking was right and turns it on its head; that's one heck …
/r/askMRP10/06/16 09:09 PM
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Take the box of juice, walk to the door, stop, look over your shoulder, slap your ass and tell her, "No you cannot have the Mango!"
/r/askMRP31/05/16 06:06 PM
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I read here to ignore appearances and compliment actions. I think you may have misconstrued, ignore what she says, pay attention to what she does. I absolutely love my wife's tits, and I make sure she catches me looking. In case you don't want to actually say anything, you can still compliment her. But I agree with others, let her know you appreciate the efforts she makes to look good for you.
/r/askMRP18/05/16 01:53 PM
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I'm trying to convince my sons of this, but Blue Pill me did a bit too good of a job bringing them up under my Blue Pill wing. i hope they don't have to lose everything before they learn that they have to play the game by their own rules, or don't play at all.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 08:42 PM
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Whether the kid is in your bed, or your wife is in the kid's bed, either way, it's a pretty effective shield against your advances. See it for what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 08:42 PM
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The motherhood in her is strong and I've stopped falling asleep with the kids myself and made it clear that I won't ever do so. Don't think it matters to her though. She is using the kids as a shield - a shield from you and sex with you. Kids in the bed = no sexy time. Been there done that, mine (a couple decades ago) even went so far, during a work relocation, as to decide on a house where the kids bedrooms were a walls distance from the master bedroom, que, "no, the kids will hear us". The hou…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 08:13 PM
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I'm clearly very cared for but the sex life is not going to work for me. Obviously!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 08:02 PM
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a great catch Read this as 'settled for'. Wife said that to an acquaintance of ours while we were out at a pub for dinner. FrauBrain, "he's such a great catch, such a nice guy, after all the jerks I dated". A couple years ago I would have been filled with pride hearing those words, now it cuts to the core.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 07:33 PM
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Your answer is correct if OP were in Grade 3 and had not eaten his lunch and had eaten nothing but potato chips and candy that he had gotten from that kid whose a bad influence, Chad something!
/r/askMRP17/05/16 12:05 PM
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If you're the one listening to the voice in your head, who's the one talking. Chances are it's someone from your past whose words you internalized, like you are trying to internalize RP concepts now.
/r/askMRP12/05/16 12:31 PM
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He is really someone I can see myself settling down with in the future" He is really someone I can see myself settling for in the future" FTFH
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:44 AM
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My brother's ex got custody despite her taking off with another guy. When she came back months later for custody, she got their daughter, despite her drug issues and hopping from guy to guy. Reason the judge gave, the money she would get from him for child support would be a source of income for the ex. Gotta love the Nanny State.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:39 AM
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Timely for me. I am weeks away from retiring. I have all of the home projects lined up for when I do retire, but after several months of that, I've been thinking, what then? Like yourself, I taught martial arts for a long time, but the politics got to be too much (hobbies shouldn't cause that level of stress). I've been looking for new hobbies, and I'll have plenty of time. Ideally I'd like to develop a hobby(ies) that create income. Thanks for the post, you've given me some things to think abou…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 04:59 PM
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Late to the party, but I have way too many of those conversations with 'younger me'. Not helpful to wish for what might have been I know, but I do find that I re-evaluate past experiences with a RP lens.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 04:36 PM
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A woman who wants to be a wife needs to act like a wife, and that means putting out when husband wants sex without the "I have a headache" and "we can't" and "I just don't wanna". Sounds like a political slogan, kind of like "a chicken in every pot, a car in every garage. You've got my vote!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 08:14 PM
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She has a few very attractive friends and has asked me if I thought they were hot. You: I didn't think you were into threesomes?
/r/askMRP06/05/16 03:48 PM
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Yah, you would think it would be impossible for a teacher to reclaim the lead from a woman who works. Imagine if that woman made $200,000.00 a year and was a lawyer with an IQ higher than yours. I guess you would just be fucked in that case. Might as well just give up. I believe the Professor was speaking about himself. More reading required!
/r/askMRP06/05/16 03:17 PM
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MAP = Male Action Plan, from MMSLP, Chapter 16. A step by step course of action, though some on here (myself included) see MMSLP as Red Pill Lite, but it's a great introduction to (M)RP concepts for someone completely unfamiliar with MRP.
/r/askMRP06/05/16 02:59 PM
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Uncontrollable shudder!!!
/r/askMRP03/05/16 07:00 PM
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Regardless if it's emotional or sex occurred this is intolerable behavior. And yet here you are tolerating it. You keep using that word, I don't think it means what you think it means. If her behaviour is intolerable, stop tolerating it and move on. At best you are Plan B, because "my wife did something that Chad remarked that it was inappropriate." He is Plan A, aka AF, then that makes you Plan B, aka BB. You're 30 years old, your SMV is increasing, she's 26, her SMV is decreasing. If you are o…
/r/askMRP02/05/16 08:46 PM
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she can either join you or not, but you are an interesting, fun guy with things to do. I guess I wasn't sufficiently clear. I thought I had suggested that these were things that were for him (an interesting, fun guy), and she could join him or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 01:44 PM
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"Im gonna stay home and unwind. If you want to come back a bit early then we will have fun" OP make sure you have some things planned if you decide to stay home. If GF does come back early and all you are doing is sitting on your duff, playing vidya games and eating Cheetos, she'll know she made the right choice going to see mom. Have some fun stuff to do, do it and if she comes back early, she can either join you or not, but you are an interesting, fun guy with things to do. If she doesn't come…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/16 08:18 PM
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I take responsibility for letting our marriage devolve into something so broken as the man, but also my responsibility only extends so far and the easier, more tempting option is to just keep going on this solo route I'm on. Finalize the divorce, spin plates, focus on a new career I'm working on and don't plan on remarrying for several years until my life is on track. Or I can salvage this thing and maintain the leverage I have as the one that took her back. Don't tolerate shitty behavior, be on…
/r/askMRP11/04/16 04:59 PM
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Like I said, turn it into a positive, "oh baby, you're so hot!", or however you want to dress it with your own style/personality. I usually have the opposite problem, takes what in my opinion is too long, so for me it's, "oh baby, I don't want this to end". Take that half empty glass and make sure it's always half full. You got what you wanted, be a little selfish about it. Confidence young man, there are no bad orgasms for men, and you had one, albeit rather quickly. Kind of reminds me of the j…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:32 PM
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Some women find it to be a compliment that they made you nut quickly, that they are so damn hot that you just couldn't help it. You could even frame it that way, "holy shit, that's never happened before, but you're just so damn hot!" And if your refractory period is short, you'll be good to go again in short order and have more staying power for round two, round three... You can turn what you see as a negative into a positive.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 01:02 PM
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Great points. If the marriage were a business partnership, what does she bring to the table that brings value to the partnership?
/r/askMRP31/03/16 05:26 PM
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I quoted it once before, but there is a great line at the end of "Stand by Me". At the end of the movie, after telling the childhood story, narrator says, "I never had any friends later on like the ones I had when I was twelve. Jesus, does anyone?". I have to echo the sentiment. A couple of friends betray your trust and it's enough to make you not get real close, then we cocoon with the wife and kids, work takes all the rest of our time. I'm staring retirement right in the face and have no frien…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 04:07 PM
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I get what the OP is saying, but I don't agree. I had to sit through a Mental Health Readiness bullshit seminar yesterday, 90% of it was the company covering its ass in case one of us goes postal. But the one thing I did take from it was that we all need someone to vent with and somewhere to vent. For at lot of us this is the place and you guys are the people/support group. Sometimes the support group empathizes, other times it kicks your ass and puts you back on the path. As for the "don’t need…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:42 PM
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Does an alpha look for a women to add value? TRP looks at male behaviour as Alpha, MRP is a combination of Alpha and Beta. Because we are in LTR's/marriages, we stay with our significant others because they "add value" to our lives. If there were no value being added to our lives by our SO's, what would be the point in staying in the relationship?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 06:02 PM
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OP indicated that he had discussed it with his brother and they had decided to tell dad (after calling me a douchebag...LOL), then he deleted all of his responses. Time for dad to jettison the wife. I doubt she will ever respect him again. And how is he supposed to trust her?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 11:32 AM
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MMSLP is kind of a MRP Lite, but the section on ILYBINILWY will be particularly helpful in showing you where your marriage is RIGHT NOW. I suspect you're running up the down escalator, but it's not impossible. Best of luck, I hope you find happiness, but it will have to be in reality, you can not go back - the truth can not be unseen.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 12:29 AM
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dont rule out they reneg on paying. people often say all sorts of wonderful things and promise you help because it makes them feel good, but when it comes to it they simply can't remember saying anything of the sort Can confirm, In-Laws had said when my sons were old enough to go to college, that if they went to college in Mrs. HerrBrain's hometown, boys could stay with them...nope, had to get an apartment across town, but they did get invited to dinner once a week. Agree with the savings thing …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 07:51 PM
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I see why you and that other douchebag Really hope you're talking about me, means I said something that struck a chord. At the end of the day, I'm just a douchebag with a keyboard, but you have to live with yourself day in and day out. I honestly hope everything works out for you and your brother, and I also hope your dad gets his shit together.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 06:57 PM
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Maybe a little black and white thinking on my part, but your points don't change what's right. And, as I said, grandpa and grandma are still his grandparents regardless of their daughter's marital state. I also think OP is doing a bit of answer/validation shopping, hoping we'll tell him that his rationalization is all OK. Maybe help him sleep a little better at night.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 04:37 PM
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Like I said, Lazy, entitled, selfish prick. Dad obviously isn't leading the family, as evidenced by mom's and son's behaviour. But if u/skizzboi71 is here, now is the chance for him to show that he grasps the basic concepts of TRP, man up and have a conversation with dad, maybe even plant TRP seed in the old man's psyche. u/skizzboi71, take a step back, empathize; imagine your best friend knows your girl is fucking Chad, but for selfish reasons he didn't tell you.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 04:11 PM
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Read Married Man's Sex Life Primer - STAT. There is a whole section on "I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You - ILYBINILWY. Your marriage is the Sixth Sense and you're Bruce Willis. Best of luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 04:00 PM
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I've got kids older than you, I'd kick their ass if they knew what you know and didn't tell me. Let him live in misery, while his wife is getting fucked, laughing at him behind his back, all so grandpa and grandma will pay for college. Like I said, whether your folks are together or not, they are still your grandparents and shouldn't renege. But hey, do what's best for you, fuck dad over, mom is, why not you too. Sounds like you've learned the lesson well.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 03:38 PM
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If you're not getting a scholarship to play (at which point you don't need your grandparents money), chances are you aren't going pro. If you're going to rely on grandpa and grandma to pay for your college, you may not have the drive to make it to the bigs. Just out of curiosity, how's dear old dad going to feel when he finds out you knew mommy was getting drilled by some strange and you did nothing? He'll probably think less of you than I do. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 03:07 PM
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Agreed, they aren't "highly valuable to the coherence of society". They are what you were before you found MRP, deluded, living a life of lies and, if they're lucky, mediocrity.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 12:20 PM
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The only other thing is that my mom's parents offered to pay for my brothers and my college which is really important I think so my brother and I won't have a lot of debt. Lazy, entitled, selfish prick. Dad, you suffer with this insane bitch that wants to turn you into her cuckold, as long as I get my free college. If your maternal grandparents are going to cut off paying for your college because your parents divorce, they are no better than she is; they are still your grandparents, whether your…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 12:08 PM
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I have been out of town for about a week haven't lifted in a week Call the hotel where you're going to be staying to find out if they have a gym, what kind of equipment they have, and plan your workout around what's available. If the hotel doesn't have a gym, find out where the closest gym is, no excuses. Hell, there are plenty of body weight only routines on the net that you can do in your room, in a pinch. I don't travel as much for work anymore, but used to do this all the time. Also, if you'…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/16 04:55 PM
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those men who aren't worthy of leadership and thus not worthy of marriage. But they still have resources that can be mined and exploited, when that wall is looming large on the horizon.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/16 03:55 PM
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It wouldn't take a whole lot of research on this sub to find out that most of us would not marry again if we could generate the 1.21 Gigawatts necessary. We do however find enough value in our relationships to maintain them and try to make them the best they can be, by always trying to improve ourselves. Your girl is showing you a plethora of red flags, as has been pointed out by others. You sound as though you are hitting The Wall! Don't get married, especially to this girl. Improve yourself wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/16 02:30 PM
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Definitely where I was going with that. Didn't have time while I'm still at work, just time for the quip. Thanks for expounding on the idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 08:15 PM
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It is the height of cruel irony that a woman's "love" is only given to men who don't need it or want it. Sounds like trying to get a bank loan.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 06:10 PM
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Myself as well. I typed something like, why won't my wife do this, or why won't my wife let me... into Google, took me to in a roundabout way to r/Deadbedrooms. Looking back it's all cringeworthy, but we all had to start somewhere. As for being RP ambassadors, r/Deadbedrooms was a place for me to get to rock bottom, wallow in self pity, read MMSLP and eventually find my way here. MMSLP is a 'light' version of MRP and was a good stepping stone. If men are ready to hear the truth, we can give them…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 01:41 PM
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They want to legislate something for "the child's birth", how about an immediate paternity test?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 07:43 PM
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I believe the formula is something like, a month for every year of marriage, to get your mind, body and life right. 20+ year marriage According to that formula, that's almost two years to bring about the changes. As your flare suggests, you are still unplugging (as am I). MRP is an endless trek, not a sprint. Patience grasshopper!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 01:04 PM
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Her job is just to follow along Absolutely correct. ...but, she won't follow someone she isn't attracted to. And, it's tough to follow someone that isn't leading!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 12:41 PM
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Bullshit generic answer from her. Dig deeper. Do what you want and see where she draws the line, then always push that line.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/16 03:16 PM
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It was an issue when I was first unplugging, made me angry as hell, wanting to punch something for the lifetime of lies and how heavily I bought into it all. Slacker is my digital player of choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/16 01:20 PM
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It is really too bad, because without consequences, there is no reason not to make a false allegation. But once again, no consequences for actions for our special snowflakes.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 10:01 PM
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TV shows and movies will become unwatchable. When I was first unplugging, I also found music on most stations to be unbearable, all the ONEITIS love songs, I found myself switching stations, and sometimes turning the radio off. To all those ragging on the OP about still being in the Anger Phase, he did start his list with If you're just getting started, you're likely to find that:
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 05:36 PM
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I've long been of the belief that in these types of cases of a false allegation, the accuser should be sentenced to whatever the accused would have received had they been convicted.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:28 PM
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"I never had any friends later on like the ones I had when I was twelve. Jesus, does anyone?" Quote from the narrator at the end of the movie Stand by Me.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:37 PM
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Kind of a non-issue. She is responsible for her own pleasure, and some women like to feel that they are so hot that their man can't help but bust a nut quickly.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 01:08 PM
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lower upper class lifestyle I want them to achieve. Then let them achieve that lifestyle. As you have seen with your soon to be ex, when you give someone something without them having earned it for themselves, whatever you give them will not be appreciated, only taken for granted. You need to put distance between you and the ex.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 04:00 PM
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